>>35526966
at least you're just sorta honnish, it could be worse

>>35527005
yeah
i'm a 19 year old hon, hopefully i fix myself by my mid 20s but then i'll just waste people's time

why is it so hard to be a person and just find a guy to love me and to grow together and fuck

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>>35527012
>find a guy
cause you chose to like men . men dont feel love they feel hole atraction men just fuck different holes until they end up in the old people house... and still they fuck old woman pussy and get std.

>>35526966
You deserve love and sex and I believe you can achieve it

>>35527092
>cause you chose to like men
i have tried numerous things with other trans women and it just isn't the same
even if they have a dick, they just are so different from what i want and what i'm attracted to, it just isn't the same

we just end up in a "they were both bottoms" type of situation

>>35527092
>men dont feel love
hon cope

>>35527012
Oh no you are single at 19??????? how tRaGIc.

God girl, you have your whole life left. I've been single from 18-28 until I got my life in order and started to date again

>>35527092
What have men done to you? What kind of trauma caused you to be like this?

>>35527372
no just truthmaxxing if u cant handle is hard.

>>35527432
spent my whole life with men lol they really are all the same and the ones that arent have some sort of quirk with them (likeing dick or getting topped or some other bs) most male relationship is built off acquiring sex. once the sex stops happening they leave. its why males always complain about how they are incel and cant get any sex they dont that they dont have a loving relationship. their main goal is hole not love.

>>35527553
If all your relationships with men have been that way, maybe the lowest common denominator is you. If you seek out, enforce or attract relationships that are solely about sex, then it's no wonder that they all end when the sex ends.

This could be because of your personality, like if you are personality wise incompatible with a person and only rely on sex, obviously when the sex is gone the relationship breaks. This is what you see usually with people who just date the first person who shows slight interest, e.g. after they have been single for a while, where they either don't yet know what to look for, or are just so desperate they take anything.

It could also be, and I'd be very sorry for you if that is the case, simply your looks, many people see trans women as a kinky fetish thing, and if you get with such a person, as soon as you are uninteresting for that reason, of course you'll be dumped. There is a reason why so much tranny porn on major porn sites is just hons, because this is just a fetish some people have.

>>35527418
i mean it isn't the end of the world but it's moreso how i don't have anyone irl, no group of friends or anything either

>>35526966
Yes, it's bad to want those things if you're not attractive. It's creepy even.

>>35527677
Don't be too doomerish, again you are 19, I don't know what you are doing rn, but thats usually the age where you are out of school and either starting college/uni, or starting with a new job. Either way, you are just at the beginning of a new phase in your life, which means you'll meet new people find new friends, etc.
No matter what you are doing now, give it a few years and you'll find your social space.

Well, I'm not a tranner so I probably can't fully relate to that situation, but one reason why I was single for so long was of course also COVID, which nuked all my social life. Back then I was fresh out of uni, so when I started working, at first it was still hard because everyone was doing homeoffice, but for the past two years now, I've gotten to meet up with my new colleagues regularly, and got some friendships out of it.

>>35527716
i am in my 2nd semester of college and i'm currently with no friends, struggling with some subjects, etc.

i never go out but i went out with another trans girl like 2 days ago to a concert and we made out and hugged a lot and that was really cool so maybe i am okay with girls after all? i am so confused about myself, i'm gonna hang out with her more and see where it goes, i could be on the brink of my first relationship but it all feels a little weird and out of my comfort zone
but then again, going out to such a place with like a few hundred people was bad for my anxiety but i overcame and i probably had one of the best nights of my life so far

but i need to study and talk to people and learn how to be human and not fail college and improve my looks but she says she finds me pretty
so many things are juggling around in my mind honestly

>>35527852
Well, finding people you vibe with can take some time. So I'm also struggling with anxiety and it took me 4-5 semesters until I had an established friend group and even though we now all live far apart from each other, we still hold contact (mostly through online gaming once every few month or something).
So again, don't be to doomerish about that.

With your relationship stuff, don't take it to serious, and maybe not overthink it. If you had fun with that other trans girl thats already something. Even if it doesn't turn into a relationship, you can still have fun and gain a friend. Don't overthink it and just have fun. If something works out it does, if not it doesn't. Trying to force anything will just make it harder, and worst case, you end up an incel.

Also with getting to learn to talk to people and overcome anxiety, what worked for me was to get into contact with people from this board that seemed nice over discord, especially ones that are not too far away, and when I get along with them, maybe do a weekend trip to meet them up (things that work quite well if you are located right in the middle of western europe and can reach pretty much half the continent by train).
It's not like I'm meeting up dozens of people from here daily, but I've found a few people I get along with really well and whom I have visited.

>>35527921
>and worst case, you end up an incel.
ppl online have told me i am this lol but i am slowly opening myself up to ppl and trynna fix it

about the travel thing, you're right yeah, i'm just scared someone won't rape me or murder me if i go to a foreign country by myself, for example but yeah, i am in the EU and you can travel by train thru like half the continent

>>35528095
>won't rape me or murder me
I guess this shouldn't be a negation lol

But as I said, get to know the people you are visiting first, chat and vc with them, to be sure they are nice.

I'm a bit on the opposite side of this of course, as I'm a pretty big cis guy, when I e.g. meet up with a tranner for the first time, I don't want her to feel unsafe, so I will usually take a hotel, so I don't stay at her place and she has somewhere to retreat if she doesn't feel safe, and we'll meet in like public places (restaurants, cafes, etc.).
Especially when they are from a smaller town or something where they won't feel comfortable meeting me, another option is to meet at a larger town nearby (e.g. Paris in France, London in the UK, etc.). This has the additional advantage, that you will have lots of things to do in the city, as they themselves will probably also not too often get to be there.

>>35526966
>i just want to have a guy love me so bad
could probably find a guy depending on your standards

>>35527092
real