>got /fit/>female cashiers now "accidentally" brushing their fingers against mine Am I schizophrenic?
>>75467354Yes, we are.
>>75467354Once or on multiple occasions?
It is indeed incredible what the simplest of looks, words or brushes can do to a guy that is down bad and needs a woman. Like the archetypal school shooter who writes in their manifesto a few chapters about one girl and she struggles to remember who he was.
>>75467354Yes, but that is irrelevant to your question. Make prolonged eye contact with them and see how they react to know if it's intentional.
>>75467354how do you fellas always have women you arent dating touching you? i have never had it happen ever and im good looking and fit
>>75467530Because you are short
>>75467517Will they stare at me or something?>>75467488What nonsense is this? You projecting, fag?
>>75467540im on the taller side
>>75467540i'm 5'8that's not short
>>75467354Maybe it was an accident. Before they were actively avoiding touching you like a leper. Now you have ascended to not disgusting (well done)
>>75467463>kill myself with a glockNot a worthy firearm.
>>75467648I would believe this if it wasn't so frequent now and is usually the prettier girls aka the ones who get the most male attention?
>>75467354Idk, I pay with my phone
>>75467517What if you look up, she's looking at you (Could have just glanced, means nothing so far), you look her in the eye and smile as you walk by, she stares at you the whole time but doesn't smile back. About 3-4 seconds.
>>75467547lol
>>75467530i recently had a girl(cute asian)(not an employee)(random girl near me) touch my face meticulously and smile a bit after i asked in wonder what my skin type would befuck i shouldve asked for her number or continued
>>75467488Checked and very much something I need to tell myself on the regular. I can imagine "she wants to fuck me" but immediately wonder "why does she want to fuck me"? Alone? Without touch? Yes. Oh well. Such is life.
>>75467657i mean its not that kel tec shotgun man himself used
>>75467354Lol this reminds me of a time when a girl was biting her bottom lip and looking at me for almost half a minute while she was on a date with her boyfriend. The boyfriend became completely panicked, and the girl "woke up" after he kept calling her and grabbing her hand. She then laughed when she saw him in that state
>>75467354Yes. Now live it.
>>75467354kek, I am aware of this phenomenon. It just makes me want to get /fit/er and see what the next stage is
>>75467488A simple glance up over my way while im working out is enough to make me feel pretty good for the rest of that day.
>>75468798>Can't tell dreams from realityLifts for this feel?
>>75467354This is what self checkout was made for, to avoid attention from females.
>>754678755'8" bros...
>>75467354Yes, that's your self confidence boost.It's a great thing, just don't get too cocky unless you want to become an internet meme personality, nobody likes an egotistical faggot IRL.
>>75468798Tagged meme Pic lol get fucked. I'll remember to shop that out before I repost. Maybe I'll fix his shitty formatting too.
>>75467488>woah bro you tryna fuck women that notice you, you must be down bad just ignore women like I do and I get tons of pussy no I don’t have social media just believe me bro she goes to a do school YOU WOULDN’T KNOW HER ANYWAY
>>75467354It’s intentional.Much like the disgusting paneers at the gas station towards any woman
>things dyels say to cope with life>bro I'm 6feet (179cm)
>>75467867Be careful, she might try and take your virginal essence. But seriously she wants you bad if she looks at you that long, I can usually tell which girls/women are attracted to me even with a quick glance and eye contact
>>75467488Whether or not OP has a reaction like you describe to it, doesn't change the fact that he has a point. Women absolutely do make an active effort to touch and brush their hands or bodies against males that they like.
>>75467354For me it was the opposite. Now that im fit, women treat me way worse.>inb4 youre shortYes, im short and i only attract trash women. Im full blow misogynistic schizo at this point. So sick of this feminist/communist/leftist/manhating era.It wasnt this way 5 years ago
I went to a drive through and I purposefully made a point to stick my hand on the far back of the card to make sure she couldn't touch my fingers and the cashier girl still grabbed the card and caressed my fingertips. It always happens. Girls suddenly have to bend over to pick something up while I'm looking at them. Or they play with their hair and look down. Literally had a nurse rest her tits on my arm while she was checking my blood pressure. Another nurse had me take off my shirt for an ekg and watched me take my shirt off. Usually they step out of the room and let you undress in peace. Then when she was putting the stickers on my body, she literally scuffed my chest hair and made a comment about how she "likes the fluff" Then the main doctor, she asked if I wanted her to check my prostate. I asked if it was necessary and she said no, but at my age it's good to check it. Told her no. I think she just wanted to finger my butt
>>75470168Breaking news Women like menMore at 4 with chet youbetcha
>>75470948>made a comment about how she "likes the fluff"Anon you coulda fucked her
>>75467354>Am I schizophrenic?no. women typically do subtle or passive things to indicate their interest - obv. with their eyes, or playing with their hair, but sometimes through light physical contact.that said, over the past two years i have noticed an uptick in aggressive flirtation from women, where before 90% of the time they would do that quiet passive shit to signal interest but you'd have to make the first open move, and the other 10% they'd talk to you first but they'd still be kind of coy about it. i've had strong, direct physical contact initiated by women that would have never happened before - two examples being a woman who followed me into an elevator and tried to pull me off at her floor, and a woman who physically turned me around at a bar to talk to her (my friends saw her hovering behind me for a few minutes and when i didn't notice because i don't have eyes in the back of my head, she made a pretty aggressive move in turning me to face her. i have found out retroactively on a number of occasions that there was a girl hovering behind me who gave up because i simply didn't turn around so this was actually kind of startling).i actually think this has less to do with me and more to do with the general realization that dating apps are shit and some women may be trying to draw out engagement from men their attracted to IRL because men have long since stopped approaching women in public for various reasons. this is just a theory, but i don't have a better idea of why this keeps happening to me. i'll be interested in seeing if this sort of behavior starts becoming more commonplace.
>>75471289>over the past two years i have noticed an uptick in aggressive flirtation from womenSame here. It's pretty hot.
>>75471717good to know that its not just me, thoughts on why its happened to you?but yes. its extremely hot. there is nothing like a woman who wants you and decides that nothing is going to stop her.
>75471289It's the estrogen in the water.When women get excess of it they become more aggressive and lose thought like niggers do but unlike them they have a higher iq so they become cartel like Jin thought.
>>75471983i'll add that to my list of possible explanations. i haven't thought of that, but, i do know chemical pollution from women flushing their birth control has been an issue for a while now. i swear i remember hearing about that circa 2008-2010ish.
>>75471983>>75472026You guys don't pay attention enough to the changing world. It's becoming more common because it's more accepted for women to own their own pleasure and lifestyle.
>>75467354Had a short black girl who was bagging groceries for me rub her fingers on my hand when she gave me my groceries. She waved and said by cutie but I was too autistic to say anything. Her skin was so soft it gave me a chub when she did that.
>>75472153>by cutieLucky
>>75467875too real, it's only funny when it's 6' vs 5'11"
Women are attracted to me now for the first time in my life and I'm getting a reasonable amount of female attention, but I'm married and don't want to betray my wife's loyalty because she loved me when nobody else did. It's very frustrating.
>>75475487anon is that cunny in the background
I get literally zero attention since I turned 32, the only girls I have access to is 3 girls that I used to date and they are down, girls don’t even turn their heads anymore and got rejected two days ago>inb4 do something I’m already cutting weight so my face gets leaner im eating 1800 for almost 3 weeks now and lift x3 per week. I trimmed my beard aswell since some of you guys told me.
>>75475499And here I am in 2022 when I had way more success with girls. Haircut can’t be that much of a deal, some prefer mid length hair some girls short. Maybe I had more confidence back then because I had a hot gf?
>>75475499Cut your fucking hair. You look like a hippy gamer nerd. I can tell you can't dress for shit. Absolutely unflattering picture. Literal 3/10. Nothing about you says "this is the man I want to let inside me and fill me with sperm"
>>75467488It's not one sided as you think women just know how to hide it better
>>75475518What haircut should I get?
>>75475518>>75475510So this was better?
>>75467477Half of a one time
>>75475518I can tell you think that about lots of men you see
>>75475660From what I can see. Yes. But if you want a proper haircut that will attract women this haircut is your go to>long on the top>short on the sidesThen learn how to dress>>75475967Only if they ask for fashion advice
>>75467488I remember back in 09. My hs gf and I had broken up for about 4 months at this point and a girl made eye contact and smiled at me. Honestly may have kept me off the ledge.
>>75470164>But seriously she wants you bad if she looks at you that long>Couple weeks pass, see her a few times, don't do more than glance at her and her the same I think. >I'm set up at the rack, she saunters by, I grin, she actually smiles at me, I do too.>starts doing glute shit 5 feet in front of me, as they do, looking at me reg.u.lar.ly.>does some lie down shit, we're staring at each other and she smiles really big, so do I ofc. It's borderline comedy the weird position she was in.>I write my number down for next time, say text if you want>next time is next day, give it to her>5 hours pass, nothing>mfw
>>75477019You're supposed to ask for her number, not give her yours.
>>75477050lol if that was the dealbreaker i can live with it.
>>75477064anon you are retarded. It's not a dealbreaker for women like, "Eew he's 5'7", never." It is a dealbreaker for women in that they will be too terrified to call and risk social rejection. Plus women want a guy to want them and pursue them. Most of them feel off if they are doing the pursuing.
>>75475993Why does that lesbian woman have a beard?
>>75467354Being fit helps, but the single thing you need to do to get women interested in you, is getting a gf. It’s so weird, as soon as you’re taken they just smell it or, dunno, and want some of that too. Second option is (small) kids.
>>75477903I worded the short note to avoid indecision, so if it's really the issue it just wasn't meant to be. Hot though.
>>75475518If that's a 3/10 to you you clearly haven't been out in public
>>75467354let this thread diei dont want to keep seeing this b itch
>>75467354yes you are schizophrenic. autists on fit do this shit all the time, you improve yourself a little bit or even just do some retarded shit like nofap and you start thinking that every woman is eyefucking you and wants to fuck you every time you pass by one. before you got fit cashiers hands brushed against you too, you just didnt notice. now youre fit and got narcissistic, so you think a girls hand brushing against you means shes trying to hold your hand or wants to fuck you.
>>75475489seek help
>>75475518most ppl on this board are retarded, but you...are spot on. >>75475499U look like a fag, cut ur hair and dress better.
you guys need to realize that these 'tells' aren't always accurate and you need to consistently 'test the waters' if you really know if the girl likes you.
>>75478368>consistently 'test the waters'Explain please
>>75478375be flirty, hell you can even be corny. but DON'T be apologetic about it. their reaction after what you say/do should be how you gauge where to go from there next. a bit of push and pull.
>>75478368If you have enough charisma and confidence a woman will like you after talking to her.
>>75467547>>75467543hello short kangs
>>75478406yes and that comes with practice, which i'm trying to say as well. charisma and confidence isn't inherent, you can learn it.
>>75478413>short>fat>balding3 strikes
>>75467867If they are secretly autistic, disregard the blank face.
>>75475993How about using a picture of a real human to make your point?
>>75478278Nigga most people are coordinated to not brush the fingers. Also depending on area it’s actually a common flirt technique at least with Latinas. >t. Latina woman who uses touch to establish DTF vibes.Post cock first
>>75475518>>75478363You just know that these guys are bald and trying to get anon cut his hair. Longer hair looks better and that’s a fact
>>75475499Is that some greying? You may want to dye it. I think your length is fine desu but it comes off as very dry and brittle within this pic. Do you use conditioner? Also you may want to do some moisturizer but it could be the texture of your hair making me think your skin is dry. You may be a bit too passive/insecure. I think you’re fairly handsome at least compared to Midwest standards.
>>75478542Well I’m 32 but desu I haven’t noticed any greying. Anyway I have an appointment on the barber this afternoon so I’m going back to short hair as most anons recommended.
>>75478488Please don't touch me, gobu.
>>75478488>t. Latina woman who uses touch to establish DTF vibes.What do you like to do?>>75478557Stop posting ugly shit, thanks
>>75478566Finding a reason to touch a man is to establish connection. Depending on where it’s happening it can manifest in different ways. If I’m working brushing fingers is the most I can possibly get away with but I like to combine it with a toothy grin with a small lip bite.
>>75478572I was working with a model last week and while we were waiting for the scene to start she grabbed with both her arms my forearms. What does this mean? She wasn’t into me because she is engaged
>>75478587It means she suspects you are gay so feels safe enough around you to touch you and isn't threatened by your sexuality.
>>75478621based take
>>75478422Indeed, also you need to train yourself out of approaching anxiety, it gets better over time
>>75468818Affirmations, but not the usual self-help crap. Tell yourself only the most wrong and batshit things. >What happens?You learn to argue FOR the obviously nonsensical, liberating you from the constraints of perception which gives you a false reality. We all experience the false reality: the modern scientific method is based on that premise, and tries to control for it as an externality when investigating questions. >The benefits?You develop the ability to instinctively know when normal people are lying to themselves, to alter their false reality to fit with what they want to believe. You know it's happening because you practice it yourself willingly and are already a few steps ahead.
>>75478587>wasn't into me>because she is engaged . . .
>>75478572I knew it. Next time if she's cute enough I'm gonna ask her number if it's that blatantly
>>75475993>>75475518>>75478363Bros, we are so fucking back
>>75479574>stretched out misshapen pleb shirt >poor person economy vehicle Ahh, you talk like a fag, and your shit's all retarded.
>>75479695>poor person economy vehicleits a golf gti faggot, try again
