I think that the reason people are so mean to super friendly autistic people is because by being very forward we are skipping a step in neurotypical platonic courting rituals where you have to be calm, guarded, relaxed, and positive. I think it's really typical of autistic people to try and show ourselves as we truly are the second we make what we consider to be a possibly meaningful connection. But because we skip the more guarded introduction phase of meeting a neurotypical, they are immediately put off. Because of persistent failure to socialize with people, neurodivergents will withdraw and learn the false idea that it is better to just not interact with society at all. It is not the fault of the autistic person its rather a miscommunication and in reality neurotypicals are really simple and delicate in their own ways. They need to be placated and assured that you are a good person to hang around, with their own special song and dance. You sort of have to participate in this ritual in order for them to trust you. If you want to impress them you basically just have to do the ritual better than them. Autistics have our own kind of rituals, that goes without saying. The difference is that if neurotypicals were the minority here most autistics would give them a chance and work very hard to understand them. That being said we are currently not the dominant social group and we might not be for a while. As neurodivergents we should work to recognize that we aren't deficient in our way of thinking but instead are simply a minority surviving in a world created to reward neurotypical behavior. I have no doubt one day our time will come where the care of the earth and humanity is placed in our hands. At which point of course the world will be a much more gentle and understanding place. Until then work together, get educated, understand your worth, socialize with neurotypicals, and do not let them radicalize you into being antisocial or violent.-TGPC
>>43134312They’re going to find a way to eradicate autism. In order to encourage birth rates they’re going to start pushing by engineering your child in the womb. This will ensure they don’t come out a homosexual, transgender autistic have down syndrome, etc.. The world hates different world will not cater to the abnormal. Just looked at paraplegics. Or blacks
>>43134514You left off the part where some people mask and become reserved and end up never able to make any other meaningful connections because they’re so jaded by being burnt.
>>43134312honestly i have the opposite experience but partly because i'm decent at small talk. i have a script i like to follow but mostly it's ask about their day like you're a friend of theirs, relate to their struggles if they express any, dig deeper if they have something interesting they mentioned. works pretty well. i use it on service workers a lot because i think it's good to treat them like a human and not a slave.a lot of the time they go from glassy eye'd worker drone to normal human mode quickly though it always seems to be a slightly jarring transition for them. you'd be shocked at how many people you can get to bitch about their job or boss while they're working actively in a service position.it's also pretty clear when it doesn't work, because there is no visible relaxation or mode-shift and generally if that happens i'll back off and just be pleasant but not personable.autistic charm is real because a lot of people do actually hate that reserved phase of talking, it's just about making sure you're tailoring it to your audience and paying attention to whether they vocally or physically shift gears or if they seem uncomfortable/unwilling to engage with you like that.i think it helps that i'm relatively attractive and that i tend to jokingly demean myself by calling myself an idiot or drawing attention to any obvious but typically taboo social shortcomings first. i'll call myself an idiot or something on that level of personal insult in a joking non-selfserious way if i did something silly, and half the time people light up or start laughing because strangers aren't usually so self-aware or willing to break the social contract like that.anyway idk it really depends on what level autist you are. i find that digging into someone else's personal life in a way that's overly intimate isn't usually received well if you don't overshare (within reason) a little bit about yourself first.
>>43136442yea this must be some normiebait shit. its a good socialmaxxing strategy tho. Im pretty autistic but I don't like sharing anything about myself and ill will think about how I shouldnt have said it for like days after. if I was a barista and someone started asking how my day was im shutting down.
>>43134312You are wrong. Normalityfags want to exploit autismfags. You are accepted if you accept being exploited.
>>43136272>r/nonbinarynonbiney is when>your transition failedor>you're too afraid to commit to your transitionor>you enjoy the novelty confusing peopleor>you're white cishet and want victim points but bisexuality wasn't enough
>>43136359Three things I can gather from the screenshot>some pooner doesn't like getting gendered male after all>they enjoy having a masculinized body>you cropped the last part out, presumably on purpose but so lazily it's still readable and undermines your entire point can't be that hard to find actual regret posts man
>>43136272literally none, i feel zero sympathy for someone who willing did that to themselves>>43136283this is the objectively correct solution, with the only change being "forever" instead of 20yrs
>>43136391here i uncropped the two letters for you.
>>43136272I tell them to kick rocks and welcome them to the "Testosterone poisoned me" club
Is there anything I could do to prevent this from happening? I know that people with BPD tend to cut people out of their lives, but it's really eating at me, and I don't know if there's anything I can do about it. I think our friendship is fine right now, since I just explicitly asked her if she might leave, but it's still frightening. I care a lot about her, and I really enjoy being her friend. I'm also afraid she might die if I'm gone, since I've talked her out of killing herself a few times now. For additional context, I don't think I'm her favorite person. I also think I'm generally quite a good friend, and she's never gotten mad at me for anything and has only ever been upset with me once.
>>43134747i do get the concern for that, but she is honestly doing quite well in managing her issues. she’s been cutting a lot of difficult people out of her life and is trying to make changes to better herself, it’s just that i’m afraid she’ll end up cutting me out of her life next or just decide it would be better for either of us if we stoped interacting. it’s not really that common a situation maybe, but i’d like to keep being her friend and i’m not sure how to go about that. i certainly don’t think i’m a bad influence on her, but she does still deal with BPD and i’m afraid she’ll come to not like me eventually
>>43133977>I know that people with BPD tend to cut people out of their lives, but it's really eating at me, and I don't know if there's anything I can do about it.>Is there anything I could do to prevent this from happening?I feel with you so much. Recently I lost a friend, who decided he didn't want to talk to me anymore for no reason and completely out of the blue. I don't think there is anything you can do about it, you can only postpone or accelerate it happening, but eventually they just do it. I also thought I was special to him, and that it wouldn't happen, or any time soon, however, he did already did that to many other people, and will continue like this in the future. There is nothing you can do about it, OP. Your friend either has to change by herself out of her own will, or, more likely, nothing will change, and she will just continue with this with the next person and the person after that.
fuck this emotionally unredeemable people op. bpd cuntfags deserve no contact with society and you're going to be their sucker
You deserve better, anon.
>>43135473that’s honestly what i thought, i don’t expect to be special somehow. it’s just miserable because she’s one of the few people i've ever genuinely cared about and i know there’s nothing that’ll replace her.>>43135486i’m not upset with her about it at all and i don’t hate people with BPD even after everything, i expected it to happen at some point from the moment i started talking to her. it just really hurts to hear her confirm it
is it true that the trans community in eastern europe is absolute shit?Nearly every time I tried socializing with troons from the same country or even close to where I live, it's been AWFUL.I've been cheated on, made a fool of, lied about, demonized. And the conclusion I have is that the second they realize I have autism, I'm less than human to them, and when they realize I have bpd WHICH IS A REACTIVE DISORDER BTW RETARD, MEANING IF YOU DO DUMB SHIT I **WILL** REACT, I'm demonized the fuck out of
>>43135213i think you have enough proof to answer your own question
>>43135245fml..
>WHICH IS A REACTIVE DISORDER BTW RETARD, MEANING IF YOU DO DUMB SHIT I **WILL** REACT,not really sure if I want to sympathize as someone whos PTSD and been reactively abused before or call you retarded for identifying with and acting like "reactive disorder" is a real thing that justifies your impulsivity. Because it doesn't and it will be happier for you if you can learn to control yourself, through dbt and meditation.
>>43135400sorry I'm just frustrated at the whole situation.When I say reactive I mean that for an example, I state my boundary, the person Knows of such said boundary, and they make the conscious decision to cross that boundary.An act of betrayal and not respecting me as a person. Therefore, I think it should be expected and not my fault when I push the person away or get irritated a bit.Because at least in my case I don't have asspull spirals anymore, thankfully.
>>43135213i personally find the ones in eastern europe are less like that and amerikikes are the most evil
misandry editionqott: how do you feel about men?prev - >>43120949
bitch STOLE my moder
shame on a moder
cum on a moder
mock mockwho's der
try to run game on a moder
https://apnews.com/article/supreme-court-conversion-therapy-colorado-92b34295f9ef497a4a1cbeb56c9b74c6
wow crazy
>>43133223>legal in all 50 statesit's literally not
>>43133296How fucking retarded are you?
>>43114748>worship your new religion instead: scienceno thanks. I am against conversion therapy tho
>>43135159>everything has to be some of dogma or worship
of europe.There won't be one. Europe is already pretty far right wing at the moment. The people will not allow refugees accross the border. Europe is no longer bleeding heart left wing.
>>43136506Chancellor Merz announced that Germany needed to prepare to admit 500k Palestinians recently and I'm sure Iran will send millions to Europe and eventually the USA when their country collapses from war. Meloni has brought tons of Africans and Indians to Italy, and I don't see this supposed right wing stance on immigration existing anywhere besides Japan where their Prime Minister announced a complete shut down of immigration from Islamic countries.
>>43136540Oh.. fuck...
I like frozen berries but i cant find any packets of frozen berries under 200g. This leads to having to store like half of the berries in the freezer. But how can I know my flatmates wont poision my frozen berries? This is the biggest downside to having flatmates becauze i camt buy amy frozen berries.
>>43134288Ur welcome nona, glad I could help!
>>43133412>extreme povertymeasured by economists who decided that no light bulb means big poorwealth disparity was usually a thing though, some guess it's just the nature of agricultural society if nobody compensates with stuff like school
>>43133238Are frozen berries the only food you own? Why are you so fixated on berries and not literally every other bit of food and drink in you (presumably communal) fridge/freezer?What about your shower products?This is paranoia.
>>43136176I dunno i just feel like the berries are most fallible to foul play...
>>43136200Dummy
>never had bf before>try best to not fart when visiting, successful>moving in with my bf soonHow do you navigate cohabitation like this? I can cut stuff out of my diet that causes the worst of it but not completely fix the issue. I also don't want to enema while he's around because it's mortifying how do I be tactful about this?
>>43136453You just make concessions and learn that when you date somebody you and live with them you see the grossest aspects of them and it doesn’t bother you and if it does leave them
>>43136495I'm not doing that, like if I had a Normal Tummy I wouldn't care too much but the reason it bothers me is the magnitude.
>>43136453Youll be able to keep things like that mostly from eachother for awhile, but after a month or two the walls will break down and if you last into half a year or more youll both fart around eachother without even flinching
I started transitioning 5 years ago. The political landscape was nowhere near as awful as it is now.
Yeah no shit, you started at the peak of DEI shit and corporate Pride
>>43136333well yes
>>43136333Why does lack of DEI and corporate pride have to mean transphobia? Why can't people just use common sense and let us have basic rights?
>>43136321zoomers are the ones who want this political climate
>>43136416Because just as people couldn't stay reasonable about supporting trans stuff, we're facing an overreaction that won't stay reasonable about opposing what was the problem in the first place
Why do you guys get to have a identity, flags and parades while us incels don't? Objectively we experience more discrimination and have worse life outcomes
>>43135421>I'm too old >30 this yearYour generation is gigafucked because of this retarded mentality.I was a failure in my 20s but thank fuck I didn't have this mentality. Turned my life around at 29-30 and now at 37 getting ready to buy a house and living with my bf.It's never too late. Stop letting internet brainworms own you, anon.>>43135442Sulfasalazine. Also sold under the names Azulfidine and Salazopyrin.Just do it. One per day for a month.
>>43135495why are you albanian?
>>43135368You do tho. You're the A in LGBTQIA+ retard.
>>43135368picrel is disgusting >>43135368
>>43136197white pill me on making it in your 30s my fellow millennial troonI just started 8 months ago and I'm 31 now, I feel like I'm setting myself up for false hope and disappointment
Should we support our egg sister in her time of need?
>>43136428>why do I not feel any sexual attraction to old and ugly people?Truly, a mystery for the ages. Perhaps it is a sign of some deeper truth: that people I don't want to fuck are actually morally wrong!
>>43136387total hon forcemasc
>>43136428Lead
>>43136468But she’s hot
>>43136428I think it’s bc being isolated on a culture that hates you will eventually kind of twist you into a weird monster who represses it so hard that it can only come out as a fetish. And since that’s the only way to let it out, it becomes extreme and grotesque. Like an ocean trying to filter through a straw
how does that make you fake trans AGP man moding puppy monsters feel? (OP's a fake trans AGP-bimbomaxxing "woman" IRL)
i mean yeah there's a lot of female influencers like that, cis and trans. who cares really
is it agp to wear panties when boymoding
>>43136035Ok, but why must you specify your gender? Would people think otherwise?
>>43136091if people don't hear the moid voice which i normally use then i typically get identified as female especially if my breast growth is visible
i did it so i would feel comfier in girlmode. it works. also yes it is agp lol, but take the value judgement out of that
>>43135743I did it for a little bit but I have stopped recently out of fear of looking gross and being agp.
>>43136205Why not voicetrain and girlmode then
What do you think of hazel?
God, I wish someone thought about me the way these two nerds think about a youtuber
I think I would give her a big kiss on the lips
>>43134951tfw no rape fantasy
>>43135667i look like a man like this
She's cute, I'm honestly surprised the board likes her so much but I'm not complaining except for the guys posting about their rape fantasies I think they should leave her alone.
