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lesbianism is a beautiful thing. by trying to take it for yourself as a man, you are trampling on a garden of lilies. If you really admire lesbianism, you should know your place and stay the fuck out of it.
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>>38324057
Real.
That's why I'm coping by being a "gynephile" instead. Some people say it sounds retarded, but I'd rather not "be a lesbian" if that group included people like me.
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>>38324057
i'm straight/bihet but ur picrel was literally me pre-trans

>>38324075
gynephile just sounds creepy. if you really can't bear it, the well adjusted thing would be to call yourself a bisexual and simply not date men.
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>>38324057
you are a straight man
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>>38324057
what if i was a gay boy before transition but i tried licking pussy once and now i only date women
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gay men shouldn't become straight trans women

heterosexuality is a beautiful thing. by trying to take it for yourself as a gay person, you are trampling on a garden of dahlias

if you really admire heterosexuality, you should know your place and marry a cis woman and get her pregnant
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>>38324100
I know? that's the point of this post :/
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>>38324145
oh I thought you were trying to appear better than others
just call yourself a transbian
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>>38324147
I'm not a transbian, I'm cis.
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>>38324075
very good, girl on girl is not for men.
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>>38324158
hm okay
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i was never straight if i was never a "man"

i will admit i grew up as a weird feminine "boy" thing but i was gendered fem randomly all my life, my closest friends were almost always girls

i have never existed as a "man", as ive never really been an adult and truthfully im not much of one even today

my advice to anyone is to love who you need to and be eho you need to be; you have one chance to be the best, most authentic version of yourself you can be- don't throw it away because of external shit if you have a chance to actually reach some of the life and kind of love you wish for

i never repressed, not once

and here i stand, crippled from a lifetime alone- but happily married and loved at last for exactly who i am

you will never find the right person if you are living someone else's fascade

stop transbian/transles hate
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>>38324228
Fuck off.
It's fine when I do it to myself, but this asshole behaviour.
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I am a baby girl I even wear a diaper I get to be a lesbian
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lmao cissies mad because my tranny ass pulled a lesbian bitch. Maybe if you weren't so fucking miserable you would find someone. Also no one cares, go outside.
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i spent a long time believing this and cucking myself into thinking i was bisexual. ive been with men but always found them boring to speak to and generally unattractive, but also just assumed that was how all women saw men.

it wasn't till i spent 2 days in the embrace of a girl i had just met, listening to records, smoking copious amounts of weed, enjoying each other's company and exploring each other's bodies that i realised that yes, you can be trans and a lesbian.
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>>38325918
Nigga you're just straight
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>>38324075
doesnt gynephile mean you like pussy? i like girldick
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this board thinks it's so much better than the wider community, but the repressive mentality here is going to harm us all just as much. if we don't accept ourselves as women first, then how can we expect wider society to?

you're not a gyno whatever the fuck. you're a girl who likes girls, it's as simple as that.
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>>38325958
What makes you so sure that you're a girl?
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>>38325970
some days i lay in bed full of a profound sense of self doubt and I am heavily beholden to the standards set for me by society, im trying to find my way in the world as an independent individual and don't feel good about competing with or bringing down others, and i am terrified of showing off. i emphasise easily with others and try to make sure they know I'm thinking about them.

how many men really think like this? years of telling myself that im "just like them im one of the boys i swear" when in reality there's never been one situation when ive been around men and not been a little confused and afraid of them. i love men i wish them the best, but in reality, I'm nothing like them and can relate much more to the cis and trans female friends ive made over the years.

im a woman and im pretty confident in that, even if sometimes i look in the mirror and see an ugly troll, i understand that this experience im living is inherently a feminine one.
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>>38325953
It means "attraction to women and/or feminity". I don't really care about genitals, (aside from the distain for the ones I have) as I'm just not interested in sex.
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>>38326016
>how many men really think like this?
Have you bothered to ask men that or are you assuming their answer without evidence?
>there's never been one situation when ive been around men and not been a little confused and afraid of them.
So because you have social anxiety you've convinced yourself that you're a woman?
>this experience im living is inherently a feminine one.
Because you tick all of the feminine stereotypes?
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>>38324057
lesbianism is not a beautiful thing. you thinking it's a beautiful thing just makes you look more male.
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>>38326123
>Have you bothered to ask men that or are you assuming their answer without evidence?
sorry i dont know much about men or how they think, so i apologise if i was wrong.
>So because you have social anxiety you've convinced yourself that you're a woman?
i dont have social anxiety, im actually really cool.
>Because you tick all of the feminine stereotypes?
not really stereotypes. i can just relate better to other women who also talk about having these experiences. talking to men before i transitioned felt like a song and dance of trying to relate to things i didn't actually relate to. an act to fit in. now that i can just be a woman, talking to other women about how we think and feel is something that feels much more natural.

i am a woman and i am never touching another man and you self hating repressors can seethe all you want but i know for a fact that you wish you had this, and you can.
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>>38326372
You're treating womanhood as a subculture, "if you relate to women and share their interests and hobbies then you're obviously a woman!", as if a woman was like a goth or a emo kid or a metalhead. Actually, women are varied in their personalities and interests, there are cis women who don't relate to the other women around them, that doesn't make them any less women.
>you self hating repressors
I'm not repressing anything.
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>>38326428
i don't think that at all, there's plenty of women i can't relate to. I just have an easier time relating to women. i dont believe not being able to relate makes anyone less women? idk where you got that idea from.

>I'm not repressing anything.
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>>38326452
>I just have an easier time relating to women.
That doesn't mean you're a woman
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>>38324510
kindly remove yourself from existence
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>>38326204
I know I'm male? That's the point of this thread.
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>>38324057
holy fucking based
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You gotta admit though watching a lesbian and a transbian drunk AF and all over each other on your lap while you're blazed out of your mind and can't move is a god tier experience. Most ethereal boner of my life and I still fap to the memory.
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>>38327103
you dont know what kindness is
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>>38324057
what causes this weird fixation with love between women as a man? i've had it for as long as i can remember, the only romance stories i can actually get engaged with are WLW and ive consumed so many books/films about it. it's not even really a sexual thing. is it just some weird type of escapism or fetishism?
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>>38329038
what are you doing on the lgbt board anon?
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>>38329251
just browsing out of interest
normally i wouldn't post though
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>>38329038
Disgust for the male form and love of the female form. Instant turnoff if a guy is there
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>>38329038
Likely you're perceiving men in a romantic context either as competition or as a self-insert. If you're the type of man who's been starved of affection and practices self-loathing, you likely won't want to watch the scenario of Chad getting the girl play out, or of your reflected image receiving a love you believe you never could. WLW fiction removes men from the picture entirely, erasing the possibility of hitting those pitfalls.
>t. projecting
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>>38324057
I'd agree with you but fem4fem lesbian stuff seems to be near non existent. It's mostly pooner x fem which is much more evil than passoid x fem.
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>>38329481
i guess this might be true, ive never had a good experience in a relationship and i try to avoid getting into them. i dont really feel insecure about other men tho
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>>38324057
NTR yuri is the best. Fuck your sterile, shoujo shit that actively promotes the idea that wlw is a phase to train bisexuals for straight relationships.
Girls belong in messy, self-destructive relationships with other girls, and I'm tired of you straggots getting in the way because your fee-fees are hurt by women cheating on men.
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>>38329511
One hypothesis I read somewhere was that men like yuri because it represents love outside the boundaries of oppressive gender roles. Do you think that could apply to you?
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>>38329653
yea probably actually. something about male-female relationships always feels a bit constrained to me. maybe it's just me being weird but it's like there's a really strong pressure to act a certain way that is annoying
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>>38329038
I diagnose you with a terminal case of good taste. Daily bashing of the head against the wall repeatedly is our most succesful route of treatment for this affliction.
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>>38327103
kindly seethe more
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>>38324510
based words of wisdom
I got rejected the by straight girls I dated because they said I wasn't a man at all. Turns out they were right
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>>38329038
do you ever wish you could be a lesbian?
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>>38329970
im not trans if that's what you're asking. ive already thought about it a lot. plus that's a terrible reason to do it
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>>38324057
True. Transitioning to live out your ugu kawaii yuri fantasies is the most AGP thing imagineable.
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>>38329713
nta but that's fucking relatable.. straight = forced miscommunication



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