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>Get /fit/ over the past few years, 6 pack and all
>Wife tells me she isn't attracted to my new body at all
How do I cope, bros?
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>>75728428
Quit lifting and get a dad bod
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prolly the abs
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>>75728434
>Just let yourself go bro!
>Flab and bitch tits is so meta with women!
I hate this modern sentiment of men letting themselves become doughballs because their bitch shat out a few of their matured sperm
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>>75728428
Wives hate abs because it makes them insecure. Youre better off with a dadbod like >>75728434
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>>75728428
Do you feel like she’s less or more attracted? Initiating more/less?

Some women definitely do have a type but it’s highly unusual for a woman to dislike a muscular/leaner body. Is it causing her to feel insecure (ex: now you weigh less than her)
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>>75728428
By taking steroids and getting even bigger.
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>>75728428
Choke her during sex. When you have sex with her, call her "whore" and tell her you wanna murder her.
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>>75728428
Start flirting/teasing her more using your gains and see how she reacts. Actions mean more than words.
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>>75728428
go gay and get yourself a boywife
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>>75728428
Get a sidepiece, what’s she gonna do about it?
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>>75728428
Start hitting on other women in front of her. That's actually a fucked up thing to say for someone who put in a lot of work to get there. Jesus.
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>>75728428
>wifeguy
There's your problem
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>>75728428
It's over.
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>>75728428
raise your bf% by like 3 pts
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>>75728428
>How do I cope, bros?
Smack her.
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>>75728428
tell her you didn't do it for her
grow a pair, jackass
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>>75728428
pick her up and and throw her around a bit
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>>75728428
Tell your wife that it is quite painful to you that she doesn't love your current body, and that despite her disdain you still prefer your current self over your past. Tell her you will not change to accommodate her and ask her to be more supportive in such matters
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>>75728428
it sounds like you're too cut, and need to let loose on your diet a bit
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>>75728487
This actually works
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keep improoving. leave her and humanity behind
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>>75728428
Your body, your choice.
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Unless you got too cut, she's not disgusted by your body. It's most likely a combination of disdain for your lifestyle and her insecurity.

But it's already a doomed relationship, you know the other person is immature and dumb when they say something like this. You can't really fix it, you will just have to invent ways to work around the core issue which is having an unreasonable person as your partner.

Good luck.
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>>75728487
Its legit op
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>>75728487
What "works" about this?What does this accomplish?
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>>75728479
this is the appropriate response
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>>75728428
Hire a guy on craigslist to mug you and let you beat him up. Make sure he "breaks" a (fake) bat on your abs during the fight.
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>>75728428
Let me guess you have disgusting uneven abs that you think should be mired anyway for your “hard work”
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>>75728428
>Wife tells me she isn't attracted to my new body at all
>Wife tells

If you still get laid no worries, mate.
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>>75728428
>not what Sierra said
> “who’s Sierra”
>someone who appreciates the musculature
It’s that easy.
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>>75728473
>Wives hate abs because it makes them insecure
Correct.
>Youre better off with a dadbod
False.
Who said making your wife insecure is a bad thing? She SHOULD be insecure. She SHOULD constantly fear losing you to hotter, younger women. This is the power dynamic you want for a relationship. Keeps the bitch in line.
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>>75728473
>Wives hate abs because it makes them insecure

Which is why he needs to keep it. Women being insecure about you being able to leave them is the only way they act properly
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>>75729848
/thread
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>>75728428
crush the pussy of a teen who appreciate yours body
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if the shoe were on the other foot, i probably wouldn't say anything but i would resent the change. i like some jiggles on my wife. her body turns me on. if she started working out and getting lean to the point of abs, i'd be proud of her, but i would likely start having sex with her sister (again).
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She literally said that shit just to hurt your feelings. If you react, it shows you have a weakness and she'll exploit that.
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>>75728428
pound her cunt until she begs for forgiveness
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>>75730707
> i would likely start having sex with her sister (again).


Assuming you are not larping, how did it all start? How did you proposition the sister? Are you just so reckless as to risk the scandal if she turned you down? Also why did you stop fucking her? How old is the sister? How old is the wife?

Other than that, its not the same thing because abs look ugly on women, not feminine, not even healthy for a potential baby (which is the natural goal of sex)
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Then what does she like
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>>75729390
This is unironically the case. In a woman's mind, nothing is straightforward: it's likely that hubby cut down on his diet in order to get lean, and so she feels guilty about eating her favourite takeout without him also doing it, and so in her mind instead of asking him to indulge with her, as his response would likely be "but then I'd lose my leanness" she skips directly to "well I don't like how lean you are".
Women are not complicated, just retarded. It's funny that guys here feel guilty for inventing conversations in their head or preparing responses to people before talking to them out of social anxiety, because that's virtually all women do. Literally every single one of their words are spoken with a million hours of prep behind them, none of which are logical, sound and in touch with other people's emotions, desires and needs
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>>75728434
the dad body is partly caused by the lower testosterone levels of being married with kids. Your brain senses the environment and alters your testosterone levels to suit, to make you go into nurturing and committed mode, which helps the survival of the offspring and human race. The lower testosterone levels changes the body composition to favor less muscle and more fat.

Black guys who are deadbeat dads with multiple baby mommas maintain their high T levels of the typical single guy on the prowl for sex with lots of women.
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>>75729517
Just a reminding her of who is the big dog. Women love being put in their place.
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>>75730895
>Black guys who are deadbeat dads with multiple baby mommas maintain their high T levels
h how do I become black??? how do I black maxx??
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>>75728428
She's lying and if she truly isn't then leave her sorry ass for someone who appreciates your hard work anon
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>>75730895
if Bugumba says so, it must be true
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>>75731471
That's a nice fat arse.
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>>75730778
I'm lucky in a way that my wife's sister got the dad's genes and is grotesquely overweight so there's no chance of me fucking her
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>>75731556
you get nice and horny from seeing a white lady rub down black guys mate? make you wanna touch yourself down there?
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>>75729517
It distances you and your wife further from the light.



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