New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I just watched a very based video by Dr. K that I find frankly nothing short of eye-opening. I'll quickly write up a summary for y'all and also because I don't want to forget about it!--- How to Actually Process Your Emotions ---Just because you don't feel an emotion doesn't mean that it's not there. Any emotion you don't process basically gets piled up in a sort of "emotional storage", which eventually overflows into an outburst/breakdown/whatever. Just telling someone that you're sad/depressed/whatever will do very little to alleviate that feeling, unless that person can actually help you process your emotion in the following way.When emotion arises, ask yourself: 1. "What is this emotion trying to tell me?"There is a clear message inherent to every emotional response. You need to figure it out. It could be a message about yourself, someone around you, the world in general — whatever! You need to put it into words.2. "What does this emotion want me to /do/?"Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Trying to get my shit together is pretty hard.
>>42198392too eepy, sorry peeps.Tomorrow I am afraid I will have... loads of time to.
>>42207675cute butt
>>42198173>What’s your goal?it was to maintain my current weight, and maybe gain a little bit to see how it sits on me after 2 years of hrt. gaining weight has been something i’ve always struggled with and having previously had anorexia it really distressed me to be forced to not eat for a bit. i feel better now and am focused on other things like correcting my posture (difficult with stitches) and resuming movement in my digestive track (movement isn’t happening, causing me to look bloated, causing me to not feel so bad about not eating). outside of this i never really had a goal, just less fat in some places and more fat and muscle in others
Thanks to all the ‘Queers for Palestine’ morons we’re now seeing a resurgence in actually high iq homosexuals who sexually HAVE a survival instinct and don’t feel like sucking off their future murderers
Fuck jewsFuck arabsDon't care
>>42207582>MUH JEWS>t. Faggot who belongs to the faction that wants to flood Europe with brown peopleIf anything, wanting to remove the squatters in "Palestine" by hook or by crook is a credible signal of wanting to reduce migration.
>>42209482I love how you forget gay brown people exist
>>42189580When I see kikes behaving this way, it saddens me. A lot of Jews will die for the behaviour of these Betar degenerates. Unfortunately after all that has transpired, the machinery of the holocaust will be seen as simply too crude, as like a cancer we have now seen treated and yet still metastasized, full body radiation is in order to save the host. Long gone are the intellectuals of the 19th and 20th century who gave nations reason to attempt to protect your people. Now the only Jews left are low value scum like you and that inbred faggot running Palantir. What a sorry excuse for humans. A great sadness that all your people must be removed to save the host. I will weep, but you will still surely die.
>>42209510Gay brown people are simply not numerous enough to flood Europe with and especially unlikely to swamp the host countries demographically.
would an openly LGBTQ character in a numbered Star wars film boost our visibility and optics in eyes of the general public?
>>42210201No. 100% chance they'd make them an annoying lesbian and if it is a gay man they'd give him a stranger things-tier coming out scene
>>42210201what about that gay kiss in one of the sequels>>42210274btfo tourist
>>42210274Calm down little autist your garbage movies don’t have any trans people in them
>>42210299or what if god forbid trans?
>>42210328>no transYou sure about that?
>>42206275mine are d sized..
>>42206275I met someone who got F cups... After only 6 months HRT
>>42206675being obese doesnt count
I don't know
>>42206275If you go on google images some people there have big ones, but most of it is irrelevant stuff
dos anybody have east asian mtf makeup tutorials, preferably from xiaohongshu or adjacent? i am very racist and yt femboys on reddit and discord pmo cus they dont know how to dress and have shitty guides
>qott: >t: do you let your body hair grow?>chaser: what's your limit on body hair?
>>42201821i want a transbian mommy
>>42208948nta i need a gf like this so i stop starving myself...
>>42201821pubes, pits, tummy fuzz and snail trails, leg hair are all fineim not a manchild either so idc if i see you with some extra hair because you forgot at some point
>>42209573Fml why do I keep getting my hopes up >>42209753Infect me. I NEED to starve myself
i’m so touch starved fuck it’s so bad i’d take anything, like even being hit would be better than this :(anyone want to touch me… i swear i’m pretty…
What did /lgbt/ get for christmas?
>>42208026open the curtains lil dude
>>42169200Reminder that a big part of the blacked fetish is corrupting others into it.Quit non-consensually involving people in your fetish. There are tons of threads on this site for posting it consensually.
>>42209340Chuddy cope, sorry that BBC makes your clitty twitch o algo
>>42207989Timmy chaser coping
>>42210158>>42210259i already know you're ugly as fuck irl, like shocking to look at
Beautiful trannies with cis boyfriends need to stop fucking talking and trying to befriend me. Why the FUCK do taken women insist so much in approaching me when I'm a shitty loser poonchud with no redeemable qualities? Do they think it's fun to cuck me while talking about how I'm so handsome and I could totally get chicks? Foids are soulless demons and I'm just a fun little circus monkey to them, I have feelings too
>>42207332Newfaggot, go back
Can't relate, I keep getting mtfs and repper mtfs in my dms and they're usually virgins too.
>>42207343I'm an oldfag I just don't keep up with trips anymore
>>42207289unfortunately i would have to rape her back even harder for this
>>42207256>Do they think it's fun to cuck me while talking about how I'm so handsome and I could totally get chicks?No. But I do think having a pooner in our group is cool. And I routinely approach and befriend lonely people because if they accept, then they will be less lonely since my friend group is quite accepting.>tranny with cis boyfriend
I'm a twink who's still a virgin and had multiple failed attempts to have sex I'm getting sick of gen z honestly most of them are the most anti social freaks i ever encounters lately i been chatting with a cute girl who's a few years older than lives me and was very interested in me, we planned to meet three times but she kept ghosting me and just frustrating I'm at the point i give up on gen z and find a millennial
>>42203222Gen Z is fucked in the head, its like they are allergic to being happy, and rather be sociopaths about social shit. I gave up on women because of Gen Z, at least fags and trannies are easy to get in bed with, but are hard to keep. Just remember to basically validate every delusion they have, and be really nice. To keep them, you basically ether got to get lucky or manipulate them enough to stay.
>>42205223I tried to sleep with a trans girl and fags in their 20s they were also moody af
>>42206975Yeah some are, if your trying to get in there pants just tolerate it, ghost them after.
>>42203222checked>im a twink>blahajno youre not
>>42203222Honestly, try meeting people in person at this point.
Homura editionPrevious: >>41924395>QotTWho's your waifu/husbando?Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>Do you have presents ready for me Santa?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
whoops forgot pic but I am claiming him as my husbando now
>>42208910I miss her...
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTA reminder that in 1 hour Movie Night is gonna start! Here is tonight's selection:>Kpop Demon Hunter>Kingom of Heaven>what the hell is "movie night"Its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community>where do we watch the movies?On the official Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server: Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
the typos don't talk about the typos
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTGood evening !Its finally time to start another Movie Night! Tonight selection is:>Kpop Demon Hunters>Kingdom of HeavenHere is the link of the stream, don't be shy and come join us! the film will start at 23:10 GMT>https://discord.gg/R2NNBsv3Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
what would you do if your crush rejected you for being a tranny?
>>42210202I’d be like yeah that’s fair and then move on
Love doesnt exist. We’re just being used and exploited. Its time to give up.
>>42208332>Im not pathetic im just lonely and want to feel the touch of a woman>Why is that so bad?If you want that then just get a real womanthey're better than trannies for anything serious anyway
>>42208470And I will get 10x more affection from them than any cis woman Lol>>42208485Noo I love you guys too much>>42208506>better for trannies than anything seriousDoubt. My cis guy friends date women but almost seem to resent them, calling them bitches and whores and sluts etc. I never would talk about a girl this way
>>42208552>Doubt. My cis guy friends date women but almost seem to resent themOf coursebut trannies are even worse
>>42208104You habitually go for these types of women and avoid the twinkhon-next-door", and somehow you're the victim.You like crazy whores because they're exciting and they make your dicks hard. Just admit it. Normal trannies are too boring for you lol.
>>42209550I had a trans gf who sort of looked like a boy the few times I saw her without makeup but as far as gfs go she was the best I ever had. No woman can love you like a trans woman can, if she was always strictly into guys and is the kind that can actually love a guy. I wish I could have had her forever.
hoeflation is at an all time high. even mtfs only want chad. the only way out is to become rich.
>>42207685as a trans woman if i were to date I'd want a short ftm though
>>42208187don't lie. you only want chad.
>>42207812what do you goon to?
>>42208505chad is gross
>>42209845Baraag-slop desu. And danganronpa fanfics.
post pics, vocaroos, traced images. etc. also reply to others.
no ftmg>>42209346he passesseethe about it
>>42209346I need him biblically
>>42207530I can't believe I look like this and was one time called a theyfab?
>>42207530Why do you have blunt bangs?
>>42210173Cos I cut them last night bcuz they were all in my face I think it kind of looks bad too but itll.grow out okay
why does being a bottom have to be so goddamn embarrassinglike i can't even fucking hide itanyone with a brain is able to tell that i'm the submissive one in my relationships and like okay i get it tradition blah blah blahbut like why does this bimodal bullshit get to dictate our social interactionslike you can tell when people can tellthey treat you differentand men just downright don't see you as a personi hate iti hate it i hate it i hate iti hate it so much
>>42207540I just want anons to be aware of alternatives to the penetrative meme.>t. BDSM side (neither top nor bottom)
>>42207558yeah ik being a side is a thing. thats why i specified that i was talking about penetrative sex.
>>42207010Yeah pretty muchI've clocked literally only one person that's trutop in my uni. But i mostly talk to faggots so theres that
>>42206951I met my friend's new gf the other day and the first thing she noticed about me was I was a "twink faggot"Its so over for me
>>4220695being a bottom is awesome wtf. i think its just a u problem cuz outside of gay friends teasing me (which is ironic cuz most of them are switches or bottoms) i havent had any issues. mostly cuz i have a personality that doesnt lead to ppl clocking me right away so maybe thats it. idk id say just try not to act like such a bottom?also wtf joeyy mentioned
