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How do I figure out my sexuality?
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>>38595608
nigga posting images like that you def not straight lmao like come on broski
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>>38595608
Who's actually the artist for this? The style is cute, I want more lewds like this
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>>38595718
no idea
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>>38595608
fuck around and find out (either that or you try and figure it out by consuming media til you find out what appeals to you ig, thats how i found out im pansexual anyways)
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>>38595608
who do you wanna fuck?
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>>38595608
if you need to figure it out then you’re straight
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>>38595608
https://www.idrlabs.com/kinsey-scale/test.php
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>>38595754
The problem is I don't think a woman would ever agree to have sex with me.
>>38595777
I want to have sex with men but it wasn't always like that. I identified as straight my whole life. Just a resigned and unsuccessful one. But now I just want to devour cock and sext with men (still virgin)
>>38595797
>First question: What is your orientation?
Doesn't help.
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>>38595797
I don't understand gay tests like these when they directly ask which gender you're attracted to and want to have sex with. Isn't the whole point of questioning your sexuality being unsure about those questions?
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>>38595832
If you have to ask you are gay. There is so much heteronormative pressure to repress any same sex attraction that if you are beyond that, you are gay.
You know when you look at people which sex you like more.
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>>38595828
Download Grindr and get some cocks in your ass (or get your cock in some asses?), don't need women to have sex with you, gay sex is superior
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>>38595828
Lots of people realise they're gay later in life. It sounds like you're either bi or gay, depending on if you're attracted to women. Idk why you wouldn't be able to fuck a woman if you wanted to
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>>38595839
desu when I'm out I notice women a lot more than men. But when I'm at home I fantasise about men exclusively and (almost) exclusively watch gay porn.

I think it's just because women tend to wear more flattering clothes, so girl butts are a lot more prominent than guy butts. I'm not attracted to vaginas at all though.
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>>38595839
I don't feel sexual attraction from just looking at anyone desu.
>>38595845
I already have a dildo that I throat and I like it. But that doesn't mean I'm gay. It could also just be a gooning thing.
>>38595862
Because I'm disgusting, creepy, neurotic, and unattractive. Women hate me.

This is why I'm so scared. What if my lust for men is just a trauma response to women's total rejection of me? And deep down I'm a straight male but just improvising a deceitful mating strategy.
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>>38595937
You're clearly overthinking it. If you're sucking on dildos and wanting to be fucked by men, you don't need to second-guess yourself. You're into guys. Go find some to have sex with.

I think a lot of people get like this and it's pretty much just a result of how insanely heteronormative society is, as a man you feel obligated to go after women, and when your heart (or cock) is telling you otherwise you tend to doubt it.
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>>38595937
are you sure you don't just have ocd or something
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>>38595937
gay people who are this mentally ill should repress and just date ugly/old/fat women
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>>38595983
What does repressing homosexuality have to do with ugly women
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>>38595954
why cant a straight male enjoy a good dildo suck that doesn’t mean anything
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>>38595954
It’s not that simple. Male sexuality is perverse and guys will fuck other guys while still being completely 100% heterosexual (prison gay)

AGP is also a consideration. Maybe I am just creating my own woman since I cannot have one (it hurts to type that). If I go on living a gay life and in the end figure out I’m just a perverted straight male I will kill myself.
>>38595955
I dont know what that would have to do with it.
>>38595983
But I CAN’T. That’s the problem.

If I was a successful male I wouldn’t even have to doubt so much about this. Which means I STILL desire to be an alpha womanfucker which means I’m just a straight faggot.
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>>38596042
No you're still overthinking it.

"Prison gay" is not a real thing. It's what bi guys say when they wanna fuck a man's ass but still appear "normal" and masculine. If a man's ass can make your dick hard, you're not heterosexual.
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>>38595784
This.
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>>38596056
So all those inmates are all gay then? All of them? With how widespread it is?

Straight men being attracted to males has always been a thing. From prostitutes to dancers to pederasty. All those men lived normal heterosexual lives and no one considered them as our modern conception of a faggot.

Let's not forget that from the day I was born, there was a 97% chance I'm heterosexual. Just like everyone else. Why the fuck would I think there's any good chance that I'm actually gay? If I have any doubts at all, the numbers tell me I should default to straight.
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>>38596056
false, men will fuck anything if women aren’t available
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>>38596113
Way more people are bi/gay than the ones that are open about it. Trust me, penetrating a man's butt isn't easy. Your cock needs to be *really* hard, and stay hard. It straight-up just isn't possible to fuck a man without having at least some level of genuine sexual attraction. You can't force a boner out of sheer will.

Again, it's just people being brainwashed by heteronormativity (is that a word?). Back in Ancient Greek times everyone was bisexual. It was just seen as the norm to be attracted to both sexes. Homosexuality wasn't seen as this weird niche thing until the last few hundred years, most cultures throughout history just didn't care. It wasn't until modern Christianity and Islam that it became a whole thing.
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>>38595608
you do it by having sex with various people, animals, objects and keeping track of it on a spreadsheet which ranks sexual arousal before, sexual arousals during, sexual arousal after and enjoyability of the act. Then after getting a representative sample you can calculate statistically your sexuality
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>>38596113
Those men are not straight idiot
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>>38596113
Not every man in prison has gay sex, its pretty rare. All women in prison do have lesbian relationships but female sexuality is different. Women do not need to be into men but men need to be into women, or no babies will be made.
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>>38595608
>meet people
>ask yourself "do I want to fuck them?"
>if yes, fuck them
>if no, don't fuck them
it's that simple, why are you looking for labels?



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