have you experienced porn-induced erectile dysfunction? how did you treat it? i think i have it and cant' get it hard during sex half the time almost. i still have morning wood and can get it up when jorking it to porn but i've been cutting back quite a bit in the past month or two with some irregularity - some improvements but not consistent. I've also started cardio training to improve general erection quality. luckily my wife is understanding because i get her off every time anyway and she's not a super demanding person sexually so there's that, but it's fucking with my head really bad and i need to fix it.
>>34529573Literally quit porn, when you jackoff to weird shit you are rewiring your brain to respond to that. You have to start fantasizing about banging your wife/women yourself.
>porn-induced>how do you treat itNigga, please put two and two together
>>34529573Quit porn, use L-citrulline, continue doing cardio, and lift iron. It's all about improving blood circulation and "resetting" your brain to value natural stimuli (sex) more than artificial stimuli (porn). Porn and CONSTANT masturbation rewire the action-reward equation. The brain is all about actions and their rewards.
i always get horny as fuck after liftingbut i guess the key is getting more female presence in your day to day life
I used to have issues with boners when I was younger. It kinda fixed on it's own after a while but some things that helped:>intense cardio>eat garlic often (besides being sort of a natural aphrodisiac it's one of the healthiest things you can eat in general)>stay horny. look at girl's boobs and asses whenever you can>sunlight and fresh air is a massive test boost, if you live by nature make use of it>foreplay until you're really hard>alcohol gives you whiskey dick if you drink too much but a small quantity helps with nerves>zinc (this shit is like viagra, I take a supplement once every other day because if I do it everyday it wakes me up at night wanting to fuck or jacking off)
>>34529578>one of the healthiest things you can eat in general)It's toxicThere's a reason you cant eat more than a sprinkle at once
>>34529576Nta but does this include AI sex chatbots?
Just stop watching porn. No need to stop wanking, just don't watch porn.
>>34529573>dick doesn't automatically get hard on pure animal instinct when around a naked womanHave you tried not being gay?Have you
>>34529575No there has to be some other way, that solution is too simpleAre you sure there isn't a streamer I should donate to or a shot I should inject or a Patreon I should subscribe toI just can't understand the problem
>cant' get it hard during sex half the time almost. i still have morning wood and can get it up when jorking it to pornLet me guess, your wife is either uggo or boring in bed
>>34529581This.Although I'd also avoid using your hand directly. Bought a pocket pussy, it's much nicer and no deathgrip choking shit.
>>34529573You probably just got older. You probably are also really good at keeping yourself going by hand, which only requires small motions in highly controlled positions that you've practiced for decades, versus whole body thrusting into a vagina that may not be possible to position optimally and varies in wetness, tightness, and shape depending on a million factors in the woman's body.You got that? Masturbation is easier than sex. Porn has nothing to do with it.
>>34529574>>34529576>>34529578>>34529581thanks, working on it >>34529584hm definitely not former, potentially latter though>>34529585feel like that's taking it too far >>34529586may make sense. time to reverse it i guessalthough i have noticed that i often get performance anxiety referring back to the first time it happened a year or two ago, so i get into a negative feedback loop as it happens. is cialis a good solution for this?
Had the same problem when entering into a relationship after being alone for a long time. The solution is stopping all porn viewing. Don’t even watch it. Don’t crank your pingas either. Within a week you’ll turn into a raging bull in the bedroom. Your lady will pick up on that and get more into it too.
I went to a hooker to get rid of my v card but couldn't stay hard and she made fun of me for that
>>34529579>It's toxicAnon? Are you allergic to garlic, but you don't know it and think it's like that for everyone?
>>34529579You are uneducated
You probably having something called Peyronie's disease.>Peyronie's disease is extremely common amongst men, and it is a plaque buildup that happens from repeated action or it bending n' shit. Stuff like jacking off a shit ton or it missing when trying to go in and bending too much. >When I realized my husband had it I did some research and got him on a regimen of daily supplements using this study (I think): https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9495996/>It's an accumulation of these supplements: Bilberry, CoQ-10, Milk Thistle, L-Carnitine, Bee Propolis, Ginkgo Biloba, Vitamin E, and Boswellia. They also recommend applying diclofenac sodium topical gel two times a day, this might be to help with the pain or increased sensitivity. I'm not entirely sure. My husband doesn't wind up using it much.>He's been on it for I think a month or something and his penis is already way straighter (not as much bend in it) and bigger. He also gets random erections around me like he's a teenager again. It's great :P
>>34529589>she made fun of me for thatI hope you only tipped her 15% to make sure she knows you were not pleased with the service.
>>34529592nope - no scar tissue, no bend, no pain
>>34529589Lucky bastard
I don't fucking get it. I am depressed, unable to start anything, unable to go to bed before 4 AM, I eat like shit, I'm literally trying to die by heart attack before 40, yet my dick gets hard without any problem. I'd fuck anything. I don't even watch that much porn or anything. Of course being a neurotic, self defeating bumfuck, I don't have access to pussy. I want to off myself more for this than for anything actually wrong with me :D
>>34529596you're not depressed. you're just unfulfilled and lazy
>>34529597I am lazy and this is why I manage to keep a decent job for years despite living as I said, help my ill mother 7 days a week, take care of a good dog and do voluntary work to feel some kind of connection/warmth. Nope doctor.
>>34529589same, but was in the dominican republic. It's not so painful when an impoverished whore makes fun of you.
>>34529580The brain can't differentiate between two stimuli. For example muscles can't differentiate between a machine workout or a free weight workout. The brain is like that, it can differentiate, but not at that level, it's very complex. Just do not excessively jack off and if you have a problem with your dick, stop watching porn, using chatbots etc.Artificial stimuli can hijack/create/distort reward systems the same way real ones do.
Well, a lot of guys in here say stop watching porn and jacking off, but I did that. I went full-on monk-mode no-fap for a couple years. In my opinion, you do not want to do this. My dick hardly works now. I am in the process of rehabilitating it. Probably you should at least try to get erections regularly. You should probably also try not to ejaculate too much (I still think semen retention is probably good). You should probably also stop watching porn. But you probably should not stop everything altogether, like I did. Pretty sure it caused atrophy. Or at least major shrinkage that is starting reverse. For a while I couldn't even get hard at all anymore. It took a long time, several months, for me to rehabilitate to the point where I can achieve like 50%-70% hard erections again. I started trying to fix my shit because I started being around a lot of hot girls who want to sleep with me, but now my dick doesn't even work, so it's like literal torture.Probably moderation is the best thing. Also do cardio.
>>34529601Oh, on the plus side, can confirm that no-fap does make you somehow a lot more attractive to women. I think your pheremones go crazy or something. Also I was more interested in them and went out of my way to talk to them, so obviously that probably helped, too.But like I said, what point is there in attracting a lot of hot women when you can't even do anything about it anymore. I am suffering for my hubris.
>>34529601>>34529602oh and P.S. I did not have erectile dysfunction before this. I was just trying to fix my life in general. Extended no-fap caused E.D. for me.
>>34529573More porn
I had this problem, I didnt quit porn but I did switch from videos to pictures. I also started mixing up the way I get off, like using the other hand or using less force. Havent had the problem since
>>34529573no and I'm a total gooner. 3 times a day and still fucked my ex gf cus she was so amazingmaybe you just don't find your wife attractive?
Irl women are hives of STI infected bugs that chew your dick off. Why would you bother fucking them at all when these 304s are so narcissistic that nothing and no one can ever be good for them? Jerking off is better than dealing with asinine whores who didn't learn gratitude or to be humble in the least. If you get erect with a modern woman, you risk exposure to hepatitis for every letter of the alphabet. It's not ED you have, it's your alarm system telling you to desist or face the consequences.
Personally i have another problem: i cant cum with my gfi get erections, but i honestly dont feel the pleasure, plus putting on the condom hurts, im uncut and the bottom of the glans is sensitivewhen i masturbate i try to avoid retracting the foreskin until i cum, as for the sex i feels good at times but i cant cum unless we stop (my gf already reached orgams) and i masturbate next to her as she kisses me and gives me "love" in general.Im honestly planning on maybe cutting my foreskin, i dont think putting on a condom should be this hurtful, maybe i should go for an urologist? I dont have phimosis, i can retract my foreskin just fine
I have a similar problem, dude>>34524428
>>34530042If you were talking to me >>34530025, i feel youPersonally i lost my virginity just recently and thank god i got an understand girlfriend that was patient with me. I think that the erection thing is just psychological, take it from me, we got in a fight due to this but after that, we fuck normally.This is gonna sound gay as fuck but you do also masturbate like me? personally my glans arent THAT sensitive if i pull back but it is some problem when i put on a condom, its about the foreskin pulling back to hard.As for you, if you pull back and IMMEDIATELY feel pain and discomfort (like, only from that and air), i suggest going to the doctor, that might be phimosis.As for your "first time", you can always masturbate her, at least thats what i did with her and she enjoyed it
>>34529589I hope you didn't pay her.
>>34530091Yes, I also jerk off the same way as you. I never understood how guys jerk it while keeping the glans exposed. >As for you, if you pull back and IMMEDIATELY feel pain and discomfort (like, only from that and air), i suggest going to the doctor, that might be phimosis.No, the pain and discomfort dont occur that easily. Here is what happens: I get an erection while my pants are on, which exposes my sensitive glans to the inside of my pants/underwear and/or pubic hair. That is what really causes pain and discomfort, which kills my horny level, and I try to psychologically suppress my boner. This + the anxiety + the daily fapping and porn since my adolescence is a recipe for disaster