As a feminine somewhat athletic but still slim physique built guy (im in my early 30s), it's been pretty rough not having much of any luck finding muscular guys who are into smaller feminine guys. I understand that most will be into other muscular guys but I really wanted to believe that there were at least some who would like a smaller built guy. And it's not even me trying to go for "normie" muscular guys but even when I tried looking for geeky muscular guys, most of them still prefer other muscular or masculine guys. And I know someone might try to bring up my age bur even when I was in my 20s, I couldn't find muscular guys into guys like myself.. In the end it is what it is bur I will admit that when I'm at the gym working out and seeing muscular guys l with their partners, I do feel a bit envious knowing I'll never get ot experience that. Anyway vent aside, just sharing some cute muscular guys lol.
do you have a big long cock? if so, it shouldn't be that much of a problem
>>2650827I mean, even if I did, it wouldn't matter because I'm not a top lol
I can definitely relate to the topic, I'm a feminine guy myself, not really a twink anymore since I'm also in my 30s (though funny enough, I feel like I'm in the best shape of my life at this time for the build I like for myself lol) But yeah, I too have not had much luck meeting muscular guys who are into smaller guys as they tend to be into other muscled guys. I only met one years ago who claimed her liked feminine guys but he lived in another country and I wasn't looking for long distance. Besides him though, its been crickets unfortunately. If anything, as I got more in shape, I just attracted more older out of shape "daddy" types which aren't my type at all lol.
>>2650831girl..., you're looking for an unicorn
>>2650839For what it's worth, I am a big, muscular guy and I'm ambivalent between topping and bottoming. BUT...I am a complete and utter sub. I feel like there's a fair number of us out there.>>2650831OP, even if you are fem and a bottom, are you capable of being dom? Some of my favorite experiences have been with guys much smaller / more feminine than me, but who were fully dominant and knew how to put a good boy like me in my place. Just a suggestion.
>>2650856>OP, even if you are fem and a bottom, are you capable of being dom? Some of my favorite experiences have been with guys much smaller / more feminine than me, but who were fully dominant and knew how to put a good boy like me in my place. Just a suggestion.I'm not sure what you mean about being dom. I'm not into humiliating others, that's just not my nature. Do you mean more like take charge? I don't know to be honest because I've never tried since anytime I would express interest in a muscular guy, I wouldn't get a response.
>this fucking thread againthe answers are literally identical every single time. girl start scrapbooking, knitting or join a reading club or something? get a fuckin hobby instead of posting this same shit every so often
>>2650883tfw i want to go for this build so bad but i don't want to get fat or be perceived as fat, such is life
>>2650907Personally I think that's the best muscle build, a nice mix of both muscle with a little bit of fat. But it's true that if you don't stay on top of things, you can turn fat.
>>2650884This answer tells me “no.” Dominance and submission are broad categories; humiliation need not be a part of it. It can be as simple as vibes and attitude.
>>2650924Yeah probably not then. I mean when I think about it, I probably could be a little more dom in the sense of telling the guy to do and playfully treating him like a dog telling him what I want him to do but I don't know if that's what you mean lol.
Threads like this make me sad. You guys are so shallow. 99% of people like you die alone.
as if gay people aren't all the same, ironic
>>2650938What do you mean?
>>2651041Pls show I full pic of that ass I’m begging you sir
>>2651053Unfortunately I dont know who he is lol
Who is genuinely attracted to the kind of men posted ITT, including OP? Even for all the talk about how gays have low standards and would be down to fuck almost anything and everything, I doubt a lot of us fags here would be turned on by these grotesque "physiques".It would be much better for autistic retarded gymcel guys to stop chasing such Everest tier standards. Because the only thing you all are going to end up doing is injecting yourself with gazillion different varieties of steroids and die of heart attacks by the time you all even reach the age of 45. But I guess if you all want to keep chasing after small balled shrunken dick mutant animal like gymceller NPCs, who am I to stop you.
>>2651053>>2651074That's rwalker866
>>2651171Everyone has different types. Me personally, I'm totally into bigger muscular guys like the ones posted in this thread even if they're roided. I agree that the downsides of getting that big are not great and ideally, I'd prefer a gymbro guy who didn't use steroids but I'm not gonna lie and say I don't think the roided look can be attractive.Also roids don't shrink your dick, they do affect the balls though..
>>2650824I would pay this guy to violently destroy my hips. I want to lick those traps dry after a hot workout then ride his cock trying to wrap my arms around that wide back holding on for dear life as those huge muscles rock my insides I wish there was a sauce
>>26508213 steps to help:1. broaden your preferences (lower your standards)2. stop comparing yourself to other people. everyone is going to have problems with something, so you will *always* make yourself feel worse if you automatically assume a stranger is better than you3. be open to friendships with people you might have wanted to date or hook up with, it might lead to connections or just feel good to have a friend i guarantee these 3 steps will improve your life drastically. optionally, you could meet with a therapist or sex therapist and try moving to a new area if you live somewhere particularly conservative or need to try a new pool of people.hope it helps
>>2650839>>2650827>>2650831Lol, is it true that a sizeable amount of muscle gays are actually bottoms? I recently installed Grindr and I was surprised to discover that nearly all the muscular guys in my area were bottoms looking for muscular tops. Some of them were even femme "muscle queens."I didn't bother chatting with any of them since I'm average sized and more of a bottom (versatile). I also only have an average sized dick and many of the muscle gays were size queens. I wanted to find a muscular top to dominate me but all the rare muscle tops only wanted other big muscular types. It felt like most of the muscular guys in my area only wanted other muscular guys. Is this just a thing in my area or is this an actual trend in the wider gay community lol?
>>2652846I feel like this is just the hidden truth about gay dating when it comes to the gay muscular men. From the outside you would think there would be more of them who were tops but in reality when you actually look, most of them are actually bottoms, even the ones who say they are "verse bottoms", let's cut the bullshit, they really mean "bottom" lol.My theory is that a lot of these guys may have made themselves muscular as a defense mechanism to dissuade straight men from punking on them but when all is said and done, they actually do prefer the bottom role but want to get topped by other muscular men. Well that or bear type men.
>>2650821I’m into geeky goth fem guys but I know it will never work out I’m 6’2 260 not super lean on fat percent but people tell I’m skinny if I wear baggy xl shirts. It’s all over there’s no point.
>>2654138Well people tell me I’m skinny even with normal shirts but it makes me uncomfortable when people touch me without my permission.
>>2654139wtf does the last part have to do with anything
>>2653244No pain, no gain. Now tell me that’s not a submissive’s mentality? Taking a big fucking dick hurts. So does working out. A lot of the submissive men I’ve met struggle with decision making, with anxiety, with stress. They don’t just like the endorphins from exercise, but the idea that no one is going to ask a muscle jock for their opinion, or expect them to be smart, is appealing. And let’s not mention objectification, that bimbo like desire to be seen for your body and not your non existent personality. To be paraded around like a trophy, a conquest. And to be treated like a fucking princess. It becomes easy to see why so many of the gym bunnies end up wishing to be male playboy bunnies too.
Im an arab skinny top, pretty tallBeen fucking muscle bottom only (i live in paris) even if they are vers top or vers, if you are Hung and dominant its enough for them.Most of them are sub sluts just waiting for someone to use them
>>2650821Unironically sis, find a slightly chubby Gym guyHe'll treat you like a princess and you still get the benefits of being with someone much stronger than you
The vast majority of gym rats are closeted Bi or Gay. Work with that fact
>>2654466>hurts. So does working outWorking out doesnt hurt until you blow out your back
>>2653244Most bodybuilders become closet gays because the steroids and objectification of oneself for an audience of men causes excitement. Usually they dont start out that way, they were groomed from childhood by musclemen movies and cartoons.
>>2651749>lower your standardsTerrible advice.
>>2655129All love is compromise You'll never find the perfect man and if they exist they're probably straight or already takenEveryone has baggage You'll always find something you don't like with another personIt's better to realize this early
>>2655161Sounds like a copout
>>2655161Compromising on minuscule things is one thing but when it comes to compromising on a guy as a whole who doesn't fit even closer to your type is just a recipe for a miserable relationship.
Why would I work out like crazy control my diet shave and wax my body and lift heavy only to settle for another masc guy? I want a fem top bf and if I can’t find him then fair enough I’m accepting my fate of dying alone.
>>2650821I am a muscular masculine top who loves slim feminine guys. Unfortunately it seems like most twinks only want other twinks. Weirdly, the exception to this in my area is non-whites. The majority of hispanic/asian/black twinks in my area seem to love muscular white tops, so something like 80% of my hookups have been with them. I don't have a racial preference, they just tend to reciprocate the attraction more.
I feel like middle eastern dudes are the surefire go to for anyone twinkish/fem if you want masc/muscular
>>2659210>Why wold I work out like crazy, control my diet, shave and wax my body, and lift heavy to only settle for another masc guyIt's mainly because in the gay dating world, it seems that muscular guys, especially swole muscular guys are only interested in other muscular guys. The whole "become what you're attracted to" mantra is a big thing in the gay dating scene.I mean speaking for yourself, are you gay or are you bisexual? If you're bi then it's not as surprising why you wouldn't mind a fem guy but do you expect the fem guy to be muscular? That's the question lol.
>>2659325>Unfortunately it seems like most twinks only want other twinksI hear this a lot and I don't see this at all where i live which is not a small town. Most other twinks in my area seem to prefer athletic guys or bears. I mean, how old you are? Are you an older guy who is into 18--22 year olds? Because if that's the case, yeah I can see that more because I remember when I was at that age, I saw more twink types preferring other twink types but when I got to around 24-25, that's when I noticed a shift.
>>2659337Is that right? Are you speaking from the perspective of a fellow fem guy yourself?Also even if this is true, I can't help but feel that there is ugly downside with middle eastern men like this...
