>>75458650
Doing pretty good, actually.
I worked out and brushed my teeth every day this week. Stayed within 100 calories of my goal.
I had tried time blocking, but it wasn't working. So instead I started using to-do lists and then made a spreadsheet with my waking hours of the day and filled in each hour with what I did.

And that made me realize that my roommates literally don't do anything other than pay rent and I've been getting sidled with doing far more work than everyone else.

>>75458650
>got job
>cured anxiety issues
>savings going up
>losing weight
>nofap day 7 longest streak in years, don’t even consider it a streak this is just what I do now I only will cum with women
>have a realistic plan and goals for the first time
I feel better. I can socialize again mostly. Interact with people.
But I feel stuck like I’m not doing enough and idk what else to do.
In short, I need to
>get lean (100lbs to be 10%)
>get gains again (lost them all)
>get some skills for the jobs I want
>save enough and be making enough to get own place ($65k minimum where I am)
>get some more hobbies (have ideas)
>make some friends
I will likely be 34-35 when that time comes. I feel stuck right now. Like I could be doing way more to be productive and woke towards that and idk where to start or what to do. I want to be
>mid 30s guy with own apartment growing savings decent paying job he likes good body and hobbies he loves which he can earn money from with group of friends/multiple circles and ducking a few different women until I meet “the one”

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>be me, 31
>NEET, never worked
>no GF, can't get children
>just lift, roid, sleep, eat every day

Think I move to Thailand and just relax forever at the beach.

>>75458650
>brushed my teeth every day this week
wild sentence

Still unemployed. Not TECHNICALLY because I have a web contract and a car i can uber with. Job market is absolute shit I should have joined the military.

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how have you forced yourself to get your life in order? i am trying to overcome my adhd and autist-like negative characteristics and force myself to do things but it is hard. i don't want to be a loser forever and need to fix things. any advice would be appreciated.

>>75458716
With what money?

>>75458744
Gov bux is enough desu.
In Thailand a condo costs like 180€ at the beach and all you can eat meat + fish buffets for 4€.
So I have plenty money left and can live comfily.

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I think im really unhappy with my relationship and it's because I'm sexually unsatisfied because there are a few things she absolutely is disgusted by and will not do (oral, anal) and I thought i could force myself to not care over the years but ig i do because despite my best efforts at talking about it, trying to gently ease her into it, etc nothing has worked and despite not watching porn or jacking off for years at this point, I still like what I like and those feelings aren't going away

She has no trauma, no bad past, no bad experiences, she's just super retentive and clearly good at setting and maintaining boundaries and just hates that stuff. She's otherwise a great girl and we have a good relationship but ive been lying to myself over my lack of sexual satisfaction, ig it's more important than I thought

I feel really bad over this too, I feel like sex shouldn't be that important to me but I'm done lying about my desires. Idk if I should break up over it but I am unhappy that she won't compromise on sex at all, and I mean at all. I'm sure the mgtow guys are gonna scream break up but really, she's a really great girl otherwise, would be a good mother and does love me a lot. Is that really worth throwing away for sex?

Met an amazing girl recently but due to her being involved in a lot of things at the same time, we can only hang out for a couple of hours each week, usually she sleeps over at my place on Mondays or Tuesdays. She's also very likely going to move to the other side of the country sometimes next year. It's so frustrating because I didn't meet any good women in many long years and now when I meet her, I can barely see her and she's probably going to move away.

Do you lads think I should keep the relationship alive for now or should I just cut my losses? Also, I don't know how to feel about the whole situation anyway, as I said we see each other very little and the rest of the time we are confined to texting, which can sometimes feel like a chore to me, I prefer being with people in person rather than texting. Do you think I should try to text her every day?

>>75458650
im gonna drink sum beer

Truly Fruit Punch

I miss smoking weed.

>>75458716
My plan is that if by like 45 I find myself unable to date the women I want, single, no kids, then I’m just gonna start sexpatting or flat out move to the Philippines or Thailand. I don’t really find Asians attractive though. My plan for now is to set myself up to be able to run through pussy and meet a wife in my 30s

>>75458905
That sounds reasonable desu.
You can always op out for the first option later in life if your plans dont work out.

>>75458909
That’s my idea. If I don’t get to do the things I want, then I may as well make my life as enjoyable for myself as possible. I’d rather be fucking American college sluts if I can’t get a wife and have kids and if I can’t do that then I’ll just go to another country live for cheap with whatever online business I can get going and then see if I can get a harem set up. Maybe find a woman with a good head on her shoulders and just accept she’s with me for money and a better life in exchange for a wife who acts like an actual wife. Sounds grim the more I type it out actually, my kids would grow up to understand I was a loser if I did that

>>75458716
kek based

>be me at work
>have this flirty stacy coworker
>she’s married but always flirty nonetheless
>often complimenting me and touchy
>basically a work wife/husband dynamic
>been like this for 2 years so think nothing of it
>earlier this week i’m eating lunch
>she walks in and takes off her sweater
>shes just wearing an undershirt saying it’s hot
>strikes up a convo with big booba right in my face
>thought that was a little odd but whatever
>today i’m sitting assembling my lunch with earbuds in
>feel two hands on my shoulders, its her
>she keeps her hands there and starts massaging while we talk
>im a bit tense and she tells me to relax
>i sit through it and at the end she says it’s now her turn
>bruh.exe
>oblige and half ass it for a minute
>other coworkers walk in and i involve them in the convo

it’s so incredible hard to gauge her. she has to know what she’s doing, i just don’t know why. i don’t really give her any special attention and her husband is a chad, im definitely not worth the risk.

Do you ever feel like that even if you could get better mentally, it wouldn't matter because it's too late? I'm 36, I wouldn't get the best years of my life back anyway.

>>75459127
being happy at any age is worthwhile, it's really all that matters, happy is happy regardless of anything else

>>75459137
true

>>75458776
Would it be possible to move with her? Are you really established where you’re at?

>>75459001
Dude you definitely gotta hit that lmao

>>75458764
bump on this pls it's actually really bothering me and /adv/ is full of mentally ill women that think me wanting sex is a crime

>>75458764
You have to be the dominant in your relationship. If you are unhappy, don't be afraid of showing it, believe me. I already dated a girl like that. She was just bored of me and my good will with her.

>>75458764
I don't personally care for anal/oral so if it was me, no way I would break up over that. But you say you do and to such an extent that you are now really unhappy in your relationship. You have tried to resolve but but it didn't work. So yeah, maybe do break up after all.
But have you considered doing other things in bed? Like maybe you can find something spicy that she doesn't have a problem with?

How bad/good is it to fuck escorts?
I'm travelling to Berlin early next year and kinda want to fuck some top tier girl. 2 hours is like 400-500 for Stacey tier girls.

I'm kind of concerned that I will start having an unhealthy relationship with sex in general if I start paying for it.

>>75458650
Very apathetic. Tried dating apps and immediately remembered it's not pre 2020 anymore. I think my feelings come from no longer caring at work. Best case: it's a cluster fuck that will never get any better. Worst case: it will continue to lose employees and clients until it gets sold due to poor performance. I had a snapping point where a threatened to quit, was promised X, Y, and Z and, as per usual, the 3 Stooges who run this place never followed through. I want to clock the bald, plucked chicken looking 1 so fucking bad in his head. On the plus, I am looking for a new job and put in applications. Got an interview next Wednesday. I'm fairly certain everyone in the office knows I don't care either (especially considering I'm a self diagnosed sperg) and yknow, it's kinda liberating as well. They keep playing office managers who are retarded and expect respect but I'm past the point of caring. Fuck em. There were 3 moments today alone I could feel my face twitch fighting the urge to walk out.

DESU, I think I'd be better if I could WFH. At least I could keep to my hobbies in down time

>>75458764
I feel you bro, that’s a tough spot to be in. You need to think about if you continue down this road, will it just end in resentment towards her because of your sexual dissatisfaction? These things rarely improve, so your options are to suck it up and stay but end up cheating in all likelihood, or just break things off

>people who are worth being in relationships with don't stay single for long
>I've been single for a decade.
Whack.

im gonna get fired. ive always been a good worker and with the same company for 13 years, but my job is going to be eliminated and they won’t let me work for them where i live now. my boss is a shithead and has done nothing to help me, so I’m stressing big time. hopefully i can get severance pay. and it’s my birthday today. suppose ill have a lot of drinks and play video games tonight. have been getting some good pumps lately though, feeling good about the gains at least

Love my gf, but I'm still addicted to women lads. My divorced dad has 2 gfs and he seems to be doing fine, so why can't I do it?

>>75459363
At least your dad is giving you a glimpse of your future.

I want to run my first half marathon on sunday but i'm not sure I'll be able to finish it since I've only ever ran like 9 miles max. Should I just do it and power through?

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>>75459385
yeah, you should be alright. it will hurt though.

What should I do for my 22nd birthday? So far it's just chest day.

i'm so tired i'm working full time at a super easy but annoying job and i'm doing a fairly easy but still time consuming masters at night. i don't do anything else.

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>>75458650
Ended up with my first girlfriend in a decade, recently. Lives in the next state over, met randomly in a mmorpg when I complimented her character concept/design. Talked for months via text in game, eventually out of game and eventually voicet, now we spend around 10 hours in evenings/mornings talking and playing different games and watching movies. Really caught feelings for her and it seems reciprocal. Only thing separating us is Lake Michigan (and land.)

Keeping to my workout regimen and being mindful of calories/carbs I take in. Feeling physically and mentally healthier for the first time in a long time. Doing Nofap and Noporn. Failed NNN on the 10th but got back on the wagon right after I failed and have been clean all week. I really do feel like I am going to make it.

>>75458764
Have you talked to her about this and laid your concerns and feelings out for her, Anon?

>>75459360
Happy birthday Anon. Things sound rough, but hopefully they get better soon. Best of luck.

sup . might have a henny and pepsi later for the tyson fight. pretty depressed lately, ngl. feeling pretty unmotivated.

I even stopped showering at the gym in part because of crowding, and also hearing about gay encounters happening there. But I've been working out and then just going home and not showering.

>>75459001
To get power over you, you idiot.

>>75458748
I don't think Thailand pays welfare to foreign NEETs so they can fuck the local whores for free

Only western governments are that stupid

>>75458764
I semi relate. I can pass on anal, but I understand the appeal (I do think it’s porn induced to like it though), but head is obligatory for me. I don’t just need head often I need it at random times unprompted. I need a woman who WANTS to suck me off, who would see me having a rough day and just start blowing me without me so much as even hinting at it.


The conundrum becomes: do I take a whore as a wife, or do I take a more modest less experienced woman and hope she learns what’s good?
>whore
This is tricky. I’ve had GFs who eagerly sucked me how I described above and after we got more serious it started to die off. It’s amazing how they’re never too tired or willing to refuse/reject you early on…
>modest less skilled
They thought they “won” me without having to do all that shit so there was no change in sight. What little sex there was dropped off.


I do believe there are women who are the best of both worlds who can learn with you and will eagerly want to please you and only you but this all goes back to the usual thing this boils down to, worthwhile women are very rare.


T. May have been ruined by my first gf who sucked dick slurpo goblin mode and would actively watch porn to imitate shit with me, like pulling me in when she could tell I was close and whispering “fill me up” into my ear. Bitch would blow me in the most random places. In the most random times, over the most random things. I remember her family didn’t like me so she slammed her bedroom door and started gagging loudly on my dick while they all had to listen to it. Bitch was nuts. I hope I can have a normal relationship some day. But every time I meet one I find myself not quite comparing but longing for the same experiences again…

>>75458764
I think it's valid to want to be sexually fulfilled in a relationship. Presumably you're monogamous so fucking whores or a side piece is out of the question, so basically she is gatekeeping your entire sex life outside of masturbation. If she can't see that she has a duty to make you happy (as you have a duty to be the only guy who gets her off) then that's a problem.

I know plenty of people would say "you broke up with the perfect girl because she wouldn't give you head, are you nuts" but look at it this way - how many of your other preferences, goals and aspirations is her zero-tolerance boundary-setting going to come into conflict with in the future? Her inability to compromise is potentially a red flag.

>>75458764
Break up with her. Life is too short to be unhappy sexually, at any age. That is blunt advice. Her refusal to cater to your sexual demands are not her preferences, but an act of rebellion towards you, stating, I don't have to please you and there is nothing you can do about it. Relationship dynamics should not be like this. She should want to please you and you should want to please her. This should foster an environment of being open and sexually adventurous. The anal is questionable, but to not be open to oral is just behavior from women who hate men, plain and simple. It is an act of assertive submission that she refuses to partake in because she is making a statement as to who you are to her (not the man she will literally bend the knee for) and how little power you have in the relationship. Females like this are trash and make shitty mothers, raising children that do not respect their fathers as their whole life is seeing their mother not respect their father. Drop that bitch.
Also, if you are stupid enough to have kids with this woman, watch her close the pussy factor after the baby is born, because she is just using you for what she wants out of life, not working with you towards what you both want. Be careful not to mix the two up. Shared interests are not mutual interests.

>>75459319
It's no better or worse than fucking normal women.

I think you already hit on the biggest risk: the knowledge that you can get sex any time you want changes you as a person. You will stop being a simp in relationships, but possibly to the point of being apathetic.

>>75459324
>dating apps
My problem with them is I can’t imagine taking the women seriously. Even on the apps that are supposedly for non whores, I just can’t seriously look at any of my matches and think
>I want her to be my girlfriend I want to spend my time on her get to know her
All I see is
>this whore has probably slept with 20+ dudes this year alone so why should I put forth any effort?
Which unfortunately is what I’ve done with most women. It has worked btw, I have had women chase me and out in the work to skip to sex with me. But meeting a woman IRL that’s not really there unless there’s reason to believe she’s like that. Seeing them on the apps and that’s more than enough reason. It’s just settling at the end of the day. Every man who met his woman off an app is settling. He can cope and delude himself all he wants but he knows deep down he overlooked this and ignored it just happy to finally have gotten a girl.
>job
Yeah fuck that apply out. Don’t even put in a two week just stop showing up. Don’t tell anyone where you’re going or that you’re applying. In the mean time, especially if you think you can get a new job within the next 6 months, go find a cool doctor have him give you a fake note saying you have IBS. Then start stealing time. Go take a shit every 1.5 hours for 30 minutes just to dick around on your phone. Bring a backpack with you, no one will question it they’ll think it’s IBS supplies and a change of clothes and feel bad for you. Put a thermos full of ice cubes in it (break them up when alone in bathroom) and any time someone walks in poor a few in the toilet so it sounds like you’re shitting. If you want, record the audio for shits n giggles. Go test this right now at your house it sounds pretty close to shitting. Also add a water bottle or two so you can add water to the thermos it makes it sound better. This is so if the asshole bosses ever walk in thinking they’ll catch you faking it they’ll regret it

>heard a co-worker complaining about her bf going back to school and how pathetic it was
I'm shocked. Of course I didn't say anything to her because I'm scared of confrontation but if I could say something I would have said "You're mad at him for trying to improve his life? Are you stupid?"

>>75459541
>anon discovers women aged 18-35 are some of the most delusional, entitled, selfish, uncaring, and imbecilic people on the planet.

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I've come to the awful recognition that I will likely never be able to land the girl of my type. I have become so demoralized about ever finding a girl who likes me for who I am and who's timing is right for a relationship that I have begun planning out the rest of my life under the assumption that I will never get married or have children. It hurts.

>>75459527
>but possibly to the point of being apathetic.
Yeah I can see that happening. The problem is that at this point in life (I'm 24), I don't see much point in having a GF aside from having access to sex and...I don't know, a travel buddy? I know dudes my age who flunked college because they were busy chasing pussy.

But if I can just get laid anytime I want by paying just with money and not even with time...I don't know. Weird.

>>75459392
Do something that you find fun. Set some goals for where you’d like to be when you’re 23 and make a plan on how you can achieve those

>>75459526
Completely right. Stop wasting your time.

>>75458650
My cock is huge.

-colonizer

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>>75458650
I'm kinda scared about my future and sad about my life.
My mid twenties are not as cool as I was expecting.

I want chocolate milk right now.

>>75459409
Happy for you, Anon.

i got hit on by this really ugly spanish lady at a dollar store today. she turned to me holding these jello cup things and said something to me in spanish? im like huh sorry lady i don't speak spanish, and she came closer and start walking behind me whisper "guap" or something, and i i just shrugged like huh? and when i finally left she's like ciao! she wasn't even dressed sexy and she def wasn't pretty or in shape. what the hell.

i have been somewhere between panic and rage for weeks, which has never happened before and all i did different was start exercising again. i am not sure what drugs to take, what the physiological problem is even, but i get angry or sad and it just lasts days

give me one reason i shouldn't go the dispensary and buy some weed?

>>75459824
that happens to me all the time but i just assume its because i hate my life

>>75459828
yeah i hate mine too but it was at a nice tolerable numbness and lifting weights again in early 30s after fucking around for years just seemed to just get my emotions going again and they are all terrible

>>75459526
>>75459526
This.
That being said, don't break up with her just yet.
Start looking for other women now while you're still getting laid. Then break up with her when it's time to swing from the branch.

Im buying husky handle dumbells for the start of my home gym. I like the idea of working on improving my grip strength.
Am I retarded?

>>75459897
> $499.95/pair
uhhh what are these made out of platinum or sth or is that just what things cost now

i watched megalopolis and thought it was great buuut it's clearly a psychedelic movie meant to be watched on lsd which is why normies didn't get it and to be fair copolla never did anything crazy liek that but props to him for blowing 120 mil of his own dough to make a trippy flick for the ages

>>75459708
Life ends in your mid 20s how many times does this need to be explained

>>75459947
I thought it was commie slop

>>75459948
as someone old i would say it doesn't "end" but the patterns that will determine the rest of your life are pretty much set by that point so it's just gonna me more of the same for better or worse from then on out. like novalis once said "temperament and fate are the same thing" or whatever.

>>75459955
>leftist politician and his mob try to stop genius architect from building the future
huh? if anything it's an ayn rand rip-off, but like i said normies didn't get it.

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>>75459360
happy birthday man

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What's an easily accessible, painless suicide method? Asking for a friend.
Don't bring up therapy, shit doesn't work.

>>75458650
Going well, marriage isn't as shit as I thought it would be. Started doing nofap for NNN and I feel like my lust has been returned to an appropriate level. Wife doesn't seem to mind having sex more either, kind of think I'll just drop the coomer content for now and see how long I can keep this up.

Cut is going well too, should hit my goals around February. WAGMI

>>75460674
If you can’t handle dying in a painful way then you should do the infinitely less painful act of fixing your life.

>>75459897
>that price
just get fat gripz

Got a consultation tomorrow to get my only tattoo removed. Got my frat letters on my ass per tradition and realized a couple years later it was cringe and red flag for girls.

Barista I see a lot gave me her number but I'm too autistic to text/call her outside of organizing shit. We've gone on a couple dates and we still have good talks when I drop by but I dunno, I turn into an an even bigger autistic retard than usual when technology's involved. I think I'm fumbling it.

Cut's going well. Down from 215 to 205. Love handles are shrinking.

>>75458650
Still frustrating. Torn mussel in my right arm is holding my entire upper body routine up. Legs aren't making much gains either.

>>75459549
If you just want sex then hookers are perfect.

Why are you sure you don't want a gf though?

>>75460674
It's never easy or painless. Whatever you do you have a good chance of surviving as a cripple. 95% of people regret attempting suicide as soon as the realisation hits.

Take that energy and put it into changing your life, if you hate it so much.

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>she doesn't text like she used to
>she always finds an excuse not to meet up
>she starts pulling away

Goddamn it, I thought it was my turn to be happy for once.

No matter how big I am, no matter how much I lift, I am still weak on the inside. I admit to being a coward and feel sorry for anyone who has the misfortune of meeting me. I don’t even celebrate my own birthday and I’m hypercritical of my accomplishments. I believe the stoics had the right idea about suicide, there’s nothing wrong with electing your own death. To say, “this is it, I can’t go further. I’ve reached my limit,” I fantasize about the sweet relief of death because I don’t value my life. It’s a joke how outwardly strong yet inwardly weak I am, a cruel sick joke

So did anyone else get a 3 day ban for posting in the other feels thread last night?

I miss my ex very badly fellas

Just hit a deadlift PR at 200kg though

>>75458708
You are already on the right path. Just keep going. I'm happy You've made mental and socisl gains so far.

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I've come to realize all I really enjoy doing is drinking beer alone while playing videogames and watching youtube with ocasional lifting, only doing OHP, rows and pull ups. Anything else just causes unnecessary stress that never pays off. Women, friends, cars, better job, better stuff all that is just pointless.

>>75458650
My base barbell lifts (bench, squat, pull) are down but I can do the same with dumbbells with 15+kg difference with more controlled reps and less fatigue, body is harder and more shredded as I move from 15 to 13 bf by using butter in my diet and cutting carbs. But I feel more and more depressed, I can't sleep and I can't seem to concentrate. If this continues I will go back up.

>seeing a girl for a month
>for one reason or the other we couldnt hook up for a month
>tensions got real high since last week
>"hope you can fuck me good anon, I havent been with anyone for months and you look like you could go an all nighter"
>"sure can love"
>start stressing ofc
>yesterday, 5 pm
>text my drug guy for viagra for the first time ever
>pop it, meet with her and her friends
>she asks me to get a beer after the group thing to catch up

>I make her cum 2 times, am hard for 45 minutes. twice.

yeap
viagra is something else

>>75460745
>small butt tattoo
its not painful nor really expensive but its going to take 8-10 sessions and 14-18 months

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>>75458764
>she absolutely is disgusted by and will not do (oral, anal)
she's not entirely wrong
>A typical human mouth contains billions of bacteria
>700 species of microbes. These include germs like bacteria, fungus, and more
Never understood why people want that shit on their dick, especially if you don't even know the bitch.
As for the anal part, nigger if you have a scat fetish go find yourself a femboy.

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I realized this week, I moved out pretty late in my life (at 26) and I realized I really missed out on making some friends, let alone socializing. Although in some part, its my own fault for not taking the initiative, it's also because of my parents. Having them helicopter my life for this long and guilt trip me into staying with them has caused me to be socially inept. I don't think there's anything wrong in staying with your family if you so wish, but having them make you stay is a different story.

>>75461432
Not to alarm you but there's over a thousand different species of microbes on your hand alone

Does that stop you from shaking hands with someone?

>>75461530
>Oral yeast infections (or "thrush") are actually quite common, and also contagious if you're not careful.
Moist environments are breedings grounds for bacteria and fungus. If you're not circumcised, your comfy cock will provide ample amount of moisture for a long term yeast infection.
You can already catch that shit from her cooter, why double down?

>>75458650
Probably gonna get a bench, bells, a bar and like 360lbs of weights and just work out at home so I can get even stronker
But that would also eliminate another social interaction, but it's mostly dyels and tiny gymbaes. I know they mire the 1.5pl8 ohp
900 SECOND TIMER BRO WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS BULLSHIT FUCK

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>>75458650
I can barely remember the last week aside from adding handstands to my routine for an isometric shoulder exercise. Couldn't sleep, again. Did some core work through the night and watched videos on sprinting while regretting my choices in life.

>>75460674
I was going to share the methods I've thought out, but the 900 second wait made me reconsider. I think if you are truly prepared to die, you will find a way. It's a problem solving exercise like any other. Best of luck.

>>75461413
hell yeah dude

>>75460740
That's a good post right there

>>75461413
>viagra is something else
its one of those things that makes you truly appreciate how impressive medicine is
you just pop a pill and go to town, its insane

>gf always complaining about how her friends and family are always asking her to help and making things her problem and forcing her to take responsibility for their choices
>feel bad for her, I can see she's stressed out
>spend time with her and her friends
>she's always injecting herself into their problems, always offering help and insisting on it even when they say it's not necessary
>tried to point this out to her and she flipped her shit on me and we got into a huge fight
>mfw
I don't know what to do here. This weird low level martyr stuff is going to lead to some problems later. Volunteering then complaining about being conscripted is very insane.

>>75462569
Welcome to the mind of a woman
They are simultaneously the source of their own problems but refuse to accept any kind of objective solutions to them
Worst part is they're all like this but have different holes they choose to die on, just gotta ask yourself if this is something you can see yourself being able to tolerate in the long term

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another brutal gym day. cold and dark so i couldn't flex in public, but hotties were miring. i'm half way through ten scrambled eggs, which I will follow up with 500g of skyr and 100g of Almonds. follow this with magnesium and zinc. coffee, black, honey. smoke a spliff, dinner: 400g of mince, two cheese burgers with the cheese melted throughout, fried onions, a crispy bun, 500g of fried potato.

>>75458764
the truth nuke here is that she's never been sexually interested in you for your whole relationship. you might think the sex is good but you're used to your hand as well. if she doesn't WANT to give you sloppy toppy, it's already over my friend. out of respect I won't ask you to post body

>>75458650
The older I get (Im talking aging from 21-25 over the covid period) the more I don't even want to lift conventionally anymore friends, I want to actually socialise with fitness, play a sport or join a hiking group or whatever but not lose my strength/muscle if that makes sense but there's nothing nearby for me and the only sports club are older women and a boxing club that focuses more on conditioning/being a social club than teaching self defense, neither of these are bad necessarily but I'd wager I'd get some other fit anons input on the idea, most of my homegym workouts nowadays are circuits I can do in 20 minutes full of k-bell swings/farmers walks to keep my strength/health up

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>>75461413
holy shit how low is your T or broke is your dick you need drugs for that. lol, lmao

>>75462599
>the truth nuke here is that she's never been sexually interested in you for your whole relationship

Not that anon but what redpilled me about this was having a rebound relationship for about half a year with like a 4 out of 10 woman after a multiple year long relationship with my 6 out of 10 ex. We started pretty well with my ex, but I kinda let myself go over the lockdown and as a result we were barely having sex by the end of the relationship, and when we did have it, it was a PIV only with the lights turned off kind of thing. But with the 4 out of 10 woman nothing was off the table, I could ask her plainly to suck me off or to prepare her bum for anal the day after anytime I wanted and she would do it without a word. I could practically tell that the more weight I lost the bolder I could get with her.

My dream was to have a threesome, but unfortunately that was a bridge too far for her when I proposed the idea.

Half Life 2 came out 20 years ago.
I remember playing that game when it was new.
I had hopes and dreams about my life in the future.
And how many of them have I accomplished?
Zero.

>>75458650
Just finished running for the week. 18.6 miles. Ankle hurts, but that's become standard. Bad knee, leg goes down wrong. Feeling pretty good.

>>75462581
>Worst part is they're all like this but have different holes they choose to die on
Nice Freudian slip

>>75462954
Don't be a doomer. Reevaluate your goals and go for it.

>>75463078
That's the sad part. My goals weren't grand, they were simple and I still failed.
20 years ago I assumed in 20 years I'd have the following things
>A loving wife
Been single for 10 years
>2 kids
See above
>A job I enjoy
I have a reasonably well paying and stable job that I don't actively despise.
>A house
Working on it right now.

Is it stupid to go to a concert alone? I want to see Linkin Park next year but I have noone to go with :/

Spent most of Thursday crying and thinking about killing myself.
I worked out for several hours across the other days but struggled to eat much of anything.
Hopefully next week will be better.

My ex has a boyfriend. We split up a year and a half ago. She was my only serious relationship. Now I'm in my 30's and am poor with health issues. I don't think someone will look at me with love and lust the same way again.

>>75458650
I'm fat (16-18% bf) and I have ab veins popping. Am I blessed or am I dying? I only started lifting this year.

>>75463097
Those are all big but realistic goals. The wife and two kids? You could potentially have that in 18 months from now. What's stopping you meeting women?

>>75463254
>What's stopping you meeting women?
Autism. Don't want to use online dating. Don't want some used up roastie. Don't know where to look. Genuinely an undateable mess as evidenced by the decade of singledom thing.

I have no libido and it's ruining my relationship. I'm at a healthy weight, I do both strength training and cardio, I don't jerk off or watch porn (happens maybe once every other month if I'm hungover after a night of drinking) but I have no desire to have sex and when I try for my partner's sake I struggle with ED. Last Sunday my GF asked if I wanted to take a break from trying, it's been 6 days since and she's asked/initiated 4 days out of those 6 and when I said no she obviously became upset which just makes me feel even worse. I didn't really have much of a libido before getting in the relationship either, so in a way it feels like I'm just not made for this kind of stuff. I'm content with 2-3 minutes of hugging every day and my needs for intimacy are met, but it feels like her needs at 10x that and since I don't seem to want to deliver on the sexual front it just feels like I'm doing a ton of maintenance to keep her happy otherwise.

>>75458650
my current prospective gf found out i cheated on her with a few different women and went out and fucked an ex con nigger last night. if i'm gonna be honest i'm pretty hurt, didn't even work out today and broke my 4mo streak of going daily. should i drink about it or what?

>>75458650
Pretty good week. Occasionally hang out with a friend from hometown. Had a friend down south I used to talk to every day and go on holidays with who died a few months ago. Feels lonely sometimes but I just focus on work, exercise and dieting. Pic is days where my diet was on track, orange is kind of bad and red is write off. Sometimes I think if I didn’t have a gf to spend most of my time with I’d go fully off the rails. Anyone else have that kind of concern where you’re on thin ice.

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>>75458650
My ex sent me a friend invite on snapchat on my birthday, I thought it was going to just be a happy birthday message since we didn't end it on bad terms. Nope, it was this huge fucking wall of text saying that she misses me and she feels a void every day but that she made the right choice in breaking up with me and thanks me for loving her. I just sent her back a text saying "lol, good luck with that then" and removed her as a friend. Shit's been living rent free in my brain unfortunately for the past week. However outside of that, I'm feeling pretty good.

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>>75458650
this fucking bitch who i matched with on an app and talked with yesterday started blabbering about how her asshole ex left her and how I could come today evening to neflix n chill
and here i was an idiot thinking of cooming inside her all day long even stimulated myself to some porn so i texted her today in the evening not to look desperate and she is basically offline and comes online a bit later saying she thought about inviting me and that would be too much.
AHHHHHH FUCKKKK i just wanted some pussy anons i even agreed to listen to her rants. i know ive talked to her for like a day but i really wanted to get my dick
any advice anons?im trying to not jerk off so wanted to do this the organic way but fuck this i really have weird expectations to fuck after talking a bit

>>75463279
Might want to try stuff like omega 3, Ginseng and other natural methods of helping ED. Are you on anti-depressants/SSRIs? If you were not a fan of sexual intimacy, it just might not be a thing you are wired for.

>>75463288
Maybe don't cheat? Stupid nigger retard. I for one will not feel pity for you because you got some turnabout.

>>75458764
fucking nigger,try being in a long distance relationship with your asexual gf who clearly loves you so much and tell me how it feels.

>>75460949
It’ll happen one day.
I know it will

>>75459515
another anon here with same issue,so how do i make her understand she did me wrong all these years with resorting to cheating with some girl?it basically doesn't register on her mind that she neglected me

>>75458650
>34, 350lbs, NEET, virgin, never employed, no friends
>live with and primary caregiver for disabled parent and brother
>suddenly hit with depression in September
>none of the things that used to make me happy do anymore
>insomnia, anxiety, no appetite (yay)
>full of self loathing, regret, and remorse, can't stop remembering all the opportunities I missed
>can't really go out and meet people or get a job because can't leave home too long
>no idea what to do beside try to lose weight
>start walking everyday and counting calories
>down to ~290 now
>weight training 4 times a week, still weak as fuck though
>can't probably do barbell squats without falling over, started doing pussy squats where I hold onto the cage and just squat using body weight, I've advanced to doing body weight squats without holding on to the cage so that's something
>can't do barbell rows properly because as soon as I bend over my core and back can't support me properly and I crumple, doing chest-supported incline dumbbell rows now instead
>doing leg lifts and bicycle crunches to try to improve core strength
>benchpress and OHP are progressing nicely though
>still disgustingly fat, I can't even tell I've lost any weight or put on an muscle when I look at myself in the mirror
>hair noticeably thinning, going bald rapidly, every time I look in the mirror it seems thinner than last time
>probably stress from the diet and the depression
>even if I manage to get the weight off I'll probably be completely bald by the end of it
>hoping to hit 275lbs by the end of the year
Not sure what, if anything I'll do once the weight is off, its not like I can get a job or find people who want to date someone who has to sit at home and take care of his disabled family members. Not to mention even in the best case scenario where I don't fuck up my diet I'll be bald, ugly, and covered in loose skin. Baby steps though, just focused on losing weight, I can deal with what comes after that when I get there.

>>75463375
we had agreed to take it slow and only fuck with each other. it's not really cheating so much as keeping myself from being hurt because i have some serious trust issues from a relationship years ago. if i fuck someone else before she does i win type stuff. really unhealthy

>>75458650
>doc is gonna take me off risperidone as its causing weight gains
>started topomax to help offset weight gain from risperidone

meds feel like shit still but alas what can you do. Quitting my WFH nightshift job next month and going to be NEET again for a little while looking for work... not looking forward to that but due to my mental health condition (bipolar 1) I really need constant and proper sleep or I end up not well and i just cant do night shift anymore its seriously not good for me.

With coming back to normal day shift life i can hopefully socialize and do stuff during the day more which will be nice!

>>75463401
That is still a level of commitment to each other. Going "Well, I have trust issues so I fucked a couple chicks" does not excuse what you did. If you make a promise and give your word, you should stick to it. Either way, what is done is done and I will not lecture you further.

>>75463129
Concerts can be fun alone. You can just listen and take it all in. I go to a lot of concerts alone because most of my friends don't like what I like. Same goes for sporting events, those are fun alone too.

>>75463288
you're still probably the cuckold up to this point. She didn't go fuck him on revenge. Shes been fucking him.

I'm a broke ass third worlder and i dont have a japanese gf so i must drink copious amounts of hard liquor

>>75463695
That sounds nice. I guess it helps that you don't have to worry about waiting for anyone, catering to their needs etc.
I think I'll do it, thanks anon

>>75458650
> go to the bar just stand around
> maybe approach some chick, goes terribly, she's not interested
>I don't really want to drink and get wasted trying to be healthy and shit

I want to meet someone but it's usually the same shit

>>75463393
good for u dude, if ur stuck at home maybe do an online degree somewhere to open up some job opportunities

anyone used maschine 3 as stand alone software liek a daw with no hardware? it's only $100 i'm kinda thinkin about coppin it just for sth new to play around wiht but it kinda looks like it's really sampler focused and the synth stuff is like an after thought idk i already have logic pro and reason which i never use so basically a waste of money

> ejaculated inside a woman
> exahusted
> can't get it up again
anons, I thought that being fit would make me better in bed...

>>75458650
as a man you only have a few options for dating women past highschool, job/hobbies, bars, dating apps, or cold approach.
> jobs/hobbies, no women
> dating apps don't work for most men
> bars is difficult to approach people and start conversations if you're an introvert, don't want to drink
> cold approach is the same thing

you might work up the courage to try, get rejected multiple times, or finally get a number, she doesn't call you back, or ghosts you after a week.
while women have access too many options, endless matches on tinder, they get approached, they don't have to approach & get rejected.
there's a serious imbalance, men are struggling and you get called an incel for pointing it out.

>>75463883
Sometimes you find women in unexpected places, like online games.

>>75463908
attractive women don't play online games

>>75463921
My girlfriend does and that is how we met. We tend to split between working at the gym, online gaming and working most of the time. Good stuff.

>>75463930
I played wow from 2005 to 2016, never met a woman. Ok actually I came in contact with a woman but she was 400lbs and had blackhole eyes

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Pros
>Have my own place albeit small, can exist with some level of peace now that I'm not living with obnoxious roommates
>Have a pretty good social circle all things considered
>in great shape although I wish I could be a bit heavier, got mires recently which was a pleasant surprise
>not in debt, car fully paid off and I have decent savings for a wagie which is a lot more than the majority of my fellow zoomies
Cons
>Wagie job really screwed me on pay recently, kind of scared to quit because of how bad the job market is and how much worse it's gonna get
>feels like I've barely made progress getting the skills I need for my career because I never have time for myself, the days go by so quickly now and I'm only in my early 20s and I know it's gonna get faster from here
>pining after a girl I hang with/help out IRL who's already in a long distance relationship, worst part is I have several objective reasons why we're not compatible but I still want her anyway because she's the one female I'm attracted to that I hang out with regularly
All things considered I really do have a lot going for me, but I still find myself wondering "when's it gonna be my turn? I do so much for other people and it feels like I get so little back in return if anything."
I'm just a mess right now I suppose.

this lady at work gave me some things of cinnamon toast crunch and i don't have milk so i ate them with protein shake instead it was ok but wow there is a lot of sugar or corn syrup or whatever those. apparently this is what they give kids for breakfast in public schools.

It was a rough one.

>>75463972
i'm turning 30 this week anon and I essentially have negative something like 150k savings or more from the stock market and a bunch of bullshit in my life Jobs are meant to be furfilling to stave off suicide.

>>75463073
Lmfao

starting dating a girl about two years ago, parents immediately didn't like her because she's a different branch of the same religion. we're the same ethnicity though.
she was always politically ignorant but has a bunch of lefty friends. i've always been openly right wing around her, it's never really been a issue besides her asking me to be less racist sometimes but i haven't changed.
she had a fucking meltdown over trump winning the election, which came out of fucking nowhere. almost broke up with her that week but then apologized and said she'd never act that way again. not sure if i made a mistake taking her back :/
she's coming to my house for thanksgiving. part of me hopes my parents' seething hatred of her will come out and she'll break up with me after this week. i also feel bad for thinking this.

>>75464048
>I essentially have negative something like 150k savings or more from the stock market
well you're certainly a lot stronger than me, if I was that deep in the hole I'd have gone Killdozer already

I ended up a 30 year old virgin last week and honestly, I'm not that worked up about it and I'm being gentle towards myself.

The only reason I'm a virgin is because of factors entirely outside my control. I firmly believe this now, and I'm at peace with it. I'm 5'5" and bald, and also can't grow facial hair. Not a single woman has ever shown interest in me and quite a few have been disgusted. I'm done torturing myself and pretending that I'm a bad person because I lost the game of life, when there's literal rapists from my old hometown constantly getting laid because they're tall.

>>75464099
joe rogan is 5'8"

>>75464104
nta but he's also a millionaire lol

>>75464098
I love sex too much to kill myself. I'm tired of the sexless puritanical usa so i'm trying to escape to east asia to have lots of sex. Money in inmaterial.

>>75464105
what's stopping this guy from being a millionaire?
he has no women to waste his time nor money right now

>>75464104
He's 3 inches taller than me (makes a huge difference), is only 2 inches away from average height in the US, has a nice skull, and is gifted with charisma. I appreciate it, but there are literally zero comparisons to be made here. We are leagues apart, and I'm not interested in being made out to be a lazy piece of shit when I achieved 1/2/3/4 last year.

>>75464107
>sexless puritanical usa
LMAO. I love hearing people parrot that when people are having casual sex all the time. Kids are being raised to think fucking strangers is fine. Goddamn degenerate as fuck.

>>75464117
nta but brother I have a buddy of mine who is 5'5 or 5'6 and bald and he has a gf who is crazy about him, it's literally all in how you present yourself and how much confidence you have

>>75464070
You considered breaking up with your girlfriend over the election of all things? Why are you still with her

>>75464127
I have plenty of confidence and am not a shut-in. I literally do volunteer firefighter work and have dragged people from burning rooms and also volunteer in various animal shelters. I meet plenty of people.

Your buddy got insanely lucky, like lottery ticket levels. He should be thankful every single day.

>>75464126
the amount of work I have to put in to get a girl onto a genuine date is unfathomable. I'm sick and over dealing with mentally ill over medicated bitches that are fat and have no idea how to pleasure a dick because they never have sex

>>75464128
she had a legit meltdown, said that i hate women because i don't think abortion is healthcare. she said that the only way i'd understand why abortion is important is if the woman i marry has a tragic miscarriage with severe complications and is in a state where a doctor refused to perform an abortion to save her life. she said if i liked trump so much then i shouldn't mind it if someone would treat my sister or other female relatives like trump treats women. etc, etc. and half of this shit was said in public with her yelling at me. i told her that night i was ready to completely walk away from the relationship and she spent the next apologizing and saying she was wrong to act that way/say those things. she's never acted like this before so it really was a huge surprise when she suddenly snapped i guess.

>>75464148
Genuine dates and romance are hard, sadly. But if you just want to get laid you are probably fine. Finding romance, affection and potential love is hard. People are being conditioned to love corporations and corporate products over other humans. Shit sucks. Wishing you the best of luck though, Anon.

>>75464099
>because I lost the game of life
it's entirely possible the personality and social skills you've intentionally developed are bad and that's nobody's fault but your own

>>75463723
Cheers, make sure you get a shirt or something nice there too. Have fun.

>>75464163
cool man, keep telling yourself your girlfriend loves you because you worked hard

>>75464153
>she said that the only way i'd understand why abortion is important is if the woman i marry has a tragic miscarriage with severe complications and is in a state where a doctor refused to perform an abortion to save her life
I think it's wild how, despite the fact that 99% of abortions are elective, abortion supporters will turn around and try to claim that pro-lifers want women to die during miscarriages or some shit. Caring for a woman post-miscarriage and aborting a viable child are completely different things.

>>75464153
An insane amount of "normal" women have all picked up those exact same talking points. Truly terrifying how Insta/Youtube/Tik Tok were bombarded with those things. GF knows I'm not exactly a fan of abortion, but I understand it as a thing for rape/incest. My advice Anon is to talk to her. Ask her what she feels, how she feels and if she is willing to accept you even if you have a political view that does not match hers. You either get her to realize that politics are going to be different for everyone and starts behaving better, or she loses her shit, goes into hysterics and breaks up with you. She sounds immature and childish based on her behavior.

>>75464167
Not >>75464163, but you sound very bitter and jaded, Anon. Women can smell that shit on a person and it is not a turn on for them.

>>75464175
you can project whatever character flaws you want onto me. I've accepted myself and am proud of being able to save lives when the vast majority of Americans are borderline sociopath towards their countrymen and still have semi-loving relationships. I still fight for human goodness.

>>75464182
This goes for other lurkers too. You are not morally bankrupt and there is nothing wrong with your soul if you ended up without love. You are the product of a bunch of bad rolls, but there's still life-affirming work you can do.

I realized that I have a terrible need for control and that’s why my relationships fail and why I keep attracting men into femdom. I not only want to get bent over but I want to feel like I’m getting taken care of and actually believe that the other man is capable of it.

>>75464182
Anon I have nothing against you and I respect you for doing volunteering. I was just making a bit of an observation going off the post you made. Perhaps it was a bit rude, but you seem like a decent sort and I want you to be successful and happy, despite not knowing you outside this thread. I apologize if I came off as a cunt, because I was not trying to be one. I just know from my own, personal experience that women can scent mood on men. Either way I'm not going to say any more on this. I just wanted to give input, but it was clearly not the right move on my part. Godspeed with your life, Anon and best of luck. I hope your fortune changes.

>>75464153
My ex went from politically apathetic to hardcore lefty. Granted it was a slower build up but the takes got progressively more insane. One instance, this tiktok post from a girl who sent a really hair, yeti-like leg to her boyfriend claiming she forget to shave as a joke. He reacted with disgust, which was a totally normal response to seeing your girlfriend's supposed leg looking like a shag carpet and this girl has a total meltdown and posted their private messages for millions of people to see because he was a "misogynist". My ex totally supported this and got mad at me for saying the leg hair was unattractive. Obviously that was a bigger issue than the complete violation of trust on the part of that girl. Funny enough, I think my ex actually recorded me. She has the door open from the bathroom and asked me how I felt about fat people. I was careful with my words but stayed honest that I believe being overweight is bad for health and attractivenes. I was confident I did well in case I was being recorded but I didn't trust her anymore and it wasn't long after that our relationship fell apart.

>>75464157
I prefer fucking Asian women. I don't need to bother lying or shit. I don't even have money and I am not even that good looking. I just ask genuinely like myself at my core and they love me. Meanwhile narcissistic American women constantly try to put me through humiliation rituals to break me.

>>75458650
Feeling kinda of paranoid and hopeless at the same time.
A lot on my mind.

>>75460745
>>75461416
Went through with it and got my first treatment today. Looking forward to no longer having tattoos.

Can't sleep. Sunday's meant to be a rest day but I'll do abs and some cardio.
In 2 minds over whether I should be pissed off at this girl who ghosted me. Not like it matters, she's probably in jail awaiting trial for that armed robbery she bragged about.
Shouldn't have pissed me off

>>75463789
Find a used MC-101. Also what is your SoundCloud?

It's been a few weeks since I broke up with my gf
I need to nut
Where tf do I find fast and hot pussy?
I'm pretty good looking and am getting back into shape.
My only issue is that I'm 32 and not looking for anything serious.

I can only have like 1 maybe 2 drinks now or I’ll get headaches that last the rest of the night, should I just stop.

I started lifting recently and have seen some good gains already. Starting from complete skelly mode so really any lifting at all would help. The one thing I'm concerned about is I've been noticing dark blue veins become visible on my palms and sides and tops of my fingers. I've always been very low body fat so maybe this is just muscle from improved grip strength making them visible, but I'm very paranoid. I can't find much info online about this and if it's normal or healthy. Can anyone in the bar comment on how normal this is or share some resources about it?

>>75463129
Go. I went alone last month to a show and still had fun

i don't see the retard question thread so is here good?
i'm mid 30s, DOMS doesn't happen 1 day but 2 days after
what's that mean like is that significant somehow? feels like i heal so fucking slow

>>75464558
>he had a gf
Please shut up.
>>75458650
I was just listening to a dude that is ugly talk about how 10 years ago he creampied an 18 year old japanese girl and knocked her up, of which he decided to not go through it and they got an abortion.
I literally sat down and I just thought about how I cant believe my life isn't even close to that
I have no one to talk to about this but it's seriously hurting me that I am so fucking lonely

>>75464747
you need a real problem like getting beat half to death or something. sat back looking at some other man fucked someone then feeling sorry for yourself, as though any of that had anything to do with you at all

>a "feels bar" thread
>like 30% of the replies are people saying "I fucked a girl and I dont have the energy to talk to her bro!!!"
>I just cant with my girlfriend man I just want to fuck her all the time and she doesnt want to!! this is such a FEELS moment!!
Can you guys all fuck off and die

>>75459324
Nigga you need to get out of that job
I will tell you that I found a job recently where no one cares at all and even if my brain goes dead for 7 hours a day I still feel happy at the end of it
You just have to ride it out until we become enslaved by AI jews and inevitably we start producing children en masse again
You just have to wait out this next 5-10 years

>>75458650
I’ve given up

>>75464770
b-based?

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>>75458764
>inb4 tits
Anon I mean this seriously
Your current woman does not care about what makes you happy
The fact that she has no sexual trauma to explain her behavior cements it
I got sexually abused as a kid and had a lot of bad reactions to normal stuff like touching my feet or whatever
I still wanted to make my hubby happy so I pushed past it and taught myself to get used to it
I initiated oral (he had never gotten it from his previous cluster b harpy wife so immediately recoiled out of shock and we had to go very slow over weeks to get him used to it) because I knew it would make him feel very good and I wanted to make him happy
Sometimes it tastes gross if he doesn't shower but his happiness is important to me so I still do it
Your woman does not consider you
She is not putting you first
She does not care about your feelings
This will continue and extend to other aspects of your lives
I don't advocate for destroying relationships but if you cannot get this through to her with a serious conversation (without her just resenting you for bringing up your needs and wanting her to compromise) then you need to think over the future this is leading you to and if you are willing to tolerate that

>>75464070
>>75464128
>>75464153
I can actually totally understand breaking up with a woman over this. Like you can set the political aspect aside entirely and just the simple fact that the lack of intelligence, ineptness, inability to have genuine discussion and hear the other side out without just deflecting and bitching like it’s a personal insult alone is so fucking unattractive. It sort of breaches a 4th wall and makes you have to wonder if you can even trust her. The behaviors are in line with someone who would cheat and then convince themself it didn’t count somehow and also it was somehow your fault. Like, the ways they act in these political discussions are exactly how a BPD thot acts when she’s caught cheating if that makes sense. No I’m not saying BPD just using that as an example (doesn’t exist anyways just excuse for being shitty person).


As seen with the meltdown. Anyways other reasons I think it’s a sign she ain’t worth it
>can’t think for herself
Buys into whatever media lazily slopped together, which is like an appeal to ANY perceived authority, which essentially just means she’s easily manipulated
>lefty liberal friends
Need I elaborate?
>90% of her stance boils down to abortion
Listen, as men our burden is to suffer and be the first to die in disaster, the ones sent to war in a draft, the last off a ship, etc. Most men naturally understand this without ever being taught. A woman’s burden is to be responsible with her pussy. If she knows she cannot care for a child or she doesn’t want to then she, and this may sound fucking insane so take a seat and get ready, then she needs to not let any shmuck fuck her raw maybe have some standards and morals when it comes to who she has sex with. I know, absurd right? This isn’t even an argument against abortion or in favor for it. It’s just common sense. The other thing is the president has very little ruling or power over abortion laws, but see the first thing I listed

>>75464754
I have tons of experience and it's hiring season and I swear was cooking in the interviews but they've gone radio silence and no other school has gotten back to me yet.

>>75464754
these normoids hve no idea

How do you keep a positive headspace when every person in every environment unleashes their bullshit onto you?

>>75463288
Ah well, it is what it is. Dump her. It's past saving.

>>75463378
>long distance relationship with your asexual gf
So, you have a female pen pal. Nice. What do you do for sex?

>>75463387
>making women understand
You can't. I honestly don't believe their brains work that way. A girl will seduce you with sex multiple times a week, and when she's "won" you will immediately become asexual and gain 30lbs and the thought that this might disappoint you and put the relationship in jeopardy WONT EVEN CROSS HER STUPID MIND. I honestly don't think women even stop to consider this on a conscious level. It's not malicious. It's not planned. It's just that back then she FELT like having sex, but she doesn't FEEL like it now, i dunno why, lol.

If your relationship has got to this point then 9 times out of 10, the energy required to "reset" things and negotiate sex and convince her to give a crap about her appearance, would be better spent finding a new girl and starting a new relationship on the right foot. And when you do, make your needs and expectations clear and explicit. "Anonette, I need you to know I have a high libido. I need sex three times a week. This isn't the 'honeymoon phase' for me, this is 'normal'. I want to be with someone who shares my energy and passion. So, are we a match, or no?"

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>new department
>some of my new colleagues are okay, others are at times overbearing cunts
>praise themselves on "telling it how it is"
>at the same time they get angry the second you tell them to back off on something or correct them on mistakes or shit behavior because we've always done it that way
>they take pride in having done it wrong all the time
>they keep on bringing up politics while having a 3rd grader's understanding of how the world works
>we have 30 and 45yr olds watching tiktok and instagram like they're still in puberty???
>literally half of them are fucking putin fanboys, what the fuck?
>spend my off days worrying about how literally childish, retarded and outright CUNTISH half of the ppl on my new shift are
>lifting is less fun
>vidya is less fun
>eating is less fun

Man I really wonder if I should switch departments or at least pick a different shift.

I’m 27 and have never even kissed a girl

>>75464170
You can tell they're arguing in bad faith when these fringe cases are the core of their argument.

Tell them "OK, you've convinced me. Abortion should be legal only when a doctor has determined the mothers life is in risk. Agreed?" and watch them reeeeeee.

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Just hit 3pl8 bench press, reverse grip.
I felt... nothing. My first 2pl8 was like heaven, but today I hit 3 and it just felt like a dull thud.
Currently going through a bad episode of bipolar disorder, got diagnosed with it last year after I had a really bad episode of it out of nowhere for the first time in my life, and it caused me to lose my job and have to leave the prefecture.
I don't know what to do about it. I have hobbies and a job I love doing, am physically fit, and speak multiple languages, but I'm unhappy and depressive half the time, or unhinged and going through a raging bull phase the other half.
It's starting to really affect me, after my first episode last year I made a serious attempt on my life, and I'm worried I'm hurdling down towards a second attempt as the first anniversary of that draws nearer.
My coworkers all told me they loved me, and in response I flipped out and withdrew, rejecting their friendship, when all I want in the world is to connect with those around me.
I feel like I'm losing the plot.
I'm really scared.

>>75464256
I don't believe Leftist women actually find fat or hairy people attractive either. The whole thing is a power play, seeing who they can influence into saying up is down and black is white.

>>75464558
Hookers. Or fap.

Don't make any big decisions when you're thinking with your dick.

>>75464634
Yes.

>>75465117
If you go through life and everyone else is slways the problem, then actually you're the problem.

Wanna elaborate on what you're saying, give some examples?

>>75465205
Get fucking therapy

>>75463279
>Might want to try stuff like omega 3, Ginseng and other natural methods of helping ED. Are you on anti-depressants/SSRIs
I'm not on any medication, I'll try looking into ginseng.
>If you were not a fan of sexual intimacy, it just might not be a thing you are wired for.
That's what I'm worried about, that I'm just fundamentally disinterested in it compared to the average person and that more or less makes me incompatible to be in a relationship.

>>75465243 meant for >>75463375

>>75458650
Going for a 3 egg breakfast and lots of coffee + vitamin then a couple bananas and peanut butter. I'm trying to cut down where I can but I do 200lb+ bar lifts for reps at least 3x a week and since starting again, I've been getting so god damn hungry.
I hit some new pr's this week, 225lb for 2 max finally and 185 clean and press for reps was sick as fuck. Pretty good week tbdesu

>>75459001
Nothing is gonna happen between you two. I’ve had several work wives they get dopamine hits when they flirt with you. It doesn’t mean anything unless she’s giving you direct signals. Stuff like asking you to hang out. Or constantly texting you outside work. If not then you’re just her plaything that’s gives her free validation.

>>75458764
Does not being able to fuck her in the ass make you feel that bad, lmao? You have two options. Either let the resentment build and become bitter, slowly lashing out at her, until you divorce or some shit. Or tell her what you just told us and go from there.

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You want to know the biggest confirmation we have that the UFO hearing is legit?

It had very little coverage by the mainstream media.

>>75465193
The east is calling

>>75464193
Gay people tend to be sociopaths

>>75464153
Political views is actually one of the best relationship tests. Women tend to take the positions and beliefs of the men they genuinely love and look up to. If she's politically opposed to you and unwilling to shift to your perspective: she's not yours, she's sees the relationship as less than 50/50. A woman who shifts to your political perspective is a woman who submits to you, even ideologically = yours.

>>75464099
Humor maxx now, I'm talking standup tier, become the funniest ballzyiest dgaf mf in a room

>>75463972
>>pining after a girl I hang with/help out IRL who's already in a long distance relationship, worst part is I have several objective reasons why we're not compatible but I still want her anyway because she's the one female I'm attracted to that I hang out with regularly
Are you fucking her? If not, cut that excess attention drain out your life, or push her to meet her friends and then fuck them.

>>75464153
Fact: women want abortions to be easy to access so they have an escape plan if they don't want your kid or the kid of the guy she's fucking behind your back.
>2 years and she doesn't follow you politically?
Sorry brother. Your dick game is weak. And her liberal cunt "friends" will be a nonstop thorn in your side.

You are right to want to end things.

>>75465178
I agree but the thought is alarming or at least never quite say right with me. That women lack a level of consciousness. That they’re almost more like lizards mentally. Thinking only in terms about what directly benefits them whether that’s to be how you described or it’s to virtue signal without even realizing why they’re virtue signaling in the first place. It’s like they lack a depth of thought. Like the way you and I may have an inner monologue, or be able to rotate an apple simple shit like that they just seemingly totally lack. Their entire realm of existence is just
>I WANT
Without even actually considering how it affects others how realistic it is how difficult it may be etc.
The other thing I see a lot with women which I think is a blatantly clear and loud indicator of genuine stupidity is how they self insert into scenarios. You can observe this online in various places for relationship advice, like reddit if you care to expose yourself to that rotting tranny gash of a website, but they do this IRL which is easy enough to witness just interacting with them and I’m sure you already have. They automatically self insert as the female in the situation and no matter if it’s relationship related or what begin their mental gymnastics as to why she’s the good guy. It’s silly.
With my last ex I tested this by flipping roles often and presenting things or boundaries I was setting in reverse.
>okay, look at it this way. Imagine I was going to clubs alone/in contact with my ex, would you genuinely be okay with that
And it all suddenly clicked for her. Granted it wasn’t that easy and she was a little more intelligent than most. But just the fact it has to be that way for them to understand shit correctly is wild. They lack an ability to truly think critically about stuff almost like if an AI were to be made to play fallout, it wouldn’t care about anything but it’s own immediate gain and not understand why half the NPCs hate it

>>75459548
what's ur type

I got cheated on by my narcissistic ex and now it's kind of turned me sour to dating and other women.
I can't help but feel another woman will treat me the same way and discard me to get their ego fed by another man.
I just don't see any light in any other person rn.
How the fuck do I get over this?

>>75465718
All women are like that. Welcome to modernity. Learn to cope by never committing ever again like a real man

I could use some advice as it would help me go to the next level in my improvement. I’m being serious
>food
I need an OMAD that’s easy to prepare. I don’t care about overall quality right now just something I can mostly keep the macros accurate which is filling while being under 2000 calories which sounds simple enough. I’m thinking sandwiches and burritos and wraps. I should be able to prep a weeks worth every Sunday. My idea is foods like that will not be an issue with the next things I mention and be easy enough to then transition into real meals after a few weeks. Like burrito just ditch the tortilla make a stir fry bowl, sandwich just replace bread with rice or potato etc
>poop
One of the reasons I haven’t made drastic changes in diet is I need to be able to shut first thing in the morning. I not only don’t have the time at work but I also refuse to not shit in my own home. It takes me 20-30 minutes to poop. In the mornings even with my current shit diet it takes me a solid 20 minutes to be able to have to go and that’s after caffeine
>quitting caffeine
How do I do this without not being able to poo?

>>75464900
Post feet.

>>75458650
>meet a girl, she's in her mid 20s, I'm in my early 30s
>after the fourth date she wants to go exclusive
>claims to be a virgin, we fool around, but that's it
>girl's hot and dresses like a slut, so shit's off
>she invites me to a party with few of her friends, don't really pay for anything
>they're all nice to me, but she pretty much ignores me, mostly focusing on her besties
>asks me afterwards if I had fun, gave her a non-answer
>go home without really saying goodbye
She acts like she barely has any experience, like she's ashamed of showing me any interest, never had such a nun in bed before too. I feel like I'm being taken advantage of. Fuck this

>>75465781
Listen to your instincts.

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>>75458650
i'm in love with my best friends bf

I haven't really made new friends for years and most days don't talk to anybody at all. I feel like this is actually starting to take a substantial toll on my health. Had 2 people separately ask me if everything was ok after just looking at me. Would like to make some new friends but its really been this way for 8 years or so now.

>>75465857
Just wait for them to break up and you won’t care about him anymore because he’s single

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>>75465857
I was in love with a friends gf in college and when they finally broke up she just fucked a drummer in some band the day after, I told her how I felt and gave up on her, I try not to think about it too much.

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how do you keep hope that it will get better?

>>75466017
i'm 34 holding on to my youthful features and hairline once those are gone, im out

>>75458764
if your bbg is not sucking your dick it is because she is not attracted to you. whatever bullshit she says about it being gross etc is just a lie.

>>75460674
Suckstart a shotgun, but make sure you point it at your brainstem and not just behind your eyes or something.

>>75466017
I don't, I just set lofty goals to achieve everything else is background noise.

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>>75458650
I'm not sure how I should be feeling right now, scared and confused but not fully panicking yet.
I could really go for a milkshake right now.

I'm moving overseas next year in February so that I can 'start a new life', it'll be the first time I moving abroad in my life (permanently anyway).

The main reason is because my family thinks it will be best for me overall and I can probably help my family out when I've settled in with money.
Everyone believes life will be better for me in the country due to better infrastructure and better job opportunities (I know how that sounds but my country isn't getting better any time soon).

I don't know, Any advice for how I can start behaving less like a manchild and learn how to take care of myself?
How can I protect myself so I don't end up worse off than I am in my current country?

If you need any further context I can provide it, sorry for rambling a bit, I haven't been sleeping to well lately.

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>>75466186
White families are destroyed they dont stay together and they hate eachother, black and mexican families will live 20 a house and stay with each other until they all die. I'm not sure leaving your family is a good thing, able bodied males shouldn't flee country of origin to find a better life, if you live in america you should stay with the sinking ship or attempt to fix it, unless you're a filthy communist that loves the idea of america dying and not helping your fellow man. That's how I feel about shit now and I feel my family is more important than my happiness.

>>75465781
Nearly same situation with my last ex. Dressed like a hoe, claimed to only have been with a few guys, nun in bed but of a dead fish claimed basic shit like hair pulling choking and riding were new for her. Had constant feeling I was being played. Listen to your gut man I know in these situations it can be hard to hear it clearly but that’s our 6th sense no different than hearing seeing touch smell and taste. Millions of years of evolution.
Worst case if you are wrong you’re losing a chick who dresses like a whore and takes you to parties to ignore you.
I’m calling it now she’ll tell you she was raped in 2-4 months then tell you she had this ex that ex but claim she never did anything with them and how they stuck around with no physical intimacy.
Listen to your gut. I had constant feelings that it wasn’t what it seemed or what she was trying to portray herself as. Ever since I began trusting my gut and dumped her my life has only gotten better and better and I’ve gotten happier and happier. So many instances where all signs point to she was using me and cheating where it could have only been more clear if I caught her in bed with another guy. I wish I’d dumped her & moved on sooner.


If not for any other reason do it to rid yourself of this anxious feeling. No person is worth that. And a bitch worth your time won’t make you feel those ways.

>>75466017
I went from obese spergy loner to in shape actually attractive guy with some (not genuine) friends and started getting laid. I then got depressed and spent most of my 20s fat and alone again. Just knowing I did it once and by working my ass off again I can do it or something better again is all I need.
And I have goals and plans and I’m now fixing myself again but what I tell myself is I’ll go for a plan B if it all doesn’t work.
Can’t meet a woman I love who’s wife material and start a family? Fine I’ll make money and fuck dumbass 18-25 year olds and just enjoy my freedom or I’ll go sexpatting if that’s really what I want to do.
It is very demoralizing right now seeing other people page 20s with good relationships and having children buying homes while I’m at square 1 again though.

>>75466253
>>75466017
Forgot to say it but as obese spergy loser during HS I was so lonely and envious of everyone who were friends and going to parties and hanging out and dating and how they were planning to go college together. I was past of this massive circle of like 80 friends during middle school and then like cast to the side and avoided once I got fat. It was painful. Then I sort of made my own version of that by fixing myself and trying to make friends in college.
Knowing I did what I thought was impossible, that I changed what I thought fate set in stone for me is how I maintain hope. If I could do that then surely I can do more.


Idk what all I even want now though. Friends? A family of my own? Just to have enough money to fuck college aged thots? None of it really excites me. But I do know if I at least achieve a few bare minimum things that I can make my life less insufferable by a long shot

>>75465857
Gaaaayyyy

>>75466017
Have something you're proud of and at least a semblance of a plan

>>75466204
The black family is the most destroyed thing ever lmao wtf real life isn’t the cosby show

>>75466424
other than fatherlessness they all stay together guy. White people kick their kids out at 18, black grandmothers will accept 12 kids into her house.

>>75458650
Water for me bros. I am a little tired but this week will be shit week for me. This week in 2017 my fiance was killed in a car accident and the anniversary is soon. I have come a long way since then but still have work to do.

After she died I went through a deep depression and alcohol abuse. I got to a bottle of whiskey a day sort of drunk. In 2019 I got clean, relapsed once in 2020 on the anniversary of her death and will hit four years sober tomorrow.

After I got clean I changed jobs and at 35 I went back to school and I am on scholarship getting my masters from an Ivy. I am slated to get a job that pays about 150k in May but really haven't dated anyone since she died... I am kind of worried about the dating pool and I know I should drop some weight (I am 5 10 245 lbs right now). My last semester is easy classes and with a job lined up i can focus on that so I started lurking again. It gets better bros but the past still exists.

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>>75458650
So I've noticed that that fitter I get, the more mires I get.... from uggos and fatties. I appreciate it but on the flipside I've noticed that roasties treat my significantly worse. I can go into a store just to by a Monster Zero and get out and get the cuntiest behavior from some bitch who looks like she was the town bike 10+ years ago. And they're always white (Yes I'm white too). Black girls openly flirt with me and I've had a few push to try and date me right then and there.
Though I will say that once you pick up on cunt behavior from women it becomes easy to identify
>coughs whenever you are around and clearly not sick
>make passive remarks to your current situation with a clear suggestion of what to do
It's beginning to become easier and easier to abandon normie life altogether and just embrace being a /fit/ sperg.

>>75466019
This, once my hairline goes I'm getting the rope.

>>75466599
Confront your past and then ask if you want to date. You clearly still have feelings for her and it seems that you are trying to fill the hole in your heart by filling the hole of some hoe. Therapy? Shrooms? Deal with it? IDK, up for you to decide.

What are you doing that's netting you $150k?

>>75466624
Director of Operations, nice benefits and some stock options. It will also be in Tennessee so no state income tax

>>75466643
Very nice. What are you operating?

>>75466602
I think it's your area dude.
My /fittening/ netted me even social gains with all women.

>>75466719
>midwest
I can see it. Sour grapes.

>>75466704
Non emergency medical transportation. Basically an ambulance ride costs 2 to 3 grand pur rides cost 200 to 300 so it is a growing field.

>>75466499
You're living in some Netflix mega-cope version of reality

>>75466599
It's time to move on anon. It's been 7 years. She wouldn't want you to be mooching around depressed after all this time

>>75466752
I know. Working on it. Bumble kind of sucks though

>>75466738
Did you need a degree for that?

>>75466799
Yes and no. No if you work with the company for 10 years and rise up through luck. Yes if you are pivoting industries and since I am only paying living expenses up here in the North East it wasn't a bad decision.

>>75466643
>>75466738
That’s insane. I was an EMT in medic school wanting to go fire and gave it up for a few issues but just as an EMT doing IFT they wanted to pay me $10 an hour. Even if it’s mostly stable non emergency patients it’s bullshit. The way they twisted it was it’s technically $15 (still dog shit, that’s actual min wage where I am) because they 100% were going to overwork you and make you work 18 hours then come in 6 hours later to do another 18 hours. Not exaggerating on that. For all of what worked out to be under $50k it ain’t worth it. My life was work, drive home, sleep, drive to work, repeat. No days off. Soul crushing bullshit. The manager was so grouchy I had to assume that cunt was also underpaid but now I think otherwise
>>75466738
Oh you guys do something different I guess? Sounds sketchy ngl but if you’re putting IFT ambulance companies out of business and paying people appropriately then good luck

>>75458650
I can't get enough motivation or discipline or whatever to do anything other than work (cause I need money to pay rent) and go to the gym.
I moved to a new place a month and a hafl ago and there's still boxes everywhere, the living room is unusable, I haven't cooked a single meal yet cause the kitchen is a mess.
How the fuck do people have energy to do things?

>>75467081
Main clientele is 70 to 80 year old in wheelchairs with oxygen, some light bariatrics (500 lbs and below) and they are usually going to medical appointments. It has been an industry for a while and non sketchy

>>75466738
>comparing an emergency ambulance ride to your "act as 90 year olds and obese disgusting scums chaperones to their medical appointments to prolong their horrible lives" service

>>75467106
I have the same feeling, I have no idea how people get the motivation to study and go back to school. I tried doing like free online math classes to try to refresh myself on highschool math but fizzled out after a month. Its so hard trying to relearn shit you learned when you were 14 when you're now 34 without all that "I'm ahead of the curve, I have a bright future, my whole life ahead of me" optimism you had as a teen.

>>75467128
Jesus christ anon are you me? I was a "gifted student", went to the national math olympics a couple times, now at 32 I can't divide by 2 digit numbers without a calculator.
I feel like my brain is mush, something happened and now I'm this kind of zombie who works and sleeps like shit and doesn't have any real hobbies, I don't even know what I like.

>>75467127
The alternative is to send those guys by ambulance and charge it to the government

>>75467128
>I have the same feeling, I have no idea how people get the motivation to study and go back to school. Its so hard trying to relearn shit you learned when you were 14 when you're now 34 without all that "I'm ahead of the curve, I have a bright future, my whole life ahead of me" optimism you had as a teen.

I know exactly what you mean. People who have a reason to actually improve their lives (for their spouse, children, goals for the future, etc) and actually have self-confidence in themselves, I can see how they get the motivation to do it. But I'm 32 and a complete loser, and at least work-wise, the only way to get any sort of decent job/career would be to go back to school. But I was an excellent student growing up and still had no motivation for a career or degree. I went to college right after years of studying and did not do well. I've wasted a decade of my life doing worthless shit, lost the best years of my life to waste and rot, having no interests and hating everything about life. Somehow, after all this, I'm supposed to just get this motivation and self-confidence after being a loser for my entire life to go back to school and that I'll succeed there. It's over.

>>75467150
You're practically a carbon copy of me even down to the age. But probably not as big of a loser as I am.

>>75467128
>>75467106
I’ve been struggling just to take care of myself on a bare minimum basic level. Stick to a basic routine of wake sleep eat exercise. I finally got a job and that’s helping me have some routine, as well as has fixed my sleep and gotten me in the habit of OMAD. But as far as more, like exercising consistently again, taking some classes idk. I tried to take classes here and there and I’ve lost all ability to buckle down and study. I can’t even focus in a classroom anymore.
I used to just show up and take some half assed notes, maybe ask a question if I was lost and boom I would pass tests barely even going over my notes. At most doing homework and referring to my notes as my only studying. Now I can’t even sit down and read more than 3 pages of any book and I don’t retain any of it. It seems beyond just my attention span being shot, I seem to have lost my ability to be present and focus.
I had a period of really bad anxiety which added to this, I’d basicllay see myself in any room from almost a 3rd person perspective just overly aware of myself and everyone around me. I’ve gotten over a lot of that. But all the other issues are mostly there


For fucks sake todays my day off and my to do list I’ve been working on the last 3 days is
>laundry
Still not done
>walk
Done
>clean room
Not done barley started
>wash car
Done, did it in a fit of rage over bird shit though
>clean bathroom
Not done, haven’t gotten it done in like a year at this point aside from a monthly post cleaning which doesn’t do much
>Buy new shoes
Not done
>build organizer thing I bought
Taken out of box 2 weeks ago and not touched since


I used to be so damn productive and it wasn’t even something I learned, I quite literally went from how I am now to on top of it all just always being productive never being lazy, super focused. And then 5 years later lost all of this. Idk how to back into it. I was unironcially as close to happy as I’ve ever been back then

>>75467150
Also meant to say same shit. I was never exactly a genius but always ahead did my peers. Wasn’t in gifted classes but I intentionally scored C’s throughout middle and highschool. Enough to pass, but not so much I ever had to spend too much time on it. Only in 11th grade when I decided to try did I get As and even then trying was just actually taking notes and paying attention in school, actually doing my work. I struggled at times because I made it to 11th grade barely knowing how to do basic shit like long division, but that was always stuff I’d teach myself to compensate and it was never a problem. Now almost 30 I tried to take a refresher course I paid for that takes you from 1st grade level to college level math and I struggled at like 9TH grade level and then stopped completely around there. Idk wtf is wrong with me. It’s like my brain has totally gone to shit and never got to truly shine as much as I know it could have had I ever truly and genuinely applied myself. I feel like I’m the king of half assing it, the king of just barely getting by, always pulling through just barely at the very last minute…

>still live with parents in 30s because I'm a loser
>they are both gone through Thursday so I will be home alone for 4 nights
>excited to be alone
>then realize how it's even more pathetic to be "excited" to be home alone when normal people my age have either been alone in their apartment/home or with their gf/spouse/children for a decade by this point

maybe ill kill myself this week.

>>75467306
I’m having the same problem but I’m 29. I only feel at ease when I’m alone. The thing is, barely anyone my age who lives alone genuinely did it by themself. It was either parents pay their bills and rent, or they married or dated a dude (read: is a woman/hoe) who either is older or had his parents finance his life, OR they have roommates which only solves about 50% of the issue. It’s super demoralizing. I’m trying to go into the military to work for zog purely so I can
>get my savings up
>get the benefits
So that I can get my own place. Even if I immediately activate the GI bill so I have my housing paid for for my first 3 years out fine. If I do that I’ll be mid 30s by the time I have my own place. If I don’t I may be late 30s at best unless I get super lucky. You gotta formulate a plan man. For instance I’ve accepted I can’t stay in my home state. That’s just how it is. I can’t leave it because need savings, need to be able to guarantee a job lined up, etc. But I know I’m for sure not gonna “make it” here. Not gonna find a wife here, not gonna buy a house here etc. if I’m lucky I’ll just barley be able to afford a crappy one bed here

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>>75466007
Damn, how did she react after you told her? Sorry Anon that thing happened to you. I hope you'll find somebody who'll love and appreciate you.

Yeah, most of the days I'm cool because I know we are no good match and it gives me a sense of peace. But sometimes my dumb brain likes to insert some fantasies about him and then, for a short time, I spiral into daydreaming about relationship and this can be kinda frustrating.

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>>75465178
>I honestly don't believe their brains work that way
fuck.you got me on this one
the thing is we both are our first lovers,she clearly loves me enough,says she cant even imagine a a future life without me,will wait for me no matter what .but right now we are in a long distance and somedays i keep thinking of how she did me wrong in the past because she mightve been a bit immature and doesn't really acknowledge what she did cause its just like what you said they dont sit for a moment to think on a conscious level somehow

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>>75466317
like all of us here

>>75465484
You realize that relationships are about more than just sex right
I've been on this board long enough to know thats a futile question but still

>>75467447
Anon wake up and smell the roses.
>all of what you said before
>first love (she’s told the last 2 guys this)
>long distance

>>75467505
> last 2 guys
we go back to middle school anon so i know her ins and out she was a khhv virgin when we fell in love

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I'm thinking of sending roses to a girl i met irl from /lgbt/ is it too straight forward?

>>75467515
Bitches ain't shit, bro. you have been warned.

>>75467637
i know that anon i tell myself that everyday but coming to my room after a hard day and craving some warmth besides the heater is what makes me thinking about this

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>>75458650
>mentally stable, physically unfit
>mentally unstable, fittest I've ever been

Why is it so hard to have both?

i bought some airpods max a couple days ago haven't even opened the box idk why too lazy i guess

>>75458650
Day 9 nofap I’m starting to lose it. I want to have sex. I want that random unexpected sex where everything just lines up and a chicks interested for no real reason

>>75467885
i just fapped after a week. now i'm feeling nice and relaxed. hopefully get some productive work done. too bad i gooned all day first, but it's the weekend. you're supposed to relax.

>>75467287
>taking notes
>gifted
Lmao I got 100% on every test even though I failed every class because I refused to do a lick of homework and skipped like 80% of school days before I dropped out after 11th grade. I actually was in gifted classes, and the really smart chick wanted me when I dabbed on the rest of latin class by getting a magna cum laude on some national latin exam. I cuddled with her watching the soshi olympics but she was a devout catholic waiting for marriage so I didn’t pursue her. Shame because she was the only attractive girl who ever liked me and now I am a 28 year old incel delivering pizzas. Sometimes I wonder if she could have fixed me.

>>75467920
>i'm so smart i ruined my life!
wow u truly owned the kids who took notes

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I am 34 and have lived on my own without roommates or family for 4 years, have a car, and have never been in a long term relationship. My older sister will turn 40 this year, has three kids, and if she's not in a shelter, she's living with my mother and she has for about 7 years. I've held a job for longer than my sister has worked her whole life. I was henpecked in that house and mogged by my sister's bfs, but somehow, I'm a lot more successful than her. My mother is miserable, my sister and those kids don't respect her. I've drunkenly told my mother that this is the future she chose multiple times. I hate this, I still love my mother even though she enabled my sister's bullshit back then, but I'm tired, I can't start a healthy family of my own to stick it to them. The only reason why my sister works is because I drunkenly called her a loser and her kids overheard it. I roon and lift with a few friends. If not for rooning and cycling, I'd be miserable. I don't want to be fat like them. I want to be strong enough to fuck up the kind of men my sister's bfs were. Why couldn't I have been born in a normal nuclear family? I'm tired.

>>75467701
No memes: learn to be happy with yourself. If you can't stand being alone there is a character defect you do not like about yourself.

>>75464182
>>75464187
>manlet stays in the pit
>chooses to help others in the pit
Based.

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i have severe financial anxiety to the point where i have six figures in savings but i'm scared to spend $2k on upgrading my 15 year old computer.

>>75468906
>in savings
You could be making major gains if you invested it, but congrats on creating a fragile nest egg that literally sits there doing nothing all day.

>Earlier this year, both my kids were diagnosed with a rare genetic condition requiring lifelong treatment.
>A few weeks ago, my wife woke up this morning and decided she didn't love me anymore.
I need something good in my life rn.

>>75468912
>>A few weeks ago, my wife woke up this morning and decided she didn't love me anymore.
Your wife is a cunt of the highest magnitude, I'm so sorry anon. She doesn't want to be bothered making the relationship work and take care of the kids so she just wants to run away.

>>75458650
It's my birthday AND I'm sick fuuuuccckkk

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>>75465712
Ignoring physical attributes, it’s essentially a sporty tomboy who actually has hobbies and a personality. I’ve been on dates with girls who were sporty tomboys, but they were so damn stupid and it was impossible to talk to them about anything interesting. I’ve been on dates with girls with hobbies and a personality, but they were huge pussies and afraid of even mild banter or doing anything new and exciting (they’re usually fat too but again, speaking only of personality here).

I’ve only ever known one girl who fit both personalities perfectly to my desires but she never gave a damn about me and hates me now. I haven’t spoken to her in years and every girl I’ve dated since then has just been to fill a void.

>>75469107
And for the record when I speak of sporty tomboys I don’t mean the internet-autist image of a pixie cut Casca rip-off that everyone circlejerks over, I just mean a girl who actually does SOMETHING athletic and goes outside.

>>75465718
As a woman who survived a decades long abusive relationship it’s not easy. A lot of it was learning to trust my ability to filter out anything resembling that cursed relationship. It took me about 3 years to really trust myself to start dating again.

Learn to be ok with yourself again.

>>75465450
Oh so I have it wrong and should look for a lesbian wife?

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Looked in the mirror recently and realised I have an amazing upper body (arms, chest, shoulders etc), no homo, then realised I have a fucking borderline pot belly from the years of excessive drinking
I gotta work this shit down anons, any tips would be great
I've tried quitting in the past plenty of times but kept relapsing

>>75463279
> I don't jerk off or watch porn (happens maybe once every other month if I'm hungover after a night of drinking)
Man what's with that? I usually avoid porn but the moment I'm hungover I'm fucking off popping jizz off to degenerate shit kek

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>>75463374
lmao, I've been there and im not doing any better but it's pretty funny reading this, thanks for the kek and hang in there, bro

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One of my friend is ticking me off with how he is. I don't know how to describe it but it's like he tends to know everyone's secret because of his social nature but there's nothing you can know about him or tells you. We were drinking and he kept egging me to tell me about the shit that's been happening in my life, especially with girls, and I told him to start with his side first. He proceeded to drop the topic and change the conversation with something else.
Anyway, I'm just giving you all a heads up to be careful with people like him. They're incredibly social, very fun but there's always a catch to it.

>>75469444
Real. I am this guy. I like to collect intel on people.

>>75469484
Well I hope you at least share something about yourself also instead of being an intel hoarder like my friend.

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>>75466017
> finally get my life better
> economy goes down the shitter and can't afford housing anymore
> but at least I have a wife
I dunno man I just keep telling myself to keep pushing, I'm passionate about my job and it's the kind of work I can do multiple jobs with (developer)
It's going to be draining it that's just the kind of fucked up world I'm in
Maybe one day I will be given some rest

>>75468906
Sounds like you were raised to feel guilty about ever spending money on yourselves and had saving drilled into you by parents

>>75458650
I kept remaking Tinder account every two weeks or so to take advantage of the noob boost but I let my current account run for like few months and the results were much better. Granted, I;ve put a bit better photos, but they're still mid selfies

>>75469344
I think your brain is depleted after a night of drinking so you're just looking for quick and easy dopamine to feel human again

>finally got a girlfriend recently
>she's probably going to break up with me when we meet in a few hours
Not super upset since things didn't work out and the timing was bad. But what pisses me off is that instead of talking about how things just didn't work out for reasons out of anyone's control, she completely shifted her behavior towards me one day and continuously incites things to get irrated by. It's blatantly obvious she just wanted to creative a narrative for herself where I behave incorrectly and she has a tangible reason do dump me.
Unironically the more time I spend with women the more of an incel I become. Most of the
>women
memes are true. They are all children allergic to responsibility..

>>75470280
I didn’t even become an incel until I lost my virginity, that was my incel awakening 8 years ago

>>75470706
This is me too, ironically losing my virginity and getting in a relationship with a woman exacerbated my incel thoughts if anything

>>75459324
Update: came into work relaxed and chilled out ready to work. 3 fucking hours in and I get told the 3 Stooges are going to try and save 2 more big name, big money clients and, as I suspect, they will fail. I now have lost all motivation for the week. Please God let this Wednesday interview work out.

>>75467732
It’s the stress dood

I just wanted to let everyone in this thread know that you're my bros. We're all gonna make it.

>>75470943
Digits and it is confirmed.

>>75471073
>>75470943
Digits and only i make it.

>>75471087
Digits and everyone else except me makes it.

>>75470943
>>75471073
>>75471087
>>75471093
Digits and nobody makes it

>>75471103
Digits and I make it :3

>>75471115
Nah migraine, I make it.

>>75471116
Last rolls

>>75468128
Leave them now or not make your own family.

>>75466007
She seems like a hot whore

I wanna make it bros

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>>75466017
I actually do shit that makes things better.

>>75471391
How I pushed past my last PR attempt. In either gonna lift this, or im literally going to die without a spot, and managed to get 2 reps before I actually almost died from being bench crushed.
What a rush

>>75471332
How bout now?

>>75471463
N now?

>>75471474
Last 1. This is ridiculous.

>>75471482
>1488 get

>>75468204
ok how i be happy with jerking myself off??i want to get some pussy

>>75469397
its hard to hang, really tough out here anon and i thought i was getting some pussy

>>75471413
Good willpower, but is a dumb way to risk an injury anon.

>>75471391
Based.