I married a trans woman and she wants to take my surname and legally change that before she legally changes her first name. problem here is her deadname and my surname combined is the name of one of the main characters in a movie we both enjoy. how do I not think about this?
>>37338411force her to cosplay that character until her name is changed
>>37338473she'd probably divorce me
>>37338544worth it
>>37338573absolutely not. she's the best thing to ever happen to me. I CANNOT lose her
>>37338473this genuinely
>>37338411just.. tell her to change her first name first