bottom dysphoria intensifiesone of the last changeable reminders i was born with moid anatomy its so fucking gross and disgusting and i want it gone but my srs process has gone nowhere in a year
you can rearrange the shape of the penis and tuck it inside but it isn't exactly going to look or feel the same as a cis vagina would, and the rest of your body is still male-shaped despite the soft skin, boobies, and long hair
>>38605286i take what i can get desu i know ill never be as pretty as cis girls but that’s fine.
have you taken any steps to deconstruct it psychologically?
>>38606655what do you mean?
>>38606655onegai please explain
>>38607111what size is it soft/erect
>>38608371what does that have to do with it?
>>38605286>the rest of your body is still male-shapedspeak for yourself hon
>>38608371pls explain
>>38605282as a vagina based girl it is my opinion that all trans girls should have vaginas
>>38613117nooooo! being able to piss straight upwards is the best!
>>38613133if i lay down and spread my legs and pee it will go up a little bit?
>>38613117well i would if my doctors would let me
>>38607111create a masculine tulpa to be able to use your dickeventually, with enough force of will, you can have the masc tulpa take control full time and banish the trans thoughts entirely, become a normal man
>>38611314Ok I will be overly specific. You need to take steps to rewire your association with your genitals. Some things I have done with my gf1. I run my finger over her scrotum lightly and blow on it gently so it tightens up, then I lay out needles on an antimicrobial mat. I dip each one in estradiol and push them into her orbs slowly, one at a time. We kiss in between. Its very affirming for her, because it redefines her orbs solely as an outlet for my pleasure and her pain. Male balls are a source of pride/strength, hers are something else entirely. 2. Banding, under careful supervision. If you are single I can't recommend this, because it can lead to tissue damage. I am very careful and we structure it in a way that it's exciting for both of us. I apply bands before bed and its comforting to her that her clit is atrophying while shes comfy in bed. I check on it frequently, the goal is reduction of blood flow, not to cut it off entirely.3. Find the most restrictive chastity cage you are comfortable with. We use an inverted cage with a cylinder that pushes her clit inside her, with a mini catheter attachment. On nights where she isn't banded, it's affirming to wear it while she sleeps. Otherwise it's on most of the time. Don't go small right away, go with one that you can tolerate all day, then downsize. 4. Discourage erections. When my gf could still get hard, I would immediately start spanking her orbs until it corrected itself. This created a "stove is hot, do not touch stove" connection in her brain, and associated erections with discomfort. Ultimately, remember that your genitals are no longer "male", and that they are non-penetrative. These are things we do because we trust each-other, there are probably other ways of doing this but this is what worked for her
