Been awhile since we had one of these, thought it'd be fun.QOTT: >What kind of music do you like?
>>38624211I bet they've literally never spent time together outside of work.
>>38624211>What kind of music do you like?korn, slipknot, three days grace, bad omens, pop evil are probably my most replayed to give an idea of what I'm intoalso cisf into transf don't exist :)
>>38624309Five Finger Death Punch - Got Your Six makes me think the lead singer is a boymoder.
>IWN be a passoid who get's to date cisf women who are lesbian>IWN be considered in the in-group of womanhood by real women
>tfw no asexual cis gf
>>38624381Why does it has to be a lesbian. Lesbians don't like dick you know
>>38624211I've been listening to Type O Negative again lately. Anyways god I wish I had a shortstack latina gf to sit on my face
>>38624381>tfw i pass too well to get a cis gf
>>38624381pls don't infiltrate women spaces
>>38624420and here we go with the "ciswomen don't like passoids" incel excuse
>>38624211>What kind of music do you like?transfem & last cpl months ive been listening to mainly nirvana,foo fighters, system of a down, julie, and some other basic like emo/skramz stuff. Have 2 other playlists but that's just what's mainly on the one I listen to everyday. Other playlists r like bladee/ethel/crystal castles/imogen heap/clairo stuff.
>>38624420literally the opposite>>38624422I'm sorry I won't I already told the girl I used to talk to that I won't go near women's spaces
>>38624449>>38624420nah it's true most cisoids have liked me cuz im slightly masc. Theyre bi, not lesbian. Dont let them fool you
>>38624392my ex left me for a trans woman and now she calls herself a lesbian so
arguing about idpol is retarded
>>38624309>also cisf into transf don't exist :)im with one, but we were together before i transitioned so i'm not sure if she'd actually choose to be with me if she met me now...>>38624211>What kind of music do you like?metalcore, anything dark
>>38624639>im with one, but we were together before i transitioned so i'm not sure if she'd actually choose to be with me if she met me now...How long have you been transitioning for/ do you pass?Is she still into you?Are you still into her?
>>38624639>metalcore, anything darkbased>im with one, but we were together before i transitioned so i'm not sure if she'd actually choose to be with me if she met me now...I'm just fucking around don't take me seriously
>>38624643>How long have you been transitioning for4 years soon>do you pass?no>Is she still into you? are you still into her?yeah we hump a lot>>38624650>I'm just fucking around don't take me seriouslyi feel the same way, though. i just think she's with me because we were already together
>>38624449it's literally true>>38624567i would happily accept a bishit, but they're just not into me
>>38624661>noWonder how it'll go when you do
Passoids should just say they're cisgirls and date the other passoids who they're rejecting
>>38624211wow Honter has some very male hips
>>38624808she likes girls so i don't think it will matter?
>>38624850But she wasn't dating girls. She was dating you.It's hard to say and I wish you luck. I think you'll be fine.
>>38624858i guess, but im not a girl anyway, just a goblin
>>38624415I also started listening to them again just a few days ago. What's your favourite album/songs?I like selected titles, but as for albums "World Going Down" must be my overall favourite. But I love October Rust's vibe more, so, it's complicated :D>>38624211>What kind of music do you like?Also "Eye" by Smashing Pumpkins on repeat because I love feeling this desperate fall into cosmos, last moments of glory. Lost Highway is intense.And currently "Drowning" by Sixth June. I like to play/sing it occasionally when I feel like I relly need to do bloodletting on my feelings.
>>38624850Fuck, you're so lucky. My love doesn't like girls and because of that I remain in "feminine guy" corner. It is honest at least and in a sense unavoidable - I wouldn't be able to pass if I wanted to. But it would still feel so nice if she liked my feminine stuff for its own sake, because she desires that. But she doesn't and I feel lonely in that, sad. I wish I could feel her desire towards what I like about myself.
>>38624803>i would happily accept a bishit, but they're just not into mesame, the only people I get any interest from are guys who can't take no for an answer and are like 20-30 years older than me who have more red flags than a ccp military parade.
>>38624933idk how i'd handle that contradiction...it worries me that she is feeling that and just doesn't want to say so... and it won't fully sink in until i really do look like a girlit's been 4 years now, but i am still changing... and lately i think i'm passing sometimes as long as i don't use my deep ass voicebut my version of passing is people not being sure if i'm ftm or mtf.... not looking like a cisf, that won't ever happen.
>>38624972>and lately i think i'm passing sometimes as long as i don't use my deep ass voiceVoice training is pretty easy. At least to give a non deep voice.You could train around her and see how she takes it.
>>38624986i just talk, sometimes i sound more like androgynous but mostly masculine i thinkmy voice is just sort of finding its own place over time, i am too discouraged by my physical inability to pass to fully commit to voice training
>>38624211lol c4t isnt real unless the man troons out and the woman just pretends theyre still the same guy.. glowie thread
>>38624878October Rust is easily my favorite from them. It's a perfect album for fucking and also for crying to. It means a lot to me.
So far only the hons are reporting cis gfs.Some passoid or cis girl with a passoid gf who's made it post some hopeful.Bonus points if you're short and/or gigapassing and present fem.
>>38624211You’re in the wrong board. Go be straight couples somewhere else.
would cis women who aren’t lesbians rly date a trans woman? i don’t rly care ab dating lesbians and honestly feel kinda gross ab dating cis lesbians cause they clearly do not like men, but i’ve been like complimented / hit on a cpl times while boymoding for having nice skin/hair and having a nice face. i just always say thanks and keep it moving like an autist cause i don’t want to have to explain i’m a tranny but sometimes i wish that i had reciprocated in the off chance they wouldn’t care that i’m trans.
>>38625367most cis people dont want to date trannies, period. heck, statistically cisf lesbians are one of the most likely ppl to date a mtf tranny, tho obv thats self-reported and irl its prob way less. finding a cis person (who isnt a chaser and wont thirst after that girlcock) whod be willing to date you (or any tranny.. nothing personal) is very rare, even in woke circlest4t/st4t is the only option
>>38625391It's easy to get bi women to date you. Unfortunately usually they're not very serious and will leave you for a man pretty quick.
>>38625391yeah i get that :/ just feels shitty in my city the queer population is very uhmm like weird gay sex addict gay it’s way harder 4 me to get along w them than cis ppl
>>38625391what if i wouldnt wanna date a tranny
>>38625769then you are among the 99% of people worldwide who wouldnt. id say congrats but thats such a low bar that big soph smacked her giant hon body into it
>>38624211They really gave that hunter kid the most sissy gooner motif for those undies
>>38625846alright so what do i even do then? im a tranny
>>38625972t4t or keep rolling the dice until you find a cissoid or give up or become such a deep stealth passoid that you stop being trans (and obv never tell anybody youre trans)
>>38626088can i roll the dice while staying a shut in virgin
>>38626240no.
>>38626258yah im thinking its overhow about a kind of shut in virgini wanna stay a virgin till marriage
>>38624309not even a c4t gen poster butthey do they just usually don't like trannies who don't act normal and use them as a source of validation because they think they're not as a good as her so like all of this gen. also you'll have to go to a lot of queer events.t. tranny who's dated 3
>>38624381fuck off with your pity bait you whore. I KNOW YOUVE SUCKED OFF MULTIPLE MEN
>>38625391this isn't true desu. I pass but I still have a dick and I've dated multiple lesbians. stop hating yourself and just live as a girl and life becomes a lot easier
As a cis woman in her 30s how do i find a non autistic trans girl somewhere between 18-23 years old
>>38626388>non-autistic trans girlno one on this board knows that first of all, all autists. but you're looking for 2/3 of a percent of the population
>>38626388>non-autistic trans girl btw 18-23you'll need a multi-year, multi-million dollar investigation to find any, sorry anonif youre willing to drop the non autistic part then its extremely easy.. i probably know like.. at least 20 who would die to date a woman 7+ yrs older than her (t.), most of whom are adorable and otherwise mostly normal
>>38626388>non autistic trans girldoesn't exist sorry
>>38626402i dont want to be talked af about video games, anime, sonic, or the like
>>38626436hey not all hyperfixations are the same.. i dont like vidya (outside of pkmn) or anime or sonic or anything in that veinbut you can pretty easily get a boymoder to be quiet by yelling at her,, she'll learn to not talk abt whatever her interests are and she'll never leave you bc she knows you could do way better and she'd end up very lonely and afraid
>>38626452Im not trying to abuse her. What are you fixated on? Maybe if its something interesting, but its wild how so many are the same. Intersection between a subcluture and autism I guess. Just not into discord trannies with LED lights, but thats all I can find.
>>38626463neurodivergence usually correlates with eachother. tranny brain development being girl would make more sense for them to develop autism
>>38626463>not into discord trannies with LED lightsthat sounds like itd be pretty easy to find tbqh
>>38626477True maybe. Those types are usually bottoms anyways. Part of me is conflicted because its hard to seperate it from my little borther stealing and wearing my underwear but whatever. I live in Seattle.
>>38626463That age group is probably all just going to be like that, but I hope you find her.
>>38626463rn? fashion (im going through my earth tone phase.. oh god) and the newest pkmn game coming out. also cooking eggs (like literally,, god i love omelets and eggs benedict and soldiers and awa)also i wouldnt worry abt too many boymoders being discord trannies.... most discord transbians are already in an ldr with another discord transbian 5000 miles away from her, and the rest never go outside anyway so they basically dont exist
>>38626530aren't you trying to get an LDR with a cis woman who doesn't like you while judging other people for dating LDR lmao
>>38626539no, im taken, and also a transbian who was in an ldr with another like 5000 miles away from me desu. just advocating for my fellow boymoders - we're not a monolith T~T
>>38626388I am a non-autistic trans girl but I've been told that I seem kind of autistic.As for other people, I can't think of trans girl I know who's both into girls and not autistic. It seems like it's usually one or the other.
>>38626530Can you pull off good eggs over easy? What are your thoughts in me picking out your clothes. Not in a fetishy way, more in a motherly way. Unironic boymoders lack effort and thats really unattractive honestly.
>>38626525i think your brother is a tranny
>>38626564you are very clearly a bisexual woman who wants a less dangerous version of a man
>>38626588I am bi>>38626575If he is hes 27 now.>>38626554Clearly theres you. Not trying to oick anyone up on here. Just an abundance of extremely early into transition and mtg playing trans girls here. I almost wonder if its age filters they set for their wpps
>>38626564good enough... idk im still practicing so i can cook for my wife when i get married awapicking out clothes is SOO cute,, there are soo many boymoders who would love that.. tho you have to be careful abt the ones who just want you to do all the work for them :P very taxing emotionally imo
>>38626606stop treating trans women like a discount boyfriend
>>38626615Thats awesome. The ability to cook good eggs is underrated. I feel like with the age gap Im gonna be navigating that anyways. Im pretty good at picking those things out. Its just really fun to see a partner in things you got them. I have decent income so it's no biggie>>38626617Explain what you mean so I can.
>>38626644>bisexual>exclusively bottom and want ur "gf" to be all dominant>picking out clothes, being motherly, etc>probably only into clocky "butch" tranniesjust admit it
>>38626665Im looking to be penetrated but not dominated. Learn the difference between bottoming and subbing. I dont care much, but I rather domme a girl who tops me. cis or trans. All I care is HRT has had a decent level of effects. She could totally pass. I date cis women my own age. Shame prevented me from persuing trans girls
this gen is always a mess. full of insecure, transphobic trannies.
>>38626714wait transphobic how
>>38625184Glowie comment, but pay no attention to how you have CIA-Asset gender politics. So based to simp for Gloria Steinem.
>>38626715NTA but99% is just transphobia basing your validity on dating a cis woman and being scared of looking like one of the people you make fun of who are t4t
>>38626791Nothing against t4t just all trans women I know are poly which is just not for me.
>>38624420this just isn't true lol. most cis girls won't date hons because they want a normal relationship
I hate this thread because I want to talk about hunter and/or euphoria.
>>38626842you are too old to care about either of those without it being weird
>>38626850I'm a transwoman on 4chan. Weird comes with the territory.
>>38626867why would a trans woman start so late? you're not trans, you don't even have dysphoria. I couldn't have made it to 40 as a man, I tried to kill myself multiple times as a teenager because my dysphoria got so bad. You're just a cissy fetishist
>>38626881I'm literally helping a transwoman being her transition at 64 right now. Go back ten years and it's not nearly as good as it is now. That's why. I've met transwomen who trooned out in the 90s/00s and they are literally walking trauma. So get fucking used to it, because there's a backlog and it's going to take a while to get through it. Be part of the solution or be part of the fucking problem, those are your choices.
>>38626881Are you underage or have you never talked to a 30+ trans women? Do you know how many died in the aids crisis. You used to have to get lucky, get a newsletter, move across the country, abandon your life, or get lucky and find street hormones while being borderline homeless. Transitioning early looked like how Sylvia Rivera lived in the back of a truck trailer at 18 with a bunch of teenage runaways sucking dick for money. if you didnt suck dick or move and cut off everyone you know to transition, youd probably wait until 50 too. Most people didnt even know it was an option.
>>38626909I feel like a decade ago was less politically hostile also people seemed to be more supportive or maybe that's just my bubble. Not as much information about hrt etc, and the community was way smaller.
>>38627025it was honestly better pre 2015 if you managed to come out
>>38626827is it weird to say if I were to t4t, i’d just want a normie trans gf?all the quirks are so gross
>>38627025I know a woman who tried to transition in 2005 and her story gives me actual fucking nightmares. Eventually she decided to DIY and that fucking god. She's 67, as a teenager she was ACTUALLY BEATEN for wearing women's underwear by her own mother. So don't talk to me about boomerhons, I've met them and you wouldn't have survived a day of their life. You'd haved sui'd by the age of six. Fear them. I do.
>>38627048Nah not really, I find it hard to relate to a lot of trans women in general since I'm not into video games etc as I was when I was younger>>38627055NTA that was an asshole, I'm just saying I think it's a worse environment to transition now than early 2010s. Not judging. I grew up a JW so I get how bad it can get.
>>38627082>I'm just saying I think it's a worse environment to transition now than early 2010s.You are wrong. They used to make you girlmode in public for at least a year before they'd prescribe HRT. You had to get signed off on by three different psychiatrists who mere more interested in studying you than helping you. Actual fucking nightmarefuel I'm not fucking joking.
>>38624391me but I wanna get rid of the asexuality
>>38627082I transitioned in 2011, we had no exposure in the media and it was great. if I had to transition now I would be terrified.
>>38627292Same started self medding in 2011 things felt more laid back then.
>>38627323it's been like watching a slow motion train wreck over the past decade.
>>38627323in some places things were more laid back. those years were the calm before the storm. especially if you lived in like california. but now ffs is free with state insurance in places like oregon. back then i was paying $80/vial and didn't thing old ever get ffs or srs. now i got ffs and an orchi in 2019
>>38626374i’m the anon they were responding to. was it like a problem having a dick? i’m super dysphoric about mine and honestly still feel rly gross like an invader being in women’s spaces. i don’t think i pass yet but i get told i’m pretty by a lot of different ppl when girl moding if that matters. i don’t feel like a man but like the things ab me that are “male” make me rly uncomfortable at the thought of even trying to talk to a woman who’s a lesbian like crossing a boundary im not supposed to. i don’t even rly care ab having sex desu i’m just scared i’m gonna come off as some like intruder sex pest just cause i have a dick even tho it’s my most dysphoric part
>>38626530what does it mean to be a discord tranny? i’m a boymoder on discord all the time cause i game but i don’t edate or anything and i’m in college + have a job and i don’t think i’m overly sexual
i like this gen in theory but anytime someone tries it it at least 2/3 of the posts are just criticizing the basic premise
>>38627392I'm pretty jealous that you can get FFS etc covered there, Aus it's still out of pocket, and none of the surgeons are any good.
>>38627564depends on the person. 2/3 didn't like it like actively hates on me having a dick and wouldn't give head (lame!) 1 just didn't care
>>38626688>Shame prevented me from persuing trans girlsI wonder how common this is.
>>38627652it's always about how cisf people into mtf can't exist stuff that makes me not wanna post, like yeah sure I won't exist for you whiners then
fake
>>38629511we'll make it work eventually i swear
>>38629543 My tits are real thx
So what I’m gathering is to get cis gfs trans women need to be less autistic/shy and more outgoing. They can be extroverted in a male brained or fembrained way/either is acceptable.Never been more joever.
>>38626828cis women only date manly men, they date hons because they look like manly men with long hair>>38629862yes you still have to act like a college jock to attract cis womenit never began
>>38626388Even youngshits that stealth flawlessly don't pass as non-autistic lol, they just maybe get passed over on it the same way cis girls are less likely to be diagnosed with autism
>>38626370are you jealous?
I love trans women but I'm a tranny so of course other trannies dont want me
I don't necessarily mind it but I feel like 90% of the time a cisf has expressed interest in me it's been the same kind of interest like, female idols who dress like princes for their female fans, does that make sense? It can be flattering but I don't see it working in an actual relationship
>>38626388why so young why not a non autistic trans girl who is in her late 20s
>>38626791you're just spewing your insecurity on the thread anon
>>38626881t. lived with middle class supportive parents and has zero clue what it's like to live in a small christian townhave some empathy you lucky little shithead
>>38630030> female idols who dress like princes for their female fans?Like she's being the prince or you are?
>>38624309>also cisf into transf don't exist :)real
>>38630225Like I'm being the prince, as the trans girl. Especially if I'm dressing kind of tomboyishly in a low ponytail
>>38630368I've seen a similar thing with link cosplayers at anime cons.Imo this is attraction to ftms more than mtfs. It's for girls trying to look like guys and somewhat of a masculinization fetish. Not good for mtfs to get involved with unless they like self harm