how can i have children as a ftm without getting pregnant? is being adopted really that bad? is surrogacy inmoral?
>>36653647Yes
>>36653647its probably really difficult and really ymmvbut there are definitely lots of parentless kids that would probably love to have some form of safety net instead of being unloved throughout their childhood
>>36653647Foster
>>36653647see if you can get a close family member or friend to be a surrogate, or hire one and help take care of her and keep her around as an "aunt" if she wishes perhaps
>>36653679>keep her around as an "aunt" if she wishes perhapsSounds like a disaster waiting to happen
>>36653679personally i plan on either surrogacy, adoption or getting pregnant myself which would probably cause immense psychological damage and suffering for me but i want a child
>>36653694>Sounds like a disaster waiting to happenIt wouldnt be if shes not genetically related to the child If you plan on having a kid thats related to the surrogate forget about that option
>>36653735>Don't raise children please. You're under the impression you're in the wrong body. You can not care for yourself correctly.every time you tell a trans person not to have children 10 seahorse dads get pregnant
>>36653744based. total seahorse love
>>36653647I think it is a bad idea for you to have children in any way
>>36653679that sounds way crueler>>36653735i change it as i please, it would just have been easier if i was born with everything i wanted. im only having children if i can be a passoid and stealth
>>36653647Personally I think adoption is better. I would never want to bring a new human being into this shitty terrible world, I think its best to care for a child that is already alive and in need of a good home.
>>36653757>I think it is a bad idea for you to have children in any waysee >>36653744
>>36653715Yeah I mean if you keep the surrogate around as a family member/friend. Seems like the smart thing to do is cut all contact with them ASAP
>>36653774but what if they dont want to be my kid, like what if they consider their biological parent their real parent and just want nothing to do with me
>>36653772By aunt i mean she can spend time with the kid if she wants, is invited to family gatherings basically integrated into your family as an aunt if she wantsidk maybe i'm biased as i'm not related to most of my aunts for different reasons
>>36653778Why would you not want to keep her around as a friend?>>36653789this is entirely anecdotal, but my dads sister is adopted and she still visits my grandma and her brothers as much as possible.
>>36653647surrogacy is an additional way to make money for a woman. "radfems" hate it because their only self worth is by being able to give birth and if you can put a price on that ability you basically take that away which is why they try campaigns to ban surrogacy.
>>36653959true
>>36653735This. It's incredible how Redditors who don't know right from wrong can say with a straight face "I am mentally capable of taking care of a kid."No, you're not, you silly Troon. You will degenerate their mind and possibly rape them since your only personality is your sexuality. Eventually you'll cave into your list and "le nothing matters anyway, isn't that great?" Reddit mentality and then rape your sons/daughters.
>>36653839>Why would you not want to keep her around as a friend?There's the possibility that she may be emotionally attached to the child (shes literally the kid's mom) and regret the deal that was made. Cutting contact eliminates that possibility
>>36654041>(shes literally the kid's momShe wouldn't be because she has no genetic ties to the child. and likely wouldnt see the kid enough to develop that close of a relationship Cases where the surrogate wants the child generally only happen when the child was conceived with the surrogates DNA
>>36654004i dont think its worth the time to explain how i dont want to rape anyone since you just pulled it out of your ass. i hope you dont accuse random people of rape in real life too
>>36653647bump
