>Be me, tranny>Mostly friends with basic girls in high school>We graduate, all go off to college>They all join Greek life>Always posting on instagram about their sororities>Drift apart (obviously, we go to different schools anyway)>Now lonely>Thinking about them>Want to be social too>Considering rushing a sororityI know it would inevitably lead to total social humiliation. So I need you, anons, to talk me out of it. Please force me to make a better decision.
>>37326065i have only heard bad stories about trans women joining sororities. sororities are about the shared womanhood and experiences of its members, so a lot of times trans women will be seen as "invaders" even if they used to be friends with the women before joining the sororities, meaning when push comes to shove, the token tranny will always be first to take the fall. i know one trans woman who joined a sorority and she was always the scapegoat. whenever the dishes were cleaned by her they were always still dirty, all the women would leave their dirty laundry everywere but when she did it she was being "pervy", whenever she cooked it was never good enough, small stuff like that that just kept piling up. it all came to a boil when my friend started dating this one hot guy that was hotter than the other girls bfs when they started harrassing the guy anonymously, saying that he was gay and even told his fundamentalist conservative family that he was dating a trans woman. they reacted horribly and he obviously broke up with her. when she discovered they were the ones doing it and confronted her they kicked her out without notice and started making up rumors about her about how she was sooooo creepy and weird and didnt know how to take care of herself, etc, which is funny because shes one of the most well put together people i know, way more than her ex friends lmao. plus shes straight lol. dont do it op, sororities run based on the assumed solidarity between fellow women, and they have none of that solidarity for you, even if you have it for them. because you arent a fellow woman to them
>>37326065You should try it, worst thing that can happen is you don't get an invite which is likely the most possible outcome. If by some stroke of luck you do seem to get in.. The girls just won't really see you as "one of them" and probably an "invader" as brutal as that might sound and you will always be the first one to be alienated and pushed out, there will likely always be some sort of animosity between you and them. But unless you live in a hyper conservative state, public humiliation likely won't come and people will just keep their thoughts to themselves and maybe laugh about you in private.If you don't get any invites please don't give up, go to clubs, socialize with people in the rec/campus center, find common interests and find some clique to fit into. I am assuming it is your freshman year so its the most important year to join friend groups before they fully establish otherwise it will be infinitely more harder to find people.even though odds are stacked against you a life socially isolated isn't a life worth living, believe me you will go crazy. choose your friends wisely and hold them close
>>37326278>But unless you live in a hyper conservative state, public humiliation likely won't come and people will just keep their thoughts to themselves and maybe laugh about you in private.I'd like to add this sentence is applicable only to getting invites during rush week. if you do get kicked out of a sorority you WILL be publicly humiliated
>>37326278> a life socially isolated isn't a life worth livingthis isnt true, im in my 3rd year of college with 0 friends irl and im fine. i fly out to online friends on my breaks and thats good enough for me. op pls consider if u do get friends u will constantly be worrying abt being clocked. not rlly worth imo for just ppl u hang around to feel like u are getting “the college experience” or leading a “fulfilling life” or all that bs
>>37326310>i fly out to online friends on my breaks this isn't social isolation tho and those online friends are actually just long distance irl friends atp. When I say social isolation I mean ZERO friends ZERO human contact, just going to class and home everyday only talking to ur family members and never doing anything even on break
>>37326238Can relate so hard to that bullying
>>37326310Can you actually not imagine having friends who are fine with you being trans
>>37326310imagine being so fucking brainwormed you won't allow yourself to have irl friends for fear of being clocked as trans LOL pls get off this site for your own good
>>37326065The people who want to participate in greek life are mostly the sort of soulless, pointlessly cruel, and sociopathic rich white kids who will be the first against the wall when the revolution comes. Anyone else there is likely on that grindset and will not risk their plan to ride the coattails of the rich white failchildren's parents by sticking up for some tranny. If you must do greek life do one of the coed major related ones, the people who join those are pretty normal and should be way more chill.
>>37326432>the first against the wall when the revolution comesGet a job you disgusting bum
>>37326065wasn't there a tranny sorority situation that recently that almost resulted in a court having to officially define what a woman is
>>37326432true
>>37326065>the caption speaks for itself>the caption:>part 5 | the caption speaks for itself. wtf did she mean by this recursive bs
>>37326065horrible idea, someone made a post a while ago asking whether she should join a sorority she was invited to and i hope she was talked out of it. greek life is made up entirely of not only the richest people, but the most insufferable people. if you think 4chan trip drama is stupid you've never seen the type garbage that can go down in a sorority house. cis women get torn apart by "sisters" just for having slightly below average browlines or hair, just what do you think theyll do to a trans woman? join a club or something, greek life is a cult.
>>37326065Actual life-ruiningly bad idea
>>37326334this is my life and i'm about to graduate and i'm doing finei have one friend i hang out with maybe once every month or two and otherwise the only people i talk to irl are my parentsi used to mope around about not having friends but now it's like who cares, being alone is far from the worst thing in the world
>>37326666yeah holy moly i aint joining no sororities
>>37326682I couldn't tolerate this my mind would break
>>37326666Please be fake
>>37326065Don't do it. It will end poorly.Just be a normal student.
>>37326682I have no friends too.Like actually no friends at all.I actually like it better this way, it's peaceful and I can do whatever I want without needing to worry about shit.Though I've pretty much always preferred being alone anyway.
>>37327211Is it really that bad? I've never really known much otherwise, I had friends at school but would rarely get to hang out outside with themI figure I live a pretty privileged life being in a first world country and not being poor, being lonely is a small price to pay
>>37326682>being alone is far from the worst thing in the worldIt's not the worst, not as bad as gender dysphoria, but it's pretty fucking bad. I've been lonely for 7 years with the exception of one summer where I had a partner, and I'm so tired of it. I cry my self to sleep sometimes because I'm so sad about being alone.
>>37327529Same, another day alone. No one to love me.It gets worse as time goes on
>>37326352>>37326403Okay, idk i just am anxious abt being clocked. i pass as a woman to acquantices but im afraid things would start “adding up” if i spent more time around people.>>37326334your description of loneliness is exactly my day to day experience of college. the only time i see friends is like abt 4-5x a year or so. mostly i go to class go home have dinner talk to parents and spend the rest of the day in my room. except i am not lonely. it really is not bad i think you ppl are either exaggerating or were luckily well adjusted through k-12 and had friends then and now dont. this is basically my entire life summarized lol
>>37326065I would never in part because the only two women who I know that joined sororities are massive cunts.Tried saying I was unhappy being a boy and the way men are treated as a kid during the early 00s. >you're a sexist and an assholeThey both joined sororities and all their worst aspects really bloomed1 became a crypto terf that just got kicked out of the Green Party for going to Pro Russia rallies and attempting to start a liberty caucus (antivax, pro terf)2 continued to dress the exact same way from 14- their mid thirties, massively immature, martyre complexHer and her boyfriend both came out as NB's and ghosted all of us after over a decade of friendship because of all the "homophobia" despite the fact that neither of them stopped slurs around me or my future wife eveb though we were out in high school. Fuck sororities, they just seem to draw in the worst people so they can become codependent with their mutually toxic sistersI almost exclusively hang with women, NB's and trans men, I would never feel comfortable in a sorority
>>37326666>jerks cock>calls himself a passoid?yeah uhhh, just buy a vibe. istg it feels as good or better than jerking.
>>37326065I was falsely accused of stealing jewelry by my rich friend's mom so I know that feelt. cis man
>>37329958??????Passing/=/genitals and how u use them.Kindly kys transphobe
>>37326065sororities, fraternities, Big Brother, CBS, baby showers, bachelor/bachelorette parties, weddings, gender reveals, organized religion. All of it was made without you in mind.
>>37331186yeah, duhthere's no accepted answer to this question because the situation was created without thinking about this scenario.That's why OP is asking people's opinions on it
>>37331186ok?
>>37331228my solution is to simply ignore it and enjoy the other aspects of life that suit me better.
