>>38502426
yes yes yes yes yes yes yes go to her anon. please please please go to her.

yes, are you stupid? what kind of question is that? are you nuts? are you fucking nuts? do this. you're as vulnerable as she is if not more, seeing as you're old and she has her whole life ahead of her. do not worry about hurting her, worry about getting hurt.

reverse grooming

Please go
Bring a leash with you
Make her kiss your feet and worship you

PLEASE GO

>>38502426
>is this creepy
yes!
>is this exploitative
yes!
>is this unethical
idfk
>should you do it?
hell no but you will!

I wish an older brainwormed babytrans woman would groom me while I groom her and call her mommy

>>38502426
im actually seething rn that i cant have this. it hurts man, ill only be 21 for so long and i need an older woman to take advantage of me

no, you should date people your own age like me

>>38502477
you're young until you hit 24 (t. 19 and coping hard)

>>38502426
she'll be dependent on you and never grow up, if you're into that then go for it if not at least make sure you don't play her literal mom all the time

>>38502487
Seconded. What the fuck, man?

How come a 37yo meets a 19yo?
I'm asking because I'm 32 and I haven't meet young trans in a long while

>helped get on hrt
Does that means you buy her hrt? So you broke up with your bf and immediately started grooming boys?
Whenever I tried helping some younger tgirls being their sugarmommy they ended up being fucked up schizos who tried to kill me

>>38502426
Go for it. You’re going to ruin both of your lives, but it doesn’t affect me at all so fuck it

>>38502426
do mommies like paranoid schizoid trannies who like to be cut, punched and verbally abused or is that off the table

>>38502426
3 months on hrt probably still looks like a guy wait a year or 2

>>38502505(me)
oh and a lot of weird fetishes and trauma but loves to be taken advantage of? do uh... do they like that ..?

>>38502505
32yo tgirl here
I'm willing to go out with younger girls but I don't want more schizos or crazy girls please. I just want to go out on dates and buy them cute plushies I'm too ashamed to buy for myself. I don't even want sex or anything sexual other than cuddles and kisses.

T. Cripplingly alone with several bad experiences

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>>38502535
aw man. maybe someday ill find a mommy to take advantage of me...

I really didn't expect that many replies, is this board nowadays filled with horny 19 year olds with a mommy kink? I honestly didn't think this would be so common, I thought I became undesirable mid 30s or so, and honestly my previous partner didn't help with my insecurities.
I want to say that she also seems to be kinda brainrotted and immature (posts skibbidi memes).
>>38502433
>>38502442
Posts like this only make me more scared not going to lie
>>38502497
Online, it's kinda hard to meet older trans people in my experience.

>>38502505
I am good at listening to people but I am not a mental health professional. I am also scared about getting into (another) abusive relationship (not saying that you are abusive or anything like that, I am just trying to be more careful these days). I would also be scared about hurting you, especially given that you are in a vulnerable mental state.
>>38502521
I am sure you will find some people like that but I am not an abuser. I am a switch and can engage in a dominant role but I wouldn't do most the things that I see a lot of younger trans girls express a sexual interest for (being maimed permanently, actual emotional manipulation, etc).

>>38502594
>posts like this only make me more scared not going to lie
I mean.. She clearly wants it, and you're clearly thinking about it. I see no harm in going to her.

>>38502508
She's pretty cute, a bit cloa ky but whatever. She can definitely make it. I also feel kinda cloa ky but people who I ask claim that I am brain-wormed and it's all in my head.

>>38502594
>I want to say that she also seems to be kinda brainrotted and immature (posts skibbidi memes).
It is really hard to get along with young transgirls honestly.

>Online, it's kinda hard to meet older trans people in my experience
I guess so. But don't hang out on discord servers because I know how different this generation is and I don't really get it (all the memes and random posting). So I don't see how you'd meet young girls unless you're exposing yourself to them

>>38502535
Literally the only thing I’m looking for. Except I will base this off looks. Drop discord and we can talk :)

>>38502621
T. 19 yr old 2 yr hrt tranner :)

>>38502620
>I guess so. But don't hang out on discord servers because I know how different this generation is and I don't really get it (all the memes and random posting). So I don't see how you'd meet young girls unless you're exposing yourself to them
Some of the memes are pretty funny and they are generally nice (other than the high-school style drama). I enjoy helping them out when they ask for help with hrt or listening to their stupid infodumping.

>>38502505
>>38502521
You're never going to find what you want.

>>38502621
>>38502631
You sound like a walking red flag ngl. And I mean this in a bad way.

>>38502426
i'm biased since i'm a late 20s brainrotted schizo with a mommy kink and manifesting the archetype of the seething and jealous hag, but I do think you should seriously consider dating people closer to your age - or at least people who aren't at the literal start of both their adulthood and their transition

one angle is obv you hurting her, but the other is her hurting you if you try to build a long term relationship only to realize that in a few years she is a completely different person (reasonably likely with an 19yo trans girl)

it sucks being out of a 5 year long relationship at 37, but it's prob sucks less than being out of a 5 year long relationship at 42

>>38502663
>And I mean this in a bad way.
rofl

>>38502663
how exactly? i mean unless you're talking about the looks part

>>38502663
In what way?

>>38502656
:( not with that attitude!

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>>38502621
Fer.away
Also since I woke up in really awful doomer mood, I'm posting a selfie here

>>38502683
I don’t even get that, all humans are shallow to an extent. I’m perfectly normal

>>38502697
You are going to be used and discarded like trash by the bpdemon, warned ya

>>38502697
Aint no way :(
We already met

>>38502713
I mean you look fine but you’re not close to me

>>38502706
im used to it.
but you know what they say, one nail drives out another

>>38502697
wya anon?

>>38502650
heyyy

>>38502748
hi :3

>>38502755
wait are you OP?

>>38502761
Yes

>>38502761
yes

>>38502774
Oh, are you american?

>>38502778
No, I am from western europe.

>>38502778
>5h away by train
what do you think

>>38502713
how long ago?

>>38502789
Really? Do you mind me asking where or is that too much

>>38502792
this doesn't mean anything also why are two people replying to me

>>38502621
Fuck it the ads still up :’)

>>38502809
Months ago I still say hi sometimes:)

>>38502816
>Really? Do you mind me asking where or is that too much
Why are you asking? I don't really mind but is there a specific reason?
Also I put on a tripcode because the other person is being a retard.

>>38502834
>is there a specific reason?

we could be close.

>>38502827
im sorry i dont know who you might be
i havent checked discord for a while since i was severely stressed during november-december

>>38502843
North Rhine area

>>38502865
fuck, still, a very cheap plane ride away. disc?

>>38502858
It’s fine :) sorry, your too far for me tho, other wise I would like to cuddle with you :)

>>38502885
yea i guessed so, thats why i dont post anymore or even try
this shithole where i live is a waste of time

>>38502885
You seem like a nice girl but a single brainrotted zoomer is probably all I can handle at the moment. I wish you luck in your quest to find the tranny mommy of your dreams though.

>>38502901
nta but where do you live?

>>38502905
Hmu if that doesn’t work out, I don’t like im that brain rotted and zoomerish

>>38502919
south america, im kind of a lesbian and there are no lesbians here. The few tgirls I can find around are way too young and brainrotted. And the tgirls around my age are schizos, already had awful experiences with some of them sending me threats

I told her I will be going. Expect an update in 2 weeks to a month.

>>38502937
Well, I will keep it in mind anon.

>>38503104
cool i hope you two have fun, take good care of her as everyone of us wanted when we were that young and there was nobody around for us

>>38502426
Weren’t you posting about this stuff yesterday? I dunno, do what you want, it’s your life but why did you and your partner break up? I don’t remember if you said

>>38502426
is it easy for you to want to find a connection with someone? your posts don’t make you sound entirely jaded. i’m asking because i’m getting old and have become reclusive and without any desire to seek out new people. i don’t want to be this way

>>38503162
No? Do you have a link to the thread? She only asked me today.
>>38503114
Thanks anon, I don't exactly want to mommy her for everything outside of whatever fantasies she has but I am willing to guide her and help her explore her own journey.
>>38503166
It's complicated. I would say compared to before hrt it is MUCH easier, but this was a long while ago though. I still have some moments where I feel more introverted but generally I want to befriend and get to know people.

>>38503181
thanks. i hope you both have fun with whatever you end up doing

>>38503181
>I don't exactly want to mommy her for everything outside of whatever fantasies she has but I am willing to guide her and help her explore her own journey.
so you're just going to fuck a 19yo brains out?
nice

>>38503211
I think she is into the puppy shit. Back in my days we just had catgirls
Nyaaaaan~

>>38503225
Shes going to ask you to buy her a pet cage, i swear you

>>38502426
What do you even want or expect from a 19 year old who's only been on HRT 3 months? That's just a man. Let alone the fact it's weird for a 37 year old to fuck a 19 year old regardless of what the 19 year old looks like.

>>38503269
>Let alone the fact it's weird for a 37 year old to fuck a 19 year old regardless of what the 19 year old looks like.
Im a huge pervert but they're right, a 37yo grooming a 19yo is hot as fuck but also really fucked up. Hope you have fun tho. I mean most probably you both are going to have so much fun and nobody elses opinion should really matter.
No 19yo ever regrets hooking up with older people, we all know that

>>38503269
It's weird for someone to be a tranny in the first place but I did it anyway.
>What do you even want or expect from a 19 year old who's only been on HRT 3 months
I would be fine with cuddles and watching her program while ranting about her interests.
I expect to hang out and have fun I guess, chances are she will ask me to try some freaky stuff though, which I don't really mind.

>>38502594
>is this board nowadays filled with horny 19 year olds with a mommy kink?
I'm a 30 something with a really bad mommy kink and I wish I was 19 again because I think the age gap is really hot, does that count?

>>38503321
same

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i'm glad im not a transbian
when i take my H R T
and i wont forget the troons who lied
and ruined the optics for meeee

and i'd never stand up next to you
because you think i'm gay
but there ain't no doubt
you are a man
i mog you every daaaaay

grahh being a 21 year old with weird kinkz really makes older women not love me ....

>>38503364
Im pretty sure there are a lot of older women who are still sex-active and into weird kinks

Why does society chatise me for being a 32 yo tranny with mommy issues
I need a mommy not judgment

>>38503408
So you're looking for like a 50 year old or so?

>>38503449
35 plus works why

>>38503449
Age play is already pretend, the mommy doesn't necessarily need to be the older one, I've had younger mommies than me. Personality goes a long way, some people just have young energy and some people have old energy. Plus I've been told I look like a teenager despite being over 30.

>>38503350
>aislop

>>38503350
whatever you say zoomeroid, did you finish watching the new mr beast video?

>>38503364
Depends how weird, most things are fine but I really don't want to emotionally manipulate or actually abuse the other person outside of roleplay.

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I love my gf that's turned 28!! She is older than my older sibling :3 I'm only.... 23 years long though.... I'm getting there....

>>38503678
weird question. Do you still work like sexually , I mean do you get in a mood and all that?
I have been on hrt for almost 8 years or so and back when I was on pills it was okay, but with injections I dont feel anything anymore. Not even to mention I used to think like a top/dom and now I can only think about being a bottom
My younger self would be so disappointed in me

>>38503464
hi. where are you from?

>>38502426
I don't know much about transbian culture and how things like OP wrote are perceived.
But this is a pretty big age gap considering she's just 19.
I had a 19yo guy on grindr wanting to fuck me and chose not to even tho dynamic would be kind of different it still felt wrong. (I was 28 at that time)
Choice is yours obviously but it doesn't seem right

>>38503796
same issue :(

>>38503796
My heart skips a beat when I think about someone who I love doing things to me, or when I am with someone who I love.
>>38503835
I wouldn't call myself a transbian, I am bi. Is the issue just the vibe?

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Where do you even find older trans women? I'm in my early 20s and I want someone to parent me. I don't want to be lonely anymore.

I'm such a fucking loser, holy shit.

>>38503835
>I had a 19yo guy on grindr wanting to fuck me and chose not to even tho dynamic would be kind of different it still felt wrong. (I was 28 at that time)
I have 19yo hitting on me all the time, even younger sometimes, i do look like im 22yo cis. I guess if the right one was hitting on me I would give it a chance, but until now I havent. Whats worse is how they react when I tell them how old i really am, immediatly calling me mommy which I hate

t. i wish i was young again

>>38503898
I don't even care if she's mean to me, as long as she still shows me love. She can hit me or yell at me all she wants

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>>38503898
>lilstarlite spotted

ooohhh.. you're just like me for real...

>>38503857
People in that age are stupid, naive, not exactly developed yet. This sounds more like taking advantage of them for their inexperience.
She seems to look up to you, you guided her and she will let you abuse her while not exactly communicating that it is happening or even realising it until she's older.
I'm 31 rn and wouldn't go for anyone younger than 25, let alone a teenager.

>>38503898
get a job

>>38503929
:3

>>38503962
No fuck you.

>>38503931
>I'm 31 rn and wouldn't go for anyone younger than 25, let alone a teenager.
I have met cool people that age, and I have met awful and immature people my age
I just think of myself back at that age, I couldnt get along with anybody my age and ended up hanging out with friends who were 8 years older

>>38503970
ha, called it

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>>38503970
im in my early 20's too, dont worry. we can be losers TOGETHER!

trauma has effectively capped myself mentally at 13-15 though, be aware lmao

>>38504123
nta but this is so real idk how to be an adult i wish i could just go back to being like 14
also i love that image sm its one of my favs of kits :3

>>38504123
Same, I literally can't grow up. I'm mentally 14, and it's getting to the point where it's kind of embarrassing.

My interest and hobbies haven't changed since childhood :/

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>>38504251
>>38504273

it's okay. it's all going to be okay. i know how hard it is to be told your whole childhood that you need to grow up and then feeling woefully unprepared once you're finally "there" even though it doesn't feel like it.

we will keep living, my trauma infested sisters

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>>38503181
I dunno probably not, like days kinda run together for me so it could have been a while back even, allot of these threads are all the same ya know

>>38504324
(am 38504251) yaa :> its ok well figure it out
idk how much i wanna grow up but i need to
but i will and itll be ok and ill be able to do all the adult stuff and it wont be as hard anymore

>>38504324
>>38502589
Where are you from?

>>38502426
100% chance she's read hdg so if you want to connect to her you should cover yourself in green bodypaint and put vines all over your body.

>>38502426
i'm turning 37 this month and ive got a very similar experience op. do NOT let the high energy youths convince you that it's a good idea to give them your attention. they will drain you dry and drive you crazy, if anything it's reverse grooming, you're literally just a caricature of a person in their minds that they're so excited to play with but the actual You inside of you means nothing to them and watching them try to force themselves to care about it is torture.

>>38504418
Where would you put the border? 25? 30?

>>38504432
the classic wisdom proves true in my experience. half your age plus 7. so for us, mid 20s is the lowest you should consider. im currently dating a girl that's 30 and it feels really nice.

>>38504447
Ok, this sounds retarded and amerifatted.

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>>38504409
You don't have to worry about growing up anymore, I promise that it's okay. You've been hurt before, and you're still here. I'm so proud of you for sticking it out. Sorry for getting all sappy-ish - I just wish I could be told these things.

>>38504412
I'm from Chicago. Hello hello!

>>38504480
tyy thats rly nice of u to say ;w;
its just rly hard theres so many things u have to do and u just feel like none of it was made for u and ur just like a tourist in this weird world other ppl came up with
maybe i can get diagnosed and get on disability or something idk its all so complicated
how r u doing with it all ?

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>>38504534
It wasn't made for us, unfortunately. As much as we can kick and scream and cry about it. It wasn't, and will never be made for us. I know you want to get diagnosed (for whatever you may have) but a word of warning. Don't trust anyone. Tell them what they need to hear to diagnose you, and that's it. Do not open up to them on a larger level, otherwise you're shooting yourself in the foot. I was supposed to get diagnosed with ADHD because I very clearly show all of the symptoms but they made me take a "depressive self-assesment" and ended up not getting the diagnosis - getting told all it was truly was a "mood disorder" that just needed to be "worked on harder". I was told I need to "focus on improving myself". It's not that easy. I don't know how to fix myself, I know how to play pretend therapy for others, and that's all I fear I'll ever really be.

Sorry for the huge rant. Just a little fed up is all, and wanted to give some advice if possible.

>how r u doing with it all ?
I'm hanging in there. A lot of adult stuff has happened recently which has caused my brain to relapse on some old fairly bad habits, but other than that I'm relatively fine. I'm hurting right now because I feel like nobody wants to talk to me anymore, so thanks for listening even if it was just some random schizoid tranny's mouth spewage.

>>38504638
>getting told all it was truly was a "mood disorder" that just needed to be "worked on harder". I was told I need to "focus on improving myself".
omg im so sry its the worst thing when u try to be honest w them and they just dont get it
therapy always feels so unhelpful ugh its like theyre trying to give you advice for someone ur not
>I don't know how to fix myself, I know how to play pretend therapy for others, and that's all I fear I'll ever really be.
ya it always feels like people get upset if u have a lot of problems and its not rly important if u get better they just want it to not bother them
>I feel like nobody wants to talk to me anymore, so thanks for listening even if it was just some random schizoid tranny's mouth spewage.
no its not spewage at all !! u seem like a rly nice person
would u wanna add each other on disc or smth actually ? :> no worries if not but itd be cool

I posted earlier in this thread saying op should definitely do it but I read it as the 19 year old got op on whoremoans 3 months ago. didn't see 17 years HRT and 8 years post op

in light of the above, I recommend op not have sex with the 19 year old and instead have sex with me

>>38504418
>watching them try to force themselves to care about it is torture.
what do u mean by this? why isnt it possible for them to truly care about you?

>>38503287
> an adult with another adult is really fucked up guys, it's LITERALLY grooming
Americans are ruining the world

>>38504850
don't have much time right this second to respond, but my disc is bombasticbri. add me! we can talk :p

>>38505346
oki sent a req !

>>38505072
just in my experience of course but they're just so jazzed on the possibility of having that hot older partner that they literally build a fantasy of you in their heads thats only loosely based on reality. its fine because the energy carries things for a while but once that new shine wears off you realize you have literally nothing in common with them and they never bothered to learn anything about the person that was behind their fantasy.

>>38504456
how do you mean...

>>38505346
hey can i also add u later? you seem like a fun girl

>>38505720
sure sure

>>38505277
it's can be pretty devastating to a person's development to become a house slave at 19. aside from that, it's sort of like the gay trope you know? old guys picking up young guys then discarding them when they hit twink death.

>>38506217
why do you assume all this fucked up shit

>>38505720
bumping so you can find me

>>38505346
You mind if I add you too?

>>38506627
well, it's common. I've known girls that got stuck in that situation. granted it was partly their fault.

>>38506853
Why would age matter then? You sound like one of these transphobes or racists ngl.

>>38506831
IDGAF who adds me desu. just don't expect me to always be there like i was in this thread. i heard a doggy in trouble and i had to talk to her

>>38506861
age matters because young people are naive and easy to manipulate. they also lack resources so it's easy for them to become dependent. if you want to help young people there are ways to do that without requiring them to be your live in cuddle buddy.

>>38502456
This is the correct answer

>>38502426
Have a friend who fucked their whole life up sleeping around with younger but still legal people. Completely life fucked like 100% ruination. I don't fuck around with that shit what so ever these days, it just takes pissing off the wrong person and that's it.

>>38508317
What happened to them? What did they do?

>>38508522
they just were in this open relationship with this BPD girl considerably younger than them (still legal) and she'd bring home people of a similar age and they'd have loads and loads of threesomes and sex parties all the time. Anyway one particularly young (still legal) BPD as fuck girl felt scorned by the whole thing and ran a huge Twitter smear campaign against that friend. Eventually dealt with it legally. Then after that had to deal with breaking up with the initial BPD gf who was constantly attempting suicide and doing crazy shit all the time. But yeah, the stress from that whole situation derailed them from their career path and then they went insane. And they're still insane. And maybe in a year or so of antipsychotics and therapy they'll be ok, but their career is kinda fucked and they're gonna be living with the aftermath of such an intense psychotic break for a long time.

>>38508568
I see. Quite interesting, actually.

I myself am 30 and in a relationship with a 21 year old. She finds people her age insufferable and she reminds me of myself when I was her age (she is, unironically, wise beyond her years). We mostly spend our time reading, playing games, drinking tea, and enjoying our time together. I'm fine with her seeking other partners (especially if they're closer to her age or closer to her location). We both know the relationship won't last forever but maybe I'm what she needs in her life for now.

However, I've decided that if she and I ever broke up I'd pretty much never date anyone in their early 20's ever again. There's so much instability with younger adults it's incredible. There's more drama in a year than in my entire life even without any BPD on anyone's part. BPD would make the situation pure hell.

OP is pretty much doomed if they hook up.

>>38508683
I wish you luck anon, yeah, trick is just like. Don't fuck the other people your 21 yo is fucking. Like maybe it's fine a couple of times, maybe it's fine every time. But you piss off one wrong person, and make them feel uncomfortable. You are fucked. To be fair, regardless of age, any relationship could end up going ugly. But yeah, I'm terrified of dating younger these days. Luckily my partner now, we're a year apart and I just love her to pieces and it's a monogamous relationship. But yeah I just feel bad for my friend cause they really shat the bed with their promiscuity. Really just completely fucked it.

>>38508568
this reminds me of that one transbian rapehon from oregon that people always post about. pretty bleak though hope your friend makes it

This thread makes me wish I had put myself in a position to be groomed and put on HRT I still get femboy accusations but I’m fucking 30 now and any groomer would run as soon as they heard that life is so unfair :((

>>38508726
Appreciate the sympathy for my stupid friend anon. I have time for them still, and a lot of care for them. But it's almost entirely dependent on whether or not they sort their shit out and don't fall back into dating a bunch of barely legals. I feel like this whole awful experience will hopefully have scared them straight. But same time. You never know with people.

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Any of y'all young puppy girls in the NorCal area wanna hang out sometime? Or if not, just play some video games or something? I love meeting new people. Especially cute tgirls.

>>38508713
I'm very quick to withdraw at the first sign of real (stupid) trouble. The way I explain it to people is that relationships work by comparison and sometimes not even via comparison to other people. At any given time I could just be sitting at home playing Daggerfall (please play it in Unity), relaxing, or just hanging out with a relatively normie friend. While I don't expect people to be 100% perfect with their mental health there will always be a calling at the back of my mind going "damn, why the fuck am I here?" when things begin going poorly because of some mentally ill shit.

Some older people, and younger people too I suppose, need to learn to withdraw when they see mentally ill shit. I can only hope your friend has been burned sufficiently bad they have been thoroughly scared away from BPDpussy. That is, as I'm sure you suspect, highly unlikely though and the next guppy slutty puppypussy coming her way will probs just be seen as "fun loving" and "thrilling" until the suicide arc starts.

>>38508958
Honestly anon, sounds smart as fuck. Based daggerfall unity enjoyer. Morrowind was my jam back in the day.
I try and keep things like that aswell these days. My current GF, the communication is great. If and when it ends, I don't think it's gonna get ugly.
But yeah, that dumb bipedo twink enby coping schizo repper will likely never learn. They're still my homie, but I can't be worrying about them too much any more. Used to work with them a lot but these days I've just distanced myself a bit cause I know they're prone to making dumbfuck decisions that could jeopardize projects. So they're my homie. Maybe in a couple of years I see improvement I'll work with them again.

>>38504638
picrel sound like bladee lyrics

>>38504415
lmaoooo ahahahah fr tho, plommy cosplay when

>>38508886
this person is 300lbs and is a rapist

>>38509939
hot

>>38509939
that sounds hot

>>38508886
how north?

>>38502426
Don't do it. Seriously. It's not a good idea, you're both gonna get hurt and regret it.
You both need a partner that make your life better, not worse.
That would be my sincere reply

The thing is, you posted this on 4chan, which means there's a pretty good chance you're already pretty messed up.
If you still consider it after all that, and don't want it to turn into a fucking nightmare for both of you, you're gonna need to set some boundaries early and enforce them hard. She's essentially a teenager, and you need to be ready to deal with that. Because of the agegap, there's inherently a power imbalance in your favor, but that doesn't mean you're safe either. There are younger people who exploit that to abuse their older partner (guilt-tripping among other things). Another consequence of the agegap, there's a complete mindset gap that might make it hard to communicate or have common interests. I've been married to my husband for 4 years, I'm 28 he's 7 years older than me, and we still have trouble communicating sometimes. You're talking about a 18 year age gap. It's a big hurdle to overcome, and there's a big chance that this girl expect you and you alone to deal with it.
I have no idea what's the extent of your relationship with her through chat, but unless you have a good grasp on the kind of person she is, set boundaries beforehand, and make sure that she's sufficiently well aligned mentally, I wouldn't consider it seriously

>>38509939
I don't think you understand where you are

>>38502865
huh, 2 hours by train from my area if we're talking something Kölnish
>t. 36yo guy butting into the potentially transbian thread

>>38506853
is it
>I know like... 2 and a half girls it happened to (out of thousands), this obviously means like 90% of those situations end up with house slaves
or are you projecting some of your own paranoia/wishes?

>>38508683
> We both know the relationship won't last forever but maybe I'm what she needs in her life for now.
was sort of the case for me, I ended up being a practice bf, figured better annoy the shit out of her with the usual anti-groomer/abuser and building her up shit, in case she'd be too at risk otherwise
>There's so much instability with younger adults it's incredible. There's more drama in a year than in my entire life even without any BPD on anyone's part. BPD would make the situation pure hell.
it's like speedrunning half a dozen relationships into one, or at least what it felt like for me

>>38508761
groomer here, wya bbgurl

>>38502426
>who I helped get on hrt 3 months
wtf, no wonder why people don't want us around their children

>>38508958
I didn't expect to find wisdom as useful in the age gap thread, but I am deeply grateful for it. Thanks, anon.
>t. got reverse groomed for 6 years

>>38508568
AGPs live the stereotypical homosexual lifestyle, who knew?

>>38511178
tbf is it humane to leave GD people in puberty hrt-less for longer than necessary?

>26 y/o mtf, hrt 5 years

I feel like I'm at that middle age where I'm young enough that I can fuck older trans women (30-40's) and have the mommy dom that I don't care if she abuses me but also be able to dom the younger trans girls (I've mostly been with youngshits/passoid girls 18-21) and I know how to pick the ones with extreme mommy issues.

it's so fun being a really well passing middle aged trans woman, literally the best shit ever

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>>38508886
40 year old fat troonanon.... save me................ save me 40 year old fat troonanon

>>38503474
having younger girls be mommy is one of the hottest things

>>38512521
no younger girls are going to want to do that... they're looking for mommies of their own!

t. younger girl currently looking for one

>>38509939
hnngh I need a mommy that knows what she wants

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where's the norcal troon friends... I never seen a troon irl... they're too rare like shiny pokemon... but I'm not in a cool part of here... only near the capital.... I've seen an obese fat ugly bastard twitter groomer in the library before though...

>>38512180
That’s really interesting! I might not be a passoid but I’m 19, and started hrt at 17! Drop discord?

>>38513064
Surely there are some in Davis near sac? Unless you're east of sac or something? Then I'm sorry

>>38504123
hai my name is razor blade my life sucks already i hate my parents ad i cut myself every day
>>38503898
need

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>>38513633
Hello, hello Razor Blade.

How are you today? It's okay if you're not doing good, just wondering. I don't know how old you are, but you seem a bit young. I know life is rough right now, and your parents aren't probably doing the best job with supporting you mentally. I'm sorry, I understand that feeling. When I was cutting back in middle school, my dad responded by saying "Well, if you wanted to hurt yourself so bad, you should come work with me." Nobody will truly understand everything you're going through, and I apologize for that. It's rough. Just keep hanging in there, okay?

>>38512550
I am an older girl and I am also a sub sorry anon but u would have to dom me :3

>>38513798
literally impossible. sorry. I can't even powerbottom with my 3in girldick

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>>38513717
sorry i was just being dumb and referencing this lol but thanks because its really my life anyway <3

>>38513873
i am starting vortioxotine tomorrow ;_;

>>38513873
wow i might need to kill myself how did i not pick up on that

>>38512550
My gf is four years younger than me and she's my mommy tho

>>38513826
sorry I am to bottombrained this is literally impossible, best I can do is cuddle

>>38504480
Are you Chicago native? I don’t have any real faggot friends in Chicago.
t. STEMcel, 23, on HRT

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>>38514092
Unfortunately no, I am not. Of course I had to grow up in the middle of buttfuck nowhere - a village with only 1,000 people about half an hour from Rockford.

I've only been living here since August. I do plan on sticking around though, as I've got a job in the Loop getting lined up right now. Very very nice as I don't live too far from a station.

t. 21 y/o fat femcel loser that started HRT a year and a half ago

>>38513207
syntheia.synth :P

>>38513940
yeah a girl 5 years my younger would switch with me lol

>>38513215
I can't drive yet and I don't go outside other than the library....

>>38513064
is california really like vampire the masquerade bloodlines

>>38512407
Get on your knees and beg and I might save you lil, anon...
>>38513064
>>38513215
Hmmm depends on if you're a cute trans girl or just some chaser dude.

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>>38514516
100%

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>>38514543
P.. please save me! I may be fat but I promise I'm at least a little cute! I've seen you around here.. I don't remember what the first thread was but it was probably some puppygirl shit. I'm the anon that wants to be taken advantage of by someone older than me (i say that as if that's unique enough to be an identifier..)

>>38514543
Inot a chaser just a lonely boymoder manmoder thing.... I just want friends in person...

>>38514256
Didnt work :(

>>38514790
try Syntheia.synth

>>38514857
Still not letting me :,(

This is very much a male thing to do

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>>38514754
I think I remember you anon. You seem like a sweet, mousey little thing. It's pretty cute...
>>38514763
Aw~ sorry anon. I've hung out in davis a few times. Nice town. Want to share Steam info or something,?

>>38514200
That’s exciting! I’m not a train autist but I do love the CTA. If u wanna chat some and maybe meet up this is a burner disc
chicago.poster

>>38502488
this is so fucking true
im about to hit 25 and it feels like my life is fufcking over
>>38502426
its kind of fucked up but it sounds like ur gonna do it. hope u two have fun and that it doesnt fuck u both up too much.

>>38514896
weird. my twitter is @graceiris_ts if you have an account, try synth#5975 rq as well

>>38515220
either you're a catfish or you run a fucking literal camwhore twitter. either way thats fucking gross.

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>>38515001
>You seem like a sweet, mousey little thing. It's pretty cute...

I try to be sweet, I just can't help myself sometimes... But you're nice too, from what I've read! You are peak mother material... ;_;

>>38515001
are yo ucute?

>>38515220
>>38515247
The discord didn’t work again and I don’t have twitter
Other anon is making me paranoid now :(

>>38515350
if its really her she has nearly 30000 followers and is constantly posting nudes and sex shit lol.

>>38515375
I mean I was down for whatever really even hookups but like idk if it’s real now :(

>>38515406
i wouldnt lose sleep over it if i were you

>>38515417
Sadj… what bout you? You down for anything?

>>38515431
No sorry. Too busy pining for someone halfway across the world.

>>38515455
Whole worlds saying fuck me then :(

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>>38515350
idfk dude, this is weird

>>38515487
what song are you listening to pineanon

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>>38515287
>You are peak mother material... ;_;
What a sweet thing to say! You know, I've always wanted to be a mother. To be honest, sometimes I lactate a little bit just thinking about adopting a cute thing like you.
>>38515305
"Cute" isn't the type of compliment I get a lot at my age. But I think I still look pretty good.

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>>38515511
Umm... Ohmigosh... You're so pretty!! One day I hope to be adopted by a nice mom like you! And one as cute, too ;3

(I had no idea that you could lactate, thats insane ...)

>>38502426
sounds like an awful idea lol, there is definitely something weird about it

>>38515590
Aww you saved that pic I posted in the thread~
I've been taking domperidone lately, which is usually prescribed as an anti-nausea, but has a side-effect of causing lactation. Pretty good stuff.

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>>38515685
>Aww you saved that pic I posted in the thread~
Of course I did! It's a really adorable picture so I just had to... Anytime I see anything cute art related I have to save it! I never know when it can come in handy, whether it be used as reference to refine my own skills or just to send to hot people on the internet.

That's awesome to hear you're getting your mileage out of that side effect, hehe~

>>38515406
what do you want me to do to verify lol, I posted a tweet about this thread from my account on twitter :P

>>38515785
https://x.com/graceiris_ts/status/1877125999856386366

damn its real anon

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>>38515764
Thanks for the compliments, you've been a dear. I try to act cool about it, but sometimes I still get self conscience about my age, and it's nice to feel appreciated, even if it's by cute anonymous trans girls on my basket weaving forum.
I hope you are having a good day, and I hope that someday you find that mommy you seek. You deserve it.

>>38515511
>>38515915

NTA but can you help me buy girl clothes im too scared to go out on my own and i also can't drive...

>>38515822
I just added you!
Sorry I have classes :(
Also I’m just always paranoid :)

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>>38516039
Sure anon! Where would you like to go? The mall? Are you hungry? Want me to get you some Mcdonald's on the way back?

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>>38515915
>I try to act cool about it, but sometimes I still get self conscience about my age,

This makes me sad to hear. You're so pretty, goddamn it! I'm sure you're a fantastic person and I hope what I've said comforts you on that front even a little bit at least.

>I hope you are having a good day, and I hope that someday you find that mommy you seek. You deserve it.

I am doing relatively good today! I feel like I may be getting closer to finding her, but I also just had some major relation adjacent life stuff happen that is going to shake up my emotions for a bit. Here's to hoping that I make it through with a mommy in tow.

>>38515487
btw youngshit trans girls hmu, y'all are cute :)

>>38502426

That seems rough

I know whats its like to go though a breakup from a long term relationship, though I have a few less years behind me and am probably less experienced in love and loss.

It hurts to be hurt, regardless how the relationship ended, its painful.

a lot of folk reach out for comfort in this kind of pain, the rebound is real, and a connection formed to ease the wounds of the heart will always be tainted by what was.

These kind of situations can hurt people, especially when expectations aren't clear for the folk coming in to this. desu, I'm of the belief that it can actually be kinda healthy for a person to sleep around a little bit after a breakup, to help rebuild a bit of confidence, and independence. That being said, You really have to ask yourself if she's looking for the same type of connection here? is it Physical? Lustful? Romantic? is she confusing the desire for community with something more carnal?

if shes just in it for the mommy fetish I would say go for it, but if shes just looking for someone to be less lonely with, I'd recommend at least getting them a coffee first, or take them out on a walk.

idk im also really bad at hookups.

tldr: ask yourself, what do you want out of meeting up, and what do they want. in the end your both consenting adults.

>>38502426
i hate how u cant show empathy or support to baby trannies without them wanting to fuck you

32 year old mtf (13 years hrt) here. I had a fling with a 20 year old mtf with mommy issues. It was pretty hot but the drama was crazy. I am not usually dominant or into women, but she really brought it out of me. Had her on a leash calling me mommy while strapping her. Not sure I would do it again, but it was a fun experience so I dunno be careful and have fun I guess?

>>38513873
aw that's so adorable, even better than coldsteel
also sorry if your life do be like that anon, hope you heal

>>38502426
where do yall find eachohter like i hear these stories do i just need to join random subs or discord servers i wanna have a hot dom

>>38502697
passoid privilege being able to post selfie for validation baka

>>38515785
that's one delicious looking booty and cute face

>>38508886
>Mommy
>Furry
>Sweet talker
I desperately need someone like you

>>38510634
wdym, elaborate (brits accent)