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One of my professors keeps flirting with me and saying sexual things. How do I actually initiate a sexual relationship with him?
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i'm assuming/hoping you're 16+.

keep in mind he could get in trouble, so don't go into this if you're going to cry later on and tell everyone. accept right now that it might not work out.

that said, are there any situations where you two can be alone in a room? ask if you can have half an hour to discuss an assignment? make eyes at him the whole time, do what you can to tempt him. he might not make the first move because he's worried about his career (and you may not be the first to try it on with him).

if you do nothing else in that conversation, touch his thigh. either when he makes you laugh (play it off as instinct) or if you can sit next to each other (e.g. he's showing you something on a laptop). just gently brush his upper leg, out of nowhere.

gauge his response. he might say he's married, uninterested, whatever. if he reports it (as if there's anything to report lol) apologize and move on.

if he reciprocates....
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>>34477243
Yeah, I'm in my mid 20's. the guy is single. I don't mind older men. nothing is weird about it to me other than the fact that he's just... not allowed to flirt on campus.

idk how I feel about touching him. I'm taking a break over the summer and am praying to god he asks me out to lunch. I had a meeting with him in his office yesterday and it trailed off into a lot of tangents so I know he likes talking to me.
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>>34477269
Yeah, I know I know, you guys think greentext is autistic shit but I grew up in the 80s so it’s what I know.
>gym lockdown starting to get to me, in my country we cant go the gym
>now this in itself is not my problem as I am home gym master race
>shortly before everything kicked off I started seeing this girl at my gym
>super cute short shorts you know (this is important for later)
>let’s call her Sarah
>exact same name as my sister
>same appearance as my sister
>same sex noises as my sister
>anyway long story short my parents walked in on me masturbating to a picture that
>she sent to me, one in her parties, no bra and sucking off a lollipop
>parents, and sister, freak out and call me a disgusting animal that should be put down.
>try to tell them but they don’t believe me and because of lockdown am unable to prove it.
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>>34477148
Ask him to bump your score in a test with a mediocre score, so you make it clear the favor is entirelt optional and requested.
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>>34477255
i mean, he's flirting with you, so the feelings are already there. i'm not saying grab him by the tie and make love on his desk, but try to see it from his perspective:
he might be flirting and saying a few sexual things, he trusts you with that, but he also knows the rules (and so do you). 100 years could go by and nothing would happen.

we menfolk are stupid and simple. he's reining it in. you now have to use your womanly (or homosex, but i'm assuming womanly) wiles. break down his defences.

i say light touch because that's a pretty clear signal while also giving you both some plausible deniability. but next time you're in the office together, do SOMETHING. don't just WANT him to ask you somewhere: men are not psychic.

at least stare into his eyes slightly longer than is necessary. this man will be hot under the collar after you leave his office. but again, men can deal with that, nothing may ever happen unless you actively seduce him then and there.

let your instincts take over, just a little. go onnn.
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>>34477296
We have 2 weeks left of school so I'm praying for a breakthru lol. I'll try tapping him on the shoulder and stuff. he mentioned having a womanizing grandfather so maybe i can joke about that somehow and insinuate he's the same way.
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>>34477357
godspeed, anon. also, wear a low-cut top and find excuses to bend over towards him (don't start some shit about how you're an A-cuo or something, just do it).

if all your hints fail, give him your phone number somehow. then you have all summer for either of you to propose going somewhere without worrying about college.

i swear to god if you're some shy bookworm type sat waiting for him to make the first move like in your romance novels/animes, LIFE DOES NOT (always) WORK THAT WAY.
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>>34477357
>womanizing grandfather, I should joke he's the same way

I don't get women at all. Why would you remark negative connotation in an already tense and high stakes situation?

If it were me, I would completely back off, thinking the girl wants to get me in trouble, or it would make me realize i'm going too far and coworkers could start noticing and some karen would report me to human resources, the report would go to whatever professional council regulates teachers and I would be invalidated forever to work as a teacher in this or any other country.

but I want to know, why do women think it's endearing? Do they give them a feeling they're soon going to be saved?
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>>34477520
I think we have a different definition of "womanizer" but I'll heed your warning anyway
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>>34477148
"I'll do ANYTHING for a better grade."



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