I am a cis man. I am dating a cis man. He identifies as straight despite our romantic involvement. I keep trying to explain to him that you can't call yourself purely heterosexual and also actively maintain a homosexual relationship, but this conversation always ends with him getting angry at me for telling him how to label himself.He won't even explain his logic, he just keeps telling me I'm "just never going to get it" and reasserts that being open to dating a member of the same sex doesn't inherently make you queer. When I explain to him that that's exactly what that means, he goes away and doesn't talk to me for the rest of the day.
>>42027853I'm not even a little feminine.
>>42027434i hate to break it to you, but he's just retarded. been there. it's brainrot
>>42027434are you a feminine faggot or something because depending on your presentation I might lowkenuinely agree with your boyfriend
>>42027434are you his first and only bf?
>>42027434my problem is i have no patience for stupid people if i were you and this were my bf i'd be like okay lets break up then idgaf. people need to be fucking fr
grace by which i stand edition previous: >>41986907
>>42028153You mean with real people who ere trans? I can't even remember, I was pretty insistent on avoiding it as much as possible. I think the earliest I can recall is early tumblr (not the best introduction, for sure) and a girlfriend of mine making me watch Rocky Horror (she was very progressive, no idea how she'd have reacted if I told her though.) I had dial-up internet and actively avoided watching TV outside of anime now and then so I didn't get much exposure to real-life media. If there was some earlier contact, like seeing them on Maury/Jerry Springer-type shows my mother would watch, I can no longer remember. My exposure to the concept in highschool was in an educational capacity in class, more or less.>>42028184>Was afraid of that too, despite not being from a very religious family.I was best friends with the preacher's son and lived next door to the church and hung out there all the time, so the idea of not fitting into that was a big deal for me at the time. Southern Baptist. I believe I talked about my whole weird interaction/feelings on churches when I was that age in this thread before.>seems common here, me too, but not very masc.Oh I fell into the hardcore conservative thing hard, like I said, I just copied all of my parent's opinions. Didn't stop my highschool friends from being pretty damn diverse, though. Non-white, queer, non-christian, etc. I think that was a product of the cognitive dissonance at play, what I said out loud didn't reflect how I felt inside. Who I hung out with reflected it better, but even seeing them engage with their identifies (in regards to the gay/bi ones,) I was too much of a coward to.>feel like that tooI'm probably going to start manmoding next year. I freely admit that at this point I just want to try, I'm tired of having lived never trying. For anything.
>>42028184>>42028337>I used to really dislike anything regarding sexMy relation to sex is weird and I don't have space here to get into it (nor am I too comfortable blabbing about it in detail without knowing how much is tmi for you,) but I do remember my father and a brother-in-law trying to get me into porn just to make sure I ended up 'straight' (jokes on them I'm bi) back in my tween years. Always had way too much of a libido but never liked interacting with my penis at all. I just cover it with something and kinda rub it to get off, no idea if that's tmi or not. Started with prone and other such weird things most trannies seem to also do.
>>42028337I come from my country's "bible belt", so can kinda relate to it. Hanging out with the youth coordinator's kids, attending religious events, etc. But at home we were pretty secular but with strong christian morality. >'m probably going to start manmoding next yearmanmodding sisters in 2026 <3idk if i end up hon-ish. I just want results for myself. Cuz dear Maria, i aint starting a family. >>42028347>nor am I too comfortable that's completely hair, no rush or force with that. Only share what you feel comfortable with. Don't think such is tmi, you's anon anyway. I say so much shit on here that'd make me jump off a mountain if family found out
>>42028414>idk if i end up hon-ish. I just want results for myself. Cuz dear Maria, i aint starting a family.People still tell me I look boyish so I'm holding out hope for twinkhon at least. As for a family, I accepted years ago that I wanted to be a mom, not a dad, so that's impossible for me. I remember telling my mother way back when I was small about how I wanted at least five kids. Silly stuff looking back, but the inability to make that a reality how I wanted it has always been a bit sad.>that's completely hair, no rush or force with that. Only share what you feel comfortable with.Don't think such is tmi, you's anon anyway.Oh if the person I'm talking with is okay with it, I can share a lot. It's just important to know beforehand when talking about this kind of thing. To touch on the AGP thing, I feel like I do and don't have it sometimes. I'm bi, I legitimately find certain kinds of guys attractive, I never liked crossdressing (it makes me depressed) etc, but I also like women, I fell into feminization hentai, stuff like that. It's things like that which make me think Blanchard's categories aren't really accurate.
>>42028153I feel like the 90s was way more open and cool about trans people than the 00s was. Maybe I've just seen the few sources that were idk, but there were reality shows with normal, even attractive, looking transwomen, just being human, and the interviewer being understanding and empathetic.All I saw growing up was male actors with fake boobs coming onto some male character as gross out humour. Idk, am I delusional? Just missed the sympathetic portrayals in that era?
What makes some boys wanna be girls?
cluster b disorders
>>42024730Naw, that's too simple. Can't be that.
My choices were 1/10 male or 9/10 tranny.
>>42024202obviously people treat trans women better than gay men or they wouldn't keep doing it
>>42024185Now those wetlook leggings look pretty hot
how do i become a mindless trans bimbo?
>>42028033wear sex toys all the time which randomly edge you
>>42028033Bimbos are made for loving relationships and hugs btw
>>42028407TRVKEI'm only a bimbo bc I have a kink for breast implantsI don't care about your "dumb slut for cock" agenda
>>42028434*snap* drop cock for bambi
>>42028033Your in the wrong place for It. Go on Tick Tock and post nudies
Every couple of months I inject myself with a high dose of estrogen as a form of self harm. I am a cis man, and the estrogen makes me insanely dysphoric, but it helps me lock in and remember what I take for granted.
>>42027472first true cis ally??
>>42027927you'll get better results weekly
>>42027987I don't want any results though. That's why I'm only taking it so rarely. I may hate myself, but I don't hate myself enough to make myself constantly dysphoric
>>42027472I aspire to this level of mental illness
>>42027912I know why I'm doing this and I think I need a professional to tell me that and that I just shouldn't do this to begin with
>Germany is actually tranny mecca and all those tranny hating Germans are actually just Russian and Chinese bots!!!Hitler was literally just a Russian/Chinese bot too! Germans are incapable of doing anything evil so this must be true!I hate krauts so much.
>>42027515I mean, I agree with you that the EU is fucked and that the AfD isn't really different from any of the other far right parties in Europe. But it's still pretty embarrassing for the Germans to pick fascism twice.The most annoying part is all the American trannies acting like Europe is a socialist utopia when in reality a liberal US state is probably nicer than the average European country.
I've been to germany a few times beautiful country
>>42027442>it's da russkies!literally same shit as /pol/tards posting it's da jooz about everything they odn't like
>>42027555>t. TDS (tankie derangement syndrome) sufferer
>>42027736>American trannies acting like Europe is a socialist utopiaDepends on what you mean by that. In terms of social welfare and stuff like public infrastructure, taxes and healthcare costs much of (western) Europe is very likely better than America. If you mean stuff like being 'multicultural'/accepting to outsiders than maybe not, but than again 'european' society (there doesn't exist such a thing as a singular european culture/society) isn't nearly as racialized as the US is. Things revolve more about nationality/ethnicity and the idea of having stuff like your 'race' be something you'd mention anywhere having to do with the government or business like a bank harkens back to the third reich, more than anything else. It makes both sides of the political spectrum seem like race-obsessed freaks desu. It's kind of baffling how american society thinks of 'racial-equity' before thinking of the fundamentals any sane person should do (i.e. increase welfare, increase funding and raise hiring requirements for the police so you can keep bad neighbourhoods safe, fund school in poor neighbourhoods, tighten gun control laws, etc.).
>Search for some gay porn>See that disgusting circumcision scar below the head of the top's cock>Erection instantly lostParents and (((doctors))) who circumcise children should be punished by death
>>42023813of all the things to be mad at the Jews for, dick aesthetics?I get that it's unnecessary and sometimes botched but that doesn't seem to be what's upsetting you
>>42028227>why do you hate jews? All they did was industrially torturing hundreds of millions of White babies and harvesting their body parts and selling it to jewish pharma companiesJew.>>42026626
>>42028294I actually hate Jews this is just like maybe the 6 millionth reason why. like usually it doesn't really make a differencealso isn't this a bit of a self-inflicted wound for the goyim? I'm pretty sure jews didn't nefariously force Americans to start circumcising their children in the 1800s. then again maybe I'm wrong! I've been surprised beforealso i find the idea of rage quitting your fap sesh because of the Jews while you were watching gay porn specifically to be pretty funny
>>42028343Jews invented the gomco goyim torture clamp in the 1930s. Circumcision rates the skyrocketed, especially after WWII from below 20% to 80% because it faciliated cheap standardized mass mutilation.
>>42028401sources seem to disagree on the timeline of adoption rate but I will look into this a bit, it's a little interesting
What causes honfidence?
>>42018451better yet hontitlement
>>42027218howthey are visibly transgender
>>42027698you are mentally ill
>>42027398what is hontitlement?
>>42018451LOL
/Bigen/ - bisexual general : Last leg before the end of the year edition>QotT #1: Are you preparing anything in advance for the festivities ?>QotT #2: What do you feel about the accomplishements you've made this past year ?>optional QotT: You have to gift another anon ITT an image. What is it ?Previous Thread(s): >>41864527Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42022154Enjoy, it will be a lot of fun!
>>41938218he's got mean tranny grickle thirstalways succccccccing it
>>42023307Thanks anon, I sorta feel like I have to make up for lost time and it's causing me to feel a little distress.
>>42022154>>42023843lol now imagine you're four years older and hadn't dated anyone at all until three months ago It's all good, bud
I understand incels now. I'm going to fucking kill myself. I can't keep pretending I'm so happy for her when she's kissing some fucking guy who could never love her like I do. It makes me want to rip my fucking eyeballs out so I never have to look at her or her ugly fucking boyfriend again. I hate that she's not gay and I hate that even if she was I would never be in her fucking league. After years of torturous desire for women I now understand that it's not even that women don't like women, just that women don't like me. There's something wrong with me it's probably because I'm ugly and fat and female and autistic and a fucking femrepper. Everyth ing I do is hopeless. I hate myself and I hate knowing I struggle with sexual, romantic, platonic, deep-set desire for a woman who couldn't give two shits even if she was gay.
>>42026959I think you actually are in the bottom 1 percentile because for IQ 99th percentile starts at 135 and means you’re more intelligent than 99% of people.Hilarious moment of history for you
>>42022870Don’t pin this on us. This is because you’re a trans moid repper.
>>4202695999th percentile literally translates as 'higher score than 99 other people from a random sample group of 100 persons' retard lmao
>>42026959absolutely embarrassing groomsbian moment
>>42026756Fine, fix everything else that you can. Learn to be social by going out and talking to people. Start small and get better over time. Go to bars. Play pool. People will talk to you. Join a group hobby. Just don't assume failure without trying
the quality of the board has notably improvedwdym you can't figure that out of: "2 dot 2 dot, 3 dot 3 dot, 5 dot," 5 dot is the odd one out.it's so much less tedious than clicking a bunch of circle letters.
>>42028194i dont understand. i will never be able to post again...
Remember if the captcha bothers you, you can always buy a pass
>>42028194when did you have to click circle letters?
>>42028194I don't know shit about tech but I don't think captchas actually test to see if you're right considering I didn't realize there was more than 3 slides for an entire day and somehow still managed to post
>>42028194nona what are you doing don't tell them how to solve it
There's a trans girl I've been talking to that I really like and want to be with, but I know it would never work out. How do I get this feeling away?
Lmao if you don't ask her out someone else will and you will be filled with jealousy and won't talk to her again. Someone will take her over you. Give me her @ so I can take her from you faggot.
Awooooo
>>42023964>it wasnt meSure. Sure.
this moron better ask her out or i might actually rope why are cis men so scared of love
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Previous >>41963294New one because we reached the bump limit!
>>42023883Sup babe
any tranners need to be mating pressed by a fub
>>41997648my bf and I are LDR right now but have met irl a few times, but I don't think there's anything I'd like to do more right now than fucking have him pound me until I can't walk, I want him to shove my face into the mattress and chokehold me until he decides he's done
>>42026619Same
Is that really what an orgasm is like on HRT??? I was only doing it so my dick doesn't shrink due to it being literally over 7 inches (I might as well keep it since I never felt anything towards it plus someone out there will love the size) but holy shit, not only is the brain fog in my daily life dissappearing but I can have that without it completely destroying my sex life? It's a dream come true.
>afab>claims she is queer, bisexual and non-binary>presents as woman and exclusively dates men.
>>42028152A straight person trying in good faith to deconstruct cisherterormativity and patriarchy but getting lost in the sauce along the way
all of the above but >>42028199 especially this loli think u guys gotta realize ppl r just lowkey dumb
>>42028218>ppl r just lowkey dumbYou can make that excuse up until this kind of person socially murders a trans woman for saying heccing problematic and enbyphobic things like "diy hrt is good"
Do you think Luigi is actually vers biI need to clap his cheeks
>>42028412Oops this was not the thread for that oh wellI'll let it ride
>Be stealth ftm in highschool>Still clocky, simply refuse to explain my gender>Share bus with a bunch of rednecks>They all want to know what my gender is>Realize that it's a lose-lose situation, still refuse to elaborate because of pride>Accidentally let it slip one day that I knew one of the MLP characters (Applejack) by name>FUCK>They all interrogate me, ask me how I knew>Lie and tell them I have a sister, they know it's bullshit>Panick, remember I still have one ace up my sleeve>"I jerk off to those horses."They still ended up assaulting me a few months later which led to me being forced to tell on them and change buses. I rode a short bus for the rest of highschool and now I unironically jerk off to horses + I have a rape kink. Fuck my life.
>>42028361>ApplejackWow crazy you knew one of the main characters names....
>>42028377I didn't think it was that big of a deal either, but they made it a big point that I was faking being a guy (Ironic considering one of them ended up being a closet furry)
>>42028361amab here, i remember how all the horses were named, does that mean im fembrained?
