I am a 30 year old cis bisexual male but in the last year or so literally all of my sexual fantasies have been from the perspective of a woman. At first I was okay with this as a passing fetish but now it's been too long, intense and consistent and it's becoming uncomfortable but I can't break out of it. What should I do to get over this?
You're a bottom who conflates bottoming with being a woman. Many such cases, this does not make you a woman
>>38608839I used to think this was the case but lately it's been more intense and I get this ache where my minge would be.
Self improvement and discovery bump
>>38608827you're autogynephilic. it's better to think of it more as a sexuality that competes with regular sexuality than just a mere fetishaccept it's there. you'll have to think hard about what you want to do going forward cause all options aren't fully satisfactory
>>38609386I want to kill this off and be a normal straight guy, how do I do this?
>>38608827>>38609403ngl as someone in the same age range and also used to be a cis bi male it doesn't really get easier or go away. you either had latent agp or latent tranny brain that got activated. either way it's life long and something you should learn to accept.i say tranny brain because if it's intense, aching and uncomfortable could mean you have tranny brain underneath all the layers of dissociation, seems common if you're millennial age range.if it's just a fetish thing and being a guy doesn't bother you at all, then you're probably agp. also life long, something you should just accept.
>>38609494>latent agp or latent tranny brainsame thinghowever something that should be accepted either way
>>38608827i feel like by making this post here specifically youre asking for people to affirm what it already seems like it is, which is you being a trans.i mean, look into it and think about it, it does sound like it, but the only person who can say for sure what it is or how to deal with it is you. believe me, wish i could have just been told i was a girl from the start.
>>38609494It's only ever gotten really bad (like painful aching) once, and that was last year and I got over it with anti-psychotic meds. I know I'm "different" but never had any desire to be anything feminine before recently, and even then it's only sexual
>>38609671If it's up to me, then I'll always choose what I currently have but that's because I'm lazy, shitty and avoidant. I prefer if people just tell me where to go, too, even over this gender shit.
>>38609748yeah me too but for me its because im submissive and a bottom and i want a real man to tell me what to do all the time maybe youre like that too
>>38608827Stop watching porn.
>>38609789doesn't help or matter
>>38609783Kind of, I've always just been permanently embarrassed of myself for some reason. It's easier to have someone else tell me what's what. >>38609789No
>>38609878same but with yourself its literally impossible for someone to know how you actually feel internally so i dunno what to say other than if you are actually trans repping will make you want to fucking kill yourself.
>>38609957I sometimes want to kill myself but I never will. But it's for reasons unrelated to trans stuff
>>38609985i was also like that pretransition. i had a suicide plan and all but i was too much of a pussy + i wanted to write a long ass book as my suicide note so it never got finishedone day posted a thread asking if id be prettier on estrogen and half the replies were like "yeah youd pass or at the very least be prettier than you are now" and the other half were like "kys transitioning is evil" so i listened to the non pols and i was like fuck it
>>38608827you're a tranny harry.
>>38610041There really isn't a feminine bone in my body though, I'd much rather just kill this shit fetish shit off. I doubt I'd be prettier anyway>>38610054nuh uh
>>38610070thats the neat part you cant
>>38608827>homosexual acquires an autogynephilia fetish
>>38610190How do I suppress it enough to be normal then?
>>38610070>>38610275ntabut do your researchseek the experiences of others who have dealt with ityou'll have to go through some shit and find your own path though.here's a fave: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4TIAelOkZo
>>38610325I'll watch this in a bit, thank you
