>be me trans girl, borderline personality disorder, the whole shebang>be abused for most of my life>the abuse stops>start self harming to feel like im being abused>feel uncomfortable when i am comfortable>get bf>doesnt like that i cut myself>try to stop but fail>date for 8 months>tell him about previous trauma and physical abuse>he feels terrible for me>month later>about to have sex again>hes naked on the bed>ask him to beat me / hurt me>he looks sad / disappointed>feel a wave of despair run over me>gets up and goes to the bathroom>comes out dressed>"are you leaving?">bf lays back in bed>"come here anon" while looking at me>i crawl into bed and sit on the other side>silent for 30 seconds, feel incredibly uncomfortable and hate myself>he suddenly grabs me and holds me close on his side>"whats wrong anon?" he says while sounding completely destroyed>silence for another 10 seconds>"i wish you would tell me whats wrong, i dont like when you get like this">unable to say anything>he looks at me as i start to tear up>he starts to play with my hair>"you can cry sweetheart">spend the next hour crying to him uncontrollably>finish crying and now cuddling >he grabs my arm and rubs my scars>"no more of this anon">agree>have sex for the rest of the nightmfw this fixed my whole self harm issue
>>36646089you wanna do it again, for sure
>>36646089>have bpd>claim to be a victim
>>36646089never leave them no matter how bad the moodswing gets you found a unicorn
>>36646089i self harmed today but it was just a few cat scratches on my legs bc i threw away my razors last time where my boyfriend