i've been on e for 20 months and staying away from here almost always drastically improves my mental health. im married to a trans woman who I actually bonded with originally over us both being lurkers here and the sheer amount of brainworms its given the both of us.both of us agree that this place is just ropefuel, yet I can't help but repeatedly come back here.i almost always get gendered correctly in public, yet coming here makes the brainworms come back full force