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/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis and trans lesbians to discuss lesbian relationships and topics. All wlw welcome to participate in lesbian discussion.

Please keep /lesgen/ discussion focused on wlw (women loving women); trans discussion not relevant to the lesbian experience—dysphoria spiraling, starting HRT, passing, and validation—is better suited for the multitude of trans-related threads on the board. Topics related to personal drama, including but not limited to tripfags or discord, are also not relevant. Bad faith posting, such as gloating about cis4cis exclusivity or ageplay, is unwelcome. Please report and ignore any and all rule breakers!

>QOTT: Is 2025 bad or good so far?

FAQ
>Am I lesbian or bisexual?
Lesbians are women exclusively attracted to women. Bi women are welcome to post here about being wlw as well.
>Are genital preferences valid?
Sexual orientation is innate and we can’t choose what sex characteristics we’re attracted to. However, discussing how much you dislike a certain set of genitals can be rude and disrespectful. In the same vein, shaming others for their attraction or lack thereof is also disrespectful. Bee kind.

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>>38601454
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>>38601454
GIRLNIBBLING
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>>38601490
i want to nibble the ear of the girl im thinkin about...
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Where's this supposed mature cis woman who grooms barely legal trannies? I'd like to submit my application
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>>38601554
she is the op. If you're barely legal u might not be good enough for her tho sorry :/
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I want a new girlfriend so badly but I'm so traumatized from my past relationships I'm honestly frightened of getting close to someone again...I guess I'll just stick with my current gf even though she like barely meets my needs
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>>38601607
>stick with my current gf even though she like barely meets my needs
dont. its just going to hurt you both worse in the long term.
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>>38601607
break up with her
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>qott
Good so far: the bitcorns. Bad so far: no cis asian gf.

You really like that pic don't you lago?

>>38601490
I approve
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>>38601569
They aren’t cuz I’m only into older women. Lowest I’d go for is like 26 (I’m 29). Women get better with age and more curves. Younger women are annoying too, sorry not sorry.
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>>38601607
You’re just gonna traumatize yourself more by forcing yourself to settle. :( Think of your future gf out there… she deserves your freedom and happiness.
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>>38601782
You give me green card, I give you freaky theyfab kpussy.
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I wouldn't bash younger women to make old hags feel special
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>>38601935
Old (beautiful) hags should feel special and should be worshipped.
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giwtwm...
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giwiwabh
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>>38601900
26 is too young, I'm only into women over 35 (I'm 19)
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In case you haven't heard yet David Lynch has died at the age of 78 :( To honor him let's all enjoy together this lesbian sex scene from his masterpiece, Mulholland Drive. Thank you David.. rest in peace.

https://youtu.be/tDeJwB4I9K0?si=jYjDZexkkSM2FO5g
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>>38601927
That seems awfully transactional. Also you realize that would require getting married and going through potentially years of bureaucracy right?
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my wife is being mean to me hlep
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i want an older woman to use me as a living masturbation aid
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>>38602261
Every young woman wants to be used by an older woman but no older woman wants to use a young woman
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>>38602384
because young women are annoying stupid shallow bitches who are so mentally undeveloped that being with one would make you a pedo, according to lago
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>>38602440
I mean as a barely legal woman I agree with that, I wouldn't even hookup with a woman who wasn't at least 35 because anyone below that age is cringe and boring, it's just kinda tragic that young women like me are objectively worthless
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I'm sorry for trannies with bottom dysphoria but cis pussy was made for penetration sex.
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honestly im just glad my gf heights is slightly above the average cis woman height (shes 176cm, im 175cm), because I genuinely cant imagine myself dating someone shorter, either cis or trans but specially a shorter cis woman
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>>38602507
Holy based
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like imagine dating a cissoid whos 140cm. i wouldn't really be able to see her as my equal
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>>38602507
cis pussy was made for tribbing with post op trans girls
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>>38602507
I have complicated feelings about my bottom dysphoria but need to fuck cisussy with my gock
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>>38602654
thissss
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>>38602507
Heresy, cis pussy was made to be eaten
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>>38602507
there are so many men out there who would love to penetrate cis pussy why do I gotta do it?
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>>38602507
wish my gf liked penetrating me, she says she doesn't have bottom dysphoria but she still doesn't like using it :/
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my gf told me she had sex with her cousin... (it's legal in my country)
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>>38602943
I would go for another gf who's ok with penetration I'm a cock slut
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>>38603033
yeah maybe, ugh i hate breakups
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>>38602869
Are you saying pre op trans women are the same as men?

>>38603046
Breakup sucks but no penetration sex sucks a lot more
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>>38603072
>no penetration sex sucks
>/lesgen/
this is just lesbophobia btw
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We need to advertise penetrative sex in every thread or women will forget how amazing dick feels
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>>38602654
Cis pussy was made for riding non-op trans girls
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>>38603095
Just say you're transphobic
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>>38603154
>>38603156
spreading 1950s style homophobia about how non penetrative sex is inferior is not progressive or pro trans
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>>38603196
That's just my preference, there are girls who don't like penetration and that's ok
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>>38603156
I'm transphobic
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i miss biting giant bruises into my gf's arms
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it's crazy how god made feet the most attractive part of women
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Every time I say this take I get attacked so i am posting it here but I fucking hate the recent trend of women growing out their body hair. Every single time I meet someone hot now it's ruined by hairy ass pits and legs and it's an instant turn off, I can't be attracted to them anymore. It feels gross and looks gross. Pubes are fine but if I wanted to date someone with sweaty armpit hair I'd be dating men. I want to feel her smooth legs in bed. Where have all the feminine women gone?

I also just feel like I would never go on a date without shaving and if I'm in a relationship I always make sure to keep it up, because I want to show my appreciation for my partner by looking good for them and putting effort into my appearance. And sometimes I feel unappreciated or taken for granted if they won't do the same for me. Shaving is like 5 mins extra work every couple days it's not an arduous task.
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>>38603464
cis women don't owe you femininity
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>>38603487
No one owes me shit. I wouldn't force anyone to do whatever they don't want to do, ultimately it's their choice. But I won't apologize for having preferences or thinking you're just lazy and ungroomed.
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>>38603464
the correlation between the severe rise of depression and people losing the will to keep up routinely chores is a straight line sadly, most people like doing this stuff its good and feels good but maintaining it is just more shit to the mountainous pile of existing in a world that hates you
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>>38603570
That's definitely true but most of these women are not depressed or unable to function or anything. I think it's mainly just to repel men or out of some sort of principle to reject beauty standards/the male gaze. Once again men ruin things for everyone
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>>38603606
that's fair, I genuinely don't understand how anyone can do that proudly, it makes me just spiral further and guilt trip myself for the next few weeks until i finally do it
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>>38603464
hating pit hair is AWFUL taste
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>>38603679
Nobody thinks your fetish is tasteful fuck you
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>>38603694
it should be outlawed for women to shave their pubes and armpit hair, and probably their leg hair too tbdesu.
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You can only date one of these races for the rest of your life, which do you pick:
>jeet
>abbo
>eskimo
You can also choose celibacy
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>>38603755
my wife :3
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>>38603755
eskimo
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no woman wants to date me, and i have been feeling incredibly touch starved lately, so i might just go have sex with a man
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>>38603755
one of each
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Tfw no gf in 2025
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>>38604522
god i want to be raped at gunpoint
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>>38604538
what the
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>>38604520
real
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How do you meet a girl with a silver tongue. I can basically only cum if a girl is talking down to me and being very clever about it.
All my sensitive areas like my nipples or my genitals are right next to numb so sex without speaking doesn’t do anything for me
It feels like I’m chasing something that I’ll never find just because it’s such a rarity but at the same time I don’t want to get stuck in a relationship where I’ll have to lie about enjoying the sex
I’m also strictly subby and incapable of domming (I’ve tried, really really hard)
How over is it for me?
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>>38605088
That’s a learned skill so find a girl you like who’s a bit clever and then practice with her
Maybe read up on quality erp and stuff too
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>>38605100
This is an idea, thank you anon. I hope I meet a clever girl with a pretty voice that wants to learn how to treat me best.
I hope you find many good girls in your future as well <3
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>>38603755
JEET
E
E
T
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realizing i'm luz again..........................................................................
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wake up
im luz
go to bed
im luz
swagged out
im luz
big booty
im luz
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>>38605771
fuck off
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watching bbc to feel smart
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>>38605925
yeah I bet you feel really smart while you're gooning to bbc
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>>38605925
ew wtf
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>>38605210
I'm a lesbian too when I see a hot looking girl, bro.
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>>38606220
big if true
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weeds wearing off and now i cant stop FUCKING THINKING
https://youtu.be/ZJ0dT61jFqM
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hey lesgen im taking a big dump before I start my big day
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my gf wasnt actually my gf and just dated me for a short while to boost her self esteem and loved telling me about all her other crushes and how they always liked her back and how much better and more attractive they are than me
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it makes me sick that i gave away a bunch of money right before i tried killing myself and i'll never get it or the shit i sold to get it back
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>>38606704
to charity?
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>>38606685
all my exes were that. I'm the ugly rebound :(
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Ex is telling me about how she’s sexting a new girl and is asking me for yuri I’ve sent her prior
Does she delight in torturing me, does it make her feel better knowing how much she’s hurting me?
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>>38606763
did you dump her or she dump you? this is directly correlated to if you deserve it or not. any way this was skill I had to not learn to do to my exes because id move on superquick after being dumped and start just treating them like a bestie and it hurt them for some reason
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Mfw get over relationships really quickly but have a bad habit of getting into new ones just as fast.
I'm happy single right now though I do get a little upset seeing everyone else in love.
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>>38606914
I broke up with her because we had been 2.5 years of long distance with minimal efforts to actually close the distance
I never stopped having feelings for her, I cut things off because I knew that I was just prolonging my own agony
I don’t think she has moved on from me because as recent as this week she’s been spiraling crazy telling me she misses me but as soon as someone else is in her focus she’s normal again
It makes me feel like what we had was basically just a fixation for her, something to do when she was horny or bored. I don’t want her to be sad and I’m happy that she found someone but the fact that she jumped right into sexting and immediately told me about it it’s just soul burning
She made me feel so so special and I really really really miss her, I feel discarded
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>>38606994
>I broke up with her
deserved
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every ldr is just a situationship, not a real relationship
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tfw no real relationship with someone my age
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>>38606994
Painfully relatable, some people just are deeply inconsiderate with other's feelings and operate all in their own world. I developed deep trust issues because of someone like this, I'm surprised you are still in contact.
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>>38606994
>>38607126
sorry but if you break up with someone and want to keep them in your life anyway (selfishly because it's almost definitely hurting them because you abruptly told them you dont love them anymore basically but usually theyre too weak to completely get rid of you) then you deserve however they respond to that.
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>>38607126
I don’t think she’s inconsiderate intentionally. She has the real kind of autism and she can often be very hurtful without realizing .
I’m still in contact because I still care about her and I’ll never stop. I want to look after her even if I know she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore. I want the best for her and will continue to look out for her and stay in her corner helping her through everything life throws her way
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Good morrow you angsty nerds. I don't have anything to say I just wanted a token.
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>>38607256
hi caca-chan ^^ howre you feeling todai!!
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>>38607201
you remind me immensely of someone I know, its not worth it for you at all
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I keep on wishing that she’d be back, that she’d walk through the doorway and see me waking up and tell me I look cute as she comes to cuddle with me
I keep wishing that we could have just made it work forever, that somehow she’d appear in my arms like there was never any distance between us.
Everyone I meet I’m just looking for hints of her in them, I had never met anyone so perfect in my life. Her lust for life and her adoration for everything around her was so beautiful to me I’d give anything to keep it with me forever.
I loved her. I love her. Part of me wishes I had never cursed myself with the knowledge of knowing what true love can feel like but I know I’m much better off having tasted a bit of heaven and lost it than to have never known the touch of an angel at all
Please come back to me, please make it work. Your touch soothes my mind body and heart, your voice gives me peace to last through any torment.
You are my grace, you are my beauty, you are my everything. I love you so much, more than you could ever know
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>>38607289
I'm well thank you. How are you nona?

>>38607375
Remember that regret you're feeling means it's too late to change anything.
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>>38607309
This may be true but if it is, then it’s a lesson I’d like to learn the hard way. For all she’s given me it’s only right that I give back
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feel like the biggest clown in the world making a tinder and putting myself to show up under women as a tranny lol
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>>38607375
dm me
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what do you do when your ex kind of seems like she wants to get better for us and our shattered relationship but then like 2 months later is suddenly in a new relationship
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>>38607201
you dumped her stop trying to act like you're a saint. you staying is only making things worse for her. leave her alone
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>>38606739
of course not
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>>38606994
>dumps someone
>I feel discarded
are you stupid
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>>38607655
>>38607660
you deserved to get dumped
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>>38607659
How'd you give it away then?
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>>38607444
I gotta go to a doctors appointment but it's no biggie it's my annual. I'd really like another cup of coffee but my heart rate will be super high and the doc might get worried!!! (:
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>>38607685
stop asking fucking questions
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>>38607675
how tf can someone feel discarded when they're the one who dumped the other one. you discard someone then go "nooo i feel discarded" like that's so retarded. sorry!
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>>38607675
>I don't want to be with you anymore
>nooo you can't also not want to be with me
actual 2IQ behaviour
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>>38606763
You know she doesn't. She's just happy to have something again and considers you a close friend and wanted to share her happiness. Don't take her actions as anything other than a miscalculation about how you would respond.
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>>38607696
>>38607707
you deserved to get dumped and no amount of seething will change that sorry bubs!
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>>38607707
Feelings take time to fade. Some people are quicker with it than others. There's no shame in her feeling hurt about it, regardless of motive or reasoning or role in the breakup it's still going to hurt while.
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>>38607713
genuinely how does it make sense to get rid of someone and then be upset they're moving on. it seems narcissistic
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>>38607719
if you want them not to move on then don't break up with them? tf?
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>>38607720
that's because you are a narcissist
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>>38606747
>that head position
this isnt cunnilingus...
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>>38607720
Perhaps you should read the thread and realize that breaking up due to complications with LDR isnt exactly the most one sided kind of breakup. You can break up with someone without you really wanting to do it for reasons outside of your control.

>>38607729
Because being married to your phone for the rest of your life is a lot of fun anon sure.
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>>38607730
why would you be upset about something you are actively choosing to do? just don't do it if it upsets you
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>>38607754
It's called being human and three-dimensional. I wont reply to you any longer you brainless npc
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>>38607753
yeah my solution to that would be to actually communicate to them how the relationship dynamic is hard for me and see how we can split the funds to close the gap immediately. I also wouldn't get in a long distance relationship tho
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>>38607765
idk maybe it's just me but I'm willing to do anything for my gf. if I were in that situation and moving was hard for her but I needed it I'd say as long as she can house me for a bit i'd drop everything and start visa process if necessary or just move there if it's near with whatever funds I have.
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>>38607708
I know and I don’t, I’m very happy for her that things are looking up. I politely asked her to refrain from sharing the details with me and to be mindful of what she says.
I was very up front when we were dating that I have a fragile and jealous heart so she knows my sensitivities and I’m sure she’ll be good to oblige
I just wanted to vent somewhere and get it off my chest because feelings are intense in the moment and this general is good place for me to shout into the void without worrying about repercussions
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Hi girlies
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>>38607765
are u people that retarded to think they havent talked about it? they were in a relationship for years. do you think she just woke up one day and was like i need to break up with my gf and not talk about it. stop seething holy fuck.
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>>38607765
I obviously agree LDR is a waste of time generally, been there done that, but I have to assume that they had at least some genuine attempts to close the distance and couldn't for one reason or another. 2.5 years is a wild amount of time to be waiting around for change to happen.

Even in my youth when I did LDR I never lasted more than 6 months because at that point its pretty obvious its not gunna be able to happen in reality. Thats life.

>>38607793
I'm glad to hear you're setting boundries. A lot of women on this website simply don't know how.
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>>38607804
I really doubt she was like "no you can't ever move here and I won't work for it"
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ITT jealous hons who cant get gfs malding over someone breaking up with their gf
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>>38607811
>I have to assume that they had at least some genuine attempts to close the distance and couldn't for one reason or another.
I just don't believe it. if that person has a stable place to live and you have like $2k in the bank you can move across the world to be with someone and get married if necessary for visa.
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>>38607819
I have a gf and have done a lot more than just moving to be with her and put in a lot more work than that. it's annoying people pretend they "had" to break up with someone when they just didn't. if you love someone you'll put in the work.
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>>38607819
>ITT jealous hons
it's just luzardo really
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>>38607693
why
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>>38607872
not luz I just think people who won't work for a relationship are pathetic. I literally went from a NEET to working a job, doing uber, and being in school because my gf couldn't deal with paying for everything anymore i barely saw her but was enough for her because I was putting in the work and she appreciated it. done school now and don't do uber anymore because I make good money but relationships take work and no one is willing to put in actual effort to do it anymore and just complain online instead.
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>>38607785
She didn’t have a job and wasn’t making attempts to get one, we lived in the same state and I would frequently fly her out to visit me for two weeks to a month at a time. I would pay for all her food and entertainment (she would occasionally pay for herself as a kind gesture which I appreciated) But I was doing all this on a fast food job budget, granted I’m not doing anything to get myself a higher paying career it was hard to take all the financial burden on myself.
>>38607832
I do not have a stable place to live, I just lost my apartment due to rising housing costs and had to get roommates (therefore can no longer fly her out to see me)
She lives with her parents still
>>38607852
Providing for yourself is already challenge on its own where I live, providing for myself and someone else is a near impossibility
However I am putting in far more applications to proper nine to fives to work on developing a more stable financial platform
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>>38607962
>same state
yeah this was completely fixable
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>>38607962
seriously though, did you at least say "hey babe you either not to get a job and start saving so we can live together or I won't be able to do this anymore"?
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>>38608003
or like whenn she was begging for you back say you're willing if she starts making money?
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>>38607899
i dont want to talk about the details
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>>38608054
>>38608003
>>38607996
You bitches are delulu and desperate. What else to expect from 4chan.
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>>38608242
>delulu and desperate
communicating your needs and working with your partner is literally the most important part of a relationship
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>stop replying to me gfs reel spam
>three hours later she messages me complaining why I'm ignoring her
now im basically forced to respond to every stupid shit she sends me or shes just gonna get even more annoying
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>>38608266
>>38608257
just say it's a lot for you rn and you need some time alone? what?
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>>38608266
lmao are you unable to use your words and communicate? did you ride the short bus to school?
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>>38608167
ah okay sorry
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>>38608257
If after two years she doesn't even have a job what the fuck are you even doing? You're pretty much having to accept being her sugar mommy at that point. If she was unhappy with being jobless and ldr she would have gotten a job and changed that. She was obviously content. Two different wants and needs in a relationship.
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>>38608399
and was it ever communicated how important it was?
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>>38608399
>>38608517
there is something wrong with u if ur asking all this towards a stranger
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i wonder what tortilla ass is up to
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>>38608549
when you make your problem the internet's problem you get responses from strangers, wow
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>>38608517
I think you're genuinely retarded.
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>>38608593
slithering around the gutters of berlin grinding her teeth together and looking for miscellaneous pills
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>>38608849
based
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>>38607741
Given that Vi's pants aren't down and Cait is in the process of tying her hair up, then it's nothing yet.
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god damn are any of you bitches happy?
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>>38608913
No because I don't have a middle aged (40+) gf :(
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>>38608913
I'm happy but I hate everyone
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>gf who will go to the chromakopia tour with me
:<
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I'm talking to this girl at the moment, we met on an app and haven't been talking for long but I already feel like I have a crush on her. Problem is, she said on her profile that whilst she's single she's not looking for a relationship right now just to make new friends and connections. My biggest worry is that, we'll be friends for ages and then if I say something to her she'll say she can't see me in that way because we're such good friends, or that one day she'll message me saying she has a girlfriend and I'll just think I should have said something after all.

Is it a good idea to say something, not "I love you" or "I want to be in a relationship with you" but something to say that I do like her but I want to respect her not looking for a relationship at the moment stance and when she does feel like she's ready maybe we could go out? Or should I say just that?
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>>38609007
communication is always best option just say something casual and let her know
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>>38609049
let her know I'm interested in her or that I actually want to date her?
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>>38609071
tell her that you're interested but keep it casual and let her take the wheel from there.
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>>38608003
>did you atleast
Can you not assume I’m the worst person in the world for two seconds
I wrote her resume for her, and coax her through interview questions. And then she flaked the interview. It was a constant topic that it was straining our relationship but I kept giving her second chances.
I tried as hard as I could to make it work, I don’t know if you’re just a troll or you’re some psycho with hangups from your ex but please go fuck yourself if you’re gonna pretend like I didn’t want to make it work. I loved and her and I still love her, I wish so badly she could have just gotten her shit together so we could be together but I can’t live two lives by myself.
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>I wrote her resume for her,
ahhh I also had to do this for my ex and then after all that I am also made out to be the bad guy, funny how that works. My advice is never help an adult write a resume. Just walk away.
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>>38609328
>never help people if they're having trouble with something
yes this seems like a healthy outlook to have on relationships
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>>38608913
My gf Jordan and I are happy :D we went to a museum today and took this photo! It was fun!
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>>38609191
Mommy
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>>38609191
none of this answered me. did you communicate the importance to her or not?
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i hate seeing jordan happy
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>>38609891
You didn't come visit us for Christmas
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>>38609900
>>38609891
i believe they answered this before you asked
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bringing a girl to the fair and winning at that shoot the target game and winning her a big teddy bear and being like "i want you to have it <3" and then like I win her heart
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>>38609943
>bringing a girl to the fair
oh ur really trying to piss me off
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>>38609964
what why
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Life is so stressful. I can only hope I find a bad bitch at the lesbian bar tonight to suck it right out of my cock.
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>>38610551
is that hard
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>>38610583
Idk I never tried
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>>38609974

fair - carnival
fair - just
fair - pale
fair - beautiful

idc about dates just tell me why this word is all these meanings and yet its not related to "fairy"
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>>38609974
i ruined my life taking jordan to the fair 2 years in a row
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i know i'm an objectively shitty and selfish person even if i don't believe it
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>>38610852
That was so funny going to the fair
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>>38610975
not for me i gained nothing from it
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i should just kill myself right now
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>>38611367
I should also kill myself
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>>38611367
you're so real for that
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>>38611367
>>38611439
nope actually u musn't retards.
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>>38611448
It would be pretty funny in a really fucked up kind of way. I could really fuck some peoples days up I guess. Literally for no reason other than to be a stinker. Isn't fun what life is about?
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my body, soul, and mind are in perfect health
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What age did you have your sexual awakening?
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>>38609191
holy fucking wife material please marry me
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>woke tranny gf tells me to come to her "trans meetup group"
>tell her no
>"you need to get over your internalized transphobia anon"
ugh i should've stuck to dating cis women
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>>38613247
>nooo I don't have internalized transphobia
>says woke tranny
>uses 4chan
at least be self aware
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wydag who worked 12 hour days
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>>38613264
yeah and because I'd finish work earlier than her I'd make her dinner when she's ready and when she walks in i'd put on whatever show we're watching and tell her to come cuddle on the couch
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>>38613285
and then while we're cuddling Id ask her to tell me all about her day and hold her tight because Id miss her
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>>38613285
>>38613293
god i need to start dating someone
being alone is hell
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>>38613258
she is woke though! she supports enbie stuff and has told me off for saying theymab/theyfab.
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>>38613307
me too anon. no trans girls near me who like me unfortunately
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>>38613320
waow
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>>38613320
you're going to ruin your relationship just stop caring about that stuff and listen to her, it's not as big of a deal as ppl online especially this board make it out to be
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>>38613327
i would date anyone at this point. don't even care if they're trans
fuck i'm down so bad
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>>38613348
i'm not going to her woke tranny group. even if those places weren't rapehon central, being trans isn't a big enough part of my life to socialize on the basis of.
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>>38613383
she's going to dump you because of this eventually, either go "sorry I'll start working on my internalized transphobia" and stop saying shit like rapehon, or it's over for you.
>being trans isn't a big enough part of my life to socialize on the basis of.
okay anon since you seem autistic I'm going to tell you why she did this. The support group isn't THAT important to her, the fact she perceives you as having internalized transphobia is, this is her trying to help you and/or trying to give you a chance to change because it's starting to bother her
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>>38613423
>she's going to dump you because of this eventually, either go "sorry I'll start working on my internalized transphobia"
i'll try..
>since you seem autistic
i didn't think it was that obvious >_<
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>>38613508
make sure to apologize to her and say exactly this "Im sorry for how I've acted and I'm not ready to go to the support group yet, but I want to start working on my internalized transphobia"
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>>38613538
christ i would sooner kill myself than participate in a humiliation ritual like that
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>>38613575
its legit only way to not get dumped in this situation. I'm not joking.
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>>38613538
ok..
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what dating apps have trans women? i cant find any on tinder
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Do any trans lesbians here have any tips on how to overcome my fear of cis lesbians? I'm attracted to them but I also have my guard up and it's not right.
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>>38601454
therapy after a break up is the worst thing in the world. you reflect and realize where you fucked up and now you feel like a POS
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>>38613213
I should just kill myself people thrive on my desperation
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>>38614148
i don't understand? it's the devotion that's attractive. it's hard to find someone who gives a shit
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>>38614209
Didn’t realize, apologies, probably a bad thing. I’m very clingy and tend to over give in relationships. I don’t know, I need to die anyways
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>>38614342
my toxic trait is that i like that
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>>38614372
I’m also an annoying autistic sub bottom with no money and a dead end job and should kill myself
I am a dime a dozen friend bad person bad vibes I’m the worst
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As a gay man, I noticed I like lesbo stories for some reason.
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>>38614763
bottoms are cute but switches are ideal
it's fine to be poor so long as you're actually doing *something*
i make enough money to provide for two, anyway :)
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>>38614793
I tried to do too stuff and I just can’t, I had my gf bent over moaning in pleasure and I just get nothing out of it
It makes me happy afterwards that she enjoyed herself but topping just makes me feel bored and unhappy I don’t get how people do that
>bottoms are cute
Refuse to believe this one, genuinely there’s no way people find bottoms cute. They’re so innumerous and outspoken it’s gotta be obnoxious
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>>38614893
aww, that's too bad. i understand, though
but yes, bottoms really are cute. i like to watch them squirm beneath me
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why the fuck didn't i try to be friends with that st lucian girl i could've learned creole fuck
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>>38613247
how do only loser bitches get girlfriends like this? I'll gladly switch with you, take my normoid instagram addicted girlfriend because I'd love to date a trans woman with some resemblance of a spine



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