I finally found the courage to breakup with my abusive girlfriend in my country.
>>200190085Was she Russian?
is there a point in breaking up in person? they always make a scandal
>>200190104No, she was actually Norwegian (but secretly Albanian) >>200190109No. Save yourself the trouble.
>>200190085It took me a while to breakup with my gf because I said a lot of things I didnt mean, I had to wait to make it look like there was a reason. Im a shit person
>>200190085cool man, congrats. go get drunk and play videogames and enjoy some quiet time.
>>200190085What if she stalks you later on?
I think i couos never be able to break up with girl that i would have as my girlfriend. Girlfriend would be girl girl i love and i cant just stop having those feelings towards someone if i already have fallen in love with her. Seems too hard, but sadly it seems it is easy for girls stop loving and doing break up.
>>200190085Good job anon
>>200190292It's possible. I did have to break up with her because she didn't feel bad about lying to her friends that I tried to rape her on the night we first slept together. I am afraid she will try to ruin my life with a false accusation in retaliation to breaking up with her, but I can't be blackmailed into staying with her forever.
>>200190332lol youre fucked. not only is she going to do it but she'll have multiple people supporting her rape accusation. this is what you get for chasing after some retarded woman just to get pussy.
>>200190359What are my options though? Be with her forever and pretend to be okay with being pushed around? It's my fault for messing with such a woman, yes, but I can't live a prisoner forever.
>>200190476no, just collect evidence that supports you and be very delicate with her and her friends if they reach out to you for any reason. remove her from all social media once you get your evidence and screenshots and dont follow her.
>>200190085did she abuse you physically or mentally or both?
>>200190109If it's a person you will come in contact with often afterwards and who you need to remain at the very least civil with (coworker, lots of friends in common, etc)You can't break up over text.
>>200190085PussyNot man enough to enjoy a toxic relationship
>>200190517Yes, she once forced me to have sex with her
>>200190547Is she hot?
>>200190517Mentally, but she did threaten me physically. She basically lied to others that I raped her and that I was secretly a pedo (this is a big deal because I am a teacher)
>>200190555She is 300 pounds
>>200190569That's fucked up. >>200190493 what this guy said then. Comb through all your convos with her
>>200190592kek how fucking desperate can you be man. i would rather be an incel for life and buy some fleshlights instead of fucking a 300 pound insane woman
>>200190649I'm just a squirrel trying to get a nut
>>200190605I have all of the evidence in the world to point out that she is a crazy bitch and that I'm innocent, but I am afraid an accusation alone is enough to fuck my life up. I am scared but I am hopeful she is too lazy to mess with me like that.
>>200190085How do you know if she is abusive or you are just crazy?
>>200190085that takes a lot of courage, you might feel bad initially but it gets better OP. Know your worth.
>>200190936Unironically thank you anon. I feel a lot of conflicting emotions right now.
>>200190476no, the first mistake is interacting with a womanI hope she puts you in jail for life
>>200190124>No, she was actually Norwegian (but secretly Albanian)international student. and you aren't strong enough to control them. The Balkan baddie was wasted on you.
>>200190085never reconnect with her, block her everywhere and never give into her pleas for "closure" or "breakup sex". more likely than not an abusive woman will use this final time to either baby trap you or kill you.
>>200190332breakup over text and block her out of your life forever. no contact forever or you're fucked.