>>37731532
didn't read lol

>>37731532
you seem to genuinely feel bad about it so im not trying to make you feel worse but like i don't understand what your problem was
im pretty short so if im hugging a guy i think i usually go around his waist just because that's where my arms are
does everyone think i've been hugging them like a man?? i don't get why it's important

>>37731532
since she hates you know i can date her, can you give me her discord?

>>37731532
>"hey tranny, ahahah i think you hugged me like a MAN yesterday.. huuuhhh so i thought i should tell you this because i dont like secrets. You really hug like a MAN bruuuhhhh"

>>37731532
>told a tranny she hugs like a man
most sensitive chaser

>>37731532
>Guy treats you like garbage
>Ghost guy
>Guy shows up at your house
Why are men like this? It's honestly scary when this happens.
Leave that poor girl alone, you had your chance and literally betrayed her at the first opportunity. Take that lesson going forward, and get better.
You do owe her a really good apology, but why should she be with a guy that did that to her? Now your friends are going to tell other people and bully her.

I hope her dad beats the s*** out of you in the front yard.

>>37731676
My friends have all moved to different countries. Literally no one in this country, besides me, knows about this. Of course I wouldn't tell this to people that know her, be real.
And no, I will be with her. I don't care, we were meant for each other.
>>37731571
It's not even an issue, I was just having a laugh but after seeing some of your responses I realized there was something deeper here. One response mentioned lack of female socialization and it stuck with me.
>>37731625
I didn't word it like that, I ended up in a retarded word salad which was probably worse now that I think of it.
>>37731824
She lives in student housing and her father is dead. Listen, I can say that I should be dead, but I'd take a shit on your chest. I'd turn you into dust. Do you understand? I'd eat you. Cannibalism.

>>37732383
Wait, has this whole thing been bait? Why on earth would you come clean about venting to the internet, you should've just lived with that guilt and used it to fuel a more empathetic future.

>I will be with her
Why do men get all controlling like this? You can't make her be with you can you?
Did you already harass her at her dorm? How did that go?

>>37732455
I think it's important to be honest about my thoughts. I think she's insecure so it's doubly important to be honest.
She will be with me, I just know it. I'm about to go now

>>37731532
>I was retarded for making the thread.
Are you retarded for making the tread, or did you make the thread because you're retarded?
>I told her that I told my friends
Why did you lie to her about having friends?
>>37732383
>And no, I will be with her. I don't care, we were meant for each other.
I'm pretty sure you're meant to be alone, Anon. Give us her Discord so she can have someone treat her right.

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>>37732650
>I think she's insecure so it's doubly important to be honest.
She's insecure so you double down on being retarded?

>>37731676
>woman sends a very clear, direct message by not talking
>man thinks this is all a big mystery and he has to become a stalker to get some closure
moidbrain is something else

>>37732873
He thinks they're meant to be together, but can't get a fucking hint from her when something would be inappropriate. Even if this blows over, OP is too dumb to live, let alone date.

>>37731676
>Guy treats you like garbage
>Ghost guy
>Guy shows up at your house
lmao, this urge also doesn't ever fully go away either. It could be months or years after the incident and there's always a chance the guy will show up or try to contact.

>>37731532
wtf why did you tell her? You probably blew it, even with the best apology she is not going to trust you enough to be herself around you.

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>>37733932
Imagine if I listened to you. I went over and it should be fine. I still need to be shot because she had clearly been crying. But still, I thoroughly apologized and let her know how I felt. Explained that it was just innocent fun but I realized this could be perceived as hurtful (after reading the posts in the last thread, which were actually helpful), so I had to tell her. I played with her hair while she laid down on my chest for about half an hour, that was true bliss :)
I am taking her out on Friday again. You give nothing but bad advice. "Stay away from her!", nice one!

>>37731532
#fiction

>>37731532
Sorry how do I make sure to not hug like a man?

>>37734629
Enjoy your absolutely fucked relationship.

>>37734629
i mean checks out, her life probably sucks and shes gonna get attached to you, the one person who at least mostly sees her as a girl. shes gonna be a prisoner more then anything, but thats fine you like that dont you anon?

>>37734629
You're clearly autistic and already fucked up after the first date. You think things are going to last?

>"Stay away from her!"
You would if you cared about her.

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>>37734899
It actually hurts a bit that you say this. What are you seeing that I am not seeing? Why do you think I'm evil?

>>37734629
everyone is shitting on you and you deserve it a little bit but i actually think it's cute you made an effort to apologise even if this whole thing was autistic af on your part
as long as you remember this and learn a lesson going forward, and act more sensitively, i think it could all work out

>>37734913
anon whats gonna be your reaction when you pull down her panties and a pp is there

>>37731532
I'm worried I might hug like a man, I haven't been watching how I hug, how do I hug right?

>>37734913
the internet feeds on guilt anon, you shouldve never posted this stupid thread. its so pathetic. now post her discord so people here can show her how she deserves to be treated. maybe if shes nice she'll let you jerk off to the messages she gets.

>>37734959
dont forget to hugtrain anonette!

this is rick?

>>37734939
Not be shocked? I mean she might not have one for all I know. I won't be touching it, but it's not like I'm gonna say "ewww" or something
>>37734970
I didn't meet her on discord you little loser retard, I met her through my sister.
>>37734959
>>37734691
It doesn't matter, it was just a joke. But, put your hands around his shoulders.

>>37734913
>Why do you think I'm evil?
Evil? No. Autistic? Yes. Insensitive? Yes. Selfish? Mmm... probably.

Rationale: when you told her, who were you doing that for? Her or yourself?

It's a rhetorical, because you already told us:
>I don't like secrets

Do you see how that makes you look like a dick?

>>37734991
No I'm serious though how do I hug right I don't want this to happen to me

>>37735041
>It doesn't matter, it was just a joke. But, put your hands around his shoulders.
what? she put her hands around your waist or what? it's even worse that you'd make this sort of joke to people around you. you're a headcase

>>37735048
well its like a skill tree right...have you completed voice training sneeze training walk training cough training and sitting training? if not work on those, hug training is so high level because it requires another person to actually preform it.

t. chaser boyfriend

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>>37735041
>put your hands around his shoulders
Oh I guess it's supposed to look like this
I do put my hands around his shoulders but only because I'm incredibly tall, and it doesn't look like this is looks like a tall orangutan is grappling him with its enormous lanky arms
>DHT2W0

>>37735094
this is makeout hug
not first date courtesy hug wtf

>>37735047
I did it for our relationship.
And no, I don't see how that makes me a dick.
>>37735031
Is that you Abdul?

>>37735092
I'm okay with voice, sneeze and cough training
Working on posture training now, which encompasses walk and sitting training. I'll work on hug training next then once I have these down
>>37735116
Oh Christ there are different hugs for different situations? Is there a hugttaining technique for heighthons?

>>37734959
>>37735048
Arms up over the guys shoulders and around his neck, press your chest into him, also gives him a chance to get a good sense of your smell (and vice versa)
There now you can hug like a girl

>>37735094
As long as your not doing something egregious and your boyfriend isn't an insecure manlet that will make dumb internet jokes like OP, you should be fine hugging him how you do.

You got this, go hug your man!

>>37735160
no it's nothing to do with male or female this guy is just a freak
as long as you dont backpat or dap him up or whatever it's normal
>>37735165
maybe if you're trying to be forward but i would only do this with a guy im already romantically familiar with

imagine scheming out your fucking hugs because you have to worry about socially neurotic insecure neggers like this guy talking shit to his friends
hugs are supposed to be sincere and spontaneous

>>37735160
im fucking with you anonette...its not a skill tree, you need to relax...calm down and let yourself live a little more freely, theres no real set way to do this, i get unlearning male socialization is hard but youre still a girl either way, its really cute youre doing your best and want to try so hard but no hugging wrong isnt going to ruin anything for you OP is just psychotic and doesn't know how to handle women. no matter how you hug youll be hugging like a girl because you are one, just be your authentic self, but if you really want my opinion a girl hugging around the waist can be cute if theyre excited and on the shorter side, most causal hugs go under his arms, place your hands on his shoulder blades without crossing them over, its an "awkward effeminate" hug if youre a man but a normal one if youre a woman, hug like >>37735094 picrel. if its more intimate. these arent rules tho, youre not pretending to be a girl you are one. so again any hug you give will be a girl hug<3

>>37735243
Gayest nigger I've ever had posting in one of my threads award

>>37734629
I'm unironically glad things worked out okay anon because it was very sweet that you were guilty over this. But if you don't want to hurt her again you need to get a lot smarter quicker. For basically every single transgirl you are ever with her number one insecurity will ALWAYS be that you are thinking that she looks like/acts like/feels like a man. It's actually downplaying it to call it an insecurity. Gender dysphoria is a mental illness through and through and everything she has done with her life is just to keep it barely managed and it's always gonna be like that for her. Probably every transgirl would crawl through a mile of broken glass in a heartbeat if you convinced her that it was what girls are supposed to do. So you really shouldn't share any future thoughts that pop into your head about how she might be different.

>>37735359
this is actually exactly why you should feel worse OP

>>37735389
But OP doesn't like secretsssss

And made that decision for their relationship.

>>37735359
Well, wow. I don't know what to say honestly. I really should've not said anything

>>37735471
no you shouldnt have. but your best bet is to close this thread out of your browser and forget this happened while being more aware of what you say next time. I was the anon who said you deserve to have her break up with you but i dont really mean that, this will damage things but that damage can heal. close out 4chan and text her for a bit, itll make you feel better and remind her that youre thinking about her and you care.

>>37735471
>>37735389
okay jeez anon I didn't want you to flagellate yourself into acting like a robot around her. Just shift your perspective a little, I don't think cis people really consider what makes trans people tick. If you had a friend with severe PTSD you wouldn't launch fireworks over their house. So just use a little discretion

>>37731532
can you link the thread from yesterday?

It's not all bad OP, the fact you can recognize that you fucked up and empathize with why it was hurtful us a big green flag imo

>>37735525
Yea, I will. She said she hasn't eaten anything today so I'll go get her some McDonalds. I won't stay though I'll just drop it off. She is in my sister's class and they became friends. I some times drive my sister home (if her classes are done by the time I get off work). She'd usually wait with my sister, then just walk home or take the bus when I picked up my sister. She is soooo pretty. Pale skin, jet black hair and big blue eyes. blabla, fast forward, I end up driving her home as well because I felt a bit bad about not doing it since she'd wait with my sistet, blabla, she tells my sister that she likes me, I ask her out, I'm a fucking retard, and now I'm here yapping and I'm gonna go. Take care
>>37735582
Yea I am quite ignorant about trans things. I'm also clearly retarded around women. I'll learn to stfu

>>37735841
why not stay and hang with her? or buy yourself mcdonalds and eat it together?

>>37732873
it’s over

>>37731676
yeah that's horrifying op needs to leave her alone

>>37735862
Well I only eat one a day. I did end up staying while she ate because she invinted me in. That was nice. Taking her and my sister out to lunxh today. Hopefully that's not awkward