my trans gf is oral only but she is prone to try anal. whenever we try, though, she says i'm hurting her and i stop immediately (even though my dick is kinda small i can feel like she's extra tight). she has a dildo but she only uses it for throat reflexes.i don't know where to go from here. maybe I should buy a vibrating butt plug to see if she can get used to something even smaller first? what do y'all think
>>41499808Well, for me it just happened kind of naturally, she was getting horny and as I got into it she just started taking condoms and stuff and I didn't complain, I don't really know why I let her do it, probably fear of making her feel bad and ruining the mood but she was asking me every step of the way if I was ok with it which made me feel a lot better about it and it just happened, I hope you're using lube? Because that's extremely extremely important, I had never trained my butt before and as I said it was still a tiny bit painful for a bit so always use as much lube as you canFor not getting shit on honestly I don't know it really depends on your dick's size and how long you plan on having sex for, my gf's dick is like 10cm or so and I had just taken a shower that day (obviously cleaned my butt but nothing crazy) and our sex lasted for only a few minutes, assuming yours is bigger and you wanna go for longer she will have to learn how to use an enema, you can buy her one and be there to learn how it works with her but then it's just trust, if she really doesn't want to after that it might be trauma or just aversion to anal sex that can't really be changed
>>41499182idk talk to her not me>>41499190probably not but idk
>>41499831well I'm just saying you need to apply a bit of pressure after 7 years. If you do that during foreplay she's going to think, "okay my partner wants to fuck me so bad he is literally starting to lose control of himself. I better either let him do it or blurt out a good reason why he shouldn't force it in me right now". Obviously you aren't actually going to do that part, but she doesn't know that subconsciously.
>>41499979thanks, kind anonette. i'll try that!
i don't even clean myself before anal or prepare but my bf i really good at iti think he uses his fingers to stretch me out first. i don't have any butt plugs or anal dildos
I have been cast from transbian communities for being too gay, leftist communities for being too left, rightoid communities for being too based, philosophical communities for being too radical, outcast communities for being too far out. I am the traveler, the outsider, I have vast troves of tales to tell due to my connections to the ontological side of reality.I am unwanted, because the truth is feared. I am reality.
kino
>>41500846great, can I give you a celebratory transbian gock sucking reward?
>>41500881No that sounds rather uhh... sexual? I dont like that idea
>>41500846the truth is that your takes are probably mid as fuck in all those categories and youre just really really annoying and/or abusive
>>41500980OP is office retard so you are correct.
who should i date as a pan trans girl with bottom dysphoria that doesn't like anal? asexual people? trans men?
what do we think about just identifying as ukes
>>41500639how is it fake im a certified baramoder :(
>>41500670post physique
>>41499367omg me toooooootheyll never understand :,,)
>>41501069no im shy >.<
>>41498229its good
How do you permanently get rid of tranny thoughts? I've tried stoicism, ive tried spirituality, i've tried to be more masculine, i've tried so hard and yet they do not go away.Lately they have creeped back in full-force and I feel myself about to cave-in again.
>>41498580can i also add u nona
>>41499455Ive tried Christianity and it didnt remove the feelings at all even when I prayed
>>41498121I wish they made a drug for it. We have drugs to suppress every single thought and feeling under the sun, but they decided to stop before inventing one for trannies. I could have been happy as a man.
>>41498121wdym you tried stoicism? how did that go?
>>41501091not the op, but I have, and while it made me superficially functional, internally I was still rotting away. don't recommend it as a cope, even if some level of stoicism may be helpful
when a straight man transitions... all cis women and str8 transgirls cry and become sad. do your part and stop this from happening.
>>41500876i mean she has the body of a tall athletic girl...i think ffs would turn her into an absolute passoid mogging 99,9% of this board
>>41500862Xhe is hot. Tell xher I would fuck xher ass.
>>41501057holy fugg I need those legs wrapped around my neck
holy fucking unit pre-trans id let him fuck the shit out of me
>>41501057she isnt that cute though which most straight guys like. she has a long face. guys tell me im cute cause i look young for my age.
spooky general for intersex people! Previous bread>>41444350~•PASTE BIN•~>what is INTERGEN?INTERGEN is a general for intersex people to talk to each other about their experiences or just to hang out>what is an intersex person?Intersex people are those born with any of several sex characteristics, including chromosome patterns, gonads, or genitals that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies>am I intersex?We are not doctors, please seek medical advice, but dont be afraid to ask questions here to maybe understand things better >are trans people intersex?Trans people are not inherently intersex, however an intersex person can transition if they wantComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>41499451I'm none of those anons but let me try.Trans people go on HRT and get surgeries and such by choice, to manage dysphoria or to otherwise become more comfortable in their own bodies.Intersex people are born in some medically significant sense outside of the binary. Sometimes what should be gender-affirming care and what would be gender-affirming care if we'd chosen it for ourselves is shoved down our throats without consent, with little or no consideration for our gender identities. This is one reason I think the distinction is important.It's not to separate myself from trans people. I live as the opposite my ASAB. There is no meaningful legal distinction between me and any other trans person, nor a moral distinction IMO.The social distinction for me at least is I never passed very well as my ASAB so I transitioned from non-passing to passing as the opposite sex. Very blursed desu in that I'm super happy it worked out in the end but I'll carry trauma for the rest of my life and very few people will ever be able to truly relate.>>41499822I think our rights struggles are profoundly overlapping and inseparable, and I hate the animosity I see in these threads.
>>41499643God I wish that was enough to stop everything lol >>41499451>also answering the question so i'm not just a troll, me and my partner are sewing our first costumes this year (and getting very frustrated in the process)Very cute what you two going as?>bonus question for people itt who are openly intersex, have you found it harder to find a job/ do you find it easier to find a job if you conceal your intersexness? as a very visible, unemployed trans person, this has been on my mind a lot recentlyI would hide until time itself dies; but my boss at work knows and I’m pretty sure my weekend boss does too, we’ve discussed some of my health issues for HR meetings Also you’re not a troll you are contributing so thank you :}
>>41499822>>41499822>I do wish I was not just a stupid fully male bodied tranny andhad at least some difference from all moids.I think the idea of being different is alluring in a sense, but I’m sure as you’ve experienced, being different from others is … well it’s awful… imo it I think the overlap is here when it comes to bodily autonomy , like I didn’t want it to messed up with as a child feeling wrong as drs poked and prodded me, fondling me saying my body was wrong or they could fix it. It makes me queasy thinking back despite it being almost 3 decades ago. And who knows maybe there is a neurological intersex condition that causes transsexualism, I don’t know since I’m not an endocrinologist or a neurologist.
>>41500368>God I wish that was enough to stop everything lolIt's nice for a couple days but it kinda gets old more than a week in. Eventually you start running low on food and TP and you start making friends with inanimate objects.
>>41499973>I think our rights struggles are profoundly overlapping and inseparable,how exactly?you might as well throw diabetes in too
i dont like having friends. spending time with people doesnt make me feel better, maybe i have fun at the time but ten seconds later its like it never happened. i used to want friends so badly and hated being alone but now its all ive known for so long i just want things to stay isolated forever. i have my computer, i have books and music and movies and shows and people on twitch and twitter and youtube to be parasocial towards, im fine. ill be fine.
it's just exhausting really, I feel bad for sometimes flaking on my few friends because I just realize that I can't deal with socializing after all at that moment
>>41499574what do you think would help us make us feel connected
i think connection is just not possible and we've always existedanimals seem to get it sometimes
same here. wish i had more to add, but I feel the exact same
>>41497601i only care abt one person at a time the rest can all fade away
If it was an MTF tranny who said they figured out they were a woman because they like wearing bras, the outrage storm would blot out the sun
>>41497487>afab95% chance she never touched T in her life, she'll be fine
>>41495648>picrelShe should just do whatever she wants without making any gay announcement and let people come to their own conclusions. >>41497487You can tell from the post she's never even started transitioning physically>finally started to go to the gender clinicAnd no mention of looking like a hairy piece of shit in a bra hahah
>>41495812Misandry is socially acceptable, like how racism was acceptable in the 50s.
>>41495648wait this makes no sensedoesn't she just have to wear a bra since she has boobs
>>41495648so they weren't actually on testosterone? how can you say you are male and not be on testosterone? do afabs have no concept of how much testosterone changes how your brain works?
suffering
starvations catchjng up to me my chest hurts and i cant rlly breeeathe well maybe ill be lucky and just die in my sleep?? :pray:
i need t odie rally relaly badpainlessly in my sleep preferablyplease
pplase kill meplease kll ,emeeoi nly uhgurht hurt anyone i ever itenract wihthoplease gifgve neme apainless death'painess death in my sleep while im dreaming about something nice, please
>>41500724>>41500724i amn iot uspposed to interact wtith anyoneid why why i blther bother
Please kill me painlessly in my seleep while I'm dreaming about video games or 2D girls
THREAD FOR CIS WOMEN DATING TRANS WOMEN AND VICE VERSA—NO T4T PEOPLEthis thread hasn’t existed do a while, it should come back …QOTD: how have you been? how are the things going?
>>41500871>modern term for a witchyou dont actually believe that
>>41500899You castigate anyone who questions gender ideology and use every authoritarian action you can to shut us down. If you could burn us at the stake today you would.
>>41500871>trans identified maleUmm, excuse me, that is VERY offensive to all the cis-identified gigapassoids in the thread.I'm going to need you to retract and apologize not just to them, but also to their lesbian girlfriends who love them but may uncomfortable with their straight friends knowing their girlfriend is actually a gigapassoid or that their child isn't adopted.
>>41501002i dont do that and id never burn ppl at the stake
>>41501002>If you could burn us at the stake today you wouldid rather you just left us alone.>You castigate anyone who questions gender ideologyterf isnt a slur it was coined by terfs to describe their strain of radical feminism. its a bit misapplied now (like elon isnt a terf because hes not a radical feminist) but its still not a slur.>use every authoritarian action you can to shut us downlol lmao you have the support of billionaires, governments, and courts yet the group that makes up ~1% of the population who are drastically unrepresented in government and employment are "authoritarian". did they call you mean things in a fandom group? did your tumblr get called problematic? boohoo
yaoi4yaoi editionold >>41392194
I miss my wifethat is all gn
if i was your wife you wouldn't have to miss me
Will an xsr700 make me cool?
so is there really nowhere on this board for hrt-femboys who want transwomen or other femboys?
>>41500472yes
i'm a stealth trans woman who hates other trans women, but i want to be in a transbian relationship for some reason. i think most trans women are disgusting and i don't respect their rights, but i still want to be with them. can i find love? i know i shouldn't, but i still want it. i've hooked up with other trans women and always find myself disgusted with myself and them afterwards.
>>41499865why? like what i really cant find a reason to hate us
>>41500599>ugly>self absorbed>cruel>rapey>whineyi can go on but i mostly just hate them.
>>41500607this so me
>>41499865>>41500607hope u dont find love until you self reflect more <3
>>41501024why? it's not like i'll actually hurt them. i would never hurt another person
i'm getting a boob job in exactly one week and it's sort of only properly hitting me that these are my last seven days of having small boobs and that my body is obviously gonna feel a lot different once i have 400-500cc of silicone in each of my breasts than it does right now with full A/small B cups. is there anything i should enjoy about having small tits while it lasts? i'm expecting stuff like working out and sports to take some adjustment after recovery (especially since i'm a martial artist) and my days of wearing baggy t-shirts with no bra outside on lazy days are about to be over but i wonder if there's anything else i'm not thinking of.
>>41500669Did you get any breast lift done with them? Or an internal bra? Or only the large implants?
>>41500720No real need because we knew I wanted to hit 2K
>>41500826Is it about the number exactly or a specific look you’re after?
>>41500849Nope, just greedy. I'll keep going until I can't anymore.
>>41500886I love this. It feels good to know I’m not alone on this board. I was rly shy about going for my first op. But my bf rly helped me feel supported. He’s my husband now and he wants to make me his stay at home bimbo doll. Thx for sharing what motivates you. I feel a little better now knowing being a greedy bitch is normal here. I don’t know if I’ll ever go past your limits but you’ve inspired me to push to find mine :3
Play with my tongue edition
>>41499977tfw no german tranner gf to be the freudian father figure of
>>41500165>>41499966I don't keep in touch. I just love being slutty on the internet ^^
>>41500798>I just love being slutty on the internet ^^and you're very good at it ;)love the way your ass jiggles, makes me wanna bite 'em
>>41488533>>41488533>>41488533Anon stop fucking with meth and do molly inside you goofballMolly has everything good you want but its much harder to get addictedAnal is so fucking good on it, made me go from having a virgin asshole to me being a bit of a buttslutFooled around with another mtf possibly NB at a DIY music partyhouse thingDressed as Pris from blade runner10/10 honestly if I was a little less drunk I probably would have let them fuck meUgh I need it right now thats for sure
>>41496834ughh i love tummy
