im kinda in a weird situationship with a guy thats been slowly falling- and i feel like im falling for my friend. hes tall, attractive, got a great voice. we talk all the time and very much connect. i kinda feel like he feels the same but he also said a while a go that he wasnt trying to be weird and pursue me but the vibes are just... off and im not one to cope but it really did feel like that may not be true? everytime i talk to him i wanna talk more and he always wants to talk to me more but i already got this other thing... anons give me your (usually very terrible) advice
>>38605784You're talking to multiple men at the same time, and you're a dumb whore
whore whore dirty whore
>>38605784He may feel the same but might be just afraid of expressing it out of fear of creeping you out and ruining the situationshipYou should just ask him OP, before it slips through your hands
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>>38605817the spider man dick goes crazy. but actually- it was more just talking and i haven't had sex in a year. i just dont wanna let down this other guy cause hes really nice but i dont think its right while im developing feelings for someone else who id never think id develop feelings for.
>>38605831https://voca.ro/1eGjgoqfC5Ti
>>38605851the "nice guy" is actually the one with a lack of emotional support. he has no emotional intelligence and is very bad at supporting people- i just know hes really into me and thats the issue. hes nice- but lacks some things i need in a partner. the only reason i got so close to my friend was i needed someone to talk to after some super heavy personal shit went down. i just know that if i ended up telling him i didnt want to talk anymore romantically it would ruin the friend group
>>38605784>hes tall, attractive, got a great voiceNotice how this comes *before* any perceived connection to him on a personal level, despite supposedly talking about love, which is a personal connection to someone.Newsflash, you aren't in love and may not even be capable of it if you're thinking like this already. You're likely a horny aromantic BPDemon just trying to find the words that most effectively justify your use of him while causing as little reputational damage as possible so you can keep the option of doing it over and over again to different victims open.
>>38605784I'm honestly struggling to grasp what you're asking here. Are you ESL?
>>38605920.... never said i was in love? i say to partners which i have a stable foundation with. i havent been in a relationship in over a year after my last partner as it took me a while to get over him. i enjoy hanging out with this guy too much for comfort is what im getting at.
>>38605926my bad with that. my question is what do i do kind of thing. had a guy that was kinda talking to but nothing serious- but realized hes not great at supporting me emotionally. i went through a really heavy emotional time and he just didnt support me at all. ended up talking to me friend about it and we just ended up talking more and more and now im getting these butterflies around him and i dont know how to feel abt it or what to do. nothing we say is sexual or romantic in nature i just get this feeling in my chest when i talk to him.
>>38605949ok. and who is tall and attractive?
>>38605784>i feel like im *falling for* my friendie. falling in love, inn4 you use your bpdemon linguistics degree to snake out of this because you didn't directly say love and can therefore play dumb about this specifically alluding to it anyway>>38605941>never said i was in loveso that was a fucking lie
bpdemon whore
