How do i get basic social skills without abusing alcohol? Pharmacological solutions havent worked so far.Socialmaxxing should be counted as fitness btw, if you think otherwise you are an ableist and should feel bad about yourself
you're wearing too much clothes. how about you take them off first
>>75723963this is the future of western countries. just a bunch of raceless genderless looking mutts
>>75723996Who cares?
>>75723983It's because im on my way to get more alcohol. I dont think it fix my lack of social skills but here you go
>>75723996What do you mean raceless?
>>75723963>How do i get basic social skills without abusing alcoholYou can't. The drink is the solution
>>75724011it looks like it could be a jeet or latino or black
>>75724020Based. This anon gets it. Shame alco gives you cancer, brain damage and induline resistance though
>>75724027Weird, most people i live around just think im a nigger. It is what it is though
>>75724065you look like goblinx
>>75723963>how do I get social skillsThe fast way is to go out and make social mistakes. This happens mostly in childhood, but doesn't stop until you're dead. Otherwise you can take the pussy method and start reading, seriously reading. New fiction has begun to focus heavily on personal relationships, and it's a bit Iike genuine experience due to the way the brain learns, but it will take shitloads more time. You can also do D&D, it's the somewhere between these two options, since it's a mix of both, but YMMV based on your table.>t. Dungeon Master, Avid reader, social retard
>>75724099Why do you think so? Are her titties the same size? She looks lighter too
>>75724118>The fast way is to go out and make social mistakes.Nah this is advice for normies and i asked about autismo struggles. But you tried
>>75724137you could try rope then that'll solve your problem
>>75724185Sounds homosexual and im not that (sadly)
>>75724195show vagene
>>75723963>>75724002>>75724065>looks mid but not ugly>shows tits>muh social autismshut up. by virtue of being a female you can get fucked whenever you want, and i guarantee you still wouldnt fuck me. i hate all women. quit your complaining whore
>>75723963>>75724002>>75724065does brown booba produce chocolate milk instead of white milk?
>>75724118>>75724137Yerp, it's normie advice. if you're an autist you have to practice your social skills and go through a rough period of self auditing.Find out what makes you a sperg and work on doing things to fix that. For example, I mumble a lot. CHADS project their voice, so I started with practicing that just by reading out loud in my room, then I moved on to reading out loud with my window open (neighbors can hear), working on the FEAR and discomfort that seems to come with that.Then mimicry. Mimic people you like. I picked a twitch streamer I found charismatic and clipped various recordings of him telling funny anecdotes/just talking about a topic and I dubbed them over until I sounded like him (similar cadence, volume, energy). Practice a more extroverted personality
>>75723963>>>/adv/>>>/r9k/
>>75724317>Practice a more extroverted personalitythis is literally the only answer, you have to practice being outgoing and sociable otherwise youll never become outgoing and sociable. i started with smiling at people and asking random bullshit questions that i thought normal people would ask like "damn it sure is hot outside huh" or "so what do you do for work" or ask people how their day is going. it got to the point that i was almost coming across as sociopathic and i could tell people were intimidated by how direct and fake i was. i also never figured out how to look people in the eyes i would look through them. i eventually settled back to being an autistic sperg and dont make much small talk or try to make people laugh or smile anymore. but my social anxiety is completely gone, for the most part anyway. i kind of miss the false confident charismatic persona but it was so tiresome to maintain. and now that im self aware of how fake i was coming across it would be hard to replicate it. still, getting smiles from qt's and carrying on actual interesting conversations with dudes was super fun.
>>75723963>>75724002>>75724065before the thread gets deleted, post pussy and ass
>>75724242Uuuuuh, uuuh have sex ok????
>>75724317What if pretending to be extroverted makes you feel like you are asked to put your hand in fire? Because that is what it feels like every time and normies dont need to deal with that feeling. Imagine following every soft skills advice, researching normando behaviour, attending every boring webinar they shove down your throat during your job, just to fit in. But yet, it feels like a pointless and painful chore. Sure, at first it seems kinda fun, like a challenge, you get into one situation and reconstruct what you learnt, then another then another... until it stops being a fun challenge, you just need to repeat putting your hand into fire because your life depends on it, because you dont want to become a homeless weirdo.
>>75724449literally missing the point entirely. you put your hand in the fire so that you feel that pain and become accustomed to it, so that putting your hand in the fire doesnt burn you. inb4>i already heckin do that>it doesnt woooorkkkyou arent putting yourself in those situations with the goal of self improvement then, youre being a pussy about it and walking in circles then coming on a fitness forum to bitch and complain about a problem youve been told over and over how to solve
>>75724462Yeah that's exactly the point, i cant get accustomed to the pain and it bothers me, i was told you can get used to it but that never happens. Maybe im mixing up social phobia with autism idk>then coming on a fitness forum to bitch and complain about a problem you've been told over and over how to solveActually i do that just for attention because i feel exhibitionistic whenever i get drunk aha
