Ive been going to the same gym for 3 years and in all that time none of the beautiful girls has ever talked to me
>>75470740Same vro. We are so cooked. One girl made eye contact with me then she put her pump cover back on
>>75470740>>75470860does your gym have a yoga room? does it have ho hours?this used to happen at my gym>go into yoga room when no one is in there>do pushups, squats, etc>ho comes in>puts mat down right where i am>basically forces me to look at her doing stretches in the middle of a workoutit happened to me a few times and i think it was one of those deals where being a sperg paid off. i always ignored them and doubled down on finishing my routine. if you're at the weights all the time you might not get a lot of women your way. go their way and you'll probably get a lot of openers.. especially if it's old lady hours
one talked to me once, and i spilled spaghetti i didn't even know i was carrying.
>>75470740You're the man. You're supposed to talk to them.
>>75470997Yeah but women have to drop some sort of hint or indication of interest first.If you just approach random women who are minding their own business, you'll fail 99% of the time
>>75470740And how many have you talked to those last 3 years, frog boy?
>>75471027i'm giving you a mission, anon>start 1 conversation with a girl at your gymjust come up with a dumb reason to talk to her after she's done a set and see if you can make her laugh. don't specifically aim to get her number, or have her be your next wife. if she's a regular, you'll cross paths again. aim for nothing but to have some fun and test your courage. maybe you'll make friends with women who can introduce you to their single friends
>>75471027Ok, a 1% chance of success(probably more like 5-10% but ok) means that if you approach 10 women a week for 3 months, you have a >70% chance of success. If we use 5%, that means a 99.8% chance. I understand most of you are socially inept autists who can’t get out of your own heads(myself included), but statistically your odds are actually pretty good if you have the patience and security to not rope after 20 rejections from women you don’t even care about. If you can’t handle that much, I’m sure the gay guys are more than happy to approach you.
>>75471027They do all the time. Most guys are either too stupid or pussy to act on it>she looked my way then played with her hairOh maybe her hair was in her eyes. Doesn't mean she liked me>she came to me to ask if I'm using this equipment, but the equipment was clearly empty and unusedShe was just being courteous. Maybe I looked like I was using it>she shows up to the gym the same time I do and looks at me when I walk inDoor must of got her attention. No way she would ever check to make sure I'm there Grow some balls and ask her out
>>75471027You're too autistic to notice
>>75471027yea they're not interested. They all have 100+ chads on-demand on dating apps. Why would they go for an average guy
>go to gym by college campus>beautiful zoomettes all the time>not one ever shows the slightest bit of interest in me, woe is me boo hoo>finally one day notice a cute chubby girl whose eye I keep catching>every time I look at her she is staring at me then quickly looks away>no idea what to do, don't approach her or even get close to herIt was then that I realized I'm just waiting for something to happen and have no idea what I would do if it does. I gotta work on social skills before I start worrying about why women aren't giving me obvious signs.
>>75471567Why do you want to talk with a fatty?
>>75471027>>75471247Blue pilled retard
>>75471027staring at someone and standing around them isn't a hint
>>75471583Because they will worship me like a god
>>75471111>maybe you'll make friends with women who can introduce you to their single friendssurely you're joking and you don't actually think women do this, right?
>>75471606Most young women today are pathologically whores. They do often have insane standards because of social media but it’s not as bad as dating apps make it seem. The reason dating apps are awful is that the only thing women consistently absorb about you is your face. When you physically talk to them they get 10x that. If you’ve been hitting the gym and taking care of yourself consistently for years, you are instantly better than 80-85% of men, more if you have halfway decent genetics.>BUT I HAVE A BAD FACEGrow a beard and buy an apricot scrub, retard.>BUT IM 5’X”You can make up for a lot of that if you’re jacked and confident. If you’re cold approaching women regularly, you will very quickly find what works and what doesn’t, and each rejection will matter less. Worst case scenario, a woman you don’t know or care about gets the ick, laughs at you, and posts a TikTok titled “why are men?” or some shit. Yes, you have to work twice as hard for half of what your grandparents had, yes the game is bullshit and rigged against you, but that doesn’t mean you can’t win. I can guarantee you won’t win if you wallow in nihilistic misery forever.
>>75471768>t asocial virginwomen love playing match making
>>75470740The trick is to talk to them whilst understanding they aren't going to fuck or date you.Return to 5th grade mentality and say hello with no intention beyond trying to make a friend. Once the herd sees you aren't a predator they'll stop treating you like one.
I got a smile once from the most beautiful girl in the gym.
>>75471768happens all the time. see >>75471826when it happens, it can make things a little easier because a girl does all the pitching for you in girl terms and in a way that makes sense to other women like her single friendi know quite a few people who met like that and are married over a decade
>>75471396>They do all the time. Most guys are either too stupid or pussy to act on itI'm convinced they're just really bad at it, as in they think behavior that can be taken as totally neutral is the main way to flirt. (Definitely boosted by a desire not to seem desperate.)Which worked in the 1970s when guys knew they could get away with anything so they weren't worried about how interested women were.
I've been going to the same gym for 2 years an in all that time none of the handsome men has ever talked to me either.
>>75470740It’s probably because you’re ugly
The only girls I was friendly with moved to another gym. The only one left is insufferable and gets in my way all the time she should fuck off honestly lads
>>75470740A gym is not a club.
>>75471760To you lmaooo
>>75471822>implying anyone can grow a beardBlue pilled retard
I actively avoid even getting near a woman in the gym let alone talk to one.6 years straight in the gym and haven't spoken a single word with anyone ever
>>75471760it is. women will unironically think>I made eye contact with him for 1 second, why isn't he making a move??
>>75470997LMAO HOLY COPE!You are ugly, if you have to try, it's over. Do you really think Brad Pitt or Henry Cavill, before anyone knew who they were, ever had to "approach" like a low value beta cuck?Alain Delon was basically RAPED by hot supermodels when he was a broke unemployed drifter in his early 20s."Trying" gives women the ick. Either you are genetically superior and never have to do anything ever, or you are genetic trash and your destiny is to ROT.
>>75472765Why are you like this haha?
>>75472775Women do this to brutally reject subhumans.Men they want they come up to them and ask them to suck them off in the bathroom.I am not joking, 100% of all Chads NEVER have to try, CHAD doesn't even KNOW what APPROACHING IS!
>>75470740egg don't swim to the sperm
>>75471768my wife always asks me if i have any acquaintances for her crazy hot bpd friends
>>75470740i find women so annoying at the gym, but if they werent there itd be a gay gym so they are a necessary evil
>>75470740Did you ever talk to them?
>>75474118women have egos and many hot, high value girls will never chase a guy on principle. Very handsome/desirable men have a subset of women chasing after them, but it's a reversal of the natural order of things, and many women will not chase a guy period, they are just not wired that way.
>>75470740Maybe I'm just schizo bit i believe women do the dumbest most insignificant shit in an attempt to get you to notice them. For instance I'll be chilling at the power rack like usual, and the entire free weight area will be empty and available. But some girl will decide to set up directly behind me, in view from the mirror, and start doing stretches or bodyweight stuff on the floor or whatever. Then after a few minutes of me not paying her any attention she'll pack up and leave. So maybe its in my head, but if the entire area is clear, why would you choose to set up right behind me? And why would you go to the area in front of the racks and stretch there if you're not going to proceed to use a rack after?
>>75474520>So maybe its in my headAt least sometimes it's not, and it's so obvious that if a guy did it they might get accused of harrassment. I don't mind it but it is vague. Unless she does something else you can't be sure it's intentional.
>>75470740I take my wife and sometimes I'll wave at her while she's doing cardio and the other people will give me looks
>>75471768Its the only viable strategy. You'll actually meet relatively normal well-adjusted girls this way, rather than tinder shit which selects for the most cancerous types of people. Plus you have social proof working in your favor, and the importance of this cannot be overstated. A lot of the runaway hypergamy issues go away or become less extreme when the woman knows the man or has a trusted friend vouch for him
>>75470997that is scary tho
>>75472163>>75474756If a women is friendzoning you she either doesn't view you as relationship material and won't refer you to her friends (her friends won't want someone she didn't want either), or you're a backup plan for her and she doesn't want you finding someone else
>>75470740it happened to me after like a year; she just asked about some exercise I was doing out of nowhere and awkwardly stood around me for a while until I realized she wasn't just stupid and I asked for her number after asking about her and complimenting her a littlebut I had much better luck making frens with gym bros, working out together, and eventually meeting their friends and family80% of the time meeting a new girl who was connected with them or another one of their frens' frens lead to her being interested in who I wasmoreover just being in a group of decent people made me much more approachable I guess
>>75470740Same :(
>>75474987the friendzone and a platonic acquaintanceship are two very different things with completely different energies. a platonic acquaintanceship is anything from having someone fun to talk to at one particular place or event to having jovial conversations with an older lady who works at the grocery store. these can turn into arms-length friendships if they have reason to, but of course it all dissolves as soon as there's attraction, so don't let grandma's besties put you in the friendzone kek
>>75470740Lifting weights is about distracting yourself from your inability to get women and cope by being "jacked and strong", or its about improving an already stable foundation of being social and attractive.All is as it should be, anon, just focus on moving the weight and don't worry or think too much about silly things like picking up women at the gym, they're not for you.
>>75471111>becoming friends with a woman
>>75471826I have only ever had female ""friends"" and never has this come up at all. in fact they never ever speak about relationships around me, despite knowing i'm a kissless virgin loser. This isn't a movie, pal. Then again youre probably some out of touch 30+ year old who thinks it's still 2009.
>>75474555>>75474520I wish they would just come up and grab my ass I dont care it would make me feel pretty for once in my stupid large arms retard life
>>75470740Sometimes I'll "forget" to scan my sign in card just so the girl at the desk will stop me and ask me to sign in.
