>as i start to pass and girlmode more and more everyday cis women are now regularly complimenting small things about my appearance like my outfit, hair, eyeliner, etc.>starting to have this feeling/need (idk what to call it) that i should actually try to make some irl girlfriends but still have zero idea how to actually talk to cis women>it's not even that i cant necessarily hold a conversation with them it's just that im not really huge into what your normal cis woman is into>i have a bf but im very conservative in the sense that I refuse to gossip about him since I respect him>very monogamous, I have been in only 2 other past relationships>can't have kids biologically, no real desire anyways to have kids>into fashion but i wouldnt say im crazy about it, i have my own style/taste and stick to it as i like having my own style>about the only "girl"-ish hobby I have is to go out to random stores and malls to wander around and just talk and animals i guessso, like, for a while my friend group has consisted of my bf, one close cis male irl friend, and one t-girl i know on discord and another cis male friend on discord and I feel like I'm just gonna be stuck like thati feel like im partly fucked from the get go from missing out on any form of female socialization growing up and im just forever destined to connect better with men than women most of the time even though I cant really stand most men because i cant stand male social spaces. i much prefer female social spaces but then i just feel awkward about being in them.also naturally this gives me a fair amount of dysphoria everyday cause of the whole social expectation that ladies stick together and all that bullshit so that doesnt especially help eitheri really fucking hate it cause its my last bit of dysphoria left now and i have no fucking clue how to get rid of it
>>36348497>cis women are now regularly complimenting small things about my appearance like my outfit, hair, eyeliner, etc. theyre clocking you and are trying to be nice
>>36348521idk nonny non the make or break if i consistently get ma'am'd is the bare minimum of just tossing some eyeliner and mascara on or if im feeling lazy that particular day tying my hair up and tossing a hat onon a bad day i'll normally just get the no pronoun treatment
>>36348497Start wearing clothes that the women complimenting you wear. If they truly admire you theyll keep wearing it, female friends like to dress alike. If the compliments are insincere theyll stop wearing anything you wear.
Your reminder that socialisation is an ongoing thing, it doesn’t stop at 18. Go to events in your city that skew female and just begin with the baby steps of learning to become sociable with other women. The deeper truth is that most women don’t actually enjoy constant gossiping, and would love to talk about other stuff. It’s the same thing as with men and football - gossip is a tool for lubricating conversations, it isn’t *the* conversation.
>>36348931lol I can see that happening, and sadly it's probably the socially safest way for everyone to go about it, as opposed to being direct
>>36348497>>i have a bf but im very conservative in the sense that I refuse to gossip about him since I respect him>>very monogamous, I have been in only 2 other past relationshipsyour bf is a lucky man
>>36348497why is it always an underaged anime girl? Fuck i hate troons
>>3634938195% of anime girls are highschool aged, works the best for the studiosbitch could be 23 if you just look at the picture
