I've been trying to figure out if I'm trans or cis for about a year now.Tried looking for signs in my childhood. There were none.Tried introspecting whether I am dysphoric. Feel just fine with my body, mostly apathetic, but not like anything is wrong.Tried a more feminine gender presentation. Felt either nothing or felt horrible.Tried using different pronouns on a alt-account. It just felt like I was lying to people.Tried hrt for a couple of months. Felt alright at first, but it began to feel profoundly wrong when the changes started to show.Every single thing I've tried up until now has only reaffirmed the fact that I am just a cis man.Being cis is obviously the more pragmatic, and thus preferable, outcome, but I simply can't accept it. Every time I am reminded I'm cis, a crippling dread washes over me. I should love being a man, simply because I am one, but I can't help but obsess over what I am not and never will be. A woman.How do I accept once and for all that I am just a cis man, and that I won't ever be a woman, and also that I don't want to be a woman to begin with?
>>40924271Lol I also took estrogen to deal with hair loss, I went straight to the nuclear option and it worked.
>>40922371Don't worry about essence, descriptors, ontological truths about identity, or what the pragmatic option is (transitioning is rarely about pragmatism). If it's something you want for yourself, then you don't need to justify it or meet some requirement. You mention feeling uncomfortable / like you are lying when trying out different presentation. Does that come from shame over what you want compared to what you feel you should be wanting, or is it that you dislike those things for yourself? It sounds like you could either have TOCD and these are just obsessions, or you may be trans and have just internalized that this is something wrong. It's not something that other people can really decide for you. IMO the main thing you need to determine is what physical traits and presentation make you feel better/happier. You don't need to know everything about your identity right now, and worrying about whether you meet the criteria to be considered trans/female will just make you go crazy. It's also fine if you decide you like your male characteristics and don't want any of the changes hrt/transitioning would give you. Just do whatever feels more right for you. You also may want to try to find a competent therapist to help you work through this if you've been struggling with this for a long time.
>>40924649Ig you knew you were trans and dysphoric and thus there were concrete reasons for taking E. My situation is different, where I know I am cis but cannot accept that
>>40924684Yeah when dealing with trans issues everyone is so imprisoned by the cis normaitve concept of reality where everyone is trapped in a box of male/female. Being trans isnt about being male or female because transition is always partial. Thats why there is so much cope over how "trutrans" you are because everyone wants so badly to be normal and live a normative life but its limiting to stay in that box. Transition will always be partial, its better to think in terms of specific changes rather than trying to put yourself in a box.
>>40924684>Does that come from shame over what you want compared to what you feel you should be wanting, or is it that you dislike those things for yourself?I can't tell, especially since it oftentimes wildly fluctuates between the two.On some days I really want to desire to be a woman, simply to escape from what I am right now, and on other days I am deeply disgusted merely by imagining myself as someone trying to pretend to be a woman>It sounds like you could either have TOCD and these are just obsessions, or you may be trans and have just internalized that this is something wrongI really really hope I don't have TOCD, but only because that would mean I also have OCD, which is something I really don't want to have to deal with. It's probably not TOCD though, since I don't have and obsessions or compulsions outside of thinking about gender.It also doesn't feel like I am trans, since I simply am most comfortable with being a man. I really don't like it, but it's the only thing that feels right. As mentioned in the op, I've tried plenty of stuff just to see whether I'd feel any happier, and nothing had any positive effect. There definitely is underlying shame to it all, but mostly because it feels like I'm trying to skinwalk a trans person rather than my male self>IMO the main thing you need to determine is what physical traits and presentation make you feel better/happierGenuinely, how do I determine this if everything only ever had negative results? I really don't want to be pessimistic, but I genuinely can't think of any physical traits or presentation that would make me feel happy. I am comfortably numb with my current presentation, only because it's almost devoid of any personality
There are almost no good looking femboys. That's why they all hide behind face masks and anime avatars. The ones that remotely look good are usually stealth tranners on HRT and with FFS that call themselves femboys for attention.
>>40924343But they are. 80% femboys are afabs, rest is hrt femboys (trannies)
femboy is a porn term anyway and it honestly is a really cringe term nowadays only 20 year olds use it because anyone older than that sounds extremely cringe, literally just troon out or get a girlfriend already
>>40923028lmao he looks like a guy at my office LMFAOOO
>>40923028Thats bekause when people hear femboy ,they think flat woman with a dikkThats how all drawn representations of them areIn reality ,there are like VERY few non trannies that look like that ,and most people forget/ignore the BOY part of femboy
>>40923028Because being a true amab non-hrt femboy doesn't mean looking exactly like a women. I'm just a boy, nothing more. I have a big chin, body hair, a deep voice, and all the other things that every other guy has. The only difference is that I wear thigh highs and shave
i made a booru (image gallery) for glegle and boymoders if anyone is interestedhttps://glegle.galleryhttps://boymoders.com
>>40915504Where did glegle come from?
>>40923898an /r9k/ thread 3 or 4 years ago died there and was resurrected in [s4s], /bant/, and /lgbt/
>>40923877Shit taste
>>40921285Idk you could vet for this booru
>>40923898its what this anon here said >>40924207i've seen glegle more on /s4s/
>be me, a chaser>try to fap to tranny porn>"weird" feeling and cannot get fully hard>fap to straight porn>hard as a diamondAm I a fraud, a fake chaser right? Why is this?
>>40924391why are guys like thist. post op who self-inserts (masturbates) every day
>>40923953Try Hereonneptune era daisy videos
>>40924517Do I really need to explain? It's because sex (a thing done by men to women) is sinful and doing sex to someone is wrong because erect penises are rape. SRS solves everything, you see. We no longer have to deal with the moral burden of having a penis and wanting to put it in holes. We'd be free of sin. Incapable of it, in fact.
>>40924818it's weird for a guy to be aroused by having a pussy
>>40924831It would seem weird if you already have one, I guess
reminder:boymoder NOT for sex
>>40924676whatever :[ youre no fun
>>40924676what are you talking about i use my boymoder for sex every dayshe is really cute it would be impossible not to
>>40924753giwtwm
>>40924676boymoders are for pounding until she cries
Okay which of you fags lives with her
>>40924590he probably lives in a dirty little apartment full of transbians
>>40924590look at him making his father proudmaybe he's a whore
>>40924590living with 3 hippies and being passoid sounds great desu. if its 3 trasbians of some typical variety then not so much but still sort of nice
>>40924600That's his son >>40924602I could totally see him living in a transbian polycule>>40924660he does>>40924662Elon doesn't give a shit about the white race he doesn't give a shit about anything except making more humans
sounds like sex drugs and rock'n'roll, Elon must be burnimg woth jealousy as hes very likely salty repper
Those who are prehrt or early in transition post pics so others can assess their future passability. and even if you’re like 3 years+ into trooning you can still post pics ig idk probably should’ve just made a /passgen/ instead since there’s not one up right now but idk.
>>40922178you don't seem to be fucked, ur hair is solid but desu the makeup is a bit overdone>>40923736life>>40924127probably gonna make itwhat's on ur right arm
>>40924234burns from a lighter, i used to sh but I've been clean for a while
>>40924244awww i'm sorry i'm glad ur doing better
unless you retard trannies want only one person to see your picture can you start using litterbox instead of unsee
>>40924492Unsee can let any number of people see pictures for up to 6 hours, it's just that the default is for only one person to be able to see the image and people here keep forgetting to change the default.
The only explanation for the mass proliferation of trans women in recent times is that females are treated better than males are.
>>40922710and is that actually why you transitioned or the only reason it seems more people are transitioning?
>>40917325You know what you call a 25 year old trans woman in 14559? A MURDER VICTIM! >>40917325
>>40918907when I ascended from inceldom, I didn't go from 0 girls to 1 gf. I had a rotation of 5 of them that I was seeing regularly.It's all or nothing.
>>40923346Zen alpha is going to be offline generation full of giga chads who make love to a woman and laugh at trans people. Age checks are coming to all countries, kids are being banned from internet.Men won't ever stop loving women.
>>40917325but haven’t trans men exploded more than trans women?
He's cutting off his boobies this weekend. I usually prefer FtM twinks to have flat chests but idk his tits are so perfect he actually looks hot asf with them
>>40924362Show yourself pls :3
>>40924399You look like a buff version of my uncle. He's bald, too.
>>40924451im getting an FUE hair transplant, i dont wanna be bald anymore
>>40923274it is sad those tits are going to go. I fully support transitioning. I have another ftm friend that cut her giant tits off.Shit's just sad man, I really like boobs
>>40923274i think he will look hotter desu
I am a cisgender man. I'm 30 years old, have a well-paying job, am six feet tall, and take care of myself. I would openly date a transgender woman if we got along well. I would take her on dates, show her to my family, and never be ashamed of her. I'm not a chaser and do not actively pursue transgender women, I just treat them like I would treat anybody else. Yes, we exist. Get over it.
>>40924151Trans men get wifed up already. Its not really really gay and they can get pregnant.
>>40924277Why do you hate the only people who are not ashamed of yourselves? Do you really prefer a loser straight man who fucks you out of intense sadness and desperation? Do you?
>>40924318I have a pussy so I can date normal nice straight men
>>40923919>Get over it.womanbrained
>>40923919ive read this is a patrick bateman cadence
this is so sad sisters, could *not* have happened to a nicer guy
>>40924746what did he say
so this doesn't roll back the Supreme Court ruling and now because of this farce arrest J.K. Rowling is bankrolling himhow is any of this a win?
>>40924767that you should beat up trannies who use women's restrooms
>feel dysphoria>post nude pics>chasers say they wanna rape me>satisfied>repeat
>>40921501I still wish you well. It's getting late now, so I guess I'm going to wish you sweet dreams. And sleep well.
>>40921508AhahahasFuck you
thanks for the pics
>>40920554Why do you prefer BWC
Is this the thread I can post in to get called rapebait and a tranny whore?https://unsee cc/album#NvqAYUmY0GPm
In order to determine if someone is right for you, you should give them 100 shit tests before becoming their girlfriend. Tests that determine their loyalty, their character, their patience, their maturity, their intelligence. If they pass every single one, it's okay to date them. If they fail even one, then you should forever write them off as a romantic partner.
I'm tired of your shit test because I don't know what you actually want and just default too who I know you to be before. Just be yourself with me in person and go from there.
>>40924268nice try foid, but we're not hypergamous like you
transvestite general, for regular blokes to like to wear panties and skirts at the weekend for a bit of fun.QOTT: When did you start crossdressing? Buy any cute skirts lately?
>>40924530NeverNo
Is it ok to use women for sex and entertainment, then discard them once you find someone more attractive or lose interest? Given they typically treat others like that, without thinking it‘s a bad thing.t. poonah
>>40923858Only if they deserve it, and women do.
>>40923927everyone deserves it desu. humanity is for the most part retarded cattle. have you ever talked to a normie? not a single sentient thought behind their eyes
>>40923132Morality is subjective, so you can rationalise it any way you want.
>>40923132Its ok. Thats what I do to poonst.lesbian
>>40923855I like the cut of your jib
