>Be me>severely anxious when trying to talk to people>can't get myself to ask for help or favors>back in college wanted to work with a Prof. because I liked his research work>couldn't get myself to ask him>procrastinate....>FINALLY conjure up some courage to mail him>"sorry anon I really wanted to work with you but you asked me too late, I have committed to another student">who cares anyway>got offered a doctorate in topmost Indian research institute>Aced exams for job as scientist in three government organization>Accept the offer letter for doctorate as I am too much off a pussy to apply in foreign Universities>missed all the interviews for the scientist c job because I couldn't bring myself to ask my mentor to sign on consent form>who cares anyway>doctorate was going good, Impressed a prof. with my godlike problem solving skills>wants to work with him but couldn't bring myself to talk to him>procrastinate...>Finally conjure up some spirit to ask him>"sorry anon you waited too long now I have committed to another guy"Its finally fucking over for me, How many more opportunities will I miss because my autistic ass can't talk to people.
>>200200950Get an arrange marriage wife and let her handle it.
>>200201006This, really solid advice
>>200201006too young for that for now
>>200201190MODS!!
>>200201341I am not fucking that young
>>200200950I'm the same lmao, so many wasted opportunities because of social anxiety. It gets easier with time, but the opportunities become far fewer, so you're left with not only wasted opportunities, but also the realization that "damn, it wasn't even that scary". Life is cruel.
>>200200950learn from your mistakes or spend your life wallowing in failure
>>200200950next time you want to be a pussy just drink a shot of vodka and tell yourself to stop being a pussy and you will do it
>>200200950Just take 10mg Lexapro already. Get it over with. Or start cruising 250mg of test a week and work out.
>>200201528I don't think its getting easier, Its been the same ever since I left high school
>>200201190>phdYou should have 2 kids by now.
>>200201962I am fucking 21
>>200202010Bro... seriously a wife would improve your life immenselyI had a quiet cousin, but after he got married he became a proper father
>>200202010Lol bsc, msc and phd at 21You must be Ramanujan reincarnated.
>>200200950I suffer more than you
>>200201416YOU ARE BLOODY FUCKING