I (20f) might've accidentally normalized zoo/map shit to my bf (16m). Unsure whether there's a way to fix thisTo be clear, I'm not a zoo or map pride advocate at all. I do not support those groups. However, I, as does my bf, have those paraphilias. I recognize them strictly as medical conditions and that they have to be treated. My bf disagrees with me in that regard, which is why I'm kind of worried
>>34511289Who cares about "medical" conditions.Don't do anything illegal. Tell him to not do anything illegal. Encouraging people to do illegal things is illegal.
We won't. I wholly disagree with acting upon those philias. At least I hope he never acts on them, who knows what he does behind my back
>>34511289>I recognize them strictly as medical conditions and that they have to be treatedYour bf is correct. If fucking animals is bad, why is systemically torturing and killing them in slaughterhouses fine? As for MAPs, a high percentage of people are MAPs to one degree or another. Most are not strictly nonces. There are some problematic things with fucking kids, but kids do have a sexuality. There is some truth to both sides of the debate. You should read Foucault. Things are only considered "medical conditions" when the elites want an excuse to discourage and/or criminalize them (see: homosexuality). Always question everything because most of the status quo with regard to ethics is only legitimized by political power.
Medical conditions and disorders are defined by harm, either to the person suffering from the disorder or those around them who are still negatively impacted by the disordered personSure, someone with an attraction to minors or animals who has urges to abuse them is disordered and has a condition, and needs treatment, but if you both aren't tempted to act out on the attraction and are fine indulging on it just as a fantasy in your own head or with fictional drawn/animated (not real CSAM) porn, then what's the harm?I guess maybe where you live there may be laws against even drawn porn of minors, but you get my point: Assuming there's no urge to abuse real kids or animals, then why is it something that requires treatment? If you feel bad about it and having that attraction causes you stress/shame then sure, that's a type of harm, but consider I would argue you shouldn't necessarily feel stressed or ashamed of it.
>>34511430>>34511457It's because none of this shit was medical in the first place. The "medicalization" of mental "health" was a mistake.>>34510402>>34498709
OP, how did you find somebody else into bestiality and lolicon/shota?
>>34511289why is your bf 16?
>>34511289You (20m) will never be a woman.
>>34511289All you can really do is discourage him if he talks about acting on these urges or report him if he does. Hopefully he doesn't commit horrific crimes
>>34511289>I (20f) might've accidentally normalized zoo/map shit to my bf (16m)I reported you to the authorities for paedophilia and sexual abuse of children, enjoy getting v&
>>34511741Age of consent here is 14 bucko>>34511624Tbh, very much by accident. I had no idea for the first few months of knowing each other >>34511457I do feel a lot of distress that spiralled into depression due to these attractions. I have no urge whatsoever for anything irl. My bf says he doesn't either, though he's not ashamed by it at all>>34511706Cus he was born in 09...? What did you expect
