>>38517485
You're allowed to cry once per death of a loved one

as a trans Gal, yeah, like i've been there. The fear of rejection, to show that kind of weakness in front of a woman is palpable, Before I cracked my egg I was a guy in that situation, and got told to my face that she thought less of me for it.

I'm kind of a cry baby now though, the hormones got me lol, but I know what it takes for a guy to get that point, I personally wouldn't think any worse of my boyfriend if he was this vulnerable to me.

though not all folk posses sense, even when their experiences should really teach them otherwise. :<

>>38517695
Mom?

>>38517485
please never ever do this unless its something serious like the passing of a loved one like other anon said. men crying over something trivial is so icky

>>38517485
my bf has cried many times in front of me and I'm more than happy to comfort him over it. I don't think any less of him.
if any woman leaves you, cis or trans, after seeing you cry, struggle, grieve, etc consider it a bullet dodged. she was never in your corner and would not stick around if things got tough. she aint shit, she knows she ain't shit, and she leaves because it's easier to give up. find yourself a better one

>>38517485
Being caught crying, as a man, is the most foolish, stupid thing you can do.
Even in today's climate where people pretend that they care about men's feelings, mental health and rights (keyword: pretend),
to be seen crying by your partner or someone you're interested in is a death mark on your potential or actual relationship.
She'll dry up faster than the Nile. Her love and respect for you, gone. Just like that.
It's not biologically coded, it's socially coded, so it applies to cis and trans girls alike.
If you're caught being weak, if you're caught with those tears... it's over.
Anyone who tells you differently is either an idealistic fool or a liar.

WE MUST ENFORCE GENDER ROLES

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>>38517820
as a guy I'm frantically taking notes

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>>38517485
If I had a partner, they can cry to me all they want. Everyones like, "no don't cry in front of a woman", but I genuinely don't mind.

In fact I would prefer you cry in front of me, instead of hiding your sadness.

Maybe I'm just biased because I'm an emofag, but idk. I'm very lonely

>>38518339
Everyone always says things like this, but if it happens, it's the exception, definitely not the rule and there are countless anecdotes out there to prove it wrong. And the people who think they feel this way, they also think they're immune to social conditioning, but they're not. And the first time they see a guy open up and break down crying in front of them, here are the words that spring to mind: "Loser". "Crybaby". "Bitch". "Faggot". "Pussy".

Risk letting her know you're a thinking, feeling creature at your own peril, boys, but it almost never goes well.

>>38517820
please kill yourself

>>38517485
theoretically i dont have any issue with a man crying, but i couldnt help but think less of a male partner for doing so if they wore the pants in the relationship, except for under extreme circumstances.

>>38517485
This whole thread is a case study of why transmaxxing has become popular among disaffected young men

Yes
I think she didn't like it she never said it direct but mentioned the concept a few times after breakup while we still talked

If you're burning alive and there was no water women wouldn't even pee on you to save you

>>38518129
>my bf has cried many times in front of me
He wouldn't cry so much if you would just let him suck your gock

>>38517485
i think id be fine with a guy crying, ive never had a boyfriend though
i just dont want him to be overly emotional/emotionally unstable, i dont mind if he cries occasionally
i feel really bad that men have to hide how bad they feel, i see my dad unable to open up and drinking everyday and it makes me wanna cry so bad, please don't close yourself off completely male anons, i will be there for you

>>38518478
true!

>>38517485
i havent been with a trans women but i did cry in front of a cis women and she just comforted me

>>38518478
let him? he's the top. he takes what he wants, when he wants.

>>38518371
>here are the words that spring to mind: "Loser". "Crybaby". "Bitch". "Faggot". "Pussy".

No actually. The fact that someone I love is hurting, would make me feel concerned. I would want to comfort them, and tell them everything will be ok.

Crying is a very human thing, and I won't think less of someone for it.

>>38517485
Ok, to all of you "oh you all say you're ok with tears, but after in reality you will dumb the guy"
I had a few guys (not my bfs) who cried in front of me (even before transition) and I don't think anything less about them as men. They're fine they really just had a shitty moment in their lives. I'm tired of this psyoping and i genuinely don't know what is wrong with women.

If it's only between us it's fine.

men can't have emotions besides anger

>>38517485
I don’t date trannies

>>38520716
why not?

>>38517485
Once when my dog died.
Yeah.

>>38520783
Afabs are prettier and you can’t bear a baby

>>38520848
you can pay a woman to bear you a baby and let you keep it

>>38517485
Issues with men crying is an American phenomenon, and any woman who has issues with this is a worthless protestant whore that will burn in hell forever and deserves to be eaten by maggots while she is still alive. I fucking hate America and hate protestants and hate Victorian bullshit.

Being a protestant is a state of mind btw.

she made it clear once it happened that she was always into the idea and not the reality of it
it's pretty much a visceral reaction from them so i had no chance and was told several times how i had to be the strong one and never show any signs of instability

>>38517485
If I had a crying boyfie I'd comfort him :(

>>38517485
i take the role of therapist so no men crying doesn't disgust me but i will keep asking you questions

>>38520863
you are based Protestantism with its deformed female worship disgust me too

>>38520858
I won’t date trannies

>>38518403
huh?

>>38517485
I cry whenever I want to and if someone calls me a faggot I play with their butthole.