>college student>no friendshow is this even possible? how do i rectify this?
>>37329999talk to people? it really isn't hard at all to make friends in college
>>37330006i have extreme difficulty talking to people i don't know, like complete breakdown of communicative skills. like stuttering & stammering & forgetting words & stuff. people try to talk to me a lot but i can never respond in a normal way so they lose interest>it really isn't hard at all to make friends in collegei figured so which is why i think it is extremely bad that i am completely alone
>>37329999Which uni? I love going to uni and I have so many friends :))(If I told them I was secretly gay and trans they'd all leave me immediately)
>>37330034I used to be that way too, you do just have to get out there and do it. Eventually you'll get used to it and it won't be an issue.
>>37330039alaska fairbanks. i can't even make online friends & meet them because i'm in probably the most isolated large city in north america>>37330048do you have any tips?? should i be going to events & stuff or do i literally just have to initiate conversations with strangers? i don't know if i have it in me to do thee latter, i can commit ahead of time but in the moment i might freak out. i think maybe i should start day drinking to ease in?
>>37330071>alaska do you take a dog sled from class to class?
>>37330088i snowshoe around campus in winter
>>37330071Both! Talk to the people sitting next to you in class, and find clubs and events for hobbies that interest you and things will begin to open up for you
>>37330120hm ok... nobody sits next to me in any classes though so i will worry about the other thing first
