In my objective understanding of cis society, i have come to one very harrowing realization for cis women. There is nothing sadder, more pitiful than a cis woman who has forsaken family for career. Its simply not natural. And you can tell, you always can, no matter how they phrase it, the resentment of having chosen career over family echos from their soul. Whenever the topic comes up, its easily noticeable how the things they say about birth and kids, about how they want no part in it etc etc etc, its all just harrowing, deep, severe cope. The pain is in and between their words.They shouldn't be at work, they should be having kids, raising them, sharing happy and wonderful moments with them. They crave it so deeply in their soul. Cats are no true replacement for their biological imperative. They are fundamentally the most earthly of creatures, cis women desire deep down to be like mother earth, and procreate. To work away in some office building, is like ontological suicide for a cis woman..If you know any cis women in your family or friends circle who are working, please remind them that their clock is ticking.
Yes. Trans women can take over from cis women in a professional capacity and earn income.
>>423302921. ergo proxy sucks(very rare i’m a anime hater)2. crazy to think you know better about ppl then them 3. i feel the same thing when ppl ask if im going to have kids I yearn to be a mother and the pain leaks through my lies of disinterest in being a parent but, am too unstable and the current political is too worrisome to even adopt but, i yearn to fall in love and raise a mixture of me and the person i fall in love with but, don’t want to accidentally pass down abuse somehow so having no womb is for the best unfortunately
>>42330292I never thought I'd agree with a tranny
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42328706>hundred of buckshundred bucks
Coming to the painful conclusion that my BF will never be as authentic to me as I wish he were. I know I don't have the right to know everything. I am speaking up about being curious about his person in an entirety, anything and everything, and am never judgemental. He is what I consider the best partner I could possibly imagine. And I am radically communicative about my activities and thoughts with him myself, which he does appreciate a lot. Catching him doing things as small as they may be and him never mentioning it, even upon inquiry? Makes me feel like he is hiding more than I will ever know. I assume I need to let it go and accept the sadness this arises and concentrate on something more worthwhile than what might just be romantic fantasies.
>>42329624It does sound like you’re looking for a level of reassurance from your boyfriend that isn’t realistic. You should not rely on a partner to regulate your emotions. A lot of interpersonal advice will have you thinking that you can control other people’s behavior by acting right, but that can give you unrealistic expectations about what you can control and make you feel responsible for other people’s behavior.Maybe your boyfriend can’t reassure you as you want because no other person could, but maybe he’s making you worry for a reason. Either he’s just more emotionally distant than you want (very common in men) or he’s keeping something from you that he doesn’t feel like telling you because he knows it will upset you. Experience has taught me that it’s easy to expect too much from a partner, and that can cause problems, but also the people we date can have trouble communicating in a way that can make little problems way bigger and uglier than they need to be.
I'd like to troon out but given my faceshape i'll always be pretty ugly.I know its silly but i dont want to do it unless i have somewhat of a gurantee that i'll turn cute afterwards.
>>42329918>You should not rely on a partner to regulate your emotions.Is that what it is, though? Him and I are just so very close and have such a healthy relationship that this wouldn't have crossed my mind. :(>control other people’s behavior by acting rightIs this meant to describe subconscious behaviour? Consciously I am eager to to know the love of my life in full so he can be or do whatever he pleases to be with my full support. Partners in crime and time I guess. :D>more emotionally distant than you wantDoesn't sound like him at all, to be honest ..>because he knows it will upset youMaybe I wasn't clear enough about the specific things I like to know. I'm not trying to extract information out of him that he doesn't want to tell me ..I'm not trying to dismantle his need for privacy.>it’s easy to expect too much from a partnerComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
i might actually despise ftfemboys/no t "trans men" more than agp rapehonsat least boomerhons probably have some sort of dysphoria, but these people are literally just women who feel the need to appropriate EVERYTHING after reading too much bl, and make sure ftms can never be taken seriously i thought all these attentionwhores died after 2021, but apparently some stuck around instead of becoming detransitioners who spread the word about the horrors of changing their name to Ash or Xavier for 6 monthsthe droves of 50 year olds with sissy kinks are way worse for optics, but something about these women really grinds my gearsmtf btw(feel free to shower with me with praise for my opinions trans guys)
>>42329455It's just a tomboy with an extra layer on top.
>>42329934>>42330034It must be nice to be so sure of everything. To be completely honest though, even if I were to detrans, I wouldn't hate what I did to my body, and if I were to somehow, I wouldn't blame anyone but myself considering how I didn't have a trans circle that hyped up my transition. I think that detransers who blame everyone but themselves are pathetic. Apart from some fat redistribution that I'm not a fan of (which really just means I need to lose weight, nothing irreversible or unmanageable), I quite like what T has done to my body. Whether or not people think I'm trutrans or a woman from an anonymous post means nothing if I can actually imagine myself growing old. Growing old as a woman was unimaginable to me. It still is. I guess I just shared that anecdote because any mention of ftfemboys reminds me of that little era of my life, yk? Nice to give some insight from someone who used to be part of that group, even if I think my experience is a little different than a lot of the other ones. Most of the ftfemboys that OP is complaining about wouldn't be on here to give their insights since they're mostly on tiktok and instagram, and also are mostly in highschool (They age out of the whole being a boy thing by the time they graduate, usually).Even during that era, though, I was very conservative in my presentation, meanwhile I knew an ftfemboy in highschool who'd break uniform to walk around with his tits out and a full face of makeup. (I wanted him immensely but one of my cishet friends beat me to it) I wish I could've asked him what his deal was exactly and get some insight into the way that demographic thinks directly from the source, rather than hear speculations about them from people on here. I never met one in person since.
>>42330321you talk too much. very feminine
>>42320271Foids invading moid spaces.>mtf btwI'm sure you'd know about invading spaces as well
>>42330051You are more annoying, cishet foid
when should one start fatmaxxing? i always had been skinny and low body fat percentage. now i have been on e for 7 months. i wonder if it is time to gain some weight. >t.ranny 180cm 65kg
i’m ftm myself and i don’t care that i’ll never be able to penetrate someone with my tdick i’ll just keep using a strap-on and pretending i don’t have anything down there. i’d even go through a hysterectomy/vaginectomy but the complications look way too painful for it to be worth it. “oh but you can’t feel anything with a strap anon” yeah you probably can’t feel shit with a disgusting frankencock either.and speaking of that, why do most pooners even want top surgery? most of them are fat so the complete flatness only in the chest area looks extremely unnatural; i get getting a breast reduction but a getting complete breast removal when cis men their size would have small man-tits is retarded, at least lose weight before the surgery.
>>42329268>Lives in the UKGo away thirdie
>>42329278The UK is leaps and bounds better than whatever brown shithole you live in
>>42329287Uh oh! The jellied ell eater is upset :) ?
graft scars are hideous
>>42329327I've actually just finished eating a jar of pickles cockles. I don't like eel
noooOOOOoooOOoooOOOOO the heckin geeeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssyou need to breed! ur dad is the math man on twitter!! wtf the west is falling noooooooooooooo
>>42328876tranny genes are smart genes, whatever reasoning that has
>>42329151Are you retarded? He is not "math man" on Twitter, he is one of the smartest people alive today and it would be a shame if her elite human capital spermies weren't saved
>>42329903Yeah one of the smartest people alive today had a tranny daughter, because trannies happen from smarty genes and people like you happen from dummy genes
>>42329903why are you so obsessed with making more trannies and spreading tranny genes to future generations so they can suffer. what is wrong with you.
>can a white chudette like me ever find love...>i cant stop yearning for a brown womans touch..
>>42329132where r u
Probably one of the more successful fatmaxxing endeavors, but it is still triggering my ed hard. Pic included.
>>42328454Well I'm probably going to get denied entry into a clinical trial today because of my weight. I also never see anyone with a body similar to mine so all I'm left with are numbers to look at.
>>42327005>chinese>considers self fat>only 25 bmidid you know most americans conside 25 to be excessively thin
>>42329711Hey I'm at least trying to be healthy here, I don't know if I should be comparing myself to the American standard.
>>42329874that's probably a good idea
>>42327005fatmaxing is so fucking hard how do you guys do this shitim 145 5'10 im trying to get to 155 and then back down (is that even going to be enough ??) but eating fucking sucks how do you guys do this shitalso how do i make sure i can still go back to my ed for when im losing weight
i want to transition but i am afraid of looking ugly
>>42328251Me too but you just gotta bite the bullet
>>42328251>that hairlineNona, take your pills!
>>42328251i looked awful pre-HRTnow i look a lot better, mostly to hrt and looksmaxxing
best ways to detransitionso a bit about myselfi am 31, on hormones for like a decade, post op for like five.. the political situation is getting to be too much to me and i'm just tired of fighting it, so i'm ready to give up.i think my friends hate me and don't want to talk to them any more. i can't work or anything either because i'm just constantly thinking about how worthless i am. if i could go back to being a man i could actually be valuable in society.i wish i didn't have a vagina.but it's so hard and scary to commit to it. and idk how even. i can't find a single shirt that doesn't make it super obvious i have tits. and i failed and did a fucking estrogen shot yesterday!i don't have any men's clothes either. maybe i need to buy some.maybe it's okay to stay on estrogen and obviously whatever i think i'm doomed to have a vagina forever but that doesn't mean i have to be a woman. i'm obviously a man. so i shouldn't be wearing girl's clotheswhat do i do?
>>42329783Aydenmaxx
>be me, biden>only really attracted to men who are a bit mean to me and seem uninterested>fantasize about plapping and dominating and making love to a guy who's reluctant >want him to admit he's into it when he can't deny the pleasure any longer>it's essentially an anxious attached surrender style fantasy I derive emotional validation from because I grew up feeling unwanted>mfw there's no one out there who I could date because it's unethical to pursue people who are genuinely uninterestedWhat do I do
>>42329702I don't really want to think about this rn, I'm here for the bussy
>>42329655>>42329666Come back weirdo, don't be such a tease
>>42329780fiiiiiiiiine (I'm half manmoder half honmoder all retard with brainworms)
>>42329787>honmoderScary.Drop discord
>>42329861fiiiiineactually_april
i didnt have my regularly scheduled tranny repper mental breakdown in between semester breaks like i usually do so now im having it at the start of the spring semester
>>42329824Troon out it's better in the long run
>>42329837i cantnot at least until i finish college but desu by then it will probably be even more over for me so i will probably rope
>>42329852>not at least until i finish collegewhy not hrttrep?
>>42330275i would but if i get caught my life is unironically over. idk if it's possible to hide it after a few months.
>be a totally incel loser the first 2 years of hrt transition>i suck at sex, freak out when people are rude>the Popular Trannies gatekeep girlboss me out of Trans Community>dont interact with them for four years>find out they've been talking shit this whole time>tfw they have imagined me into a supervillain who must be stopped at all costs>im truly, simply just vibing and being nice>there's a group of early transition girls who i am helping, they all look up to me a lot>every few months i meet a trans girl who will be like "i heard you're evil. we cannot speak">every few *years* a trans girl will go "those girls are really toxic, i'm sorry for how i treated you">turns out the gatekeeping girls like to bring up details of how, when i got sexually assaulted, i started laughing and going "im the joker">this is evidence that im dangerousi either need to clear my nameor steal that giant clown shaped diamond from the art museum
This is not tuff
the greatest danger a young tranny will face is the trans community
>>42329159literally very grateful i didnt get pulled into these girls orbit. they set themselves up as like "in charge" but also like, dont voice train
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thred dead make sure (you) delete the old ones http://lena.kiev.ua/voice/ https://sys.4chan.org/derefer?url=https%3A%2F%2Fbuymeacoffee.com%2Falyssavt%2Fno-explanations-instructions-feminizing https://wiki.sumianvoice.com/wiki/pages/voice-examples/ >pasta:•Tool for visualizing pitch and resonancehttps://acousticgender.space/▶ Resources MTF:--- Full MTF Course ---•L's GuideComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42326902i have fucked up nose and throat issues which is why it sounds strained :( you should listen to those albums, that's me putting you on to them
>>42327841i will!! thats why i said thanks!! also bump
https://voca.ro/1h2sU7ahz46qnot satisfied with this, will continue tuning as i go through the morninf>>42326659not sure, but your voice sounds very very slightly strained
I'm genderfluid, amab.Can anyone with a lot of experience with voice training tell me if learning how to talk like a girl makes it harder to talk like a guy?Ideally I'd like to be able to switch between a male voice and a female voice, or if not voice, male mannerisms and female mannerisms.I have quite realistic expectations of voice training though, I don't think it's magic which is why I'm curious if I'd have a harder time talking as a guy if I conditioned myself
>>42330092it's the opposite, talking like a guy makes it harder to talk like a girl. that's why people go all in. (masculinity isnt neutral)
>start doing DIY EEn in December>can't tell if my balls have shrunk because it's cold where I live or because the estrogen is actually working
just masturbate and then inspect the sperm that usually works
>>42330183How do you inspect the sperm
>>42330221does it come out? if so you're hondosed
