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A genuine question for anyone who is cisgender. I'm not here to debate or argue with you, but to see your responses firsthand. Take your time answering.

If you were born the opposite sex, would you remain your current gender identity and/or sexual orientation?
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>>38585789
Hard to say. I'd probably have a different brain and would perhaps think completely differently.
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>>38585789
Unlike you trannies, I would assimilate.
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>>38585813
Would this assimilation be a conscious choice, or natural? How would you feel about it?
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>>38585789
If I were born an opposite sex, I'd have different personality and memories. I doubt it would be -me-.
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>>38585789
I THINK I would be cis either way because I see the appeal and sometimes wish I was the opposite sex already. But as others have said, it’s really impossible to tell.
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>>38585789
I'm a bi cis m and I'm happy with my body and attracted to myself.

If I was f, I'd presumably still be bi, and as long as I was still attracted to myself I'd be happy.

Not into pooners but maybe I'd take some tips from /r/growyourclit since that seems hot.
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>>38586094
Do you feel like you environment heavily influenced your current gender identity and sexuality?
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>>38586184
nta but i dont think id want to be reborn as anything but myself bc i like myself and i wouldnt be myself in that case
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>>38585789
The premise of this question is dumb. If I were born a woman I'd be a fundamentally different person.
If you mean what would I do if I was suddenly a woman, I don't think I'd change my sexuality or attempt to transition. I'd be pretty fucking angry about not having a dick anymore but I feel like that would be fairly made up for my now unlimited access to feminine and femboys I could bully, feminize, findom and occasionally watch get fucked by big masculine men who I could self-insert as.
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>>38586193
I apologize, the hypothetical is set up in a way that doesn't really give you a "choice". If your sex is swapped, how will you go about being "yourself"?
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>>38586209
Oh also if I was an ugly woman I would kill myself.
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>>38586209
I'm (surprisingly) a pretty genuine person sometimes. I'm also very curious. So naturally I get some people telling I'm asking "dumb" questions. I have family members like this and they often struggle with hypotheticals and general problem solving. This comment definitely reminds me of them lol they are not very imaginative people. No offense, anon. We still love you regardless.
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>>38586181

"Not into pooners"

Well no shit you're not into pooners. Only pooners are into pooners and that's only because they're settling after destroying any ounce of attractiveness they had to anyone else
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>>38586226
This is a dumb response, ironically. You didn't understand my meaning at all.
Your hypothetical is meaningless because the premise is flawed. You're asking what people would do if they were a different person, it's inherently impossible to answer.
It's pretty embarrassing to try to be snarky when your reading comprehension is so poor.
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>>38586162
>sometimes wish I was the opposite sex already.
Why?
>>38586233
I'm into pooners but I think I've met some attract ones in my day... But they are usually in relationships already.
>>38586236
I'm okay with this. I still want people's answers. I'm not trying to be snarky, however I'm obviously autistic lol I am misunderstood very frequently. I'll try to be more careful with my words, apologies.
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>>38586248
Next time phrase your hypothetical to be "if you woke up in a world where you were born the opposite sex" or something like that.
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>>38586252
I understand, however this is not the question I am asking... You're the same person, just the opposite sex at birth.
>but that makes you a different person
Of course you will gain different experiences and memories over time... But I've already done this and ended up being the opposite gender anyway. If I woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex, I would still be me as the opposite sex. My gender identity and sexuality orientation wouldn't change.
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>>38586270
No you would be a completely different person. I don't know why this is a hard concept for you to understand. You would have a completely different brain with a completely different chemistry with a completely different data set of experiences to work with.
My suggestion is literally "you're the same person just the opposite sex". Your hypothetical is not that. Unless you're suggesting that the person retains their current conciousness but is reborn, in which case they're a baby with the brain of an adult which is a significantly more complicated scenario.
> If I woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex, I would still be me as the opposite sex
Yes that's the fucking point of the hypothetical isn't it? It is "what would you do if you were the opposite sex". Otherwise you're asking people what they would do if they were a completely different person, which nobody can answer inherently.
If it is supposed to be a thought experiment about how people think their life would different if they were born the opposite sex then ask that. Don't phrase it retardedly.
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>>38586306
Well I guess that's the point of the hypothetical lol, how different would you truly be?
I guess I'm asking too much, since the person answering the question would have to reflection their own experiences, and then imagine they are the opposite sex in those experiences. But I'm now understanding this question is VERY easy for me to answer as a transgender person because I see just how different life is as one sex vs another. So I do understand your frustration. Sorry, anon. Your replies are clogging things up a bit and I would love to hear from other people so this may be the last reply to you.
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>>38586334
It's not so much that the question is hard to answer it is that you didn't ask it properly, which is why you're not getting many direct answers because most people think you just mean "what if you but male/female".
To answer your question I quite a few older sisters I can assume would be relfective of myself. I'd probably be androphilic leaning bi and there's no way I'd be a pooner.
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>>38585789
No. I wouldn't even remember anything about my past life because of having a new brain.
Why can't trannies understand biology?
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>>38586362
Why wouldn't you be a trans male? So you would be fine with being a woman, rather than a man?
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>>38586403
No I wouldn't be fine with it at all, but I am not me in this scenario.
I already explained how I would feel if I were suddenly a woman.
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>>38586410
May I ask why you wouldn't be fine with that? It would be closer to being a man than being a cis woman, no?
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>>38586485
You're not listening to me. I'm saying that I, me the person replying to you, wouldn't be fine with being a woman.
However in this hypothetical where I am born with XX chromosomes I don't see why I would be trans. There's nothing in my family or in my life to indicate that the female version of me would troon out.
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>>38586248
>Why?
There are many advantages to being male. Social ones like being safer from sexual and domestic violence, and more respected by others, and natural ones like being stronger, no menstrual cycle, able to pee outdoors easily, don’t have to carry and birth your children, etc.
Women have some social advantages too, like having our emotions cared for more. But I’m more of a nature person than a social person, and in nature men have all the advantages.
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>>38585789
I've had fantasies of being a cute adolescent girl a few times. I don't really mind being male most of the time, but I get kind of upset that I'm not trans sometimes. I really don't want to be pregnant, it looks incredibly painful, my mother almost almost died giving birth to me and I never want to go through that.



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