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say for the sake of argument i pass what the fuck do i do now
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>>36359554
idk, what do women do?
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>>36359554
uh mostly eliminate dysphoria and live a normal life.
attract a cis boyfriend
find REAL love instead of being an object of someone's fetish.
become mentally stable.
stop getting weird looks from strangers.
female social groups are now an option.
getting off this site is a possibility.
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>>36359554
be a tranny

what did you think was going to happen?
You are forever trans.
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>>36359554
Congratulations, you are no longer trans, now you can live as a woman. Enjoy living life as an actual human being.
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>>36359554
Ease yourself into presenting female and just go for it if that's what you want
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>>36359598
Yeah you can kinda have a normal life now if you want one. If you pass you probably attract even more attention boymoding
>>36359566
I wish straight men would hit on me... I don't think I pass enough. I at least sorta pass to where I get gendered female in jeans and a hoodie a good deal more than male but it's not enough and guys won't hit on me. If anything they just act weird around me now compared to before and women are friendlier with me and shower me in compliments. I think I might just pass as a young looking effeminate faggot or something and that's why, men probably realize before they think to hit on me. It's happened a few times but I think they were either drunk or not straight
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>>36359620
>I wish straight men would hit on me... I don't think I pass enough. I at least sorta pass to where I get gendered female in jeans and a hoodie a good deal more than male but it's not enough and guys won't hit on me. If anything they just act weird around me now compared to before and women are friendlier with me and shower me in compliments. I think I might just pass as a young looking effeminate faggot or something and that's why, men probably realize before they think to hit on me. It's happened a few times but I think they were either drunk or not straight


What age did you start hrt and how long have you been on it for?
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>>36359554
Solve homelessness
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>>36359566
>>36359620
Pass and stealth are not the same thing.

Pass is people default to she/her pronouns when they see you. They still know you're trans, but they recognize you as female and not a man in cosplay.

Stealth is people don't realize you're trans and just think you're a ciswoman.
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>>36359681
youre not making any sense lmfao
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>>36359681
Passing means passing for a cis woman
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>>36359554
> what the fuck do i do now
Marry me
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>>36359554
Idk just live your life
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>>36359681
Pass means passing for cis. Stealth means living as cis. You need to pass to be stealth but not all people who pass are stealth.
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>>36359681
That’s not what pass means. Pass is essentially stealth. Stealth is different in that no one comes close to suspecting otherwise.
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>>36359729
No, it means passing as a woman.
As in most people will look at you and think "she"
Most men will mind their manners
Most women won't
That's passing.

Indistinguishable from a cis woman is stealth.

All you really need to pass is big tits and voice training. You'll be a woman, an ugly grotesque abomination of a woman, but a woman none the less. That's why it's easier to stealth in middle age, most middle aged women are ugly. Jesus Christ the number of fat, foul, cantankerous, old meat sacks in my city is too damn high, the only thing that really gives me away is height.
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>>36359949
You're wrong.
Take someone like Julliet Stray (pic left, sorry mods, it was the most SFW pic I could find, I think I'm technically okay).
Does she pass for cis? Fuck no. CLEARLY trans. Nobody is drunk enough not to clock her.

Would you ever gender Juliet Stray he/him? Also no. You could do it if you forced it, but you know you would be being disingenuous.

Because she passes, she's just not stealth.
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>>36359992
this is really autistic anon
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>>36359992
At some angles she does pass for British cis. If she didn’t get those ridiculous titties and she still kept some of her body fat.

What’s with hsts porn girls all going off the deep end eventually? It’s kinda scary. It seems like AGP start off slow, but end well whereas hsts start well but burnout a lot quicker. Just a trend I’ve noticed
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>>36360009
>At some angles she does pass for British cis
Nigger from some angles Vin Diesel passes for british cis.
As soon as Juliet Stray moves you can see her man skeleton carrying around a gigantic pair of tits.

But it's still HER man skeleton.
Because she's a woman.
She's just not a cis woman.

And that's the difference between pass and stealth. If you live in a community where trannies aren't unusual, Melbourne, London, Los Angeles, you can live as a transwoman and be treated as the piece of human garbage you are for living god awful shitholes like Melbourne, London and Los Angeles. Your life will absolutely suck because omg why the fuck would you want to live in a authoritarian drug den in the hopes of one day being permitted to grovel at the feet of the rich...

...but your GD won't bother you.
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Spread jewpills on the interwebz
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>>36359554
You need a goal. You'll feel this emptiness again if you ever achieve those too. Fortunately humans don't live long enough to achieve everything there is to achieve. Right now I feel like I'm on NG+ of life or something. I did the things I set out to do, and I'm still here. And I'm just finding myself with more and more ridiculous goals. I'm getting tired and overwhelmed a lot but it just means melting back into the arms of my man when I'm done for the day feels sweeter and sweeter each day.
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>>36359992
Trvthnvke. The difference between steath and passing is greater than the difference between passing and hons.
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>>36359992
you are right that there is a point where you are clearly trying and most polite people will be able to get your pronouns correct on the first try, but most people do not consider that really passing except you anon
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>>36359554
let's consider, hypothetically, you're a passoid. maybe even a dollpilled hussytuss queen. it would follow, logically speaking, you become a loyal partner and servant to a Bedouin chief and become the leader of his harem of boymoders and twinkhons.
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>>36359554
whatever you want, it's your life
>>36359580
this, exist and be trans
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>>36359653
I started HRT when I was 28 (I know) and I've been on it for about five seasons now. I think I'm lucky enough that I'll be able to live as a woman full time without it being disturbing but I think I'll need surgery to not be clocky really. I'm glad I at least look pretty young, just recently I had a bartender not think I was 21 and a kid fresh out of high school thinking I was their age
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>>36363658
cutie ITT
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>>36362711
>you become a loyal partner and servant to a Bedouin chief and become the leader of his harem of boymoders and twinkhons.
uh, based?
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>>36359992
if someone can tell that you are a man u don't pass lol
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>>36365803
Yeah passing means people can't really tell. I think we need another word for "clearly feminine and pretty but not cis passing" I guess twinkhon covers that territory, like, when people can tell you're a tranny but you're basically just a woman so you get treated that way anyways despite a few clocky features because you're so far removed from being a man that it doesn't make sense
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>>36362680
It doesn't matter what they "consider", it matters what they default to.
The human frontal cortex is an incredibly complex marvel of nature that able to comrehend all sorts of amazing and incredible things. Properly trained it can spot the signs of a Y-chromosome in anyone, even those who may themselves be unaware they have one. Nobody is ever truly stealth in a world with wizards.

The human limbic system is not significantly different from a snake's limbic system, despite the fact our evolution diverged some 250 million years ago (that's BEFORE the dinosaurs). And it is the limbic system that identifies gender in other humans.

Enforcing pronouns is counter-productive because what we truly want, what we need, what the disease demands of us, is that in that split second when the limbic system reacts before the frontal cortex has a chance to act, our fellow human beings, completely by accident and without meaning to, default to she/her.

That's pass. Not when the angel shows compassion for the disease, but when the ape forgets it's there.
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>>36366681
>clearly feminine and pretty but not cis
The word is pass
> people can't really tell.
is stealth.
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>>36367126
this is bullshit. stealth is not a single soul knowing in ur daily life ie work shopping etc. i live in a conservative state and the elderly refer to me as being female on instinct. i can tell because of the region and the age of the people that this is not a "oh shes trans" situ. if i didnt have that stupid id picture and he/him pronouns at college... i would be able to start stealthing
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>>36367639
cute ninja
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>>36367111
schizo posting
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i “pass” because i always get gendered female and get treated like a girl, guys even do random nice things for me on mother’s day, but you can tell i’m trans if you look closely, so i can’t be “stealth.”
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>>36359954
no, it means passing as a cis woman
lurk more or fuck back off to reddit
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>>36359554
act like a normal person, ezpz
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>>36365803
people can't tell what i am, they know im trans but can't tell if it's FtM or MtF, and to me that means i pass...



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