Are there ANY good female role models for an autistic loner male brained tranny who grew up without a mother and any friends?
Empress Theresa
>>38588094why dont you just be yourself? if its that hard to not act like a man, then maybe thats just what you are naturally?
>>38588730i don't think this is a good fit>>38588730because I've already spent 30k+ on transitioning + HRT for 8 years + and am happy with the result so farand my family has already kicked me out and disowned me
i think i'm just going to rope desu
coming from a non-transitioning ftm coping with womanhood I would say that i can't think of a single goddamn role model in general. I love Kay Poyer's mind but she's a trans girl lol. that being said there a lot of girls whose personalities i really enjoy and bring me comfort. Olivia Rodrigo is my #1, Tara Yummy, Cinna, Sarah Lugor, Beabadoobee, Megan Thee Stallion, Emma Chamberlain (at times) the Katseye members, Madeline Argy, Newjeans. I don't "look up" to them but they make me feel better. if you struggle with misogyny you will likely be unable to enjoy them though. I'm also only 21.
>>38589272i'll check them out, thanks anon
>>38588094Utena Tenjou
>>38590963I remember wanting to watch Revolutionary Girl Utena years ago, but I never got round to it. I will watch, thank you anon
>>38588094I've never cared for role models despite having shit parents but I would say famous women (actors, singers, etc) who are known for being kind and funny maybe? Or any positive personality type you would wanna emulate.
>>38591124>I've never cared for role models despite having shit parentsMe neither, but recently I've realised that ever since girlmoding, I've been unsure of my self and who I want to be. When I presented as a male I did a lot of things because they were expected of me, now that I'm girlmoding I'm no longer obligated to think or behave in those ways, but there's just nothing authentic underneath that persona I was using. Also I'm just an underdeveloped person in general, because I've had very few social experiences other than being bullied or peer-rejected. I'm just an empty person right now...I think I need to rebuild my personality from scratch with an open mind, having someone I can aspire to be like would be helpful>but I would say famous women (actors, singers, etc) who are known for being kind and funny maybe? Or any positive personality type you would wanna emulate.I don't really follow famous people, and the few I do know of I'm pretty cynical about. I guess I need to broaden my horizons
>>38591206>I don't really follow famous people, and the few I do know of I'm pretty cynical about. I guess I need to broaden my horizonsYeah as someone who generally hates celebrity culture I get you, I don't keep up with them at all basically. Since you have very few social experiences you can't just look to a friend/family member and you sorta have to go digging for a role model. Though you could probably invent a person in your head to serve as an ideal but I would say that likely sounds insane lol. But anything that genuinely helps you and doesn't hurt yourself or others is great I think.
>>38588094Watching [dubbed] harem anime is a good way to get a feel for the spectrum of femininity. And then it's really about identifying the people you admire the most. For me I find pornstars, particularly transgender pornstars, the most influential because they're so open and free with their femininity. Daisy Taylor, Natalie Mars, Bailey Jay and definite inspirations, but also Stoya Doll, Sacha Grey, Marcelin Abedir. I also think Caitlyn Jenner is a really good role model because she's focused on elegant age-appropriate fashion which is SUCH a breath of fresh air after being bombarded with drag queens and perverts all these years.
