I want to try putting oil/grease in my hair to hold the frizz down, damaged hair. I asked the barber if he could fix it but he seemed incompetent and bad at my language, he just cut fast and barely answered my question. Anyway, which oil/grease should I use? Can I use something I already have or do I need to buy something else? I have:>peanut oil sitting on top of natural peanut butter, could pour that off>butter>ghee>olive oil>vaseline