Being a 30yo virgin is equal in pain to surviving a tetanus infection.
>>36373987Did you at least get witch powers?
>>36373987Are the cool wizard powers worth it?
>>36374105>>36374109They lied. There are no powers. Unless you count not having killed myself already as a magical power.
>>36374157So what's the story here? Have you tried dating?
>>36373987Sex felt underwhelming without any passion, lost virginity at 25, it wasnt worth the hype desui want bf
>>36374178I've tried a lot of times with a handful of different people, some of which I did date longterm and a of which I took initiative with. They still didn't have sex with me or even want me to hug them after a while.
>>36374283That's so unusual though. You never kissed them? How do you date someone without kissing them? Have you ever had a bf or were these all transbian relationships?
>>36374184I know, it's such a curse. I can't have sex with someone I'm not emotionally invested in, I can't find anyone that I would invest in or when I do they don't want me back, and then end up alone forever. I could throw my self at some old guy on grinder but that honestly sounds worse than being a virgin.>>36374287I kissed them all, still didn't go anywhere. Two of them literally didn't want me to kiss them after a while of being together.
>>36374287Also I've dated guys and girls, long distance and short distance.
I don't even want sex anymore I just want a cuddle
I'm 31 and a virgin because I repped until 29 and then trooned. I'm not sure I'll ever lose it unless I pass well enough because hon sex would be gross. I don't mind though, sex is really scary.
>>36374301I have to wait at least 6 months before I'm comfortable enough to have sex with someone. Modern society has led people to believe this is a bad thing. I can't imagine having sex with someone on the first date that is absolutely insane to me.
>>36374395I know. I've tried offering to be cuddle buddies with people too and they have just as much aversion to me being physically close to them as when it comes to sex.>>36374406I started at 20 with tons of hope even though I was a virgin still. A decade of failed dating escapades have left me drained, depressed, and more isolated than I ever could have imagined. Good luck anon I hope you have a better time dating while trans than I did.
>>36374422I'd cuddle you If I didn't live on the arse end of the world
>>36374109I can befriend cats with easethat is all
>>36374528Australia?>>36374541I could befriend most animals before turning 30 though. Animals have been my only real friends throughout life.
>>36374554Yeah Melbourne
does giving bj bit no pentrative sex means i am a virgin ?
>>36374184I also find normal sex kinda underwelming desu. I much more enjoy the physical contact. I'm much more interested in kissing and cuddling and all the foreplay stuff, usually involving the whole body.If I'd have to choose between a partner who doesn't like penetration but cuddling, and not having a partner but only ever mindless hookups, I'd chose the non penetration partner any time.I really find it weird that so many other guys see sex as solely penetration
