Unrequited Love Edition>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.Prev >>34460573
Why wouldn't you be more worried about why dating is hard today than incels? Incels are not the cause of your problem.
I WILL NOT BE DISILLUSIONED
I just turned 25, how do I get a 15yo gf?
Is it possible to get a schizoid gf? They appeal to me because I'm very asocial myself and don't care much for socializing but I still desire romance and sex.
My face barely makes emotions anymore. I don't know why. Is this good, bad, or neutral?
classic /htgwg/, people ask for advice and nobody ever answers
classic question posers cannot handle the answers they are given
>>34483066Die, nigfer. Your general is useless
thanks for demonstrating my point, goober
Taking off work tomorrow. Just going to go stay at my girls house for tomorrow and the weekend and smoke weed and fuck her and eat snacks and watch movies. She is still working on friday so I will just be at her house chillin house husband style. Love my life
>>34482934Its bad. Expressiveness is extremely attractive and its one of the things most neglected by modern pickup artists who have been infected by looksmaxx philosophy as well as "alpha male" type thinking. Both popular sub sects of pickup artistry place no value in expressiveness and they are very wrong. "willingness to emote" is what mystrey called it. And it has long been known to be extremely attractive both in men and women. Its a natural quality for chads who operate at low levels of self consciousness and anxiety. This girl is actually not that speical objectively. Its her expressiveness that made her some huge meme. Having this calibrated emotiveness can easily raise your face card several points.
>>34483074You don't have a point, retard
>>34481589responding to this from the last thread. thanks for the insight, it sounds like youre suggesting she doesnt want to do it because shes worried i may find her ugly or something, i was looking at it the opposite way, like shes trying to hide something from me, she gets dodgy when I suggest doing a voice call or exchanging face pics but is fine with sending me videos where she talks. Shes also a zoomer so maybe shes just like that.
Going to the club, two different groups invited me, tomorrow is a holiday so it will be full.I was about to tell them I was ill to stay home and play wegs, but hey, might as well go and try.
Be yourself the best you can be.
>>34483128damn
Do you guys have bodycount limits or have you all accepted that whatever will do
>>34483505I have 1 so far. I'll know that time will tell in the future.
>>34483509I meant for the girlsBut sure, 1 is fineI'm at 3 and I would like to stop at 4 and never have to do this again
>>34483517I don't care that much but I prefer similar to me, and prefer they have less than me rather than more than me.
>>34483505Lower than mine
>>34483505For me? No sex outside of a committed relationship nor during the first few dates. Combine that with how slowly I get attracted to women that should keep the number reasonable. For her? Maybe nothing more than double my count as a very rough guideline with preferably all of them from long term relationships excluding assault. Ideally I'll go with someone who's roughly in the same spot as me. If by chance I rack up a high count I'd like to leave the less experienced women for the less experienced men as a gesture of kindness for them.
>>34483701Yeah, I can't expect a virgin either after wasting myself with 3 slutsI'll take what I can get, though no more than 5
>>344835050
I'm going to try to convince myself to go to a bar by myself for the first time. It is a local place down the street and I was always too anxious to go alone. I feel the live music will take the social pressure off of my head. I'd like to talk to people there but I probably won't unless someone talks to me first. Worse case i'll stand around holding a beer for an hour looking awkward like I usually do when I go to concerts, then go home and sleep.
The whole engineering class backstabbed me, I'm as alone as a dog in the clubThankfully the econ students tthat were studying econ are entering or I'd kms
>>34484156Update, I didn't have the balls to ask the bus girl for an instagram, but the econ girl was better anywaysHolding my hopes up.
There's this cute colombian cashier at a bottle shop near home, pretty face and a nice body. I tried doing small talk with her weeks ago, it was akward, but it seems she didn't mind, she smiled and laughed a little. I couldn't see her until this week, she seems to smile every time she sees me (I'm not sure if it means anything, or is it just me). Yesterday, I went again to buy a beer, she was there (there are three cashiers working there, every time I went she wasn't there). I've successfully did small talk to her, she smiled and we laughed a bit. It was short, but I'm not trying to rush anything, it's not like she'll go anywhere. Bros, do I have a shot?
>>34484143Just go with no expectations, listen to a live music, it's a fun experience. Then try again
I want to be a cold approach ligma male but the city near me has night life that is either dead or 80% brown people
>>34482676Modern women are legit insane/irrational-delusional and as unstable as a wondering drifter addicted to drifting.She's like: >treat me nice= no, the opposite, you do that then the drama stars. Cause they have to have the drama and act like a victim.Say you're in a relationship, she'll spend you dry and herself too and at some whim or ick or whatever, say you get fired or sick, she's gone with some dude she kept fucking for a few months now. Modern women are clearly a liability and they intentionally do it because they think they're worth it and the simp and whore culture is propping that up.+Hysteria of not getting fucked enough because she refuses to get fucked because stubborn + 1001 fabricated icks +PMS just to get you to the menopause mood swings and all that crap.Annoying faggot with a cunt that is totally not worth it at all that want to run your life and when she completely does it she's disgusted by it.
>>34485091>It was short, but I'm not trying to rush anythingShe's getting dick anyway.You rush or you don't, female physiology says she's horny a few days/cycle and she's gonna fuck anyway, retard.Just plug that hole and keep it plugged.
>>34483505My bodycount is that I have a boner and i'd rather fuck a cunt than my hand.That's my bodycount number.
>>34482934You'll look like a killer and I'm not even trying to imagine the ick shower you're triggering.
>>34482676Is the only option if you're using online dating apps to pay nowadays? I just got off a 3 year relationship and a couple months long sting with a work colleague. Tried all of them: tinder, hinge, breeze, bumble happn and I am barely getting ANYTHING. It didn't use to be like this 4 years ago. Can anyuone confirm how big of a difference the premium shit makes?
>>34486728I ran out of people in my 1 million populace city on hinge... consider that before buying premium, you might be close to the end, thus potentially wasting your money>>34482676I am nearing boredom, so like the anon said in a precious thread: time to up the risk factor.Maybe I will go to T&T and practice my Chinese with random (female) shoppers ...
>>34483505Nah man you have to be able to tell if she is a whore. I would never ask for the body count cause whores will just lie about it and you can’t disprove them. Go out with her and get her drunk and travel with her. Do this a few times. Her mask will fall and you’ll see who she really is. This is much more reliable than asking her
anyone else go out with women you know you don't want a long term relationship with, just to get some social contact or action?
>>34486728um, you're supposed to reply to all messageslog in constantly and swipe daily or the algorithm punishes youand in a sense paying for that shit, is a signal that you're an active user, but the unlimited swipes and other features cause you to be less investedwhich could hurt more than helpso no paying does not necessarily improve your chanceswhat would improve your chances is fraud maxing:making sure every picture is of you in your best outfit at the most flattering angle and lighting.and looks like you're at an exclusve event, or nice destination, with small signals of friend groupes (hands in the corners of pics, shoulders, but youre still the main focus)
Instead of going at it saying I'm gonna make a girlfriend say I'm gonna make friends.
>>34485289Alright, fine, I just didn't want to be outed as a creep by going every day (Me being an amateur on this kind of stuff). What calls my attention is that although she smiles and does small giggles, she tends to rush up the talk, as in "Buy thing ==> she checks out ==> g'bye". I'll see what I can do.
Alright here is the clearest sign a girl likes you. If she does not do this, you can rest assured you don't have to date her. If a girl you like does not find you reliable for being human as a big part of her life, she does not like you.
>>34488154balls deep, son, forget the giggles, get some drink sin there and have a place and you're in
>>34486909Well obviously, many times. I think the hip term for it is situationship
