got off a 2 year relationship and lowkey felt like she lost attraction cus i got soft around her. how do I be Zoro like still tough n throw down dont be backing down for shit while still having morals like no going full demonic shit? i already workout i had the body n evrything idk she just wasnt digging it still someone wanted badder. does the meditation sht work i mean i dont rly know too much about that.
>>75733784never lose face around a bitch even if ur married with her for 50 years
This is the gayest fucking post I have ever seen. Are you a negro?
>>75733791What does losing face mean to you? I know a ton of men who only use their wives as emotional support yet those women will see them as weak because of it. I've read tons of posts about gfs who still miss their ex-bfs even though those guys talked about how depressed/suicidal they were before. That comes across as weak to me yet these girls still miss them so what gives?
>>75733833"better days" falacy, nothing to do with being used as emotional support, they see the weakness and think of the strength of the old but they don't hanker back to being emotional support, they think back to the good, the days when they weren't emotional support the days when they were inspired and excited by the intrepid swooning of their exes at their best. this is the nature of memorylosing face means using your wife as emotional support, the package of marriage comes with the understanding that you contain your emotions and suffer thememotions are for kids, I needed emotional support growing up, when you're an adult you need to have it controlled and everything worked through. if you don't, act like you do, and then just schedule days for yourself to get drunk alone somewhere
>>75733784>does the meditation sht work i mean i dont rly know too much about that.meditation works, but the same as lifting it requires consistent effort and dedication. recommended reading>Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind by Shunryū Suzuki>Manual of Zen Buddhism by D. T. Suzuki>An Introduction to Zen Buddhism by D. T. Suzuki>Zen Training: Methods and Philosophy by Katsuki Sekida
Yeah you can't show emotions infront of a wahman. What's the reason behind this?
>>75733921stop itI read some shit about Kwanza and Kaizen too, does that mean they should guide my life?>>75733784OP it's all in your nature already in your cells, you know the way. Weakness in front of wife is never ok. It's ok to manage weakness, but it's not ok to display it
>>75733924Emotions should be addressed and dealt with when you're growing up, ideally guided by emotionally healthy and mature adults, often, especially nowadayswe have terrible cycles, we have terrible parents, completely mind fuckedso we have children that never become adults and are children as adultsWe're not designed for this. We're designed for healthy lives, to have emotions catered to and resolved before we hit adulthood. Now we don't have that. We have stunted development in a majority of the population. We have to manage it. You gotta manage it. You gotta act and schedule solo drunk trips, tactical drunks I call them, if you want to make something out of yourself.
>>75733937I believe you
>>75733926if you don't like meditation that's fine, no need to get so upset about OP's question getting an answer
>>75733953yappity yap, many books many bookswordsa billion words only 1 reality
>>75733960did a librarian hurt you anon? reading is beneficial to the mind the same as exercise is beneficial to the body
>>75733995I've read more than you have forgotten, or something like thatSit downI gotta run to the store before it closes
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>>75734040We're going on a date sweety
>>75733784If you have to ask, you will never know.
>>75733784>got off a 2 year relationship and lowkey felt like she lost attraction cus i got soft around hethese aren't thoughts Zoro is capable of.You failed before you began.
>>75733784women want the genuine article, not the fake.Pretending to be something you're not will cause problems.
>>75733784>>75733921minimalist living is also a great source of mental health gainz. zoro lives on a ship and thus would not have a great deal of belongings to bring with him on his adventures. making more with less and keeping everything around you clean and organized is perfect for that.
