what is your ideal partner?
>>36339935one that doesn't ghost me
>>36339935god bagel is truly just like me except with better hair
1) fem2) human pet that i take care of
>>36339935>trandieslol
big boy who i take care of. he can be shy i will do the talking but he will be my tank
>>36339935someone who is nice and can take care of themselves at the most basic level
>>36340105>>36340157duality of anon
>>36339935Someone I can enjoy and want to do anything and everything with, and never tire of them each day.Arguments are just both sides trying to understand each other and account for each other, then just pushing yourself onto the other.I never thought this was possible in a relationship till now <3
>>36340091i'm so sorry
>>36340091>>36340231But Bagel is cute....
>>36339935The problem with those is that they will gaslight themselves into believing that no one could actually like them, and that you are either deceived by them, or have neferious reasons to pretend to like them, so they believe it won't work out anyway, and decide in a self preservation instinct to shut off and ghost you.So while yes, these trannies are exactly the type that makes me fall in love with them, they are also undatable
>>36339935a man who won't raise his voice at me bcz im slow
>>36340330A man who raises his voice at their partner is inherently undeserving of anyone
>>36340277but it's true that anybody who likes or pretends to like trannies like me are either fooling me or themselves, it's literally true and real
>>36340347but men are usually like that.. at least in my experience through my life lol
>>36340401It really depends, some men get angry, others don't i'd say it's a 50/50 trait
>>36340277this is unfortunately true in a lot of cases. to any other trannies reading this, please work on introspection and loving yourself before jumping into a relationship, i know you want someone to fix you but it doesn’t always work that way
>>36340390Maybe I do just like you as a person. Remember there is more than just physical attraction and personal liking is much stronger than any visual attraction anyway.
>>36340632While yes, thats important, whats also important is that they must be able to let their guard down. Yes a lot of people are outright transphobic, some people just fetishize you and see you as a quick pump and dump, but sometimes we are actually interested in you.As much as incels try to believe this, attraction is not a minmax game. You don't need the best stats to "win" a partner. If I find someone I genuinely can relate to I want to be with them, even if they aren't the most attractive or whatever person on the planet.Love is weird and chaotic, and there is no way to decide with whom you fall in love with and when. It can be you, even if you don't believe you are worth it
>>36340599>50/50over..
>>36340881The best way to find out early btw is to get the guy drunk. If they get aggressive when drunk, it's a major red flag, cause they will then also get aggressive when emotional
why doesn't she take off her clothes and let us be the judges of that
>>36340964i mean not getting agressive when they are overwhelmed or somethingi meant not raising their voice at me because i did something wrong or generally just acting slow, couldn't find anything, being clumsy etc..
Bagel starring in a facial abuse video
>>36341128Yeah, I mean that goes hand in hand. From my experience some guys are just naturally aggressive, others aren'tI try to avoid those that get aggresive even as friends, cause only one of them can make a whole friendgroup toxic
>>36339935A cute trans girl and a fat college girl we dress up as Miss Piggy.
>>36340347>>36340330>>36340401>>36340599Is this fixable? t. gets angry and starts raising my voice whenever I feel like the person I'm talking to just doesn't get it
>>36339935You
>>36341549Sadly not really, you can be more mindful tho. Avoid trigger situations, e.g. alcohol, emotional discussions (literally just walk out when you realize it's getting to emotional), etc. and as long as you are in a state where you can think clearly, you may not be able to avoid it, but when it happens you can catch yourself and calm down, in the best case before you've said to much, but if you did, aplogize and continue calmly
>>36339935Smart fun kind creative woman who is dominant in bed and down for MMF threesomes.I seem to have found her!
>>36341606>literally just walk out when you realize it's getting to emotionalYea, I'd say I'm good at that. I am always able to control myself after the initial voice raise, but I can't control the initial voice raise. It just comes suddenly.I've started doing it at work as well sadly (rare, but it happens).
>>36339935One bratty and eccentric FtM twink please
>>36341135I have never paid for porn but I would personally underwrite this production if she could be signed
>>36340139>he will be my tankUsed to be a tank for a fem classmate of mine, she was pretty short compared to the guys and kind of shy but also really nice to me. So I decided to be her personal bulldozer in the hallways to clear a path for her and keep annoying bullies off her back.Felt kind of weird to get complimented for being big even though it's just genetics and I didn't really do anything to earn it, but that didn't stop me from enjoying her tagging along by my side everywhere
>>36340964I get flirty when drunk, followed by sad, followed by philosophical debates. What does that mean?
>>36339935prettybig titssupports the grind
>>36342027That you are touch starved and need a dose of pussy/ass/dick asap
>>36342067Fuck
>>36340790been thinking about this a fair bit. thanks. it sucks that love carries with it the inherent risk of trusting someone so completely, but i hope it’s worth it in the end
>>36342185Idk. last time I tried I was hurt really badly... But I was a fool to fall in love with a BPDemon tranny to begin with... Couldn't even claim that she didn't warn me, was the first thing she said to me...
>>36342206this scares me. i think i have bpd but i never got it confirmed cause it almost certainly would end up with me showing my sh scars and maybe getting sent to a ward but it only takes a few hours of silence to get me worried that someone abandoned me and was secretly harbouring negative feelings the whole time. i want to love but i don't know if i’m made to experience it
>>36341857Stop posting this ultra-mid theyfab plz.We get it, you want a tomboy girlfriend who likes to be "quirky" and cut her hair short and go by he/him without taking testosterone. They are a dime a dozen tho. Go outside and find one and stop being weird about it here
>>36342285I mean the "dangerous" thing about BPD is the splitting. In my case, she split on me, and during that decided that she did not want to have any contact with me, blocked me on all channels, and deleted my contacts. I never found out if she what the trigger was or if she regretted it or something, I have absolutely no way to contact her...I've heard from many with BPD that therapy can help. You basically need to train yourself to not see things in absolutes. Also probably to have some safety guards that when you decide to nuke some relationship because of your warped perception, that you have ways to recover when you are in the clear again.But I went completely blindsided into that and got hit cold
>>36342371The point of this thread is for people to talk about their ideal partners.
>>36342898he spams it everywhere and makes his own threads about it constantly, its pure spam and nothing more. It doesnt add value when spams every single day.
>>36342185bpd is something you can work with though. I think it can be cool because you feel really strongly but you do have to learn to protect yourself... anon u should read understanding the borderline mother :)
>>36343038aww, thanks! i’ll check it out, anything to mitigate the chance i hurt someone is well worth it
>>36340401>but men are usually like that..I have never raised my voice at my partner...
>>36342911We get it Anon you're ugly and wish you had a vagina.
>>36344596I wish I was born afab but im not ugly, I just know a mid theyfab when I see one, because I see dozens of them daily on campus
>>36340401>but men are usually like that.. at least in my experience through my life lolthought that shit too until I literally fuckin googled "do everybody's parents yell all the time??" (the answer was no) and it slowly clicked that my dad is not fucking normal and being angry and raising your voice all the time is fuckedswore to never ever be like that (i'm so fucked up because of it bro AAAHHHH)
>>36340401that is because you suck and attract men who suck
>>36341549>Is this fixable? t. gets angry and starts raising my voice whenever I feel like the person I'm talking to just doesn't get itTakes conscious effort and mindfulness but ime yes.T. used to be like that all the time (learned from my environment) and did a 180 on it.Therapy is probably advisable depending on how ingrained in you it is.
>>36339935Hard to say. There's a lot of things to think about I guess. Kind, reliable, curious, funny, smart, probably in that order. Attractive to me to some extent seems important too, but that's a complicated thing to define. Ideal is hard. I guess I like tall women with thick dark hair, full lips, big eyes. Oh and also huge fucking tiddies.
