Its like 3k a month to rent a nice house which is a big % of my income. I feel like i want the flexibilty to move and job hop so i rent. Will the kids hate me for this?
>>59593999You're overthinking this. Your kid won't know/care that you're renting until he's a teenager at the earliest.No, what's going to stunt him is not being able to keep his social circle throughout his formative years because daddy needs to job hop to get a $5/hr raise.Every time he has to start again, a little part of him will die. Some restarts will be okay. Others will be awful. All of it will embitter him, and set him up for a lifetime of not knowing how to manage durable social relationships. His school performance will of course suffer as different school districts do things in different orders, so he'll study some of the same things multiple times, and completely miss foundational concepts that'll hinder him as he struggles through higher education, should he dare to.Anyway yeah, good luck.
>>59593999THis milf is 10/10
>>59594021Kek holy shit this anon just described my life with pinpoint accuracy and he wasn't even talking about me specifically. Fuck you btw, I'm going to drink again before bed
>>59594021I think i could job hop locally. Having a hoom just feels comfier
>>59594021It was so hard to start every school year alone and struggling to find a group that would accept me.
>>59594082Shit
>>59593999>Will the kids hate me for this?It's better for kids to stay in one place, as making good friends can take multiple years.My mom for some unknown reason kept switching my schools like every 2 years as a kid, and I never made friends at school until high school where I stayed for 3 years.
>>59594021Damn wtf you didn't have to attack my childhood personally like thatWhat the hell dude I'm just scrolling before bed...what a trip.
>>59594021Based effort poster.You make boards better.
>>59593999If your kids have to change schools or towns multiple times it robs them of a normal childhood
>>59593999I wouldnt even have kids if I weren't set for life.
>>59594213This is also conditional though. Being poor is much worse than not having friends. A poor family should prioritize income over everything otherwise they have no future.
>>59594226They're both shit. I'd actually argue that poor but with decent parents and a good friends would have a better life outcome.
>>59594226I know many poor families with 4+ kids. They seem quite happy to me despite the struggles. Kids are cheaper than the media tells you
Consider how long it takes to break even just oayong cash for a house vs renting. In my area I would need to rent for 12 years to match the price of purchasing a home fore cash. During that 12 years you will most definitely see all kinds of breakdowns requiring maintenance and repairs. That's going to require a lot of funds. Oh there are also property taxes and insurance. The big advantage of ownership is that you build equity and you can take loans out against ypur property if you need a sizeable sum of cash for some reason. Probably the reason is to fix your old ass house. Factor in that you're mostly paying interest for many years into a 30 year mortgage and you're just jot going to beat renting.
>>59594034thats because he was talking about himself, having the same life as a kid as you
>>59593999>Is renting with kids possible?Perhaps. How much do they earn?
>>59593999kek i read "is renting white kids possible?"
>>59594246>you're just jot going to beat renting.based non hoomer talking factual. realistically it takes about 40 Years to be in good profits if you buy a house.buying a house is mostly for your descendants. and fuck my descendants lmao. I will give them basic needsfor sure they will be set for life but not in this manner.I rather focus on passport maxing then home maxing.my future kids will be holding 4 passports.with this they can outsmart the market more then the hoomers.
>>59593999Kids dont care what box they live in
>>59594021This phenomena can be avoided by homeschooling
>>59595557By making them antisocial retards?
>>59595600You still enroll them in clubs and hand out with the other parents in your community that homeschool.
>>59593999Kys rentcuck
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>>59593999most landlords prefer money, but i guess some would take kids as payment.
>>59593999yes, kids are stupid my man, they don't know nothing
>>59594021I moved once, at 5th grade.I think it stunted me socially but made me really focus on school at a pretty formative time. Probably turned me into a much bigger nerd than I would have been otherwise but also was a top 10% student without really trying come high school and set me up to continue into engineering with relative ease.So there's probably some pros also, depending on the kid and their parents push for them to succeed academically. Had I moved and just fucked off and stoped trying then I'd probably not do as well in life
>>59595600Going to public school will make you an antisocial retard. It did that to me.
>>59594021This was my life.Once a social group is formed, that's it.No new friends.If you keep moving then you miss out on nearly every social milestone with your retarded parents blaming you for not trying despite them making you start over every year.
>>59594021this>t. switched schools 12 times k-12got pretty good at being the new kid at least
