>when asked, 76% of finns accept transwomen as women>the finnish language lacks gendered pronouns, and in spoken finnish people refer to everyone and anyone as "it", so whether you're talking about a cup of coffee or a person is entirely context dependent>almost nobody uses the words for "sir" or "madam" even in service jobs, as it is considered outdatedwhy not move to finland? its the promised land of troons.
>>42205775as i thought, you don't voicepass. it's giving autistic moid. calling it clocky would be generous
>>42205892i have a point as to why that is, but I need to know something for that. Is finnish your native language?also i'm not the anon who was talking about doing a vocaroo.
>>42205905finnish isn't my native language, no. i don't think finnish cis women have different vocal cords than women from the rest of the world tho
isnt finland importing a lot of brown people
>>42195822lmfao
Why do so many ftms succumb to their fertile pink wombs?
>>42205879I'm not the king of foldering tgirlsAnd I do NOT fetishize them
>>42202848It feels good to touch/have someone else touch your genitalsSounds fake but it's true
>>42205945You’re right, you’re the queen
>>42206021Still untrue, other folderanons have hundreds of more pics than I do
>>42206083But non of them have the succulent lips given to you by the lord himself
I don't think fetishization/chaserism is that bad. Typically, when I fetishize someone, I feel a very strong sexual attraction to them. Combined with certain personality traits of them, it makes me want to love, cherish and protect them forever. Heterosexual sex is mostly fetishism, the concept of a wife and her physical appearance in contrast to her husband is more attractive than the actual woman and such. Therefore, chaserism is more or less typical straightness.
>>42204934Are you that misogynistic trooncell who wants to hurt cis women? You have nothing positive to give us if you are
>>42204991Please keep doing what you're doing. There's not enough people like you in the world
>>42204889they are mentally ill and think they should expect the same a 8/10 cis woman would
>>42204421gay men with long hair will cry about anything.https://www.tiktok.com/@maid.satinfairy/video/7576295820459396365
>>42205220>self-positioning as the enlightened exception - "every once in a while i am hit by a desire to at least try to give a good word to another tranny struggling" (quasi-spiritual calling vibe) or "occasionally some nona is being helped by something i wrote" (focus on own words as the saving force)>soft bootstrap narrative as universal truth - "a lot of it is the result of putting in the work and learning to enjoy the journey. and a lot of that is under the control of the individual" plus the classic "if even one nona considers that, then at least i did some good too">humility as a shield - "am i being too naive? be honest"invites criticism but makes it feel like kicking someone vulnerable>escalating to moral/cosmic stakes when pushed - "if nobody even tries, then the void wins">burke paraphrase about good (wo)men doing nothing - "i just want more happy trannies. is that really so bad?">externalizing failure to communicate onto audience/environment - "it'd soon be flooded by gigacommies and more crabs in the bucket"the overall tell is the constant subtle contrast between "me (successful, altruistic, seeing clearly)" and "you/them/this place (struggling, bleak, crabby)". it's wrapped in care and emojis, which hides the hierarchy even more.i get the esl angle, i have the same issue a lot. understand that this is what someone might gather from what you're saying even if that's not your intention. i'm not saying they're right, i'm saying you aren't communicating effectively enough that what you're trying to do actually succeeds.
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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>>42198374>Just so I get it, is it about, like, a Ba thesis?Not a thesis, but the research was supposed to replace some elective credits I needed to graduate with my bach degree. I signed up for a class with this contingency in mind, but by the time I got to it, I was already on the waitlist. I'm hoping he just forgot, or something, but after telling me, he was going to send me the information the Friday after the semester ended (and never actually doing that) I haven't heard a peep. If the guy didn't want me in his lab or working with him, he could have just said so already, I wouldn't be offended. I mean, he approached me, he took me to his damn lab and everything. It's also possible I dodged a bullet, there was some weird shit about it all.>Hm, how many hours of sleep do you get with that schedule? Did you try going to bed earlier?Probably about 8-10 hours, depending. Tried going to bed earlier, but ended up reading a bit to try to turn make myself tired. *Oops!* spent 2 hours reading an account of an arctic expedition from the 19th century. Silly fucking me.>Look out for points of friction.Strength training is just miserable for me, I'm not naturally athletic or muscular. Cardio is an easier sell and makes feel ecstatic. I guess getting the clothes is the first thing, having some water, setting up myself with some music, and then getting a timer going if needed. Psyching myself up is the most arduous part. My pullup bar is in my yard, so it's a little inconvenient to have to go out during winter, and constantly having to have the clothes to run outside is a bit fucking annoying.>leverage the social aspects you talked about itIt's harder for me. Not really knowing anyone in the area anymore, having to go far to see cool shit, being firmly against most social media, having a strange sense of humor, and having fairly atrophied (if they were ever developed) social muscles makes it difficult. The degenerate sleep schedule doesn't help.
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>>42198186>Oh, sadly not, I am aiming for it and more or less applied for just that, my chances are slim though, and my perspective is shifting rapidly.Ah, okay. It's still amazing how far you've gotten. Good for you. I am jealous.>I am growing increasingly tired of the FrenchI am also tired of the French!
>>42162119I did it, /sig/. I got the FFS that I worked 4 years to pay for, right after starting HRT.The results are mostly ok. I don't pass mostly, but it's better than it was.2026 will (hopefully) be the year of working out, and maybe saving for VFS. I'm too lazy to voicetrain unfortunately, I don't think I can bruteforce my way through that.I should probably start changing my docs as well.Things are kinda rough financially due to the surgery itself + some unexpected expenses afterwards. But things will be okay.
I regularly come to this board to remind myself that I am not a tranny. Seeing how horrible gender dysphoria really is always reassures me that I'm just overly dramatic and feel nothing like it. I'm really sorry you are suffering so much because of mere chance
>>42197490>I regularly come to this board to remind myself that I am not a trannyThat's me a decade into repping. Or me ~3 years before I started hrt.You'll join us eventually, nona. And we'll welcome you when you're ready.
>>42204400That won't happen because I'm not dysphoric like you all. Hope your transition is going well though. Wish you all the best
>>42204461>I'm not dysphoric like you allI wasn't dysphoric either. I was just fascinated about being a woman. In the end I just wanted to try. Much to my shock, it worked really well and I'm lowkey upset I didn't start earlier.>Hope your transition is going well though. Wish you all the bestThank you. It has gone well. 14 years into it. Perhaps too well that it alienated me from the online trannies.
>>42204518I wouldn't say I'm fascinated by being a woman at all. I'm sure it is just as mundane as being guy is, and I certainly feel a sense of estrangement thinking about what it would be like. There's just sometimes the passing "what if" thought, just as I may wonder what my life would've been like if I were born somewhere else or in another time period
>>42197490Same. I was pretty convinced and even seeing a dr, then came here and giggled, now im fine with it just being AGP and me being man moder or whatever yhe words are.
i want to know if you started hrt because you gooned too hard to the idea of being the opposite sext. manmoder who gooned too hard to the idea of being a woman
i dont think so it was something that kicked in bad with puberty and i only knew of straight porn then but already had sexual experiences with boys and girls too.the irony is hrt fixed alot of my problems
>>42198509Comments like this make me not willing to post advice.I have graduated to just being a woman and that's precisely why I want to help other nonas to do just that too.It's quite unfortunate that this board has developed such a crabs in the bucket mentality.
>>42196455Can you elaborate? What is the shitty mindset you think I have?I'm genuinely compassionate to dysphorics but other than offering very practical and actionable advice on how to improve, what else can I do?>>42196469>You "really wanted" to be a woman which is different, sounds more gender euphoric than transmaxxyWhat's the practical difference?In practice transition was indeed an improvement in everything (no difference from a transmaxxer) and I stay on hrt precisely because of the result. Is that euphoric? And if yes, then what's the distinction given that transmaxxers also do it for the practical outcomes?I'm not disputing your distinction, I'm just trying to understand it.Sure, I really wanted to be a woman and I am certainly happier since I became one but it's primarily due to the benefits. I'm no longer a neet failed man, but a successful woman with a boyfriend, functional social life and finances in order.
>>42195014AAP FTM and yes. penetrating looks fun. i think porn gave me a fetish from impregnating others. also spent too long imagine myself as my favourite male videogames character and masturbating as them lol
>>42204080do you think having SRS would make you feel more authentically a woman?
I DESERVE TO BE SHORT!!!FUCK MY SHITTY 6'3 LIFE!!!
>>42206040*folds you* There there...
I feel like expanded facial planes aren't talked about nearly enough in trans spaces, to the point where many think they're a myth and something brainwormed tttters came up with.But they're actually real. If you have a really big skull, your features are going to be very distant from one another, which is extremely dimorphic. Your features could be corrected and look female through FFS, you'll still look absolutely unmistakably male because that's how pattern recognition works.I've had ffs and I don't pass because my face is unmistakably male.It sucks that it's not talked about at all.
expanded facial planes are real but theyre also heavily dependent on your ethnicity in a similar way to noses
>>42205922I actually haven't gotten my nose done, but I want to get it done because it looks masculine, not ethnic. People tell me it's my main issue alongside the facial planes...I don't want a small pug nose through, just slightly slimmer frontally (esp the bridge) and straight laterally (no bump or curvature).
>>42205863SHUT THE FUCK UPtrannie sshpuld actualmy care that caffeine stunts breast growth but you never see threads or posts about it? Biggest fucking psyop, DIE
>>42205985wait what
Seriously my face is removing my desire to live. I really thought ffs would make me feel better but instead I just feel hopeless.
are there any relatively cold countries that dont despise trannies and have a good demographic outlook anons?
>>42204264very good point, don't come to Australia
Melbourne, Australia
>>42195724I don't know how to tell you this but the only country on planet earth right now that has a good demographic outlook is Israel
>>42204352Good to know, i will bring myself and several thousand of my muslim brothers and sisters with me.
>>42204352demographic outlook also means the amount and type of people immigrating there
is it really a social contagion?
>>42205630you must pay taxes and purchase property and breed and send children to daycare you seeit's very importantthis is all very importantyou must not transition
>>42205761Could this have anything to do with systematic discrimination in employment and in many cases poor access to healthcare? Boggles the mind.>>42205872Trans people are able to do all of those things, actually.
>>42205395>watch the video>he's literally describing ROGD>"it just hit me like a ton of bricks">"it was like a massive wave"it totally isnt real though
>>42205516LMAO>>42205544oh my science!!!!
>>42205872Dont worry, john 50 has already done all that.
>be me, """straight""" tranny>be bisexual in youth>slowly lose attraction to women, but still hold on to some of it cuz AGAMP.>be content as straight tranny, happy that I could never fit the stereotype of "transbian rapehon" cuz I'm not a transbian>one day randomly get desire to have sex with another tranny>mfwI don't know how to feel about this. I still generally prefer guys but with how difficult it is to find men that are willing to even talk to me, let alone date me, I can't get this fantasy out of my head.idk if this genuine gynephilia tho cuz I still have no interest in cis women really at all. the only thing I feel looking at cis women is envy.
>transbian fetishist rapehon rapemoidi truly hope you can find a good man so you never have to subject an innocent transbian to the fact that you see her like this
>>42202962are you a man or a tranny?
>>42203057fair, I feel bad about it but I've been so brainwormed to hell that at times I can't help it. honestly I think it is partially insecurity on my part because I have a fucked up relationship to sex in general
>>42197553Y'all zoomies are too hung up on labels. Just fuck whoever you think is hot. Why do you care so much what other people MIGHT say/think?What other people think about you, is none of your business
>>42197553I get this too but only when my t gets too high what's worse is I did try topping a trans girl it's just years of hrt have made that unrealistic to happen
what fetishes do top trans ladies (who wanna top guys) have?
>>42205852desu being told horrible things in a nice tone always hits me the hardest. yknow? like being threatened into doing stuff while hes keeping a smile on his face. bonus points if he comforts me after i start crying and pretends hes not the entire reason behind it
>>42205623making a man with a cute moustache go GLUCK GLUCK loudly on my schmeat B)
>>42205623i dont like sticking it up asses. just getting sucked off. sorry
>>42205898love u mwah>>42205937>just getting sucked offbut thats also pretty hot
its not really a fetish i just like when masculine guys and guys taller than me really really want to touch my bottom parts. makes me feel important i guess
What are these little dick cages for?
>>42203094Transwomen are women.
>>42203153Ciswomen are men.
>>42203094Theres two types of men that fuck transwomen. Those who fuck them for their male parts (literally gaymen and closeted or DL gays) and those who fuck them despite their male parts (cis men)
>>42203250>>42203153>those who fuck them besides their male partsAlso known as insufferable straggots and sex pests, transwomen are menChastity cages are fetishism
>>42205875Grow up loser. Irl no one likes every one for 100% everything about them. You learn to love someone, by accepting their flaws. You think all cis women dont have multitudes of failings men learn to ignore for the rest of them?
I've never seen them work the stereotypical tranny jobs like barista, tech worker or 9-5, it's always some unconventional job, Runway model, IG influencer or model, TikTok star, musician, Sex worker with OnlyFans or Prostitution
>>42205086Because those jobs make money.
>>42205086Those working normal jobs probably don't have the time to doll up like that.
>>42205086>why do people play to their strengthscurious
>>42205086You think they could even afford surgery with those other jobs?
i started hrt 3-4 years ago mid puberty and its done pretty much nothing. i ordered prog and bica and only the prog arrived. i put it in my butt and it gave me the shits. ive been eating the prog now and every night since ive have like insane back pain. anyone else or am i just retarded?
>>42204973You're supposed to rectal prog before bed. Oral prog isnt as effective. No reason to give you back pain doe? see if it goes away if you stop taking. Or look into whats actually giving you bsck pain
>>42204973>>42205917Oh actually i guess *I* dont get back pain from prog but some people do so youre just unlucky sorry
