Everytime I touch my boymoder gf she panics and shuts down how do I fix her I wanna fill her holes
>>38586167make direct eye-contact.
>>38586167Talk to her you retard Dialogue, find out what's wrong It baffles me how all dumb people manage to find themselves a relationship while I cant find a woman I can hold a 15 minute long conversation with because they're all vapid odiots
>>38586183She told me she has trauma or something
>>38586198And apparently you dont care about her trauma Why do you exist?
>>38586205I exist to make her happyBut I can't fix her trauma I'm not a shrink
>>38586217If she was raped then you'll need one
>>38586217You don't gotta *fix* her trauma you just gotta be aware of it and respectful.Have you tried having a conversation asking what she feels comfortable with, and what she's like to do sex-wise? Maybe she just isn't up for that stuff yet.
>>38586167you need to explain it to her autistically so she understands. you might have to start by making her comfy with hand holding.
>>38586198anon how long have you known your boymoder gf?
>>38586222>>38586234>>38586246Good things to keep in mind OP.Do NOT start a conversation with "i want to fill your holes".
>>38586250I want to feel OP's face with punches
>>38586222I don't think she was>>38586234She also freaks out when I touch her hand>>38586246A few months>>38586268What did I do
>>38586299Nta but you're approaching "most empathetic moid" territoryyour poor gf clearly struggles with this and all you can think about is putting your dick in herif you don't think you can have a mature conversation with her about this get her a therapist or something
>>38586167She's retarded like a woman (yay I guess) just dump her ass and find another. Wtf is the point of a gf if you can't fuck?
>>38586299she might be a virgin with men and women even if she says otherwise and is clearly not even comfy holding your hand. you shouldnt be putting any moves on her. and you need to talk to her about these things and figure out where she is coming from and why she feels that and work it out with her. dont pressure someone like that into sex cause you will actually mess them up mentally if you force it.if you like her you will have to lead her and make her comfy with simple things like snuggling and watching a movie, hand holding on walks, hugs, really basic shit.she might not even like you like that and your just her friend. that is a boy.
>>38586167start by holding hands. diagnose what makes her afraid of touch. abuse? abandonment issues? touch starvation? etc. slowly win her trust. show her that you won't do whatever she's afraid of you doing. begin to work your way up from there. hugs, then cuddling, etc.but just know that for a lot of trans women, sex and even just nudity is a line they won't ever cross. dysphoria is a horrible thing and there's a limit to how much you can do about it. if "filling her holes" is the most important part of your relationship, maybe reconsider your relationship.
put some drugs in her first maybe
>>38586369>>38586427the duality of /tttt/
>>38586314What if fucking her fixes her
>>38586549this isn't a hentai she sounds deeply traumatized
>>38586549It will don't worry
>>38586167I'm the same. Can barely touch my husband anymore. He doesn't rape me but he's way more handsy than I'm comfortable with and I don't want to tell him about my assault because I don't want him to quiz me on who did it and if I don't tell him he'll be upset that I don't trust him (he's way too protective and I don't want things to escalate or to deal with assisting LE who have also harassed me in different the ways)
>>38586816hello dokuranon
>>38586822I've never posted her image before and desu the anime isn't very good, am I making myself look like some trip cause that sucks
>>38586369>there's a limit to how much you can do about it.sex reassignment surgery
>>38586549yeah just push her down and do it, OP. If you do that enough she'll learn there's no way she's strong enough to realistically stop you
>>38586890please don't rape your already raped gf
>>38586198>or somethingLmao
