Sometimes I'm mean to my trans girlfriend because she's cute when she gets emotional and/or cries. Only rarely though. Is it abuse if I don't mean anything I say and am just doing it because she's adorable when sad?
>>36343238>Is it abuse if I don't mean anything I say and am just doing it because she's adorable when sad?does she know this?
>>36343238yes anon, that’s abuse. you’re using her for your entertainment and making her feel bad cause you want to get a kick out of it. please don’t do that. if you must then at least let it be something tangential (oh, it’s looking bad for trans rights in [place], what do you think?) so at least she isn’t directly receiving the comments. don’t make fun of her please
>>36343241Yeah, I tell her "it was just a prank bro" afterwards
>>36343238Yes.You are causing them to second guess and change things about them that you don't actually want changed which will, in turn, make you love her less.Bottom line, you are an asshole.
>>36343238is it just me or has the general quality of this board drastically dropped over the last year
>>36343238Yes you are a very abusive person and you know it
>>36343425It is not just you!
