Took my wife to a local swingers club for the first time a couple weeks ago. Convinced her to get gangbanged by a bunch of guys!

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>>2398013
Not a whole lot of swapping stories but my wife and I have messed around many times in public and with others watching

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>>2398255
that's usually how people progress
first being watched or watching others
than soft swap
and last hard swap. and once you do hard swap you're forever in the lifestyle

Trying to convince my gf to get into this life. She will tell me she would give it a try, and then when I want to pull the trigger and make a trip to one she will back out for one reason or another.

I went to a Craigslist orgy before I met her and I’ve been craving another group session since.

my partner and i got into it a few years ago. been to clubs and private parties. a few months ago we hosted our own for our anniversary. there were 9 of us in total. 2 other couples that we play with, 2 single guys and a girl i work with. that was the most we've done so far.

we started off just being watched years ago and slowly progressed to same room fucking, soft swapping and then full swapping (with a dogging experience in there too)
next up is a gangbang for her, then a reverse gangbang for me

>>2398443
Same! Talk shit up, plan a road trip to be anon, and last minute back out for one emotional reason or another. I gave up and when she brings it up now I just ignore her. Games they play.

>>2398194
Did she enjoy it?

When I was 17, my buddy's deranged wine aunts gave me a double team after a debauched night of drinking.
18, I had a couple I knew and we double teamed his wife.
Then onto full fledged gangbangs and orgies.
I've been fortunate as a single guy to get in on so much action.
I bet I've banged a thousand women over the last 25+ years.

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Suburban swinging is fun so long as you find attractive couples that aren't poly, that's just a drama induction system.

Sls, kasidie and telegram channels with your towns name are all decent avenues.

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>>2399368
You'd be surprised how easy it is to talk most women with a decent libido in to going down on their friends or let you spit roast them during a Christmas party

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>>2399369
End of the day, it even builds a solid partnership between you and your wife if you communicate. There's a real thrill in being able to go to a party and pick up a hot single lady or a couple and get them naked. You'll even learn tricks by watching people, I can now make most women squirt in under 3 minutes

Not sure if classic swinging, but me and my wife have been banging our friends, male and female, they are usually cheating on their partners. It's a lot fun.

>>2398246
worst photoshop ever

>>2399369
>You'd be surprised how easy it is to talk most women with a decent libido in to going down on their friends
My wife ate pussy for the first time last week. She was 100% a hard no on going down on another woman... right up until she was face first in that other girl's cunt. I've always maintained that men are gay, straight, or bi and that's it. You are what you are. But women? It's all very situational. No woman is absolutely straight. And under the right conditions, nearly all of them would make another woman cum without a second thought.

>>2398255
nice

>>2399370
What women will want you to make her squirt in 3 minutes? That's pretty bad sex there imo

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Me filming my gf

>>2400297
"filming" posts a picture.

>>2400291
My wife. But then she can cum every 3 minutes the entire time I'm fucking her. She's very orgasmic.

>>2398438
My gf and I are into everything except hard swap and I really don’t want it to progress there. Are there people who swing but never hard swap? If not then we’ll probably just have Ffm occasionally we’re both into that.

>>2399521
Any advice on identifying/finding the other woman?

We have a group of friends we play with, neither of us have ever really had an interest in visiting either of the local swingers clubs. Going down that road I think would come with more risks.

The only time we play around with strangers is when we're abroad.

>>2407930
One we met at a strip club. Became regulars and friends with her. The others were all online. Like FetLife and Feeld. Lots of eager hoes out there who are looking for nothing more than a couple to kick it with.

>>2408754
This looks exactly like a house in Connecticut

>>2407911
>Are there people who swing but never hard swap?
Plenty. Everyone has their own approach. As long as you and your gf are in agreement, there is no wrong way and no definition you need to fit.

>>2409191
Huh?

>>2407911
My gf and I go so sex clubs all the time. We always leave doors open or fuck in the open room. I get to fuck other girls, but she isn't allowed to get fucked by other guys. I would fucking never hard swap

>>2410284
There’s no resentment because of that? It seems kind of unfair. My girlfriend would probably let me fuck other girls especially in a threesome but I wouldn’t really want to because I wouldn’t want the same for her. She can do whatever she wants with girls as far as I’m concerned tho

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>>2410367
Not that anon, but my wife and I have the same arrangement. No dudes. But it works for us because my wife isn't interested in fucking other guys at all. She fucked plenty of guys before we got together and now she's really only interested in exploring her bisexual side. However, we do have a rule that I'm not allowed to fuck other women unless she's there and they're willing to fuck her too. But you'd be amazed at how many "straight" girls are curious about what we do and who eat pussy like they need it to live once things get going. I've come to the conclusion that there really aren't any straight women. Just women who haven't eaten pussy yet.

Anyone happen to know where I could find swingers in South Korea?

>>2412391
>that face

Swingers Maaaaaaann!

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Where is this from?

>>2398013
In college the gf and I got together with another couple. The first time started with each couple having sex in the same room. Things progressed from there with future meetings. There was swapping. One time we were all pretty high and the other guy and I challenged the girls to have sex together. They said they would under one condition. So there was some nice FF action. That was followed by their request which was MM action. All was good until the other couple broke up. We still got together with the girl for some three-way action, but there was never another guy (unfortunately).

SNEED

>>2416620
Nice, that brings back some dirty memories

>>2416699
damn how many STDs in this pic?

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wife and I were into it for a few years, we took a break, nothing negative happened, but we're eyeing to come back soon
for you guys and girls interested in the lifestyle, have some tips
you need to find a couple that matches your sexual energy and endurance. so if you're fit, go for a fit couple
establish boundaries, don't get pressured into something you don't/might not like
avoid people like friends personally I would never, but some people seem to enjoy it), for the 1st time choose an experienced couple
avoid poly people! outsiders might thing that swinging is poly thing but no, wife and I are extremely faithful, we do EVERYTHING together, swinging falls into that. we had some guys sending the wife pics like ''my wife is out of town, wanna play?'', that was the last of them

my fav thing is fucking another woman while I watch my wife also having fun, having a short eye contact and in a sense nodding, ''yea dear, this is fun''
and I love if another women wants to try DP, especially for the 1st time when orgasms are very strong and wet
open to questions

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>>2417369
>open to questions
What got you into swinging in the first place? Was it your idea or hers?
How did the topic come up, and what did that first conversation lead to?
Did you do any research into the lifestyle before you started?
How do you meet other swingers?

>>2398013
I would like to get into it, but if Fet Life us any indication, the scene in Minneapolis is all fatties and gross trans/queer/ whatever the fuck.

>>2418856
While sometimes people on fetlife swing, swingers as a whole don't use fetlife.

>>2418925
Not that anon but what site would you find them? I’ve been on Fetlife before and had some luck but I attribute some of that to just living in Florida.

>>2418856
FetLife in my town sucks. It's basically the same 'ole female entitlement dating bullshit you get through standard dating apps. But with whips and chains thrown in. I was on it for a while, but pretty much rage quit it after my wife and I got stood up for the third time by some fat bitch who decided she caught the ick at the last minute. As in, while we were waiting for her to show up at a restaurant. But my wife and I aren't full-on swingers. My wife just likes to fuck women, so we're just out there looking for unicorns. I've decided to start doing it organically by just meeting and warming up women I know to the idea of joining in.

>>2416699
wat up w/ her boobs

>>2420032
reconstruction probably. Here's the thing: body positivity is such a norm for swingers it's not even a thing. They were the originals who accepted all sorts, all shapes and sizes. Even more so than naturists.

>>2418937
It is an advantage. My wife is not bisexual but she admits to me that when she was a teenager she did have sex with a few friends, you know, just to try it.
We are not real swingers either, but we have gone to several clubs to get horny.
It would make me very angry if a guy touched her, but at the same time, it's my fantasy. It's strange, I fantasize about having rough sex with another guy one night.

>>2420106
They do body positivity right. Some shave smooth, some don't, one had reconstructive surgery after breast cancer, one has fake tits, but note that none of them are morbidly obese neckbeards/legbeards. They are all reasonably healthy and groomed.

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Me and my gf go to a local club that has very public play and have had people watch us and her mess around with girls a bit. Last time met a few cool couples and gonna link up with them this weekend. Excited to see what happens.

>>2416699
Although I haven't seen them in more than ten years I know I'll miss them forever. I never had any friends later on like the ones I had when I was swinging. Jesus, does anybody?

>>2420220
>It would make me very angry if a guy touched her
This would make my wife angry. She wants nothing to do with other men. Period. We cleared that one up right out of the gate. She has zero desire for other men. Not after the slew of losers she was with before she met me 20 years ago. She just wants to eat pussy. As well as indulge her voyeuristic tendencies while watching me fuck these women we bring in.

>>2420106
Thnx didn't know that. Seems like they did a good job on her though

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Anyone been to pendulum club in Houston, Texas?

Anyone know any good clubs in NY? I want to share my gf with some girls. If nobody knows any maybe you can tell me an app that would be good for finding a unicorn. I don’t even want to fuck the other girl I just want her to help me make my gf cum.

>>2422007

NYC ain't the best for swinging clubs but there are a couple out there. If you're primarily interested in FF play then you need to avoid nights when single males are admitted.

Checkmate is a club that never allows single males. Admittance is pretty easy - they like to front that they have "standards" and a dress code, but if you can pay the membership fee (cash only) and walk, you're in.

It's kinda old and dated, but it's really the only option in Manhattan anymore. They've got 3 play rooms, all small compared to other clubs.

If you get directly approached by a really attractive single woman, it's probably a safe bet she's a "working girl" - Checkmate seems to look the other way in this regard.

The Loft ESL is a new club, haven't been there, but hearing good things about them. I believe they also never allow single males. From what I remember looking at their site they have some kind of screening process, so probably not a good idea to wait until last minute for that.

I've also heard of "Taste" and "Hacienda" - they are parties in private residences, not a fixed location, and have admissions questionnaires/essays you need to fill out and email.

Appwise, you should also check out FEELD.

>>2422120
Thanks. I looked at chemistry and lethal seduction too they seem alright, although lethal seduction doesn’t allow under 21 so unless they’re cool with fakes we cant go. I was looking at feeld and it seems good but recent reviews seem to say it doesn’t work anymore. Have you had success with it in the past few months? I’m like 99% my girls down for a threesome but I think I have to be proactive in setting it up.

>>2412406
How do you get your pubes that clean cut. Do you need to go to a professional?

Wife brought up wanting to go to a life style club for the first time to explore her voyeur fetish, super excited!

However we both have concerns over STD risk and shit. how do you all normally handle that and stay safe. sounds like the life type can be a lot of fun... but yeah don't want life long non emotional baggage to go with it.

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@RealAmberMILF sucking dick on the patio at a swingers party.

>>2426477
Liberal quantities of shaving cream and a decent razor

>>2428373
I thought black dicks were supposed to be big.

>>2418930
Fetlife kinda sucks where I live. It's insane the amount of flakes in there.

>>2428553
Where I live it's basically just Tinder combined with Seeking Arrangements with whips and chains thrown in. Obese women who go on and on about wanting to be dominated, controlled, double-teamed, gangbanged, etc., and still have impossibly high standards or they just want you to pay for their "content." I've met a few on there, but I just deactivated my account because I was getting inundated with OF and other pay-to-play bullshit as well as fat white women with galleries full of them sucking black dicks. I don't touch coal burners and I definitely don't pay for pussy. Especially sub-par pussy.

Gonna be in Jamaica next week and my wife is open to thinking about a day pass to Hedonism and possibly inviting in another guy for a threesome, how do we approach guys or couples about this while we're there

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It took a lot of verbal manipulation to get my wife to the table but she finally jumped in. It took a trip to Vegas to have our first three-way and then she was hooked. After that we started the meet couples for a few years until we gradually gravitated towards her becoming a hot wife and me either finding her dates or her bringing home strays. I was actually very cool with it, she was having a great time and I wish I could tell you why I really got into it but I have no explanation. Finally I found out she was seeing one specific guy on the side end fucking him everywhere and everywhere. We recovered, I'm just not sure if I could call it cheating considering my set them up to begin with it was just supposed to be physical satisfaction of both their urges. Fast forward a few years later and now I seem to have a huge cuckold fetish. Is this normal? I want her to cheat on me again, i know it's wrong but I can't help getting turned on. I'm mighty then wanna go back into swinging.

>>2428678
Pretty normal I think.

>>2428678
You see, I've done the same thing, but in reverse. My wife loves watching me fuck other women as long as she gets them too. So we're in the same boat, only I'm not a faggot.

>>2428758
Well this it technically true but fucking your mom only counts in Alabama. Good for you though, I'm happy for your success mother fucker, she must be proud!

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Cap d agde, glamour beach club , watched my wife give an assjob. there, pic is my wife. incredibly hot experience

>>2428818
very nice ass

im going to meet up with my couple tomorrow actually ama. im the third male in a hot wife marriage

Tried Fetlife but just seems to be a few women in my area, some grossly fat, not even cute chubby or full figure, the fats where it looks like they are melting when they show their “goods”

Been trying Reddit but so far its been couples who talk a big game and want to meet up but the closer the day comes, suddenly get ghosted.

Joined a Discord group but nobody in my area.

Any other avenues I should explore to find couples looking for an extra guy for a threesome?

>>2428817
Dude. If you're going to try and snap back, at least actually try. This is just sad, man.

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Wife being shared by 6 strangers.

>>2430168
Absolutely beautiful. You're a great dude for sharing your wife.

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>>2432546
I've seen these photos tons of times but I still enjoy them. You can tell the energy in that room is fun.

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>>2431413
My pleasure !

>>2398255
more of her please

>>2428837
check the parties and stuff held on fetlife theres an existing scene there

Help! My wife recently drunkenly wanted to watch porn. She wanted to watch a video where a lesbian couple seduces another woman. I couldn't find anything and it killed the mood. I need to be ready next time. Looking for suggestions. This is step1 into the lifestyle

>>2434783
Does she take nut bareback too?

>>2421058
Lucky

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>>2428525
so wow there's variation what a surprise

>>2428675
Do not approach the locals, stick to fellow tourists, for your own safety.

>>2435501
Had some luck and talked to a chubby girl off reddit, least she is cute and down to meet couples after building some trust. I’ll fucking create my own community if I have to.

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Here's a few from a couple of years back. We mostly just meet people in our local young swingers group, we have monthly parties that we set up to look like BBQs, then when it gets late and all the kids are asleep in the main house, the adults sneak off in to the organizers guest house and fuck.

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>>2406575
How do you make her squirt in 3 minutes ?
And how do you make her cum every 3 minutes outside of having a big dick, cause mine is only 5.9 x 4.7

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Not sure if this is ‘classic swinging’, but I let my wife fuck other guys. It started with me letting her do whatever she wanted with other people. The first few times she just gave head and then it developed into sex after a few times. Now it’s a weekly thing. She lets him cum in her and all. I have definitely turned her into a slut.

>>2441311
You're a cuck, buddy, but it's all good. Also, you didn't turn her into a slut. All women are already sluts, you just gave her permission

>>2412412
She's welcome to sit on MY cock anyday!

Some shitheads on my masters group are spamming an image like a couple thousand a minute and plan doing this for the whole weekend :). Can you help me see something beautiful? ;)

https://chat.whatsapp.com/Bll6SmQvTpx8DNMugaqPrm

>>2441311
Nice, you should get video and post it.

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It would let me upload a video. Here is a picture of her fucking someone.

>>2403814
It's also digital.

>>2434003
At least she made four dollars.

>>2442128
Goddamn

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>>2441071
You should do some studies about clitoris anatomy. The clitoris is the only way to get orgasm for women, but it can be reached from different directions. Probably the easiest way to make her squirt is to insert two or three fingers in here and combine frictions with pushing on the front wall of the vagina. It's also a good approach to touch her clitoris while your dick is in her. And definitely you should listen to her and observe her reaction. Each woman is unique, and sometimes they just don't know how to get pleasure from their bodies. So be patient and careful.

And don't believe in fairytales, that someone can make any woman to squirt, it's a bullshit. You can significantly improve your skills of getting orgasms, but squirt is mostly depending on woman, but not on man.

Got a free use party coming up with the local swingers group next week. Wife will be wearing only an apron that says "world's best mommy"

>>2440471
>Which one is yours?

It's not the only way for a woman to orgasm. Sometimes my nipples make orgasm too.

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Here is her fucking another guy.