As a trans girl, how do I not get jealous of non-virgins?It's fucking insane to me that there are living breathing humans that ACTUALLY like touch eachother and kiss and have sex, and thats just like a regular thing to them??? like jesus fucking christ thats like insane.I get so jealous and feel so alienated and inferior because of it. pls help.
>>36642805By losing your own virginity? Will mellow you out tremendously, would recommend
>>36642896ok but thats much easier said than done
>>36642920That’s true about everything, just gotta do it
>>36642933this isnt a 'just do it' thing, this is a 'be incredibly lucky and charasmatic' thing
>>36642949Those are themselves “just do it” things
>>36642805Have you tried getting laid?
>>36643115fuck off>>36642962no they arent!
>>36642949>'be incredibly lucky and charasmatic'This is not a requirement to have sex. This is a requirement to have sex with someone who is especially attractive. Just go out there and talk to people and flirt and see who likes and if you like them back then go and rail them/get railed by them
>>36643133oh also you forgot to add the>oh and be neurotypical and good at conversing and dont have social anxiety and be able to flirt
>>36643157I have social anxiety and I am neurodivergent. I usually fuck other neurodivergent people. I'm getting laid this Friday by an autistic shawty. People with social anxiety get laid all the time. Download Grindr and try to talk to people you find attractive on there. Have pictures of yourself so they can make the same judgements of if they like you, otherwise they'll assume you're fugly
>>36643177>Download Grindr and try to talk to people you find attractive on there.oh you mean the ten people that are on there? you mean the ten 35+ year old gay men? them? is that who you're talking about?
>>36643188I met my wife on Grindr. I met my most recent romantic interest on Grindr. I met my fwb on Grindr. They're all neurodivergent, attractive, and trans. Or you can just find reasons to not pursue having a life and continue to rot ig, you do you
>>36642896as a fellow virgin i second this
>>36643203lmao so you're just a privileged person assuming others share your privileges? anon you do know that like, not everyone lives where you live right? there are maybe 20 people within a three hour drive of me and they are all old gay men, so like fuck off with this retarded advice
>>36643222Well if you live in the middle of bumfuck nowhere (even moreso than me, living in the British countryside) then sadge I guess. My wife ws 180+ km away when we started talking.
>>36643235>just drive for four hours to meet up with a random grindr person without talkin! (because they hate talking and block you if you even dare to get to know them)amazing...
>>36643235Stop responding to this bitter retard, she has no interest in improvement only being a whiner. She'll always find an excuseFuck off Spice
>>36643256It's amazing how you have a reason for everything to not work :) good luck anon, I know your type
>>36642805this is not a trans girl issue whatsoever i think u just suckreading some of this thread if you really think you’re that unattractive then u should probably make steps to fix that.. like idk.. going to the gym or eating better etc. dropping the video games would probably help too lol. just go to bars or something and eventually you’ll hit it off with somebody as long as you don’t come off like some rapehon trying to coerce a girl into sex by buying her drinks over and over again
>>36643306but bars are so scary and im so bad at talking to people... and i get drunk sooo easily like i'll get blackout drunk so quick
>>36642805Sex is overrated, I lucked out once and while it wasn't unpleasant it'll never live up to what you pictured it as for all these years.>>36643157We're all autists here, look what site you're on. You get better at all those things by practicing, if you're just looking to get laid most bars will do since alcohol is a good stepping-stool until you learn how to socialize sober.
>>36642805as a pooner i relate so much i feel like everyone in my life who has a sex life desrves to die its not fair
>>36642896how do i find a respectful, adjusted man to take my virginity then
>>36643379same I’ve had sex with two guysnumber one: kinda uncomfortable then he fell asleepnumber two: stuck his finger in my urethra
>>36643724>stuck his finger in my urethraDo you engage in sounding or are afab urethras just insane like that?
>>36643784no no no not like all the way really just poked at the entranceI corrected him but it still hurt
>>36643838Ah, okay. Good thing porn taught me better, the worst embarrassment I've had was failing to find the entrance while doing cowgirl for like an entire minute.
>>36644242same guy later tried to use some strap on thing that goes around his penis since he couldn’t get it handhe couldn’t get it in me and tried to call my vagina defective so I grabbed it and stuck it in and then said both his penis and this thing are defective
do I still count as a virgin if I've never cum during sex? t. manmoder
