Anybody else suffer from intense secondhand embarrassment every time you have to use they/them pronouns? I want to respect everybody's self-image, but whenever I have to use they/them on a singular person, I feel like I have to plan out my sentences in advance and then when I do I cringe internally so hard that it keeps me up at night. Maybe it's just autism but I really wish it was natural to me
>>37305544I use they to refer to cis people and always have, it just comes naturally to me
it's just autism i don't have this issue
>>37305544>>37305562My preferred pronouns are lol/lmao.I would appreciate if you used them appropriately.
>>37305544its not hard for me if they look gnc at all
>>37305544There only is male and female singular pronouns.
>>37305544I geniunely liked that show
>>37305544nah i am not using they/them for someone, ur he or she and i'll call u that based on ur appearance not birth sex or what u "identify" as cuz passoids are girls and hons are men. there's a difference between respect and playing pretend
>>37305886desu hons are a third category, there are 5 genders based on appearance - male, female, child, androgyne (mixed and attractive) and faggot (mixed and ugly)
>>37305916there's only male and female, those other 3 fall under male or female too
>>37305544at least english has a already implanted word that's used, try portuguese, you say the pronouns and can almost feel the people around you irking.
>>37305931based on appearance retard, a beardy fat gigahon looks nearly the same as a hyper-pcosed cishon
>>37305984no that looks like a man
>>37305994Yeah a man with fat tits, absolutely going to be treated as male and not as a freak
>>37306018ugly males are freaks so yeh he's gonna get treated like an ugly male
>>37305544It doesn't bother me at all. To be honest the most embarrassing thing for me is to have to call someone by a stupid, comically bad, monosyllabic transgender name. "Kai" being the worst of them but there are many.
>>37306772This. All my theyfab friends have stupid ass names
>>37305544Basically just go by lookism. If they look genderless and beautiful I'll honour the they.
>>37305544I be one of the few fucks that loves snapdragon from that hgs non anime slop
I legit have nonbinary dysphoria and I hate myself and I hate all those "enbies" that don't do anything to transition who are all basically "girl coded" because I have mommy issues and I hate women, I hate that that's how I'm seen.I know this is basically maladaptive naval gazing but I just want to meet people like me: not AGP fetishists or theymab creepers, not feminine theyfab morons who do nothing to transition, people who actually respect masculinity but also retain an understanding of what it's like to be treated as a marginalized gender for your whole lifeI don't respect people who don't take steps to transition or who do not try to look androgynous, I do not respect people who show detachment from societies expectations, I do not respect people who have zero clue of what it meant to be trans 10, 20, or even 30+ years ago. I fucking hate them. They judge you for not being woke enough or for having any hangups or baggage. Or maybe they're just girls trying to ruin this for the rest of us
>>37307383how many enbies change their names? i only know one who did and they are named after star trek
>>37305544no but the other day i met a zero effort tranny girl (like literally with beard) and didn't know what to call him
>>37305544they/them is just a neutral "can we talk about this person without bringing up their gender" shit imo>Maybe it's just autism but I really wish it was natural to meit's significantly harder for me to refer to pooners with male pronouns compared to hons with female pronounslike for non passing mtfs there's cognitive dissonance that i have to power through, but for non passing pooners there is absolutely zero part of my brain that reads them as male.>>37309890i met one but she also had like a perfectly passing voice so she passed from the back until i saw the beard
>>37309946a lot of they types seem incredibly traumatized and don't know how to just assert which gender they want to be
>>37309981idk really anything about it but i just assumed they/them was a soft thing like "i'm not dysphoric about my body but i don't like certain social expectations about my sex"i just hate the whole "gender is just presentation" shit with a passionif you're on hrt i respect your pronouns, if you're not i don't
>>37305855spoken like a true esl
>>37305544not if they're actually androgynous or gnc, then it feels appropriate
>>37305544yes this is the main reason why right wingers hate FOOKIN' PRONOUNS even if they struggle to articulate it. same issue arises when it's a gigahon asking for she/her.
